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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats this about. Some so naked photos list what they like and want and then say they only want to chat. That's what Costa Coffee is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a challenge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like a challenge but not forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't you ignore them n move onto someone more suited to what you are looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the thing is .... some people like to chat a bit first , to try and gague a personality and whether its likely there is anything in common . The biggest turn off for lots of people is someone who launches into wanting to meet coming off as either desperate or just the type who would fuck anything .

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

Everyone has their own reasons how and why, what they want to do or dont want to do, from this site....live and let live!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The fun is in the chase but how long does the chase last for. Do some here actually want to meet people of just get a buzz from being wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not sure how it is for men , but from a womans point of view , if she was to meet every tom dick or harry who gave chase for all of 5 mins , then she would be fucked solid 24 / 7 . Makes sense for a woman to do her due dilligance first , however long that may take , it differs from person to person .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not sure how it is for men , but from a womans point of view , if she was to meet every tom dick or harry who gave chase for all of 5 mins , then she would be fucked solid 24 / 7 . Makes sense for a woman to do her due dilligance first , however long that may take , it differs from person to person . "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im not sure how it is for men , but from a womans point of view , if she was to meet every tom dick or harry who gave chase for all of 5 mins , then she would be fucked solid 24 / 7 . Makes sense for a woman to do her due dilligance first , however long that may take , it differs from person to person .

Good answer. I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not sure how it is for men , but from a womans point of view , if she was to meet every tom dick or harry who gave chase for all of 5 mins , then she would be fucked solid 24 / 7 . Makes sense for a woman to do her due dilligance first , however long that may take , it differs from person to person . "

As always..very very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not sure how it is for men , but from a womans point of view , if she was to meet every tom dick or harry who gave chase for all of 5 mins , then she would be fucked solid 24 / 7 . Makes sense for a woman to do her due dilligance first , however long that may take , it differs from person to person . "

Nicely put, not to mention how bad a lot of that fucking would probably be...

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway


"the thing is .... some people like to chat a bit first , to try and gague a personality and whether its likely there is anything in common . The biggest turn off for lots of people is someone who launches into wanting to meet coming off as either desperate or just the type who would fuck anything . "

We are the opposite, we don't see the point in chatting back and forth for ages when a simple coffee meet will let you know if your suited or not, and I hate chatting to a couple going through the usual lists of likes and dislikes and then you find out its just a single guy pretending to be a couple!

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

Perhaps this said 'girlie' you are chatting to, isn't attracted to you and doesn't wish to be as blunt as to say directly...

On another point I personally find these 'i can't get a meet/ women on here are prick teasing / attention seeking threads' somewhat bore some ....rant over lol

Apples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take it as it is. They only want to chat.

If you start thinking they are playing hard to get and you spend many weeks just chatting, don't blame them. Because they did say they're only here to chat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only here to chat.... But I don't say it cos I'm partial to the odd ride ..sometimes...even ones that are not odd at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm retired and just chatting to people I already know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here to chat.... But I don't say it cos I'm partial to the odd ride ..sometimes...even ones that are not odd at all... "

Pmsl

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

I understand what you're saying but it's a forum after all, chat is 101

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here to chat.... But I don't say it cos I'm partial to the odd ride ..sometimes...even ones that are not odd at all... "

This made me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust u lowland in ur wellies pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say i prefer to chat to someone and get to know them before meeting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are we to judge anyone else here,if people are here for chat only and it doesn't suit us just move onto someone else more suitable .No one is forcing anyone to chat if they don't want but tbh we ve had some great chat with lots of people who we will never meet .Wheres the harm ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there is a ol saying...

All talk and no action...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who are we to judge anyone else here,if people are here for chat only and it doesn't suit us just move onto someone else more suitable .No one is forcing anyone to chat if they don't want but tbh we ve had some great chat with lots of people who we will never meet .Wheres the harm ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people really mean it.

Some people like to pick people themselves rather than deal with the constant stream on 'wanna fuck' messages.

I'd suggest either way doesn't make any difference, it means they don't want to meet you. Move on there are plenty more fish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people really mean it.

Some people like to pick people themselves rather than deal with the constant stream on 'wanna fuck' messages.

I'd suggest either way doesn't make any difference, it means they don't want to meet you. Move on there are plenty more fish. "

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

well judging by the very low numbers in the chat rooms recently i'm not sure that people are even chatting.

Have popped my head in a few times the last week to find 3 and 4 people in the room.

Sad considering what numbers it used to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well judging by the very low numbers in the chat rooms recently i'm not sure that people are even chatting.

Have popped my head in a few times the last week to find 3 and 4 people in the room.

Sad considering what numbers it used to have."

A lot have moved onto the kik group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well judging by the very low numbers in the chat rooms recently i'm not sure that people are even chatting.

Have popped my head in a few times the last week to find 3 and 4 people in the room.

Sad considering what numbers it used to have."

It'll pick up again once kids are back in school. At least I hope it will, love the craic in chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well judging by the very low numbers in the chat rooms recently i'm not sure that people are even chatting.

Have popped my head in a few times the last week to find 3 and 4 people in the room.

Sad considering what numbers it used to have."

Are the 3_4 people you see chatting? I remember not so long ago chat rooms with 60/70/80 maybe 100 or more in the room,but again only 3_4 actually chatting.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"well judging by the very low numbers in the chat rooms recently i'm not sure that people are even chatting.

Have popped my head in a few times the last week to find 3 and 4 people in the room.

Sad considering what numbers it used to have.

It'll pick up again once kids are back in school. At least I hope it will, love the craic in chat"

Possibly.. That could be the kids using the school computer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm retired and just chatting to people I already know. "

Pull the other one

You can stay in touch via whatsapp, kik, viber

You love the attention admit it

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West


"well judging by the very low numbers in the chat rooms recently i'm not sure that people are even chatting.

Have popped my head in a few times the last week to find 3 and 4 people in the room.

Sad considering what numbers it used to have.

Are the 3_4 people you see chatting? I remember not so long ago chat rooms with 60/70/80 maybe 100 or more in the room,but again only 3_4 actually chatting."

It only takes a half dozen in the room actually chatting to make it feel ok but yeah i never get the lurkers sitting there either and saying nothing.

Makes you wonder what they could be up to

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"well judging by the very low numbers in the chat rooms recently i'm not sure that people are even chatting.

Have popped my head in a few times the last week to find 3 and 4 people in the room.

Sad considering what numbers it used to have.

Are the 3_4 people you see chatting? I remember not so long ago chat rooms with 60/70/80 maybe 100 or more in the room,but again only 3_4 actually chatting.

It only takes a half dozen in the room actually chatting to make it feel ok but yeah i never get the lurkers sitting there either and saying nothing.

Makes you wonder what they could be up to "

Wankers, the lot of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are only doing social meets only and have been accused of being time wasters when it says on two parts of our profile at the moment it's only social meets we be doing for a while.just because we are not playing at the moment doesn't make it less swinging for us

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

whats the problem with being here only to chat ? maybe they are taking a break from meeting and keeping in touch with people or what ever you don't have to fuck people to use the site. its funny because if someone meets to many people they are wrong and if they don't meet anyone they shouldn't be on the site lol

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"im not sure how it is for men , but from a womans point of view , if she was to meet every tom dick or harry who gave chase for all of 5 mins , then she would be fucked solid 24 / 7 . Makes sense for a woman to do her due dilligance first , however long that may take , it differs from person to person . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to hash to anybody that will listen to me lol

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