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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

see this on a lot of profiles and it wasn't till lately that i made my own rule of only sending a face pic if they have one on there profile and if they only have a body pic i will send a body pic as well,

anybody think this is fear and i would go as far as to say should be the unspoken rule of fab!!!

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

We only send face pics if we've chatted for a while and we're planning to meet the person/people

Its just the way we do things.

If someone decides to send us a face pic with their message that's their choice it doesn't obligate us to send ours back to them.

Its totally up to u whether u send ur face pic or not. No-one should demand it from u.

Tina

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We only send face pics if we've chatted for a while and we're planning to meet the person/people

Its just the way we do things.

If someone decides to send us a face pic with their message that's their choice it doesn't obligate us to send ours back to them.

Its totally up to u whether u send ur face pic or not. No-one should demand it from u.

Tina "

that is spot on, ,, i am just talking about the people who demand it with the 1st message,

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By *tanonieMan
over a year ago

killorglin


"We only send face pics if we've chatted for a while and we're planning to meet the person/people

Its just the way we do things.

If someone decides to send us a face pic with their message that's their choice it doesn't obligate us to send ours back to them.

Its totally up to u whether u send ur face pic or not. No-one should demand it from u.

Tina "

Too true Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would only request a face pic if we've been chatting and are considering a meet. Maybe I'm naive but I thought that's what most people done

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

when I first started chating' I was asked for face pic' and 1 would be returned' didn't happen' now they know me and have relatives liven in that town ' now I do kik' still worried about that picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea that's happened to us. But the other couple actually new us!! So now we would be very hesitant to send them unless we're considering a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a button to click where your picture will remove itself after the viewer has seen it tho

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

thanks but not good on computors any way ' it went by email'

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge

We've face pics on here, but only ever gets sent if we're reminding someone who we met at a social who we are, they've been verified by someone we know, or we've been chatting for a while and there's some trust.....

Don't like it? Not our problem....LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only send face pics if we've chatted for a while and we're planning to meet the person/people

Its just the way we do things.

If someone decides to send us a face pic with their message that's their choice it doesn't obligate us to send ours back to them.

Its totally up to u whether u send ur face pic or not. No-one should demand it from u.

Tina

that is spot on, ,, i am just talking about the people who demand it with the 1st message, "

People can demand whatever (within reason) they want on their profile. It's up to those who read the profile whether to go along with it or not.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I think it's just crazy to send or expect a face pic in the first message as we all know there are some weirdos on this site too unfortunately, but I agree with the above its down to you to decide to go along with such a demand or not

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"We only send face pics if we've chatted for a while and we're planning to meet the person/people

Its just the way we do things.

If someone decides to send us a face pic with their message that's their choice it doesn't obligate us to send ours back to them.

Its totally up to u whether u send ur face pic or not. No-one should demand it from u.

Tina "

Exactly this

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a face pic on here.

I have never asked for one either.

If meeting locally and there's no click i would just move on.

There's no harm done either side.

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

my own fault and wont happen again as if they meet and say no' goodbye' move on'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a button to click where your picture will remove itself after the viewer has seen it tho "

Only available to site supporters though.

We only ask for face pics if were considering a meet. Not often that we will actually ask to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see this on a lot of profiles and it wasn't till lately that i made my own rule of only sending a face pic if they have one on there profile and if they only have a body pic i will send a body pic as well,

anybody think this is fear and i would go as far as to say should be the unspoken rule of fab!!!"

Walk on by.

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By *onnieBMan
over a year ago

in the middle of

Not into sending a face pic to a conplete stranger till iv chatted first. To many fake profiles on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its my profile, they're my pics.... i do what i want..... not what others expect.... if they dont like it tough...

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only exchange face pics if arranging a definite meet.

People can demand what they like, it's your choice to comply or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles that demand face pics with first message; like those profiles written in text; tend to fizzle out pretty fast.

If you send a face pic to one you are a fool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea just have to becareful on fab these days seen it alot lately esp under new profiles to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overly demanding but down to the individuals Really...too each their own.........the more desperate of chaps here will likely comply.

I've been asked and have refused until I have been speaking a lot and a meet is on the cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see this a lot on couples & single girl profiles.

"Attach a face pic if messaging"

Why? What right do they have to DEMAND one.

A guys privacy is every bit as important as ours or a single girl.

I know guys get a raw deal here, and to be fair we have given some of it, as we have been let down loads of times, but it still gives us no right to demand a face pic on first message.

We at least chat for a bit, read the profile & veris, then decide if swapping pics is on the agenda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does my profile pic constitute a face picture? depends on how you look at it, I suppose :P

Generally speaking, I have no issues sending a "proper" face picture once there's been a bit of chat first.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Each to their own but personally I Wouldn't be sending a face pic to a stranger. If I'm interested in someone I would arrange to meet for a coffee, after all what's the worst that can happen. ..you meet and there's chemistry then you can arrange to meet again if that's the case. ..at worst you meet someone..There isn't that attraction but you get to chat to someone like minded. ..

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