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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've noticed an increase in profiles contradicting themselves lately.

Listing Safe Sex as an interest but displaying bareback photos.

I've mailed several that I've seen and been given a plethora of different excuses ranging from it's an ex or its just the lighting.

The lighting clearly made the condom dissappear

Personally I always play safe and I always presume that nobody else plays safe. To me, the importance of my safety to me is heightened that way.

These profiles weren't just single guys btw. Females and couples too. And while I know couples play bb with each other, there were several different cocks in the pictures that I viewed!

My question.

If a profile displayed bareback pictures. Would it put you off

A) Meeting them?

and

B) Meeting people who have verified them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A) A bareback pic on it's own? No, it wouldn't put me off.

B) No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

To put it another way OP. As, as you say, you assume that other people do NOT have safe sex, why does proof of this put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sure it's a bit like getting. Blow job from your cousin, it's wrong but sure it feels good and it works. Ah now I'd have the wee head wrapped up if I was routing at Anyone other than my long suffering wife. and the same goes for her, jaysus sure ya could end up picking something up that ya didn't want.

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare

No & no.

I make sure that when we meet someone we use protection.

If we were to post any pictures of intercourse it would be barebacking as it would be of us.

I dont think that in meet that Id be able to stop just to get photo, Id be a little busy & for me it ruins the momentum that has been built up.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I'm amazed that the couples bothered to give you any excuses as to why they are doing what they are doing and didn't tell you to mind your own fucking business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it would put me off on singles profiles not so much on a couples as i never used condoms with my ex ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would put me right off to be honest , I came across a couples profile the other day which had bareback pics with several different guys ! Safety first !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm amazed that the couples bothered to give you any excuses as to why they are doing what they are doing and didn't tell you to mind your own fucking business "

Why couples specifically?

And why would they tell me to fuck off?

If I were considering a meet with anyone, I would be questioning their safe sex practices.

Also, I never specified what gender I mailed.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"I'm amazed that the couples bothered to give you any excuses as to why they are doing what they are doing and didn't tell you to mind your own fucking business

Why couples specifically?

And why would they tell me to fuck off?

If I were considering a meet with anyone, I would be questioning their safe sex practices.

Also, I never specified what gender I mailed."

Probably couples said but true about anyone. Surprising that in a week you have had time to have two meets verified, identify at least two people that were displaying them doing bareback AND get reply from them. That probably generates a certain amount of scepticism about your research (no doubt unjustified).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm amazed that the couples bothered to give you any excuses as to why they are doing what they are doing and didn't tell you to mind your own fucking business

Why couples specifically?

And why would they tell me to fuck off?

If I were considering a meet with anyone, I would be questioning their safe sex practices.

Also, I never specified what gender I mailed.

Probably couples said but true about anyone. Surprising that in a week you have had time to have two meets verified, identify at least two people that were displaying them doing bareback AND get reply from them. That probably generates a certain amount of scepticism about your research (no doubt unjustified)."

My profile doesn't hide the fact that I am a returnee.

Thanks for your concern regarding my activities though.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"I'm amazed that the couples bothered to give you any excuses as to why they are doing what they are doing and didn't tell you to mind your own fucking business

Why couples specifically?

And why would they tell me to fuck off?

If I were considering a meet with anyone, I would be questioning their safe sex practices.

Also, I never specified what gender I mailed.

Probably couples said but true about anyone. Surprising that in a week you have had time to have two meets verified, identify at least two people that were displaying them doing bareback AND get reply from them. That probably generates a certain amount of scepticism about your research (no doubt unjustified).

My profile doesn't hide the fact that I am a returnee.

Thanks for your concern regarding my activities though. "

Not concerned just answered you

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"I'm amazed that the couples bothered to give you any excuses as to why they are doing what they are doing and didn't tell you to mind your own fucking business

Why couples specifically?

And why would they tell me to fuck off?

If I were considering a meet with anyone, I would be questioning their safe sex practices.

Also, I never specified what gender I mailed.

Probably couples said but true about anyone. Surprising that in a week you have had time to have two meets verified, identify at least two people that were displaying them doing bareback AND get reply from them. That probably generates a certain amount of scepticism about your research (no doubt unjustified).

My profile doesn't hide the fact that I am a returnee.

Thanks for your concern regarding my activities though. "

Thank you for your concern about these ppls activities. You never said you were going to meet these ppl just that you saw bb pics and messaged them about it.

Do we have safe sex police here now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm amazed that the couples bothered to give you any excuses as to why they are doing what they are doing and didn't tell you to mind your own fucking business "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to factor it into a meet or don't meet decision.

Condoms provide good protection but are far from perfect.

If people are clearly rawdogging it with multiple people I wouldnt meet.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Op I think you should stop worrying about everyone's sexual health..... We think its good enough to just worry about our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have to factor it into a meet or don't meet decision.

Condoms provide good protection but are far from perfect.

If people are clearly rawdogging it with multiple people I wouldnt meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought that in a community that promotes a lifestyle of partner swapping and sexual freedom that safe sex would be high on the agenda of everyone. At a party if a woman gives oral sex to a guy with chlamydia then gives oral sex to someone else there's a chance thst person passes it on and if H3 has sex with someone else etc. People say they get tested all the time, but do they. People need to be held to a high standard of integrity like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op I think you should stop worrying about everyone's sexual health..... We think its good enough to just worry about our own"

I'm not worried about them nor am I safe sex police as suggested above.

I see nothing wrong in questioning safe sex practices if there's a contradiction there that's extremely obvious.

I was posting to start a discussion, as per my questions as that's part of what a forum is for.

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By *rash_pandaMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm amazed that the couples bothered to give you any excuses as to why they are doing what they are doing and didn't tell you to mind your own fucking business "
I wS thinking the exact same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm amazed that the couples bothered to give you any excuses as to why they are doing what they are doing and didn't tell you to mind your own fucking business

Why couples specifically?

And why would they tell me to fuck off?

If I were considering a meet with anyone, I would be questioning their safe sex practices.

Also, I never specified what gender I mailed.

Probably couples said but true about anyone. Surprising that in a week you have had time to have two meets verified, identify at least two people that were displaying them doing bareback AND get reply from them. That probably generates a certain amount of scepticism about your research (no doubt unjustified).

My profile doesn't hide the fact that I am a returnee.

Thanks for your concern regarding my activities though.

Thank you for your concern about these ppls activities. You never said you were going to meet these ppl just that you saw bb pics and messaged them about it.

Do we have safe sex police here now?"

This is the op letting all the ladies out there know how responsible he is.

It's another "pick me" "pick me" thread

Simple answer, if you don't like what you see block and move on, none of your business, unless you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm amazed that the couples bothered to give you any excuses as to why they are doing what they are doing and didn't tell you to mind your own fucking business "

Agree 100%

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"Op I think you should stop worrying about everyone's sexual health..... We think its good enough to just worry about our own"

Exactly this at the end of the day you have to look after yourself and that's it.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm amazed at the response here.

So If it's not a kissfuckavoid or a thread about a social or a thread about best tits..... Nobody should bother posting if it's against the norm?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And it's most definitely not a "pick me" thread.

I was trying to open a discussion. End of.

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By *igjuicycockMan
over a year ago

Cork


"I'm amazed at the response here.

So If it's not a kissfuckavoid or a thread about a social or a thread about best tits..... Nobody should bother posting if it's against the norm?"

ya intelligent discussion or debates don't happen much on the Irish forum

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