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By *ERD99 OP   Man
over a year ago

;)

Does it work or do ppl get attached/jealous or do you have to not really like them in the first place and therefore not give a shit one way or the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex and love are different.

It doesnt work for some people but ypu can fall for anyone too, so like anything, it's complicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it work or do ppl get attached/jealous or do you have to not really like them in the first place and therefore not give a shit one way or the other"

I will tell you if I am ever lucky enough to find one

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

If there's jealousy it obviously doesn't, if you have great sex and push each other a bit further every time you meet it does, if you get attached to each other it turns into something else...however I guess there has to be some chemistry otherwise you wouldn't bother meeting again and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having one being part of a couple works fine... if everyone knows the rules.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"If there's jealousy it obviously doesn't, if you have great sex and push each other a bit further every time you meet it does, if you get attached to each other it turns into something else...however I guess there has to be some chemistry otherwise you wouldn't bother meeting again and again"

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By *ERD99 OP   Man
over a year ago

;)


"If there's jealousy it obviously doesn't, if you have great sex and push each other a bit further every time you meet it does, if you get attached to each other it turns into something else...however I guess there has to be some chemistry otherwise you wouldn't bother meeting again and again"

The more you meet the more you get to know each other, dose it not lead to attachment. Or do ppl meet and just

F@&k without talking?

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By *ERD99 OP   Man
over a year ago

;)


"Having one being part of a couple works fine... if everyone knows the rules."

Never even though about having one while part of a couple, that's just asking for trouble me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a cupels buddy and we have major fun but as was said rules are key as well as respect and discreation

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"If there's jealousy it obviously doesn't, if you have great sex and push each other a bit further every time you meet it does, if you get attached to each other it turns into something else...however I guess there has to be some chemistry otherwise you wouldn't bother meeting again and again

The more you meet the more you get to know each other, dose it not lead to attachment. Or do ppl meet and just

F@&k without talking?"

This is a swinger site, hence people are meeting for nsa fun and in most cases not to date someone. That doesn't exclude that you make friends and meet again and again. Bup also being a swinger means that you like to meet new people. If both have the same attitude one doesn't exclude the other.

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By *ERD99 OP   Man
over a year ago

;)


"If there's jealousy it obviously doesn't, if you have great sex and push each other a bit further every time you meet it does, if you get attached to each other it turns into something else...however I guess there has to be some chemistry otherwise you wouldn't bother meeting again and again

The more you meet the more you get to know each other, dose it not lead to attachment. Or do ppl meet and just

F@&k without talking?

This is a swinger site, hence people are meeting for nsa fun and in most cases not to date someone. That doesn't exclude that you make friends and meet again and again. Bup also being a swinger means that you like to meet new people. If both have the same attitude one doesn't exclude the other."

Yep, I get wat ur saying, just found that it's a fine line, I'm sure I'm not the only one here that's found this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fondness is nice sure, but clingeyness isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there's jealousy it obviously doesn't, if you have great sex and push each other a bit further every time you meet it does, if you get attached to each other it turns into something else...however I guess there has to be some chemistry otherwise you wouldn't bother meeting again and again

The more you meet the more you get to know each other, dose it not lead to attachment. Or do ppl meet and just

F@&k without talking?

This is a swinger site, hence people are meeting for nsa fun and in most cases not to date someone. That doesn't exclude that you make friends and meet again and again. Bup also being a swinger means that you like to meet new people. If both have the same attitude one doesn't exclude the other.

Yep, I get wat ur saying, just found that it's a fine line, I'm sure I'm not the only one here that's found this"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been speaking about this lately again.

It's something we both want to do but we need time to adjust.

We've pushed our boundaries so far in 4/5 years.

We'll be exploring male/female options soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been speaking about this lately again.

It's something we both want to do but we need time to adjust.

We've pushed our boundaries so far in 4/5 years.

We'll be exploring male/female options soon "

Can i be one for you both lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been speaking about this lately again.

It's something we both want to do but we need time to adjust.

We've pushed our boundaries so far in 4/5 years.

We'll be exploring male/female options soon

Can i be one for you both lol "

You know so!!!

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By *ohnsmithMan
over a year ago

South Tipperary


"If there's jealousy it obviously doesn't, if you have great sex and push each other a bit further every time you meet it does, if you get attached to each other it turns into something else...however I guess there has to be some chemistry otherwise you wouldn't bother meeting again and again"

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

it works if everyone knows the limits.

When one person is single it can get out of context very very quickly. Then the L word creeps in...

I'd love a regular Fbuddy that i can see that wont think he owns me. But its very hard to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it works if everyone knows the limits.

When one person is single it can get out of context very very quickly. Then the L word creeps in...

I'd love a regular Fbuddy that i can see that wont think he owns me. But its very hard to find. "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like anything it will work if you all want it to work. It is what it is a fuck buddy. Clear rules and everyone is happy of course there will be an attachment but that's normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it works if everyone knows the limits.

When one person is single it can get out of context very very quickly. Then the L word creeps in...

I'd love a regular Fbuddy that i can see that wont think he owns me. But its very hard to find. "

So hard...and then I have to make hubs like him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it works I both ppl are in similiar situations.both parties have to know what they are getting into.keep it as just sex and it shouldn't get too complicated

Then again women are complicated creatures (joking)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure he'll like me candy lol

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By *in and sensesWoman
over a year ago

Waterford

Having had numerous fuck buddies over the years it can be easy or not depending on the personalities of who is involved and what each person truly wants which sometimes even they won't admit to themselves.

Even though I play with couples as a single girl I'm still in awe of two people who love one another swinging together.

So from a fuck buddies point of view I can say yes on the whole it works. Actually one if my FB I've been meeting with 8 yrs

Sinead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure he'll like me candy lol"

Hehehe! & congrats on the catch of the day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendly banter ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it works if everyone knows the limits.

When one person is single it can get out of context very very quickly. Then the L word creeps in...

I'd love a regular Fbuddy that i can see that wont think he owns me. But its very hard to find.

Agree "

Agree also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friendly banter ??????"

Yes please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be my pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be my pleasure "

Catch of the day was about yer fishnet pants...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol ????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works well up to a point .... Eventually one or other of the couple will move on to a different model .... But it most definitely works for me

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By *ts artMan
over a year ago

Londonderry

It can be a very rewarding relationship, as you get to know eachothers likes etc and which things work

I see a lady regularly, we've been meeting the past four years there's a lot of kinkery involved and things have only gotten better

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

I've had a few fb's that became fwb. And you only realise it when you spend as much time chatting as between the sheets. But the real life lines weren't shifted

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