FabSwingers.com forum: Still don't get it!!!

By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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Why people ask for a meet, arrange a night then say they'll get back to u to confirm. Then that's it u don't hear from them again

Makes no sense to me, what do they get out of it?

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This drives me fecking insane!! I get so little free time that when I do make plans for an evening and they vanish, I get so annoyed at the waste of time!

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By *adgaggzMan
over a year ago

N'S

I've msgd people for a meet and after chatting I'd say I'll msg you on such a day to organise a day but then when that day comes and I msg I get a reply saying we had organised to meet today and you stood me up! That's happened so many times!

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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No for us there's nothing, they just disappear. We hear of the "thrill of the chase", but that seems pointless if ur not on ur way to the arranged meet doesn't it? Or is that just the way I see it?

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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"This drives me fecking insane!! I get so little free time that when I do make plans for an evening and they vanish, I get so annoyed at the waste of time!"

We're the same, time is hard enough to come by to enjoy the lifestyle its not as if we can waste it. It pisses me off to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This drives me fecking insane!! I get so little free time that when I do make plans for an evening and they vanish, I get so annoyed at the waste of time!"

We have you on our hot list hopefully for those lonely winters mornings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This drives me fecking insane!! I get so little free time that when I do make plans for an evening and they vanish, I get so annoyed at the waste of time!

We have you on our hot list hopefully for those lonely winters mornings. "

Woohoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This drives me fecking insane!! I get so little free time that when I do make plans for an evening and they vanish, I get so annoyed at the waste of time!

We're the same, time is hard enough to come by to enjoy the lifestyle its not as if we can waste it. It pisses me off to be honest "

I'm like that with everything though, I'm a busy person and if I've set aside time to do something for you, wait for you to turn up for my appointment or whatever, I get seriously fed up!

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By *unsterStagMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Don’t dwell on those who let you down, Cherish those who hold you up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t dwell on those who let you down, Cherish those who hold you up.

Well put!!!

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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"Don’t dwell on those who let you down, Cherish those who hold you up.

Well put!!!

I do like this, well said

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"This drives me fecking insane!! I get so little free time that when I do make plans for an evening and they vanish, I get so annoyed at the waste of time!

We're the same, time is hard enough to come by to enjoy the lifestyle its not as if we can waste it. It pisses me off to be honest

I'm like that with everything though, I'm a busy person and if I've set aside time to do something for you, wait for you to turn up for my appointment or whatever, I get seriously fed up!"

FFS. With 22 fem.26 men.17 cpl. 1 tv/ts. 79 meet.1 cam. you're doing better than me... all I get are nice messages deleted!!!!

I get seriously fed up too!!!

If I posted how pissed off I get I'd be labelled a moaner!!

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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Not moaning, just don't get the thinking behind people doing it

Putting in the effort of chatting, arranging a meet then just disappearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This drives me fecking insane!! I get so little free time that when I do make plans for an evening and they vanish, I get so annoyed at the waste of time!"

Yep totally,

I just tend to people that have a few verfis. But us males also get these time waisters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots seem to get cold feet. Its like a great fantasy that they cant see through.

That or they lying bout who they are.

Ive chatted to several couples who backed out last min. I'm starting to think, with an exception of a few couples,that no one actually meets on here.

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

it there loss and don't give them a second chance' nothing worse then some one not turning up

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Lots seem to get cold feet. Its like a great fantasy that they cant see through.

That or they lying bout who they are.

Ive chatted to several couples who backed out last min. I'm starting to think, with an exception of a few couples,that no one actually meets on here."

It does look that way... which leads to all the distrust that's apparent in many of the forum posts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have real lifes and believe it or not things can happen in real life at the click of ur fingers and people leave fab etc ...its not a big deal ...move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one of the many reasons for meeting for a quick coffee first before arranging play meets.

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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"Just one of the many reasons for meeting for a quick coffee first before arranging play meets."

That's the thing it was just a simple drinks meet that was arranged, no pressure or expectations on anyone

Tina

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Just one of the many reasons for meeting for a quick coffee first before arranging play meets."

Well said.... with the last female I had fun with we met 3 or 4 times first and had a great laugh each time before arranging a meet for fun!!

Too much goes on before first meet, will they turn up? Will they be as their profile says? etc etc for both parties that it can create a different mood..... meet for coffee and get that out of the way, then meet or not for fun

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Just one of the many reasons for meeting for a quick coffee first before arranging play meets.

That's the thing it was just a simple drinks meet that was arranged, no pressure or expectations on anyone

Tina

Ouch!!! Yes, some won't even show for that but at least no one has booked a room which often requires payment or credit card....

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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"Just one of the many reasons for meeting for a quick coffee first before arranging play meets.

Well said.... with the last female I had fun with we met 3 or 4 times first and had a great laugh each time before arranging a meet for fun!!

That's the way we like to work things. Always meet for a drink or coffee first after chatting for a while. To get to know them. Then the no expectations first meet to see how we all gel in person before making any decisions. No point in arranging to play with someone we haven't met, we dont know if we're all gonna click in person

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can take a few meets, which to be honest is nearly like dating..but I'm fine meeting a few times first if someone feels they need to. If it makes things less awkward and more enjoyable for them its worth the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awhhhhh guys...

It still amazes me how guys single males especially love to mail us girls n tell us who they were with last night what they done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your right Tina always meet first for brew r drink just to see how you get on, if they didn't have manners to notify you they couldn't let them trot on. Of course all have real lives n shit happens but genuine people will make the effort or at least have the balls to back out with grace xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awhhhhh guys...

It still amazes me how guys single males especially love to mail us girls n tell us who they were with last night what they done

If someones private mailing you please reply to them rather than rope me in on your comment. Life is hard enough here without someone suggesting I could be dishing dirt on them after a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awhhhhh guys...

It still amazes me how guys single males especially love to mail us girls n tell us who they were with last night what they done

If someones private mailing you please reply to them rather than rope me in on your comment. Life is hard enough here without someone suggesting I could be dishing dirt on them after a meet."

I have no idea what your on about,read my post again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Popcorn moment

Me too cause I've no idea what he's on about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awhhhhh guys...

It still amazes me how guys single males especially love to mail us girls n tell us who they were with last night what they done

If someones private mailing you please reply to them rather than rope me in on your comment. Life is hard enough here without someone suggesting I could be dishing dirt on them after a meet.

I have no idea what your on about,read my post again...

To me your post implies someone on this thread mailed you details of who they were with n what they did etc. I just want to be clear to anyone else reading this thread, I am not the guy who mailed you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awhhhhh guys...

It still amazes me how guys single males especially love to mail us girls n tell us who they were with last night what they done

If someones private mailing you please reply to them rather than rope me in on your comment. Life is hard enough here without someone suggesting I could be dishing dirt on them after a meet.

I have no idea what your on about,read my post again...

I read the thread - and didn't think she was talking about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awhhhhh guys...

It still amazes me how guys single males especially love to mail us girls n tell us who they were with last night what they done

If someones private mailing you please reply to them rather than rope me in on your comment. Life is hard enough here without someone suggesting I could be dishing dirt on them after a meet.

I have no idea what your on about,read my post again...

My comment was a generalisation of single guy's mailing women telling us who they were with and what they got up to,I did not at anywhere mention you,I have never spoken to you,but yes loads of single guy's constantly mail me telling me about meets it annoying and I know the majority of girls here are the same...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awhhhhh guys...

It still amazes me how guys single males especially love to mail us girls n tell us who they were with last night what they done

If someones private mailing you please reply to them rather than rope me in on your comment. Life is hard enough here without someone suggesting I could be dishing dirt on them after a meet.

I have no idea what your on about,read my post again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This drives me fecking insane!! I get so little free time that when I do make plans for an evening and they vanish, I get so annoyed at the waste of time!

We're the same, time is hard enough to come by to enjoy the lifestyle its not as if we can waste it. It pisses me off to be honest

I'm like that with everything though, I'm a busy person and if I've set aside time to do something for you, wait for you to turn up for my appointment or whatever, I get seriously fed up!

FFS. With 22 fem.26 men.17 cpl. 1 tv/ts. 79 meet.1 cam. you're doing better than me... all I get are nice messages deleted!!!!

I get seriously fed up too!!!

If I posted how pissed off I get I'd be labelled a moaner!!"

Would you like to read the veri's and see how many are from socials and how many are single meets?

Anyhow, I'm not moaning about getting no meets, thank you for the misunderstanding, I'm pointing out that if you arrange a meet then don't show, it's a)rude b)annoying and c)a waste of a precious free night.

Would you like salt and vinegar for the chip on your shoulder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awhhhhh guys...

It still amazes me how guys single males especially love to mail us girls n tell us who they were with last night what they done

If someones private mailing you please reply to them rather than rope me in on your comment. Life is hard enough here without someone suggesting I could be dishing dirt on them after a meet.

I have no idea what your on about,read my post again...

I read the thread - and didn't think she was talking about you

I wasn't it was a generalisation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awhhhhh guys...

It still amazes me how guys single males especially love to mail us girls n tell us who they were with last night what they done

If someones private mailing you please reply to them rather than rope me in on your comment. Life is hard enough here without someone suggesting I could be dishing dirt on them after a meet.

I have no idea what your on about,read my post again...

Thanks hunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awhhhhh guys...

It still amazes me how guys single males especially love to mail us girls n tell us who they were with last night what they done

If someones private mailing you please reply to them rather than rope me in on your comment. Life is hard enough here without someone suggesting I could be dishing dirt on them after a meet.

I have no idea what your on about,read my post again...

I don't think anyone read that meaning into the post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to be clear,I don't know this Blair person,he's not mailed me,I merely commented in a generalisation of some guys on the site here! Nothing more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awhhhhh guys...

It still amazes me how guys single males especially love to mail us girls n tell us who they were with last night what they done

If someones private mailing you please reply to them rather than rope me in on your comment. Life is hard enough here without someone suggesting I could be dishing dirt on them after a meet.

I have no idea what your on about,read my post again...

I don't think anyone read that meaning into the post!"

TY xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to be clear,I don't know this Blair person,he's not mailed me,I merely commented in a generalisation of some guys on the site here! Nothing more..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to be clear,I don't know this Blair person,he's not mailed me,I merely commented in a generalisation of some guys on the site here! Nothing more..."

Sorry Annie..I know it was a generalisation. I just tried to point out, as you have, that I wasn't connected to it. Thanks for this message. Means a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to be clear,I don't know this Blair person,he's not mailed me,I merely commented in a generalisation of some guys on the site here! Nothing more..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First half of thread very relevant and then muchadoaboutnothing

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By *eauty-N-BeastCouple
over a year ago

Belfast City/London

"First half of thread very relevant and then muchadoaboutnothing

On going trend

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