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By *unguy122 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northside Dublin

Hey fab users !

I'm typing this post to ask fellow males in the 18-25 age bracket how they're getting on on the site

It seems a lot of potential meets whatever their sexuality , have to really think before meeting us due to our age

I'm just wondering what it is exactly ? I know people have preferences but it seems to be a re-occurring situation

This is not just my thought process as I have had a number of fellow men on her mailing me the same thing and I just wanted to get everyone's opinion on it

Is the age bracket just too young for the site ?

Thanks for reading happy fabbing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing you can do is keep trying! Eventually someone will give you a chance

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Maybe the age range should start from 21 or there abouts , anything younger isnt too good here as people think they should be out clubbing and meeting from that , we wouldnt meet a very young guy ,

Mrs crazy

Ps , love ur pics

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By *unguy122 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northside Dublin

Thanks for the replies !

It's more for the guys who haven't had any yet ! I was lucky enough to have one or two already

That is a good point that I would agree with I think it should start at 21 for maturity sake at least ,

Ps love your pics too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god now I fell really old! I don't think I would meet anybody as young as yourself tbh ( I've a daughter older). I do however think that 18 to at least 21 year old should be out clubbing n hanging with people closer to their own age as it helps them grow as people. Does that sound patronising? Hope not because I thing you need a fair degree of maturity to be in this game so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god now I fell really old! I don't think I would meet anybody as young as yourself tbh ( I've a daughter older). I do however think that 18 to at least 21 year old should be out clubbing n hanging with people closer to their own age as it helps them grow as people. Does that sound patronising? Hope not because I thing you need a fair degree of maturity to be in this game so to speak. "

Ps. Having said all of that I also love your pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god now I fell really old! I don't think I would meet anybody as young as yourself tbh ( I've a daughter older). I do however think that 18 to at least 21 year old should be out clubbing n hanging with people closer to their own age as it helps them grow as people. Does that sound patronising? Hope not because I thing you need a fair degree of maturity to be in this game so to speak. "

Everyone matures at a different pace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god now I fell really old! I don't think I would meet anybody as young as yourself tbh ( I've a daughter older). I do however think that 18 to at least 21 year old should be out clubbing n hanging with people closer to their own age as it helps them grow as people. Does that sound patronising? Hope not because I thing you need a fair degree of maturity to be in this game so to speak.

Everyone matures at a different pace.

"

And I do know that. That's why I was trying not to sound patronising. I'm not saying all young people are immature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno I think that people that young should be out and about looking for their kicks and not sitting lazily on their cute asses trawling a swingers site in the hopes of a hit with someone 20 years their senior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a issue with meeting younger and depends on the individual more than the age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dunno I think that people that young should be out and about looking for their kicks and not sitting lazily on their cute asses trawling a swingers site in the hopes of a hit with someone 20 years their senior."

See that's what I mean! What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god now I fell really old! I don't think I would meet anybody as young as yourself tbh ( I've a daughter older). I do however think that 18 to at least 21 year old should be out clubbing n hanging with people closer to their own age as it helps them grow as people. Does that sound patronising? Hope not because I thing you need a fair degree of maturity to be in this game so to speak.

Everyone matures at a different pace.

And I do know that. That's why I was trying not to sound patronising. I'm not saying all young people are immature "

Some would have been a great word to use otherwise it's definitely patronising. It's a lot like "no offence but..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dunno I think that people that young should be out and about looking for their kicks and not sitting lazily on their cute asses trawling a swingers site in the hopes of a hit with someone 20 years their senior."

We're not all hoping for a "hit with someone 20 years" our senior.

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By *unguy122 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northside Dublin

The reason why a lot of my age group is on here is mainly because we like older women

going to clubs is okay and picking young women up etc etc

But it would not fulfill what we want

I hope this makes sense lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get it.

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By *unguy122 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northside Dublin

Thank you candy store

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get it."

Loving the profile pic

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"The reason why a lot of my age group is on here is mainly because we like older women

going to clubs is okay and picking young women up etc etc

But it would not fulfill what we want

I hope this makes sense lol

"

May I ask you why you like older women? Is it just a preference or is there a particular reason for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god now I fell really old! I don't think I would meet anybody as young as yourself tbh ( I've a daughter older). I do however think that 18 to at least 21 year old should be out clubbing n hanging with people closer to their own age as it helps them grow as people. Does that sound patronising? Hope not because I thing you need a fair degree of maturity to be in this game so to speak.

Everyone matures at a different pace.

And I do know that. That's why I was trying not to sound patronising. I'm not saying all young people are immature

Some would have been a great word to use otherwise it's definitely patronising. It's a lot like "no offence but...""

Ebony I really get the feeling that when you don't like someone else's opinion you throw a bit of a strop. Which in itself shows exactly what I'm say while voicing my opinion. What I've written above is MY opinion. You don't have to agree with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god now I fell really old! I don't think I would meet anybody as young as yourself tbh ( I've a daughter older). I do however think that 18 to at least 21 year old should be out clubbing n hanging with people closer to their own age as it helps them grow as people. Does that sound patronising? Hope not because I thing you need a fair degree of maturity to be in this game so to speak.

Everyone matures at a different pace.

And I do know that. That's why I was trying not to sound patronising. I'm not saying all young people are immature

Some would have been a great word to use otherwise it's definitely patronising. It's a lot like "no offence but..."

Ebony I really get the feeling that when you don't like someone else's opinion you throw a bit of a strop. Which in itself shows exactly what I'm say while voicing my opinion. What I've written above is MY opinion. You don't have to agree with it "

And I can't have an opinion? I was just pointing out that using some would have helped because you've basically painted all 18-21 year olds with the same brush. There are a lot of opinions I wouldn't agree with and I give my opinion or ignore them depending on what was said but I don't see how stating my opinion (if it's against something that has been said) is throwing a strop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god now I fell really old! I don't think I would meet anybody as young as yourself tbh ( I've a daughter older). I do however think that 18 to at least 21 year old should be out clubbing n hanging with people closer to their own age as it helps them grow as people. Does that sound patronising? Hope not because I thing you need a fair degree of maturity to be in this game so to speak.

Everyone matures at a different pace.

And I do know that. That's why I was trying not to sound patronising. I'm not saying all young people are immature

Some would have been a great word to use otherwise it's definitely patronising. It's a lot like "no offence but..."

Ebony I really get the feeling that when you don't like someone else's opinion you throw a bit of a strop. Which in itself shows exactly what I'm say while voicing my opinion. What I've written above is MY opinion. You don't have to agree with it

And I can't have an opinion? I was just pointing out that using some would have helped because you've basically painted all 18-21 year olds with the same brush. There are a lot of opinions I wouldn't agree with and I give my opinion or ignore them depending on what was said but I don't see how stating my opinion (if it's against something that has been said) is throwing a strop. "

Ok then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we got chatting to someone we would consider them on their personality and what others have said, really depends on how they behave, have chatted and met younger previously on here. The number sometimes doesn't mean anything sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a good amounts of meets from here... and I would be considered quite young. Meets from fab are always a kinkier, and personally I love the experience.

I think it may be a case of younger guys re-wording how they are messaging/who they are messaging.

Happy Swinging :D

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"If we got chatting to someone we would consider them on their personality and what others have said, really depends on how they behave, have chatted and met younger previously on here. The number sometimes doesn't mean anything sometimes.

"

Have to agree here. .

Ps that is an amazing pic!

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By *unguy122 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northside Dublin

Just a preference dog hunter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What better way to mature than to spend time with more mature people.....

Meet other walks of life, experienced lovers, better than a legless d*unk fumble after coppers blah blah

18-21 is perfectly fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

May I ask you why you like older women? Is it just a preference or is there a particular reason for it?"

MILF porn but of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age Is just a number lots yough guys are very mature this days and very good for them age never to yough to have new experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What better way to mature than to spend time with more mature people.....

Meet other walks of life, experienced lovers, better than a legless d*unk fumble after coppers blah blah

18-21 is perfectly fine

"
For me its not when you have kids that age but each to there own

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Just a preference dog hunter "

I don't really get why you address this post only to younger guys on the site only. What do you gain out of that? Unless you're looking for tips from young lads who achieve to meet more mature women/couples...but tips from peeps of your obviously preferred age bracket might be useful too.

From my perspective I'm more attracted to men my age bracket hence just a preference too. But also I prefer an experienced person as my sparring partner, someone that can cope with me. I'm not saying all young guys are inexperienced. However as experience is something you gain over a time the chances of someone having a good skill set and knows what he's doing rises with age. My fun time is special to me and limited and I have no time for experiments.

By the end of the day it all depends how you sell yourself and what do you bring to the table. Manners, reliability, wit, maturity, being able to hold a conversation etc. go a long way with the ladies and I've noticed some young lads on here doing quite well hence it is not impossible.

Just to finish up not every older guy delivers on that either, there are some rather gruesome immature exemplars out there, however I also noticed since I put up a lower age limit, the hassle, ignorance and rudeness got drastically reduced. Now you conclude there yourself.

Anyway good luck with your quest!

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By *unguy122 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northside Dublin

[Removed by poster at 16/09/15 12:21:50]

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"[Removed by poster at 16/09/15 12:21:50]"

wow! Good luck all I can say...

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin


"[Removed by poster at 16/09/15 12:21:50]"

True colours always show.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"[Removed by poster at 16/09/15 12:21:50]

True colours always show. "

Now I wanna know what made him go from "love your pics btw" to "true colours always show" in one post. that has to be a record.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 16/09/15 12:21:50]

True colours always show.

Now I wanna know what made him go from "love your pics btw" to "true colours always show" in one post. that has to be a record. "

Me too John,missed that point .

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"[Removed by poster at 16/09/15 12:21:50]

True colours always show.

Now I wanna know what made him go from "love your pics btw" to "true colours always show" in one post. that has to be a record. "

As a true lady I will stick to my standards and behave accordingly. The OP has removed his post, obviously realising the blunder of it and I leave it there.

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

What did he say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 16/09/15 12:21:50]

True colours always show.

Now I wanna know what made him go from "love your pics btw" to "true colours always show" in one post. that has to be a record.

As a true lady I will stick to my standards and behave accordingly. The OP has removed his post, obviously realising the blunder of it and I leave it there. "

Very mature response

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By *unguy122 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northside Dublin

I don't really get why you address this post only to younger guys on the site only. What do you gain out of that? Unless you're looking for tips from young lads who achieve to meet more mature women/couples...but tips from peeps of your obviously preferred age bracket might be useful too.

I replied with I only read past the first paragraph as I thought my point was valid enough at the start for you not to ask what I'm getting out of it . And why I am just asking younger males

I sensed then that through replying it would cause this and I deleted it as I have no time for drama on here

Ps Elfie do you know me personally no so where does your true colours post come from ?

I deleted it to save argument as with every thread there is always someone who must question in a negative way

Can't someone just ask because they're asking ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I do ok on here

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Op, it wasn't my intention to have a go at you. I simply thought by opening up your question to a wider age bracket, you might be more likely to find the answer to your initial questions otherwise we just end up with another whinging thread how hard it is on here for single males this time aged 18 to 25.

With your reaction to my post especially the removed one, you've demonstrated that you have a long way to go...

Anyway I'll keep doghunter on a leash and will stay away from your post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey fab users !

I'm typing this post to ask fellow males in the 18-25 age bracket how they're getting on on the site

It seems a lot of potential meets whatever their sexuality , have to really think before meeting us due to our age

I'm just wondering what it is exactly ? I know people have preferences but it seems to be a re-occurring situation

This is not just my thought process as I have had a number of fellow men on her mailing me the same thing and I just wanted to get everyone's opinion on it

Is the age bracket just too young for the site ?

Thanks for reading happy fabbing !

"

Waste of time really man. I've been on here on and off since I was 19, I'm now 25. Age will always hold you back due to everyone painting young lads with the same brush. It really is shit unless you get involved with the social scene and although I was interested in it before I value you my privacy much more these days. Having a much better time not using the site anyways. Back to the old fashioned way haha. Be respectful and never be pushy always live by that but don't get to heavily invested in the site. Just not worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi bud to answer your question I think it's a case of there's a lot of men on here and then even within that age range there are a lot.

Plus women (not generalising) tend to see one person aged 25 acting in a certain way and presume that others that age are the same.

I've had 3 meets on here, all of which have made comment of my age prior and post meet, suggesting that they were happy they "took a chance on someone my age"

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've met young ladies n enjoyed them . I've gone a while without playing but I never give up I will meet other people I'm sure maybe have to start going to some of these m n Gs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 23 ... Touch wood, not had any age related issues yet.. Also If there's any lady that wants a young guy, feel free to message by x

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