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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you to the couple who asked to exchange face pics, after chatting on and off for 2 days, only to then give 50 excuses when asked to return one. "Oh we don't trust this site" etc...

So after telling them I was nervous to share a face pic because my pics have been stolen and used before, I was assured I would be sent some pics in return and told to "not worry".

I sent my pics then was told that "they don't trust this site"and was then immediately blocked!!!!!!

Why can couples and single women get away with everything that would get a single guy blocked, it's such bullshit.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Thank you to the couple who asked to exchange face pics, after chatting on and off for 2 days, only to then give 50 excuses when asked to return one. "Oh we don't trust this site" etc...

So after telling them I was nervous to share a face pic because my pics have been stolen and used before, I was assured I would be sent some pics in return and told to "not worry".

I sent my pics then was told that "they don't trust this site"and was then immediately blocked!!!!!!

Why can couples and single women get away with everything that would get a single guy blocked, it's such bullshit."

Just the way it is....

Why can couples and single women get away with everything that would get a single guy blocked?

Because they think they have the right to because guys outnumber them!!

It's 2015 but in many ways it's still 1965.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you to the couple who asked to exchange face pics, after chatting on and off for 2 days, only to then give 50 excuses when asked to return one. "Oh we don't trust this site" etc...

So after telling them I was nervous to share a face pic because my pics have been stolen and used before, I was assured I would be sent some pics in return and told to "not worry".

I sent my pics then was told that "they don't trust this site"and was then immediately blocked!!!!!!

Why can couples and single women get away with everything that would get a single guy blocked, it's such bullshit."

So, after being fooled once, you learned nothing....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can't even report because I can't access their profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/10/15 23:54:39]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you to the couple who asked to exchange face pics, after chatting on and off for 2 days, only to then give 50 excuses when asked to return one. "Oh we don't trust this site" etc...

So after telling them I was nervous to share a face pic because my pics have been stolen and used before, I was assured I would be sent some pics in return and told to "not worry".

I sent my pics then was told that "they don't trust this site"and was then immediately blocked!!!!!!

Why can couples and single women get away with everything that would get a single guy blocked, it's such bullshit.

So, after being fooled once, you learned nothing...."

The pics that were stolen before weren't private face photos, they were body shots stolen of my account which is why I have only 1 public pic now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the options? Don't share a pic and you have something too hide n get nowhere or take a chance n share the pic.

Are people really using other peoples photos?

I ain't pretty enough to have to worry bout people using mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 09/10/15 23:54:39]"
If you are a site supporter you can recall your photos. Other than that send pics as delete after viewing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you to the couple who asked to exchange face pics, after chatting on and off for 2 days, only to then give 50 excuses when asked to return one. "Oh we don't trust this site" etc...

So after telling them I was nervous to share a face pic because my pics have been stolen and used before, I was assured I would be sent some pics in return and told to "not worry".

I sent my pics then was told that "they don't trust this site"and was then immediately blocked!!!!!!

Why can couples and single women get away with everything that would get a single guy blocked, it's such bullshit.

So, after being fooled once, you learned nothing....

The pics that were stolen before weren't private face photos, they were body shots stolen of my account which is why I have only 1 public pic now

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Ah, that wasn't clear from your post. Still, you should have stuck to your guns - this wasn't "couples getting away with something", it was you personally getting stung by someone who may not even be a real couple but a fake profile.

Suck it up, move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 09/10/15 23:54:39]If you are a site supporter you can recall your photos. Other than that send pics as delete after viewing. "

I have since deleted the pics, but I have no way of knowing if the pics were saved before I deleted them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 09/10/15 23:54:39]If you are a site supporter you can recall your photos. Other than that send pics as delete after viewing.

I have since deleted the pics, but I have no way of knowing if the pics were saved before I deleted them"
I hear ya.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you to the couple who asked to exchange face pics, after chatting on and off for 2 days, only to then give 50 excuses when asked to return one. "Oh we don't trust this site" etc...

So after telling them I was nervous to share a face pic because my pics have been stolen and used before, I was assured I would be sent some pics in return and told to "not worry".

I sent my pics then was told that "they don't trust this site"and was then immediately blocked!!!!!!

Why can couples and single women get away with everything that would get a single guy blocked, it's such bullshit.

So, after being fooled once, you learned nothing....

The pics that were stolen before weren't private face photos, they were body shots stolen of my account which is why I have only 1 public pic now

Ah, that wasn't clear from your post. Still, you should have stuck to your guns - this wasn't "couples getting away with something", it was you personally getting stung by someone who may not even be a real couple but a fake profile.

Suck it up, move on."

Well they are a verified couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't even report because I can't access their profile"

Yes you can still report them,there's a menu button on the right hand side of the screen,but unfortunately I don't think it's a offence to receive a face pic and not return one,I'm sorry hunny,it's awful and a horrible thing to happen to you! But you'd be amazed to the extremes some people go through here to get pics,I heard of a couple once getting a girl to meet a guy for a coffee just so they could get a look at him! Strange people here...

I'm sorry...

Try not to let it break your spirit and chin up xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't even report because I can't access their profile

Yes you can still report them,there's a menu button on the right hand side of the screen,but unfortunately I don't think it's a offence to receive a face pic and not return one,I'm sorry hunny,it's awful and a horrible thing to happen to you! But you'd be amazed to the extremes some people go through here to get pics,I heard of a couple once getting a girl to meet a guy for a coffee just so they could get a look at him! Strange people here...

I'm sorry...

Try not to let it break your spirit and chin up xx"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't even report because I can't access their profile

Yes you can still report them,there's a menu button on the right hand side of the screen,but unfortunately I don't think it's a offence to receive a face pic and not return one,I'm sorry hunny,it's awful and a horrible thing to happen to you! But you'd be amazed to the extremes some people go through here to get pics,I heard of a couple once getting a girl to meet a guy for a coffee just so they could get a look at him! Strange people here...

I'm sorry...

Try not to let it break your spirit and chin up xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let one bad experience put u off, your allowed be cross but it happens other way too, chin up. If ur asked for a pic chat on, genuine people will wait n don't insist xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instead of posting a face pic do a cam session slightly more control for u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Instead of posting a face pic do a cam session slightly more control for u "

Good advice x

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By *uaveGentMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Instead of posting a face pic do a cam session slightly more control for u

Good advice x"

Would disagree. Watchers regularly record cam sessions. In the scenario above they single gym is at a power disadvantage to the couple and so could be pressurised into doing something on cam her isnt comfortable with. Which would then be recorded.

The best advice is to simply send a picture that you would be happy with on facebook. If they want to see your body send a gym or beach picture. If they want to see your butt or junk dont include your face in the picture. If you dont send whats embarrassing you cant be embarrassed by it.

As for the OP - just sounds like they didnt like your picture so didnt see the point in going further. Thats the lot of a single guy on fabs, no point getting upset over it.

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By *ugeload_atxMan
over a year ago

Goatstown

Name and shame then and directly message admin giving out their user name.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Use kik and photo bomb if you're not certain who you're taking to respectively what their intentions are.

As others said most likely they lost interest meeting you after seeing your pic. They didn't deal with it in a nice way, not all of the peeps on here have manners. Don't take it personal and just move on...

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By *uncouple3030Couple
over a year ago

Belfast:Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they didn't find you attractive and didn't have the balls to say it so just blocked ya...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the two of them had balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you to the couple who asked to exchange face pics, after chatting on and off for 2 days, only to then give 50 excuses when asked to return one. "Oh we don't trust this site" etc...

So after telling them I was nervous to share a face pic because my pics have been stolen and used before, I was assured I would be sent some pics in return and told to "not worry".

I sent my pics then was told that "they don't trust this site"and was then immediately blocked!!!!!!

Why can couples and single women get away with everything that would get a single guy blocked, it's such bullshit."

That is unfair, use kik, then you can photo bomb your pics, it's not fool proof but it's something.

Mrs K's face pic was used as a profile pic on another site, so know how you feel pal..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happend to myself quite a few times, I think there are just nosey people gathering photos, now I don't send a first photo at all but it slims your chance for a meet a quite a lot as most women prefare a photo first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dry them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have now heard other side of this story and maybe it's not as he tells it tbh just get over it move on

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

It happens. ..

I don't send face pics generally..I arrange to meet for a coffee. ..at least that way you know they are not time wasters and at best you meet someone you like at worst you have a coffee with a like minded individual..no biggie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aahh.....do tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have now heard other side of this story and maybe it's not as he tells it tbh just get over it move on "
yip I heard the other side too, think it just boils down to learning how to take rejection

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have now heard other side of this story and maybe it's not as he tells it tbh just get over it move on "

Id gladly welcome an admin to look at all the messages and its 100% as I told it above. And I'm not as pissed off as I was when I posted this thread but I'm still annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have now heard other side of this story and maybe it's not as he tells it tbh just get over it move on

Id gladly welcome an admin to look at all the messages and its 100% as I told it above. And I'm not as pissed off as I was when I posted this thread but I'm still annoyed "

Just because ye exchanged messages it doesn't mean they're obliged to meet you, as I said they were most likely not attracted to you, this is why we ask for face pics at the start of chatting, saves all this drama

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have now heard other side of this story and maybe it's not as he tells it tbh just get over it move on

Id gladly welcome an admin to look at all the messages and its 100% as I told it above. And I'm not as pissed off as I was when I posted this thread but I'm still annoyed

Just because ye exchanged messages it doesn't mean they're obliged to meet you, as I said they were most likely not attracted to you, this is why we ask for face pics at the start of chatting, saves all this drama "

I'm not annoyed I didn't get a meet! I'm a single guy on fab I know that most of the time someone isn't going to be interested. If they weren't into me after I sent the pic they should have said "we're not interested" instead of "we don't trust this site" and then hit me with a block.

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