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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All

Having joined here in good faith a couple of weeks ago something has come to my attention.

How is a "newbie" supposed to become verified if the verified users only seem to stick together. I have over 20 friends am photo verified and am certainly not fake. I mean I have MY preferences too, not just gonna meet for the sake of it. So if I fk someone on here all of a sudden Im a fab guy?

Not taking it to heart or anything just putting it out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need to 'fuck' someone to get verified. Just arrange a coffee/social meet with someone who is reasonably well verified and they can verify you. There's social events every so often for 'newbies' which are a good way to show people you're genuine and to get verified also.

Keep the faith.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^^

Yes what he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes alot of time for us single males join in on the craic in the forums be respectful and be patient if u put in the work you will be rewarded best of luck Op.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah, cant beat a good ol cuppa tea, Thx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

they will be rewarded haha thx la

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask one of your 20 friends to verify you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good idea next time im in the mood to travel 10 miles for a cuppa, when we are not in work I might just do that. Lots of folk just prefer to chat anyways. Good man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yr sorted then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think his goin go far here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

came on for fun, chats, possibly a meet or 2, thanks for being soo friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man, you asked for advice on how to get verified and got some pretty decent advice. You don't have to take it but if your attitude in your messages is as snarky as it is here in the forum, it's no wonder you can't get meets/verifications. If you're not willing to travel ten miles to share a coffee and a chat you've no hope of being invited to share anything else with people on here.

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

20 friends!!! Wow, very impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete your profile and come back when your attitude stinks less!

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

People need to invest for better returns in th future. Yes, travelling 50 miles for a cup of coffee may seem excessive but if it gets you verified it may help get those meets you really want. Alternatively moaning posts on the forum seem to be very popular!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It your serious about meeting good people and not shagging half the site you will calm yourself and do the leg work, takes time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined 'in good faith' of what? You get back what you put in. This site is for socialising too you know.

Incidently you dont want to be a fabguy if your straight?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined in good faith OP....wont travel a few miles for a cuppa to see if lady is ur type and has a rotten attitude to good advice that was given....put ur toys back in the pram and grow up! Nobody on this site owes u anything...if u cant be arsed making an effort why should any lady waste her time with u!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Joined in good faith OP....wont travel a few miles for a cuppa to see if lady is ur type and has a rotten attitude to good advice that was given....put ur toys back in the pram and grow up! Nobody on this site owes u anything...if u cant be arsed making an effort why should any lady waste her time with u!"

Nicely put, seemore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be to delete and try again.

Us single guys have to be willing to go the extra mile on here. Once you do though, you'll be glad.

Oh, and never piss of the girls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been told by 1 or 2 they wont travel for a coffee well boys if u cant do that i have no interest doing anything else wit ye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice would be to delete and try again.

Us single guys have to be willing to go the extra mile on here. Once you do though, you'll be glad.

Oh, and never piss of the girls!"
that works both ways,

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"My advice would be to delete and try again.

Us single guys have to be willing to go the extra mile on here. Once you do though, you'll be glad.

Oh, and never piss of the girls! that works both ways, "

Never yet seen a post from a girl saying she can't get a meet. Suggests that either

The girls all know such posts are a waste of time OR

No girls EVER piss off guys OR

Supply and demand suggests they CAN afford to piss off guys

Although I prefer being pissed ON!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't all the non-verifieds or non-verifiables stick together and have an anti-verification group where you keep all the verified peeps at arm's length until you feel safe with us. You could have your own clique.

Youse could be like the surly teenager in the family?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't all the non-verifieds or non-verifiables stick together and have an anti-verification group where you keep all the verified peeps at arm's length until you feel safe with us. You could have your own clique.

Youse could be like the surly teenager in the family?"

Haha, brilliant. They could even start a union

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice would be to delete and try again.

Us single guys have to be willing to go the extra mile on here. Once you do though, you'll be glad.

Oh, and never piss of the girls! that works both ways,

Never yet seen a post from a girl saying she can't get a meet. Suggests that either

The girls all know such posts are a waste of time OR

No girls EVER piss off guys OR

Supply and demand suggests they CAN afford to piss off guys

Although I prefer being pissed ON!"

It's all about supply and demand here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't all the non-verifieds or non-verifiables stick together and have an anti-verification group where you keep all the verified peeps at arm's length until you feel safe with us. You could have your own clique.

Youse could be like the surly teenager in the family?"

sure they 2 cliques then lol and that be worn ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience my good man. Don't be hasty, try to be original but true to yourself. . you will find its a feast or a famine here but there's some great people to chat to with and have a aul chin wag.

The riding will come in good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't all the non-verifieds or non-verifiables stick together and have an anti-verification group where you keep all the verified peeps at arm's length until you feel safe with us. You could have your own clique.

Youse could be like the surly teenager in the family?

Haha, brilliant. They could even start a union"

Short memories folks?

We were all new once fair enough this guy has an attitude but don't tar everyone with the same stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't all the non-verifieds or non-verifiables stick together and have an anti-verification group where you keep all the verified peeps at arm's length until you feel safe with us. You could have your own clique.

Youse could be like the surly teenager in the family?

Haha, brilliant. They could even start a union

Short memories folks?

We were all new once fair enough this guy has an attitude but don't tar everyone with the same stick. "

I don't think it was a serious suggestion

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By *oodbuddy 51Man
over a year ago

Puerto Rico, Gran Canaria

I have travelled long distances, well over 50 miles to have quality time with friends and find it very rewarding to make the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was six months here before I got my first meet. Its all about patience really because ladies do be swamped in mail and life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give him a break folks. This is a killer place to get started in for a bloke. Id say I sent hundreds of texts to every woman with a heart beat trying to get chatting n then verified. When the first woman agreed to meet ( she was horny n just home from a night out) . I drove at warp speed about 60 miles.

So mate take ur time, chill out , n loose the narky attude,have fun laugh joke ,send a few naughty innuendos ( not hay babe fancy a fuck) and u will get there. N when u get there its realy well worth it. This place is full of realy nice fun people who just happen to like to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have been told by 1 or 2 they wont travel for a coffee well boys if u cant do that i have no interest doing anything else wit ye "
I agree

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