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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so this isn't the a rant just curious. Why would you send them to people you've never talked to? Are they chancing their arm? Are they fantasists?

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get them a lot Tom,ignore them mostly as we think they're just pic collectors .

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I oftened wondered do some of the newbies think they have to request to be friends to chat like fb surely there can't be that many pic collectors out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get it really !!!! I wudnt ever do it but we get loads every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People may also think they will be more accepted on the site if they are friends with existing members

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Picture pervs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't accept random f/r why would some one from overseas want to send request wen you might never meet just read profiles it only takes a moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually i need to meet before I add to friends but there's always exceptions..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's so they can see friend pics, I don't have any friend only pics anyway so I just ignore friend invites from randomers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought chat/meet first then friend request later was a given...

P.s. anyone wanna be my friend!!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Depends on who sends me them if it was a nice lady r couple IDE probably respond to them but it's usually some guy lol which I'm not interested in . I once got one from a nice couple but they were messers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete them to be honest, with the exceptions of those who I have been chatting to via mail ect.

Perhaps a lot of new people simply assume they need to have a friends list, so, they are more easily accepted ect.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Lazinesses I'd say, trying to take a short cut to "oh look, we're friends now,wanna fuck?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There just been nosey took my private pic off a while a back guess what I didn't get any friend request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get any.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"There just been nosey took my private pic off a while a back guess what I didn't get any friend request "

Can I request ur ass in a leather pants pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There just been nosey took my private pic off a while a back guess what I didn't get any friend request

Can I request ur ass in a leather pants pic "
Cj my friend I sent u one yest now don't be greedy

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"There just been nosey took my private pic off a while a back guess what I didn't get any friend request

Can I request ur ass in a leather pants pic Cj my friend I sent u one yest now don't be greedy "

Dammm women and their memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does our head In tbh its on our profile and still get them. We even put it on our status with requests will be blocked and still got pmsl.

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

I think it's just that many guys who join these types of sites, join because they think all the women or couples are easy and will shag absolutely anyone.

Sending the friend request just makes them think they're a little more "in there".

I apologise on behalf of my gender.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Happy, you must be the most level headed young lad in Ireland, you're post are always worth reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only add people we've met in person to our friends list to keep it tidy but when we do get them just ignore them as they then cant resend for 30 days if you leave them sitting.ps you can also wait til they are offline,accept the request,perve THEIR private pics and then delete them from your friends list.they'll be non the wiser.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"we only add people we've met in person to our friends list to keep it tidy but when we do get them just ignore them as they then cant resend for 30 days if you leave them sitting.ps you can also wait til they are offline,accept the request,perve THEIR private pics and then delete them from your friends list.they'll be non the wiser."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know when we started, I thought you had to add someone to show them you were interested and to talk to them or else you'd look like a right creeper just messaging out of the blue. Nothing to do with pic collecting/perving/timewasting... I got talking to a couple early on and they told me the 'unwritten' rules of the site. Common sense may not be that common but unfortunately as newbies to a site they might genuinely not know the way things work straight off the bat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get them a lot Tom,ignore them mostly as we think they're just pic collectors ."

I hear this a lot,what do they do with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on who sends me them if it was a nice lady r couple IDE probably respond to them but it's usually some guy lol which I'm not interested in . I once got one from a nice couple but they were messers "

Not that nice then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does our head In tbh its on our profile and still get them. We even put it on our status with requests will be blocked and still got pmsl. "

As do we,but who reads profiles ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple: accept, ignore or refuse. Each to their own.

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

Some guys need a list of names on their profile as it looks like they actually are friends with a lot of people... and to get access to their pictures!!

So it's Image, plus a way to perv... most haven't even met anyone!!

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

they should come on the forum and let people get to know them' but frieds request without chating is odd but who knows

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By *oxylady45Woman
over a year ago

N. Ireland

I get loads everyday, pic pervs . I delete them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask...more or less..manners are easy carried..you can take them anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After one sentence in a mail and some assume the right to be your friend. I don't accept the friends request. Pic collectors

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By *arkedMan
over a year ago

Trim


"Does our head In tbh its on our profile and still get them. We even put it on our status with requests will be blocked and still got pmsl.

As do we,but who reads profiles ?"

I do, and will always try to weave what's in the profile into my initial message. Unfortunately from all the posts I've read on this subject, it may not even be the case of a minority of blokes tarnishing the majority, but the majority tarnishing the minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not gonna lie i do it a lot when I'm drinking i guess it is just chancing the arm maybe just to shy to start a convo but I doubt there's no malice in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know when we started, I thought you had to add someone to show them you were interested and to talk to them or else you'd look like a right creeper just messaging out of the blue. Nothing to do with pic collecting/perving/timewasting... I got talking to a couple early on and they told me the 'unwritten' rules of the site. Common sense may not be that

common but unfortunately as newbies

to a site they might genuinely not know the way things work straight off the bat.

"

How clever is that going to do it right now

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

I appreciate that its all to do with age; for me, a friend is someone I actually know, send Christmas cards to and buy birthday presents for their kids.To be befriended, by somebody I have never even met, is bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually ignore or delete random requests. If they are really interested then they will mail. Well thats what I think anyway lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just after getting another friends request and not even a message!

It can sit there. I'm not accepting it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I appreciate that its all to do with age; for me, a friend is someone I actually know, send Christmas cards to and buy birthday presents for their kids.To be befriended, by somebody I have never even met, is bizarre."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"!

It can sit there. I'm not accepting it. "

best thing to do,it means they can't send another for a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"!

It can sit there. I'm not accepting it.

best thing to do,it means they can't send another for a month."
exactly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get about 4 or 5 per day. We never except them. It's not a privacy thing with us. It's not like anyone from here will cross our paths, unless they are on holiday that is. We openly talk about who we are and what we do. Except M. He's a bit more reserved.

We only except requests from people we plan to meet and only make a request from people we REALLY want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so this isn't the a rant just curious. Why would you send them to people you've never talked to? Are they chancing their arm? Are they fantasists?

Tomcat "

Maybe after reading your profile they must be close to you, perhaps good friends...perhaps more...

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down


"Get them a lot Tom,ignore them mostly as we think they're just pic collectors ."

Yep this ^^^

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

Dunno why it annoys people so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have friends ... Then they change them ... Can't have to many

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