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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always wonder coming across profiles which say " joined over a year ago " and have no verification, is it a guy sitting behind that profile somewhere ? Or someone not physically able to meet I'm real life due to some reason either family or health? Any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there is a definite answer coz we juts don't know. It could well be that someone joined a year ago and hasn't used the site but left their profile open and then logged back in, or could be a pic collected or just someone who likes the thrill of dirty chat on email and wouldn't actually meet anyone. Could be a hundred reasons really!

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford

I think if someone's joined for 6 months or more and have no verifications... move on.

They are either a man pretending to be a woman/couple.. a messer.. or not wanting to meet anyone.. so what's the point talking to them.

Also anyone who has 1/2/3 meets and then when you check their meets, the people they've met have only 1 or 2 meets.. who also have only 1 or 2... see where iI'm going with this?

They are obviously fake... weirdo/messers who are just on her to muck people around and get their thrills. Stay as far away from them as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profiles I find strange are the ones who join and get verified but haven't been online since waaaaaayyyyyyy before they were verified and never come back online either. Firstly how dis they manage to set up a meet without even coming online,and why,having been meet verified,have they never come back online again? It hurts my teeny tiny little brain

Kitty

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"The profiles I find strange are the ones who join and get verified but haven't been online since waaaaaayyyyyyy before they were verified and never come back online either. Firstly how dis they manage to set up a meet without even coming online,and why,having been meet verified,have they never come back online again? It hurts my teeny tiny little brain

Kitty "

Lol.. true... there are some strange things happening on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profiles I find strange are the ones who join and get verified but haven't been online since waaaaaayyyyyyy before they were verified and never come back online either. Firstly how dis they manage to set up a meet without even coming online,and why,having been meet verified,have they never come back online again? It hurts my teeny tiny little brain

Kitty

Lol.. true... there are some strange things happening on this site "

Cue the music of x-files lol

But red just isn't my colour,so someone will just have to volunteer for the roles of Mulder and Scully

Kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many different reasons but some people dont really give a fuck about verifications. Who cares if you've got none, 1, 50 or a hundred. There's no rule to say you HAVE to have the coveted green tick and teading some verifications on some profiles i'd be ashamed. "Sucks cock like a dyson"....."next time i'll bring a wet suit"....."she swallowed all my cum"....." best fuck on fab".... my God how degrading!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profiles I find strange are the ones who join and get verified but haven't been online since waaaaaayyyyyyy before they were verified and never come back online either. Firstly how dis they manage to set up a meet without even coming online,and why,having been meet verified,have they never come back online again? It hurts my teeny tiny little brain

Kitty "

Im noticen those profiles to lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many different reasons but some people dont really give a fuck about verifications. Who cares if you've got none, 1, 50 or a hundred. There's no rule to say you HAVE to have the coveted green tick and teading some verifications on some profiles i'd be ashamed. "Sucks cock like a dyson"....."next time i'll bring a wet suit"....."she swallowed all my cum"....." best fuck on fab".... my God how degrading!"

Agreed there we hate those 'warts and all' styled verifications. And if given one I don't think we would display it.

Kitty

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I'm not a fan of the tell all verifications either, some are cringe worthy and like you Kitty I wouldn't show it if we received one.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time I think a verification is a contradiction to discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many different reasons but some people dont really give a fuck about verifications. Who cares if you've got none, 1, 50 or a hundred. There's no rule to say you HAVE to have the coveted green tick and teading some verifications on some profiles i'd be ashamed. "Sucks cock like a dyson"....."next time i'll bring a wet suit"....."she swallowed all my cum"....." best fuck on fab".... my God how degrading!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if their minding there own business.

not harming anyone,

why should it matter,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if their minding there own business.

not harming anyone,

why should it matter, "

Exactly!!!

Perhaps a few others should mind their own buisness also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many different reasons but some people dont really give a fuck about verifications. Who cares if you've got none, 1, 50 or a hundred. There's no rule to say you HAVE to have the coveted green tick and teading some verifications on some profiles i'd be ashamed. "Sucks cock like a dyson"....."next time i'll bring a wet suit"....."she swallowed all my cum"....." best fuck on fab".... my God how degrading!

Agreed there we hate those 'warts and all' styled verifications. And if given one I don't think we would display it.

Kitty"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if their minding there own business.

not harming anyone,

why should it matter,

Exactly!!!

Perhaps a few others should mind their own buisness also. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem at all with unverified people or those who have been here over a year without one. You know exactly where you stand and I think people should be allowed to use the site as they wish. Some people are only here to have on line friends, to watch cams, to have attention and enjoy the banter and I don't see anything wrong with that. Some who are more "established" cause more hassle and drama.

I've never had a vulgar verification I dream one day hopefully I'll be that dyson with the sweetest tastin cunt that can outfuck any pornstar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no problem at all with unverified people or those who have been here over a year without one. You know exactly where you stand and I think people should be allowed to use the site as they wish. Some people are only here to have on line friends, to watch cams, to have attention and enjoy the banter and I don't see anything wrong with that. Some who are more "established" cause more hassle and drama.

I've never had a vulgar verification I dream one day hopefully I'll be that dyson with the sweetest tastin cunt that can outfuck any pornstar "

There should be a like button for posts such as yours

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I have no problem at all with unverified people or those who have been here over a year without one. You know exactly where you stand and I think people should be allowed to use the site as they wish. Some people are only here to have on line friends, to watch cams, to have attention and enjoy the banter and I don't see anything wrong with that. Some who are more "established" cause more hassle and drama.

I've never had a vulgar verification I dream one day hopefully I'll be that dyson with the sweetest tastin cunt that can outfuck any pornstar "

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

A lot of ppl just here to chat and not meet for their own reasons. That's up to them. but iv often been msged by such profiles looking to meet. I wouldn't really even enter into a conversation with them in good faith never mind meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of ppl just here to chat and not meet for their own reasons. That's up to them. but iv often been msged by such profiles looking to meet. I wouldn't really even enter into a conversation with them in good faith never mind meet"

Why would ya when ya have a stunner as a girlfriend... mmmmmm yummy..ever need a hand drop me a mail

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

Been on here for 4 months

no veris no winks thus no meets.

can't go to party's cos not verified.

Can't get verified cos no meets

One big circle. !

What is one to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got fed up of endless back and forth mails to couples that go nowhere so left for a few months. Just back last week.

Have met couples and they still haven't had the decency to verify me.

And Im a really nice guy....I think??!!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Bit like people having a massive friends list... no verifications and probably no meets!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wonder coming across profiles which say " joined over a year ago " and have no verification, is it a guy sitting behind that profile somewhere ? Or someone not physically able to meet I'm real life due to some reason either family or health? Any thoughts?"

I have been here a few years even, had meets but never really bothered about those verifications. I am on and off anyways. It is, in my opinion, very clique like and hard to get this going, esp when your a single male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here for ages and never bothered with veris..its not important to me and i dont even read other peoples veris and comments.. anyone i meet or they meet me is like a new experience and thats just my view ..each to their own..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got fed up of endless back and forth mails to couples that go nowhere so left for a few months. Just back last week.

Have met couples and they still haven't had the decency to verify me.

And Im a really nice guy....I think??!!"

Did you ask them to verify you? Did you offer them a verification? People aren't mind readers, if you want a veri, bring it up with the person(s).

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Some just won't verify, even if it is unpublished!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some just won't verify, even if it is unpublished!!"

Well, once a veri is written, the writer has no control over whether or not it is published. Some people presumably don't want others to know who they are meeting, which is also their right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One couple indicated, at a meeting for coffee, that they wanted a hotel meet in the coming week then went home and blocked me.

How am I to ask them to verify me?

I message people politely, tell them my interests etc and following a number of messages they for their own reasons decide not to pursue meeting me..but again if I ask at that stage I am regularly blanked.

So its not for lack of asking. (By the by, if you think Im not offensive and I come across as a nice guy could you verify me?? I'll spin down your location for just a coffee n a chat if that helps!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One couple indicated, at a meeting for coffee, that they wanted a hotel meet in the coming week then went home and blocked me.

How am I to ask them to verify me?

I message people politely, tell them my interests etc and following a number of messages they for their own reasons decide not to pursue meeting me..but again if I ask at that stage I am regularly blanked.

So its not for lack of asking. (By the by, if you think Im not offensive and I come across as a nice guy could you verify me?? I'll spin down your location for just a coffee n a chat if that helps!) "

Pmsl - we find it difficult enough to schedule meets with the people we are interested in! But there are occasional threads here where users offer coffee meets to verify those who struggle to get a veri.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Some just won't verify, even if it is unpublished!!

Well, once a veri is written, the writer has no control over whether or not it is published. Some people presumably don't want others to know who they are meeting, which is also their right."

Very true! Some won't verify, that is indeed their right.

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By *unloving.jamesMan
over a year ago

centre

I here over a year didn't use the site for bout 8months only using it last few and no body will meet without me been verified which is hard cause no one will do it. I have no problem going on cam on Skype and showing myself to them but still no one will do it. Anyone any ideas for this ?

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

saw a cple join here recently.they were looking to meet cples.they goy verifed by a cple the other side off the country witin 11 minutes off joining.am aware they cuda bein on site in past,,the weird ting was cples werent allowed msg them lol so even the chat between who verifed them didnt happen on site ,wit all cples blocked fom msgn them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm. Single guy nobody spoonfed me and brought me to a meet. Yes it's hard work. But persevere and be nice be witty and drop the self pity. If you were moping about in a bar and a club it wouidnt be a good image. Everyone starts at bottom you have good results bad results. That's how u get expierence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

aliens at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could quite easily have 2 accounts. Ine as a male and one as a female and verify each of your accounts. Ffs its an internet site. Anythings possibe. I can even make my dick look big depending in which way i hold the camera

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By *ockhard and SweetcheeksCouple
over a year ago

City

A bit like yourself op you've joined over a yr ago and your last meet was in February that's 7 months ago!! And also your first meet.. She verified you but you didn't verify her back??! It's these kinda profiles I tend to just pass by!! I know this has nothing to do with original post but I had to point it out anyway!!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Strange that the guys complaining about not being able to get a veri will turn down the chance for a coffee meet with one of the established single guys. You'd think they'd take any chance to get their foot in the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strange that the guys complaining about not being able to get a veri will turn down the chance for a coffee meet with one of the established single guys. You'd think they'd take any chance to get their foot in the door. "
. Lol john Mingo dead right we were down this road before

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