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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey Fabbers.

Do many women take the first step and message a guy first? Or do you sort through the plague of mails you already have from guys and take your pic?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I do, I prefer to make the first step.

It highly increases the chance of a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem messaging first if someone catches my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have often made the first move.

I look at the profile and read it all.

If I like them I contact him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we were singles here kitty winked my profile. I ignored it then she messaged me. Has been known to happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When we were singles here kitty winked my profile. I ignored it then she messaged me. Has been known to happen "

Nawwww you guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yarp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to get unsolicited mails from girls on here I had 2 last week on this site alone,one commented on the length of my profile text and the other on the content,lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple so, yea, it happens.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we were singles here kitty winked my profile. I ignored it then she messaged me. Has been known to happen "

Magic moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've mailed a few guys that have caught my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rare but it happens

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

I've mailed a few, couples and males. Always feel nervous doing it though, I guess that's coz I'm shy

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we were singles here kitty winked my profile. I ignored it then she messaged me. Has been known to happen

Magic moments. "

Yeah what he didn't mention is that I then continued to message him at every opportunity,until eventually I managed to nab him,and twist his arm and force the feicker to just meet me goddamit. Then I tested his athletic abilities by making him race across a crowded shopping centre from one entrance to the other before dragging him by the hair back to my room and pinning him to the wall to take advantage of his innocence hehehehehe

Now those were magic moments lol

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby


"When we were singles here kitty winked my profile. I ignored it then she messaged me. Has been known to happen

Magic moments.

Yeah what he didn't mention is that I then continued to message him at every opportunity,until eventually I managed to nab him,and twist his arm and force the feicker to just meet me goddamit. Then I tested his athletic abilities by making him race across a crowded shopping centre from one entrance to the other before dragging him by the hair back to my room and pinning him to the wall to take advantage of his innocence hehehehehe

Now those were magic moments lol"

And they say romance is dead

Kitty I like ur style

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we were singles here kitty winked my profile. I ignored it then she messaged me. Has been known to happen

Magic moments.

Yeah what he didn't mention is that I then continued to message him at every opportunity,until eventually I managed to nab him,and twist his arm and force the feicker to just meet me goddamit. Then I tested his athletic abilities by making him race across a crowded shopping centre from one entrance to the other before dragging him by the hair back to my room and pinning him to the wall to take advantage of his innocence hehehehehe

Now those were magic moments lol

And they say romance is dead

Kitty I like ur style

Tina "

Thank u

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about

Yes , definitely, I've received a few from lady's here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if something catches my eye. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep have done a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do i made aload of new friends when i rejoined and had some great chats.

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

I will be honest and say I haven't messaged any of the more popular ppl on here. Kind of "their too popular to want to chat to little ole me" shyness in me

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rare but it happens "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we were singles here kitty winked my profile. I ignored it then she messaged me. Has been known to happen

Magic moments.

Yeah what he didn't mention is that I then continued to message him at every opportunity,until eventually I managed to nab him,and twist his arm and force the feicker to just meet me goddamit. Then I tested his athletic abilities by making him race across a crowded shopping centre from one entrance to the other before dragging him by the hair back to my room and pinning him to the wall to take advantage of his innocence hehehehehe

Now those were magic moments lol

And they say romance is dead

Kitty I like ur style

Tina

Thank u "
so in what time did you run it in tomcat

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I probably get more unsolicited mails than mails I initiate myself.... and only a third or so of those are from guys chancing their arm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im to nervous to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we were singles here kitty winked my profile. I ignored it then she messaged me. Has been known to happen

Magic moments.

Yeah what he didn't mention is that I then continued to message him at every opportunity,until eventually I managed to nab him,and twist his arm and force the feicker to just meet me goddamit. Then I tested his athletic abilities by making him race across a crowded shopping centre from one entrance to the other before dragging him by the hair back to my room and pinning him to the wall to take advantage of his innocence hehehehehe

Now those were magic moments lol

And they say romance is dead

Kitty I like ur style

Tina

Thank u so in what time did you run it in tomcat "

Less then two minutes

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city


"Hey Fabbers.

Do many women take the first step and message a guy first? Or do you sort through the plague of mails you already have from guys and take your pic?"

some women do....I've had my fair share of women message me, and believe it or not I always reply...unlike most of the unsolicited messages I send which usually end up in the bin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably get more unsolicited mails than mails I initiate myself.... and only a third or so of those are from guys chancing their arm "

Mail from your hand asking you to play with yourself doesn't count _ilder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we were singles here kitty winked my profile. I ignored it then she messaged me. Has been known to happen

Magic moments.

Yeah what he didn't mention is that I then continued to message him at every opportunity,until eventually I managed to nab him,and twist his arm and force the feicker to just meet me goddamit. Then I tested his athletic abilities by making him race across a crowded shopping centre from one entrance to the other before dragging him by the hair back to my room and pinning him to the wall to take advantage of his innocence hehehehehe

Now those were magic moments lol

And they say romance is dead

Kitty I like ur style

Tina

Thank u so in what time did you run it in tomcat

Less then two minutes "
took your time so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im to nervous to "
Don't be. Remember, the guy will be nervous too!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"I probably get more unsolicited mails than mails I initiate myself.... and only a third or so of those are from guys chancing their arm

Mail from your hand asking you to play with yourself doesn't count _ilder "

He doesn't mail anymore, he just sneaks up on me and takes full advantage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im to nervous to Don't be. Remember, the guy will be nervous too!"

Poor holly always nervous....I could sort that

Mrs New

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Yes they do, I got a couple of nice "hello and welcome" messages which helped me settle in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im to nervous to Don't be. Remember, the guy will be nervous too!

Poor holly always nervous....I could sort that

Mrs New "

Thanks frank xx

As always you bring a smile mrs newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have often made the first move.

I look at the profile and read it all.

If I like them I contact him. "

Yes, same as what Katie has said, couldn't put it a better way myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little less conversation, a little more action please!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never I'd prob keel over with shock plus there are so many males to females It is females get to choose mostly

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