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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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Had a conversation last night and it got me wondering.

Body image can be a big thing to people, how they look themselves, or how the other person looks. So my query is, would u pass on a play meet due to how the other person looks, or how u feel u look towards them?

Tina

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

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"Had a conversation last night and it got me wondering.

Tina

Well there's a limit to everything... so within reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if we are all honest looks play some part in the games, how a person acts n reacts is vital but wudnt put me off if wasn't Richard gere

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I never judge people on there looks obviously I would have to be attracted to them in some way but I normally fall for people's personalitys once someone makes me laugh and I'm happy in there company and comfortable

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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"I think if we are all honest looks play some part in the games, how a person acts n reacts is vital but wudnt put me off if wasn't Richard gere

Yea I think ur right as there has to be an attraction on some level for things to work out right for everyone

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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"I never judge people on there looks obviously I would have to be attracted to them in some way but I normally fall for people's personalitys once someone makes me laugh and I'm happy in there company and comfortable "

I'm like that, the attraction doesn't depend on looks alone. But I will admit I myself have the dreaded 'body issues' about myself

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I'm like that, the attraction doesn't depend on looks alone. But I will admit I myself have the dreaded 'body issues' about myself "
I think everyone has some kind of issue with themselves no matter what they look like so wouldn't feel on ur own on that one I'm like that Aswel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree girls, we all have our hang ups, but I must admit I'm lucky to have a partner who fancies the ass clean off me and my play mates have all liked my good n bad xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go for personality but yes think there has to be some attraction ! As for myself

have to admit I've seen peoples face pics and thought they wud never go near me and have kept my distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one's run away yet on seeing our face pics, but after all, it's not like we're expecting them to introduce us to their mates, is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a conversation last night and it got me wondering.

Tina

Yes. & no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as she doesn't look like ya wan Susan Boyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aahh now. I'd go down on her!

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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"I agree girls, we all have our hang ups, but I must admit I'm lucky to have a partner who fancies the ass clean off me and my play mates have all liked my good n bad xxx"

Same here Jules, my guy adores me and fancies me very passionately. The only thing he'd change about me is my lack of confidence

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my eyes there has to be an attraction for it to work otherwise there's no point is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it natural that there has to be a connection made before you feel comfortable. However, this connection should not be restricted to looks. Good looks and body shape can be timebound whereas a personality tends to rarely change.

To me its personality every day of the week and twice on Sundays.

Although, I have looked at peoples pics on here and presumed they would have no interest in me which has put me of messaging them.

I believe this is a lack of confidence in my part as those people may well be driven by the same principles as myself and prefer to connect in a different way from looks alone.

I also believe that when you speak to someone over the phone you always tell if you can connect with them which makes the first meeting or making that connection much less daunting.

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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"I think it natural that there has to be a connection made before you feel comfortable. However, this connection should not be restricted to looks. Good looks and body shape can be timebound whereas a personality tends to rarely change.

To me its personality every day of the week and twice on Sundays.

Although, I have looked at peoples pics on here and presumed they would have no interest in me which has put me of messaging them.

I believe this is a lack of confidence in my part as those people may well be driven by the same principles as myself and prefer to connect in a different way from looks alone.

I also believe that when you speak to someone over the phone you always tell if you can connect with them which makes the first meeting or making that connection much less daunting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a yolk that lives beside us. Wild good looking but she has nothing else going for her. I'd sooner ride Susan Boyle than her. I'd hate to see her enjoying herself. However her cousin is a large girl, fun and always happy and up for the craic, not the best looking but the kinda person you could get on with. I know which one I would swing with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Barney your a wee gent xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree girls, we all have our hang ups, but I must admit I'm lucky to have a partner who fancies the ass clean off me and my play mates have all liked my good n bad xxx

Same here Jules, my guy adores me and fancies me very passionately. The only thing he'd change about me is my lack of confidence

Tina

It,s a mind set Tina, we all fight with ourselves about looks but I truly believe if you can say to yourself you know what I am a decent good person and I like making people around me smile n happy they do start smiling back xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Barney your a wee gent xxxx"

Awk Jules thanks youre a wee dote!! Long live chivalry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Barney your a wee gent xxxx

Awk Jules thanks youre a wee dote!! Long live chivalry lol

Xx yip xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Barney your a wee gent xxxx

Awk Jules thanks youre a wee dote!! Long live chivalry lol

Xx yip xx"

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

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I think being you more important ladies you all sound and look hot to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always go for personality but yes think there has to be some attraction ! As for myself

have to admit I've seen peoples face pics and thought they wud never go near me and have kept my distance

Ah stop!! You're gorgeous!!

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

finding a person easy to get on with' fubnny'nice and good chat' that a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm like that, the attraction doesn't depend on looks alone. But I will admit I myself have the dreaded 'body issues' about myself "

And what you call body issues others find attractive

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

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some people like the gym and fittnesss routine if I see a curvey or bbw woman in the street I smile' wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me its personality every day of the week and twice on Sundays.

Although, I have looked at peoples pics on here and presumed they would have no interest in me which has put me of messaging them.

I believe this is a lack of confidence in my part as those people may well be driven by the same principles as myself and prefer to connect in a different way from looks alone.

I also believe that when you speak to someone over the phone you always tell if you can connect with them which makes the first meeting or making that connection much less daunting.

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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I'm like that, the attraction doesn't depend on looks alone. But I will admit I myself have the dreaded 'body issues' about myself

And what you call body issues others find attractive

Not always easy to see in urself what others may see Steven

But I do get what ur saying

Tina

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

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"I agree girls, we all have our hang ups, but I must admit I'm lucky to have a partner who fancies the ass clean off me and my play mates have all liked my good n bad xxx

Same here Jules, my guy adores me and fancies me very passionately. The only thing he'd change about me is my lack of confidence

Tina

I totally agree with u Jules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would pass a meet based on a person's looks and I'd only pass a meet based on how I feel I look if they've said something stupid which I don't agree with.

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