FabSwingers.com forum: How close is too close

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How close to home do you consider too close to meet someone off the site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your situation.....if you are married or attached obviously the same town wouldn't be wise......but if single then what does it matter?

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

Would never meet in our own town, its too small, everyone knows everyone and family is all over the place too.

We always travel for meets. I find the further we travel the more relaxed we are.

Tina

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

We once had a social meet with a couple who live less than 4 miles away. We didn't know each other before the meet and still bump into one another quite often.

The way I figure it is, most people are very discreet about being here so we had nothing to worry about.

Miss Mcjoy

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

It depends on status of other person... Have met a married female who lives quite near and no problems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u can be discreet about meeting no were is too close all depends on the person /persons involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met 3 from own village ..don't see prob .If met in a club u would so why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own reasons for not meeting close to home. It wouldn't bother me. But hubby gets nervous. Each to their own

Mrs B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to meet people who live a distance away, less chance of problems occuring.

Have known of situations where people have been hassled at work ect by past meets.

Prefer to play it safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see the problem with closeness when dealing with an ordinary hopefully rational and discreet fabber. Wish one or two of my lovely neighbours were in the lifestyle. Sigh......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't see the problem with closeness when dealing with an ordinary hopefully rational and discreet fabber. Wish one or two of my lovely neighbours were in the lifestyle. Sigh......

Lol it,s finding them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on how u click n the vibe you get, I,v a couple of great local fab mates, just take time to get to know people first n if any outside connections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't see the problem with closeness when dealing with an ordinary hopefully rational and discreet fabber. Wish one or two of my lovely neighbours were in the lifestyle. Sigh......

Lol it,s finding them

Yep you have it one

Hit the nail on the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't see the problem with closeness when dealing with an ordinary hopefully rational and discreet fabber. Wish one or two of my lovely neighbours were in the lifestyle. Sigh......

Lol it,s finding them

Yep you have it one

Hit the nail on the head

Lol see that coffee comes in handy again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance isnt always safe nutters are dangerous near or far

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