FabSwingers.com forum: A.M

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So the list is out there up to 30 million names worldwide and the hackers want money to remove peeps individual details .

As the song goes ...

There may be trouble ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What list Yosser ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What list Yosser ??"

Ashley M site members details were hacked

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Oh dear I feel another crusade coming up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What list Yosser ??

Ashley M site members details were hacked "

Never heard of it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear I feel another crusade coming up..."

Saw this this morning..... God if it's true???

There'll be a great money for divorce lawyers on the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was this not in the news last month as well ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was this not in the news last month as well ?"

The hacking was reported last month but the threat to expose occurred overnight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess my name is on that list. No biggie to me as already divorced lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess those married people looking for "excitement" will get their wish now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was this not in the news last month as well ?

The hacking was reported last month but the threat to expose occurred overnight "

thanks for a moment there i thought i was having a spell of Déjà vu

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I guess those married people looking for "excitement" will get their wish now"
harsh to say the least!!....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people it is "harsh" on are their unfortunate partners who are finding out in a very public way that they have been deceived.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I guess those married people looking for "excitement" will get their wish now"

Oh for Gods sake!!! Seriously??? Wishing bad luck or revelling in others misfortune is in poor taste I must say. We all know your opinion on married folk on here but jesus give it a rest already!!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"The people it is "harsh" on are their unfortunate partners who are finding out in a very public way that they have been deceived."
same goes if it happened here to single profiles who have partners permission too ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess those married people looking for "excitement" will get their wish now

Oh for Gods sake!!! Seriously??? Wishing bad luck or revelling in others misfortune is in poor taste I must say. We all know your opinion on married folk on here but jesus give it a rest already!!

I'm not revelling, I have nothing but sympathy for the real victims here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people it is "harsh" on are their unfortunate partners who are finding out in a very public way that they have been deceived.same goes if it happened here to single profiles who have partners permission too ..

Permission means no deceit.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Permission means no deceit. "
the site would not know that though.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I guess those married people looking for "excitement" will get their wish now

Oh for Gods sake!!! Seriously??? Wishing bad luck or revelling in others misfortune is in poor taste I must say. We all know your opinion on married folk on here but jesus give it a rest already!!

I'm not revelling, I have nothing but sympathy for the real victims here"

A victim yourself were you? Your constants digs at married people are never ending!!! Its their buisness, their conscience. Sitting like a judge in a courtroom isnt very becoming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who is on a sex site must understand there is a risk of exposure and be willing to take it. You will be a 5 minute wonder and a source of gossip and then everyone moves on.

The repercussions for someone who finds their partner has been deceiving them and possibly exposing them to STIs without their informed consent is a very different matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess those married people looking for "excitement" will get their wish now

Oh for Gods sake!!! Seriously??? Wishing bad luck or revelling in others misfortune is in poor taste I must say. We all know your opinion on married folk on here but jesus give it a rest already!!

I'm not revelling, I have nothing but sympathy for the real victims here

A victim yourself were you? Your constants digs at married people are never ending!!! Its their buisness, their conscience. Sitting like a judge in a courtroom isnt very becoming

Miss DG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing that one would have to be a victim of cheating to understand the devastation involved

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Anyone whos on a sex site are adults and old enough to make those decisions for themselves and not having someone blowing bullshit at every opportunity when it arises!! Its a fact here that its no ones business what others do, if its not for you then dont venture there!!! Simple answer isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone whos on a sex site are adults and old enough to make those decisions for themselves and not having someone blowing bullshit at every opportunity when it arises!! Its a fact here that its no ones business what others do, if its not for you then dont venture there!!! Simple answer isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My point is that the partners dont get the privilege of making informed decisions. This is a swing site, swinging involves the consent of all parties and cheaters are the antithesis of the concept.

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By *hambambinoWoman
over a year ago

the other one

Who is any one to pass judgement ..... There more people in a person life than partners ..... Getting ur name out there as being on a sex site ANY sex site is gonna have people talking and judging you ..... For those that express options here about other folk who are here for their own reasons and wants is another matter completely ..... Suit ye better to go flick ur own bean coz with that personality u ain't gonna gonna find too many who will wanna do it for ya ..... Hypocrisy is an ugly virtue

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

My point is that the partners dont get the privilege of making informed decisions. This is a swing site, swinging involves the consent of all parties and cheaters are the antithesis of the concept."
it's easy for you to say you have permission your on a single profile that could be your deceit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My point is that the partners dont get the privilege of making informed decisions. This is a swing site, swinging involves the consent of all parties and cheaters are the antithesis of the concept."

If you have no partner can you not be a swinger ?

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

My point is that the partners dont get the privilege of making informed decisions. This is a swing site, swinging involves the consent of all parties and cheaters are the antithesis of the concept."

And id love to rid the world of hunger and have peace forever! The fact is this,, its their buisness how they conduct their lives, not mine or yours, its theirs!

so regardless of your opinion its gonna continue much to your annoyance. Suck it up Casey ye cant win em all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My point is that the partners dont get the privilege of making informed decisions. This is a swing site, swinging involves the consent of all parties and cheaters are the antithesis of the concept.

If you have no partner can you not be a swinger ? "

Then you're someone having ns sex..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My point is that the partners dont get the privilege of making informed decisions. This is a swing site, swinging involves the consent of all parties and cheaters are the antithesis of the concept.it's easy for you to say you have permission your on a single profile that could be your deceit "

I also have a couples profile dear.

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

"I guess those married people looking for "excitement" will get their wish now harsh to say the least!!....

I don't think so, they are finally going to be made accountable for their actions so it's not the site's or even the hackers fault that many families will be ripped apart because of this its the cheaters fault

and it's the unsuspecting spouses that will pay the price

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess those married people looking for "excitement" will get their wish now harsh to say the least!!....

and it's the unsuspecting spouses that will pay the price"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My point is that the partners dont get the privilege of making informed decisions. This is a swing site, swinging involves the consent of all parties and cheaters are the antithesis of the concept.

If you have no partner can you not be a swinger ?

Then you're someone having ns sex.."

And have you a place on this site ?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

My point is that the partners dont get the privilege of making informed decisions. This is a swing site, swinging involves the consent of all parties and cheaters are the antithesis of the concept.it's easy for you to say you have permission your on a single profile that could be your deceit

I also have a couples profile dear."
dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My point is that the partners dont get the privilege of making informed decisions. This is a swing site, swinging involves the consent of all parties and cheaters are the antithesis of the concept.

If you have no partner can you not be a swinger ?

Then you're someone having ns sex..

And have you a place on this site ? "

If you're honest with all your sexual partners, then why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

My point is that the partners dont get the privilege of making informed decisions. This is a swing site, swinging involves the consent of all parties and cheaters are the antithesis of the concept."

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line"

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Oh dear I feel another crusade coming up..."
blessed are the riteous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself everyone else is taken

To live is the rarest thing in the world .Most people exist that is all.

We are all in the gutter , but some of us look at the stars.

Oscar Wilde

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one? "

Youre not getting it!! Is it your buisness what married folk here do? Does it affect you? Going by the previous thread posts youve made I gather thats not the case! So indulge me on how you are going to fix the problem thats so huge to you? Come back to me with the solution

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Oh dear I feel another crusade coming up...blessed are the riteous"
I love you billy boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Pmsl........Casey ..you do realize people write comments just to wind you up on this subject because your reaction is so predictable and that you fall for it is very laughable

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

The fab bubble has seen your opinion time and time again so dont use it as a kop out.if I was as passionate on this subject as you are id try find an answer instead of constantly going on and on about it. Your mind might be at ease then as any topics on here about married folk seem to consume you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pmsl........Casey ..you do realize people write comments just to wind you up on this subject because your reaction is so predictable and that you fall for it is very laughable

Do you think I'm here to do anything but wind people up either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

Feel free to bypass my posts if they upset you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wheels on the bus go round and round .....

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Pmsl........Casey ..you do realize people write comments just to wind you up on this subject because your reaction is so predictable and that you fall for it is very laughable

Do you think I'm here to do anything but wind people up either?"

Then change the subject please.....your wind ups getting boring

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

alf garnett....he lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pmsl........Casey ..you do realize people write comments just to wind you up on this subject because your reaction is so predictable and that you fall for it is very laughable

Do you think I'm here to do anything but wind people up either?

Then change the subject please.....your wind ups getting boring

Then dont read them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same old shit stirring going on

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Nom Nom Nom Nom......pmsl

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

Feel free to bypass my posts if they upset you"

Another kop out, your posts dont upset me at all, theyre tedious as you offer no solution to fix the issue. Its where " put up or shut up" comes into play. Enlighten me when youve gained the knowledge you need regarding this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

Feel free to bypass my posts if they upset you

Here we go, here we go, here we go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

Feel free to bypass my posts if they upset you

If people didn't openly condone it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

Casey ur entirely missing _isdirtygirl's point ... we are all here on fab to have fun in whichever way suits us individually ... not to be judged by anyone ... its very unfortunate that you feel the need to make judgements and negative comments ... my philosophy is if you cant say something nice then say nothing at all ... and as a by-the-by perhaps if you spent more time getting laid instead of posting judgemental comments on here you mightnt be quite so uptight

... just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

... just a thought

More of the forum group think...

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

... just a thought

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im a lover not a fighter....casey lee come here and give us a kiss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

... just a thought

More of the forum group think..."

A wonderfully constructed and articulate response Casey ... very well reasoned out ... thats 30 seconds of my life i will never get back lol

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

... just a thought

More of the forum group think..."

You got the word wrong Casey.....its clique not group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

... just a thought

More of the forum group think...

A wonderfully constructed and articulate response Casey ... very well reasoned out ... thats 30 seconds of my life i will never get back lol"

I've given reasoned and articulate - its wasted here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better to have fucked and be caught than never to have fucked at all ...

Nearly Oscar Wilde

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

Feel free to bypass my posts if they upset you

If people didn't openly condone it...."

Condone it? I dont care! Cant be much plainer than that,,, obviously you do though, more than you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Better to have fucked and be caught than never to have fucked at all ...

Nearly Oscar Wilde

Or it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

... just a thought

More of the forum group think...

A wonderfully constructed and articulate response Casey ... very well reasoned out ... thats 30 seconds of my life i will never get back lol"

And FYI im not in any forum group or whatever ... i rarely post anything and if i do its fun ... your inane repetitive responses on this thread are irritating because it impacts on the fun and liberating aspect of Fab ... thank goodness the majority of Fab folk have their heads in the right place and get on with lots of NSA antics

whilst not concerning themselves with other peoples lives outside of Fab

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

" Better to have fucked and be caught than never to have fucked at all ...

Nearly Oscar Wilde

Or it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.."

Another ideal world comment... I seriously hope you find inner peace regarding married folk.. Burn them at the stake I say!!! Happy then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

... just a thought

More of the forum group think...

A wonderfully constructed and articulate response Casey ... very well reasoned out ... thats 30 seconds of my life i will never get back lol

whilst not concerning themselves with other peoples lives outside of Fab

I'm sorry to have interfered with your escapism.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Oh dear I feel another crusade coming up...blessed are the riteous I love you billy boy"

Ya feckin two timer ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

... just a thought

More of the forum group think...

A wonderfully constructed and articulate response Casey ... very well reasoned out ... thats 30 seconds of my life i will never get back lol

whilst not concerning themselves with other peoples lives outside of Fab

I'm sorry to have interfered with your escapism."

Escapism ... Ouchhhh im hurt ... lol ... any volunteers to come help sooth this pain

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

... just a thought

More of the forum group think...

A wonderfully constructed and articulate response Casey ... very well reasoned out ... thats 30 seconds of my life i will never get back lol

whilst not concerning themselves with other peoples lives outside of Fab

I'm sorry to have interfered with your escapism."

Kiss, fuck!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

... another rather strange fetish getting a kick out of being righteous, judgemental and gleeful...

oh sorry I'm on the wrong thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... another rather strange fetish getting a kick out of being righteous, judgemental and gleeful...

oh sorry I'm on the wrong thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be yourself everyone else is taken

To live is the rarest thing in the world .Most people exist that is all.

We are all in the gutter , but some of us look at the stars.

Oscar Wilde

Nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess those married people looking for "excitement" will get their wish now harsh to say the least!!....

and it's the unsuspecting spouses that will pay the price"

If someone would divorce their partner and break up their family over a cheating incident then they should not have had kids in the first place.

It's a very selfish person who would put themselves before their kids just because their spouse cheated on them and they feel the need for revenge and break up their family. Unfortunately it happens everyday.

My 0.02 cents worth.

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Oh dear I feel another crusade coming up...blessed are the riteous I love you billy boy

Ya feckin two timer ya!

"
what can i say michael...im.a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet Jesus the panties are off today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So are mine..its pantiless Wednesday....should we post a thread.....

..or commando Wednesday for the lads..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im back

What did I miss?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on a very rare occasion I post in the forums but after reading this I thought id just say

Casey you've obviously had a hard road with relationships but jesus woman give it a fucking rest!!!

That is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's on a very rare occasion I post in the forums but after reading this I thought id just say

Casey you've obviously had a hard road with relationships but jesus woman give it a fucking rest!!!

That is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone want a tea break with some cusrtard creams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone want a tea break with some cusrtard creams.

Coffee for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only a matter of time before some disgruntled spouse traces their partner's activity to this site - I dont fancy being in the firing line

Ah well arent you one of the lucky ones then! Overly opinionated and youd be first down

"Overly opinionated" - or just not afraid to have an opinion that isn't the popular one?

I'm merely having an opinion, sorry it doesn't seem to fit with your wonderful bubble of fab where anything goes and actions have no repercussions in the real world.

... just a thought

I'll volunteer to give her a good seeing to if she needs to unwind and de-stress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs stop drawing up the old comments will ya and trying to stir it up again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did I miss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What did I miss?

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fuck all lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs stop drawing up the old comments will ya and trying to stir it up again.

Just trying to get laid like everyone else.

How's this for an idea then? I supply the paddling pool and mud, you two jump in and sort out your differences in a lady-like fashion and I get to have my way with the winner at the end.

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over a year ago

"Ffs stop drawing up the old comments will ya and trying to stir it up again.

Just trying to get laid like everyone else.

How's this for an idea then? I supply the paddling pool and mud, you two jump in and sort out your differences in a lady-like fashion and I get to have my way with the winner at the end. "
I have a big paddling pool. We could team up and both be the post fight entertainment.

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over a year ago

"Ffs stop drawing up the old comments will ya and trying to stir it up again.

Just trying to get laid like everyone else.

How's this for an idea then? I supply the paddling pool and mud, you two jump in and sort out your differences in a lady-like fashion and I get to have my way with the winner at the end. I have a big paddling pool. We could team up and both be the post fight entertainment. "

It's deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs stop drawing up the old comments will ya and trying to stir it up again.

Just trying to get laid like everyone else.

How's this for an idea then? I supply the paddling pool and mud, you two jump in and sort out your differences in a lady-like fashion and I get to have my way with the winner at the end. "
you two? If u wanna get laid then use the proper channels and there's enough mud on here as it is!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean us two? We have to take care of you two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs stop drawing up the old comments will ya and trying to stir it up again.

Just trying to get laid like everyone else.

How's this for an idea then? I supply the paddling pool and mud, you two jump in and sort out your differences in a lady-like fashion and I get to have my way with the winner at the end. you two? If u wanna get laid then use the proper channels and there's enough mud on here as it is!!

"
Proper channels? Do you have an agent or something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ffs stop drawing up the old comments will ya and trying to stir it up again.

Just trying to get laid like everyone else.

It's deal.

Hmmm Frankie and Cork mud wrestling

I sense a bromance developing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like we are going to need a bigger pool and more mud to fit in the egos as well lolz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs stop drawing up the old comments will ya and trying to stir it up again.

Just trying to get laid like everyone else.

It's deal.

Hmmm Frankie and Cork mud wrestling

I sense a bromance developing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as your titie sprinkle lands on the girls and not me then bromance away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As long as your titie sprinkle lands on the girls and not me then bromance away

Im gna leave you 2 to yourselves lads, Id rather watch the lassies

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

casey lee.....will u marry me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear I feel another crusade coming up..."

* bites fist *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear I feel another crusade coming up...

* bites fist *

One needs a like button for comments like this hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've flicked through this post. It is a very interesting thing to read over. Some of us tend to forget or not realise, that someone's opinion is their's and their's alone. Some may agree, some may disagree. The reasons for an opinion are personal and like that opinion they are not to be considered right nor wrong. It saddens me to read some comments made on this thread. Some display very unattractive qualities. That is my opinion. Others see other things. That is their opinion. I'm not here to judge that. I keep seeing people's opinions being attacked and criticised. If that is what floats your boat then so be it. Some of those criticisms come from people who say they are here for 'fun'. If this is the case. Then see others points of view as that, others points of view. You don't have to agree with them but It would be refreshing for those opinions to be respected, as you would appreciate your own to be.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I've flicked through this post. It is a very interesting thing to read over. Some of us tend to forget or not realise, that someone's opinion is their's and their's alone. Some may agree, some may disagree. The reasons for an opinion are personal and like that opinion they are not to be considered right nor wrong. It saddens me to read some comments made on this thread. Some display very unattractive qualities. That is my opinion. Others see other things. That is their opinion. I'm not here to judge that. I keep seeing people's opinions being attacked and criticised. If that is what floats your boat then so be it. Some of those criticisms come from people who say they are here for 'fun'. If this is the case. Then see others points of view as that, others points of view. You don't have to agree with them but It would be refreshing for those opinions to be respected, as you would appreciate your own to be. "

saddens me too that certain posters on this thread constantly bleat about married folk using this site and have not only used this thread to voice their opinions but other threads too. While im very aware of said posters right to opinion, theres no need for it to be shoved down peoples throats either to sit in judgement of anyone, married or otherwise. Its a constant circle thats never ending and fairly tiresome to tell the truth. Truth of the matter is, its not gonna change married people using this site at all and its their buisness and right to use this site as they see fit with no judgement or finger pointing involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum - a meeting or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged.

This is a place where all opinions can be aired. Without fear of attack or ridicule. An opinion is not a judgement. It is just an opinion. I believe that gets mistaken here from time to time.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Forum - a meeting or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged.

This is a place where all opinions can be aired. Without fear of attack or ridicule. An opinion is not a judgement. It is just an opinion. I believe that gets mistaken here from time to time. "

You are quite right about people having opinions but doesn't the same opinion aimed constantly at married folk become a judgement? Cos in my view thats what I see. Ever hear of the saying he who is without sin cast the first stone? Nobody here is blessed enough and when there is ill apologise. Opinions are one thing, judgement is another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forum - a meeting or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged.

This is a place where all opinions can be aired. Without fear of attack or ridicule. An opinion is not a judgement. It is just an opinion. I believe that gets mistaken here from time to time.

I would disagree with what you are saying. An opinion remains an opinion, regardless of how many times it is aired. It's just an opinion. You have aired your opinion. It is out there for everyone to know. There is no right or wrong with your opinion. What I would enjoy seeing is an opinion acknowledged and if one was to vex you so much. Just pass it by. Why waste your energy on something that you feel as a negative impact on you? My feelings are to embrace the positive things in life. Everything that is negative is not good for the mind, body or spirit. I believe if we ignore these things, that we see as negative, our experiences will only become better.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

You sir are missing my point on this whole topic. My opinion is of little value but what matters to me is that other positive forum users are ridiculed for using this site for their own purpose. Hard as it might be for you to agree with me right now as youre a relative newcomer and havent witnessed whats thrown out there. My advice to you and its only my humble advice is watch for yourself on what is opinion and what is judging. Theres a fine line between the 2 that definitely gets confused. On that note, ill bid you goodnight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You sir are missing my point on this whole topic. My opinion is of little value but what matters to me is that other positive forum users are ridiculed for using this site for their own purpose. Hard as it might be for you to agree with me right now as youre a relative newcomer and havent witnessed whats thrown out there. My advice to you and its only my humble advice is watch for yourself on what is opinion and what is judging. Theres a fine line between the 2 that definitely gets confused. On that note, ill bid you goodnight

Please do not presume to know my experience of Fabswingers. I may only be here for 5 weeks this time and in your opinion a newcomer. I have however been a user of this site before over the past few years. I know Fab and its Forums very well. I am also an intelligent man and one that does not suffer fools nor am I swayed by popular opinion.

If you would care to read carefully what I have posted on this thread. I have only expressed my opinion on what I have read on this thread. How you wish to conduct yourself, is entirely up to you. I am putting my opinion out there. If people agree or disagree, that's their prerogative. I will not however debate my opinion. I am not here to debate. I would join a debating society for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs stop drawing up the old comments will ya and trying to stir it up again.

Just trying to get laid like everyone else.

A tag team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place seems to be full of aspiring or semi retired debating club members. ...."I am only giving my opinion. ....I am not debating..... I am...defending my right to.....etc. etc...." WGAF anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and so do some others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not debating but I defend everyones right to free speech. There shall be a time of rumors of things going astray, um, and there shall be a great confusion of where things really are. And nobody will really know where lieth those little things really are. At this time a friend shall lose his friend's hammer and the young shall not know where lieth the things possessed by their fathers, that their fathers put....

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

I have no objection to anyone disagreeing with opinions. I just don't like seeing people being attacked for theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opinions are like assholes, as they say, everyone has one and they all stink. It's a forum and that's what they are for, to discuss things. If you post your opinion and someone else disagrees with it, than get over it. There is no such thing as "I'm just posting my opinion and no one should disagree with it"

If you don't like hearing different opinions or having your own debated by others than it would better not to post your one IMHO.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

EveryOne joins the site for personal reasons..

If your married single attached it's your choice to join.

I'm not going to judge anyone who joins nor do I feel the need to give out or overly express my opinion.

Am I wrong for saying I don't care what others do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"EveryOne joins the site for personal reasons..

If your married single attached it's your choice to join.

I'm not going to judge anyone who joins nor do I feel the need to give out or overly express my opinion.

Am I wrong for saying I don't care what others do?

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and nor should you in my opinion

Never judge unless ye can be judged thyself. Or something along those lines. Not up on my bible shit because I never read that shit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its Never judge a lady by her brother for he has a penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thank god for hotmail and its anonymity...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thank god for hotmail and its anonymity...

You have to be pretty rich to be a site supporter over there lol

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I have no objection to anyone disagreeing with opinions. I just don't like seeing people being attacked for theirs. "

Ahhh come on, there is a difference in expressing your opinion and having a civilized discussion and stuffing your opinion down people's throat for weeks and on every occasion.

If one exposes herself/himself that strongly and aggressively, and spreads his/her opinion in an obsessed missionary way, one doesn't have to be surprised to get attacked.

I really thought people would be a bit more open minded and tolerant on this page but some seem to join here to waggle their fingers at others and play Judge Judy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Judge Judy married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no objection to anyone disagreeing with opinions. I just don't like seeing people being attacked for theirs.

Ahhh come on, there is a difference in expressing your opinion and having a civilized discussion and stuffing your opinion down people's throat for weeks and on every occasion.

If one exposes herself/himself that strongly and aggressively, and spreads his/her opinion in an obsessed missionary way, one doesn't have to be surprised to get attacked.

I really thought people would be a bit more open minded and tolerant on this page but some seem to join here to waggle their fingers at others and play Judge Judy..."

If you're bringing JJ into this, you'd better have your shit together!

JohnSmith @ hotmail . com is going to be a busy boy today.

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over a year ago

"I have no objection to anyone disagreeing with opinions. I just don't like seeing people being attacked for theirs.

Ahhh come on, there is a difference in expressing your opinion and having a civilized discussion and stuffing your opinion down people's throat for weeks and on every occasion.

If one exposes herself/himself that strongly and aggressively, and spreads his/her opinion in an obsessed missionary way, one doesn't have to be surprised to get attacked.

I really thought people would be a bit more open minded and tolerant on this page but some seem to join here to waggle their fingers at others and play Judge Judy..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"EveryOne joins the site for personal reasons..

If your married single attached it's your choice to join.

I'm not going to judge anyone who joins nor do I feel the need to give out or overly express my opinion.

Am I wrong for saying I don't care what others do?

I hear you sista

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By *upoftea2Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.

If you're not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain.

If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.

You're the love that I've looked for, come with me, and escape."

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over a year ago

""If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.

If you're not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain.

If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.

You're the love that I've looked for, come with me, and escape.""

See ya @ O'Malley's...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no objection to anyone disagreeing with opinions. I just don't like seeing people being attacked for theirs.

Ahhh come on, there is a difference in expressing your opinion and having a civilized discussion and stuffing your opinion down people's throat for weeks and on every occasion.

If one exposes herself/himself that strongly and aggressively, and spreads his/her opinion in an obsessed missionary way, one doesn't have to be surprised to get attacked.

I really thought people would be a bit more open minded and tolerant on this page but some seem to join here to waggle their fingers at others and play Judge Judy..."

You've just proved a point. If someone is banging on. Then as an adult, you should ignore them. The bigger person will walk away from aggression and confrontation. Yet you have admitted that you have seen people attacked for their opinions. Just goes to show. Some find that acceptable and will watch it happen. Whether someone's views or opinions differ, they don't deserve to be attacked. That's what I will stand up for.

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over a year ago

"Forum - a meeting or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged.

This is a place where all opinions can be aired. Without fear of attack or ridicule. An opinion is not a judgement. It is just an opinion. I believe that gets mistaken here from time to time. "

This is a site that does NOT prevent those in relationships from engaging with others.

Having an opinion is fine, but when you use that opinion to attack the above people on a regular basis, it becomes a witch hunt.

Give your opinion, but do not judge others unless you have walked a day in their shoes.

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By *upoftea2Man
over a year ago

Dublin

""If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.

If you're not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain.

If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.

You're the love that I've looked for, come with me, and escape."

See ya @ O'Malley's..."

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I have no objection to anyone disagreeing with opinions. I just don't like seeing people being attacked for theirs.

Ahhh come on, there is a difference in expressing your opinion and having a civilized discussion and stuffing your opinion down people's throat for weeks and on every occasion.

If one exposes herself/himself that strongly and aggressively, and spreads his/her opinion in an obsessed missionary way, one doesn't have to be surprised to get attacked.

I really thought people would be a bit more open minded and tolerant on this page but some seem to join here to waggle their fingers at others and play Judge Judy...

When that opinion is expressed and forced at every opportunity weather warranted or not it becomes bulling and that is what has happened in this case people got sick of it and stood up to be counted. I agree it would be better at times to walk away but there are times u have to make a stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look. I've said my piece. There is nothing else to say. We're just going round in circles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look. I've said my piece. There is nothing else to say. We're just going round in circles

Wanna come sit beside me and we can keep each other company ... i can bring the popcorn lol

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over a year ago

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

we live and die by our own choices or actions so if people choose to cheat thats there business but if they also get caught thats their problem too..

on here i think the main problem people have to cheaters is that very few of them are up front about it therefore denying people of there choice of not meeting attached people. but there is also hypocrisy very few cpls will meet attached men but they will meet attached women no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we live and die by our own choices or actions so if people choose to cheat thats there business but if they also get caught thats their problem too..

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny how people get so upset when someone's opinion doesn't validate their own questionable lifestyle choices.

Cheating is human nature in many respects but also can be quite shitty depending on the circumstances. A difficult topic.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And meanwhile back at the double standards ranch..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's funny how people get so upset when someone's opinion doesn't validate their own questionable lifestyle choices.

Cheating is human nature in many respects but also can be quite shitty depending on the circumstances. A difficult topic. "

It's really not. If you cheat you bring someone into the relationship without your partner's consent. All you need is empathy to understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess those married people looking for "excitement" will get their wish now

Oh for Gods sake!!! Seriously??? Wishing bad luck or revelling in others misfortune is in poor taste I must say. We all know your opinion on married folk on here but jesus give it a rest already!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's funny how people get so upset when someone's opinion doesn't validate their own questionable lifestyle choices.

Cheating is human nature in many respects but also can be quite shitty depending on the circumstances. A difficult topic.

It's really not. If you cheat you bring someone into the relationship without your partner's consent. All you need is empathy to understand."

It's not human nature or its not shitty????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a difficult topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All black and white, not one shade, never mind 50 shades of grey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All black and white, not one shade, never mind 50 shades of grey? "

I'd say yes. Tell me how it's grey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok a sexless marriage could be one example. There is clearly a block in the flow of empathy to begin with in that case.

Many couples choose to turn a blind eye on cheating. Commonly portrayed on TV, the powerful man and his happy to assume the lifestyle and tolerate his mistresses woman...who is probably shagging her personal trainer herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok a sexless marriage could be one example. There is clearly a block in the flow of empathy to begin with in that case.

So if you're in a sexless relationship you have the right to cheat because your partner isn't empathetic? No. If your partner doesn't know you're having sex outside the relationship, it's cheating.

If one half of a couple "chooses to turn a blind eye" then unless the straying partner is relaying basic information back to the other half of the couple, IT'S CHEATING.

Does either of these sound like a relationship you'd want to be in? Feck that, I'd leave.

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

candystore....lets get married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know they are defined as cheating!

I'm showing that these things are complicated, not condoning them absolutely.

Just examples where it's not a harmonious relationship being ruined by the greedy actions of one party at the expense of a totally innocent and loving other half.

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"candystore....lets get married"

You'd have to change your name so we could be Candy Willy...

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over a year ago

"I know they are defined as cheating!

I'm showing that these things are complicated, not condoning them absolutely.

Just examples where it's not a harmonious relationship being ruined by the greedy actions of one party at the expense of a totally innocent and loving other half.

Then leave! They aren't complicated at all.

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over a year ago

I'm not in these fictitious relationships

We all know the definition of cheating. I'm saying the reasons aren't black and white like you say they are.

What is the back and white of this?

All people cheat because they are selfish? They lack empathy?

You could argue that both ways in the sexless marriage scenario.

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over a year ago

"I'm not in these fictitious relationships

We all know the definition of cheating. I'm saying the reasons aren't black and white like you say they are.

What is the back and white of this?

All people cheat because they are selfish? They lack empathy?

You could argue that both ways in the sexless marriage scenario.

People make reasons fit, they like to think it disguises their dishonesty.

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over a year ago

Is this thing still going. I see candy has hit wide open throttle. I can see her point cheating is cheating but what if still want to be with your partner and forgive. There is a difference between love and lust. If I fuck a hooker is that cheating or just lust?

I have been cheated on and forgave her back in my 20's when I was young dumb and ugly. Completely the opposite of what most that age would do, but I loved her and still do. And I have cheated too. It happens to just about everyone.

It's not the end of the world or a reason to throw the baby out with the bath water if you really like someone, and if you do you forgive I think.

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"Is this thing still going. I see candy has hit wide open throttle. I can see her point cheating is cheating but what if still want to be with your partner and forgive. There is a difference between love and lust. If I fuck a hooker is that cheating or just lust?

It's not the end of the world or a reason to throw the baby out with the bath water if you really like someone, and if you do you forgive I think."

That's up to the partner. If your partner doesn't know you're fucking a hooker. It's cheating.

I also agree that depending on the depth of deception & the depth of the relationship it may be able to be forgiven. But it will nevereverevereverever be forgotten.

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over a year ago

Oooh you drive a hard bargain there girl.

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"I'm not in these fictitious relationships

We all know the definition of cheating. I'm saying the reasons aren't black and white like you say they are.

What is the back and white of this?

All people cheat because they are selfish? They lack empathy?

You could argue that both ways in the sexless marriage scenario.

People make reasons fit, they like to think it disguises their dishonesty."

So you give zero credit to the circumstances people are in to understand their behaviour?

They are either fundamentally honest or dishonest, good or bad?

Life isn't that simplistic, I don't think.

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over a year ago

What we need are a few fabbers in differing positions. A fuck buddy couple, a long term couple, A couple of "singles" that are here with & without their partners knowledge & a couple of singles, then we've got a discussion. My guess is that we could boil it all down to a one word answer.

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It's not the end of the world or a reason to throw the baby out with the bath water if you really like someone, and if you do you forgive I think.

That's up to the partner. If your partner doesn't know you're fucking a hooker. It's cheating.

I also agree that depending on the depth of deception & the depth of the relationship it may be able to be forgiven. But it will nevereverevereverever be forgotten."

Well I did do the wrong thing and beat the guy up, and in hindsight it was not his fault and I was the idiot. I was only like 25 and knew shit about shit and realtionshits as well. That's not a typo.

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over a year ago

"I'm not in these fictitious relationships

We all know the definition of cheating. I'm saying the reasons aren't black and white like you say they are.

What is the back and white of this?

All people cheat because they are selfish? They lack empathy?

You could argue that both ways in the sexless marriage scenario.

People make reasons fit, they like to think it disguises their dishonesty.

So you give zero credit to the circumstances people are in to understand their behaviour?

They are either fundamentally honest or dishonest, good or bad?

Life isn't that simplistic, I don't think. "

I'm not sure honest=good & bad=dishonest but no I don't give credit for the ingenuity of someone's excuse as to why they are deceitful.

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It's not the end of the world or a reason to throw the baby out with the bath water if you really like someone, and if you do you forgive I think.

That's up to the partner. If your partner doesn't know you're fucking a hooker. It's cheating.

I also agree that depending on the depth of deception & the depth of the relationship it may be able to be forgiven. But it will nevereverevereverever be forgotten.

Well I did do the wrong thing and beat the guy up, and in hindsight it was not his fault and I was the idiot. I was only like 25 and knew shit about shit and realtionshits as well. That's not a typo.

Did the guy you beat up know she was already in a relationship with you at the time?

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Well it was his fault because he got her d*unk to take advantage of her, but still, she should have known better and had more will power. So should have I. But hey, we were 20 something. That's what happens. No biggie.

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"Well it was his fault because he got her d*unk to take advantage of her, but still, she should have known better and had more will power. So should have I. But hey, we were 20 something. That's what happens. No biggie."

I wouldn't agree. It was her fault, not his. Unless he forced drink down her.

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"I'm not sure honest=good & bad=dishonest but no I don't give credit for the ingenuity of someone's excuse as to why they are deceitful. "

You are just twisting my words now.

Sometimes excuses are excuses, sometimes there is a real reason behind them.

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over a year ago

Yeah well you know what I mean then.

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"I'm not sure honest=good & bad=dishonest but no I don't give credit for the ingenuity of someone's excuse as to why they are deceitful.

You are just twisting my words now.

Sometimes excuses are excuses, sometimes there is a real reason behind them.

Behind what, The excuses?

Nah, there's just dishonesty.

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over a year ago

Forget it

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over a year ago

Is it over?

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