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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lady's, here's an interesting question, & plz be very honest when answering, & genuine reason for this Q. If a male chatted to a woman on a site & they went fit a.meal, & had a few dates, & really liked each other, then he came around ti telling her, he's actually married, how would ye react??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Badly - he's lied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Badly - he's lied."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Badly - he's lied.

I agree "

Very badly. Relationships are based on trust which needs to be earned in the first instance

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

Not very well as all the above have said...lying is never the right thing to do..

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By *nyoneforfun2Couple
over a year ago

DUBLIN

badly.... why wine dine and go on dates if your not free to do so....

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I'd be fuming. Nothing good is built on dishonesty. I'd show him the door I'm afraid.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He should have been honest from the outset then she would have the choice to meet him or not. The way he did it.... Took away her choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest hate ....is lies ! I wouldn't be impressed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He should have been honest from the outset then she would have the choice to meet him or not. The way he did it.... Took away her choice "

Yep

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Well there is not enough information to judge this situation. It depends what site they met through, dating site, swinger site, sex site etc. and what was she looking for, a new relationship, nsa fun or a lover for the odd night. Also did she ever ask him if he's married and did he then lie to her? Respectively would she have refused to meet him in the first place knowing that he's married? etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies are all right, be raging that had been lied too, would be no more meets

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By *oxylady45Woman
over a year ago

N. Ireland

Dump him , I've no room in my life for dishonest ppl.

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

Put it this way, he'd be seeing stars and singing soprano for a while

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He should have been honest from the outset then she would have the choice to meet him or not. The way he did it.... Took away her choice "

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By *lmost Mary PoppinsWoman
over a year ago

Slippery When Wetville

Very badly! It's better to be up front about these things, it's saves horrible heart ache and some nasty repercussions in the long run...

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By *lmost Mary PoppinsWoman
over a year ago

Slippery When Wetville


"Biggest hate ....is lies ! I wouldn't be impressed ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worse than being hurt by lies especially something like that. Since you didn't say hypothetical I hope your friend is ok and realises what a waste of space he is

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare


"Well there is not enough information to judge this situation. It depends what site they met through, dating site, swinger site, sex site etc. and what was she looking for, a new relationship, nsa fun or a lover for the odd night. Also did she ever ask him if he's married and did he then lie to her? Respectively would she have refused to meet him in the first place knowing that he's married? etc."

Agree 100% depends on site, what im looking for & if i asked were u married & u lied. The dates thing would throw me sure if married would u not b fearful of getting caught hence dinner dates seem odd.

I was lied to, i had asked direct question several times, fuming when i found out until i learned circumstances & had time to chill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well there is not enough information to judge this situation. It depends what site they met through, dating site, swinger site, sex site etc. and what was she looking for, a new relationship, nsa fun or a lover for the odd night. Also did she ever ask him if he's married and did he then lie to her? Respectively would she have refused to meet him in the first place knowing that he's married? etc.

Agree 100% depends on site, what im looking for & if i asked were u married & u lied. The dates thing would throw me sure if married would u not b fearful of getting caught hence dinner dates seem odd.

I was lied to, i had asked direct question several times, fuming when i found out until i learned circumstances & had time to chill."

Ahhh maybe it's just me but if you chat to someone for a bit and meet reardless of site, there ample time to be upfront after meeting for first time. It comes back to honesty.

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor


"Dump him , I've no room in my life for dishonest ppl. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female here dumb the guy ,, he's lieing is say to his wife lieing to u ,,, you need to ask yourself this can he ever be trusted to tell you the truth since after all he lied to you from the start get rid of him you deserve better a relationship based on lies does not work you will only get hurt dump him and move on plenty more Single guys out there who can tell the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id be upset . I never get involved with attached people , I dont care what the excuse is , if your unhappy in a marriage , get a divorce , like I did . To reel someone in and allow them to think the relationship is going somewhere only to turn round and reveal the truth once they have feelings for you is a dispicable thing to do . I am assuming that the woman wanted more than a quick shag here , and she would be well advised to just walk and leave him find someone who would be ok with the situation , but of course , that would necessitate him being truthful from the offset , a concept he obviously is not familiar with .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let the door hit your ass on the way out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

De-ball him. Lying bastard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id be upset . I never get involved with attached people , I dont care what the excuse is , if your unhappy in a marriage , get a divorce , like I did . To reel someone in and allow them to think the relationship is going somewhere only to turn round and reveal the truth once they have feelings for you is a dispicable thing to do . I am assuming that the woman wanted more than a quick shag here , and she would be well advised to just walk and leave him find someone who would be ok with the situation , but of course , that would necessitate him being truthful from the offset , a concept he obviously is not familiar with . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id be upset . I never get involved with attached people , I dont care what the excuse is , if your unhappy in a marriage , get a divorce , like I did . To reel someone in and allow them to think the relationship is going somewhere only to turn round and reveal the truth once they have feelings for you is a dispicable thing to do . I am assuming that the woman wanted more than a quick shag here , and she would be well advised to just walk and leave him find someone who would be ok with the situation , but of course , that would necessitate him being truthful from the offset , a concept he obviously is not familiar with . "

^^^ this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually...I'd probably pretend it didn't matter "because I love you so much. Can we ever be together, just the 2 of us?"

Until I had his wife's contact details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually...I'd probably pretend it didn't matter "because I love you so much. Can we ever be together, just the 2 of us?"

Until I had his wife's contact details."

No need to lol. If he's on here I think Karma has just turned up and bit his arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was me I'd be furious, I tend not to meet married or attached guy's and if I have and found out at a later date I would no longer meet them as this is about trust and discretion.

1. I could never trust you again.

2. Discretion is obviously not your strong point either putting it all over the forums.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Married and cheating-send him on, no if's or buts

Still married but separated/stuck in a dead marriage etc.- He should of been honest from the start but maybe there's wiggle room, depends on the circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say don't let the door hit ur Ass on the way out politely of course

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