FabSwingers.com forum: ..to much like hard work. .!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...as previously posted I've been here and other sites similar..as a member who is not verified(at this stage! !) I find it a tad anal that I have been excluded to participate in a possible encounter's due to the above. .reason being that I may not have the flexibility that others have..sooo my question is. .is it about time that some people or event's open themselves to the likes of me. ..'unverified'..or whatever. ...anyway. .

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By *lareandjonCouple
over a year ago

clare/limerick

Yes but most messers are unverified we find so hard to blame people

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

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By *lareandjonCouple
over a year ago

clare/limerick

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"...as previously posted I've been here and other sites similar..as a member who is not verified(at this stage! !) I find it a tad anal that I have been excluded to participate in a possible encounter's due to the above. .reason being that I may not have the flexibility that others have..sooo my question is. .is it about time that some people or event's open themselves to the likes of me. ..'unverified'..or whatever. ...anyway. .

Why? If people can find what they want from those already verified, why include others?

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

welcome to the club' there a bit more to then a veri' a long road ahead'but I tell you this' don't lose your sense of humure ' best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally a fabber will arrange a coffee get together for non veried folk which helps

I think kinkyholly had one recently keep an eye out here they come up occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, you come across as rather demanding and a lot of work yourself

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

Get pro-active and organise something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unverifieds tend to cancel last min or not show up, though genuine reasons can be given, this means that a lot of ppl will tend to stick to those that they feel can guarantee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always advising new hotties to stick to genuine..well verified guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually, you come across as rather demanding and a lot of work yourself"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been on site a year and not verified don't understand that. we all have busy lifes but we find the time to have a life also. we all make an effort why can't you. My opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have been on site a year and not verified don't understand that. we all have busy lifes but we find the time to have a life also. we all make an effort why can't you. My opinion

a year unverified rings alarm bells for me.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

The fact, that your profile says you can neither accommodate or travel, probably doesn't help either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact, that your profile says you can neither accommodate or travel, probably doesn't help either"

Have to agree there doesn't help your chances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have been on site a year and not verified don't understand that. we all have busy lifes but we find the time to have a life also. we all make an effort why can't you. My opinion

a year unverified rings alarm bells for me."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unverified peeps tend to be unreliable, fake or no shows, also on one occasion we met an un veried he couldn't perform due to nerves.

We never meet non veried, I know you say you were here before, but so do most new profiles.

Even though you are probably genuine..not worth the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The definition of verified is exactly that a reference good or bad a reliability and character reference a safety option for you and possible future meets

If you are serious once you get verified the rewards will follow. Lurkers timewasters and unreliable people are exactly that till they get verified unfortunately

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Yes I've chatted to a lot of unverivied people n I've been so let down I don't know what they get out of letting people down . Most people r on to meet n have fun not to mess people around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unverified peeps tend to be unreliable, fake or no shows, also on one occasion we met an un veried he couldn't perform due to nerves.

We never meet non veried, I know you say you were here before, but so do most new profiles.

Even though you are probably genuine..not worth the risk."

Just a thought on the word genuine. If someone has been here before and are back complete with new pics and identity it makes them less genuine than if they kept their identify and/or reputation.

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