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"Throwing in the towel on my marriage a few years back. Turned out my biggest mistake (after getting married in the first place) was "working on it" for so long. " I know that feeling,especially when ur being made to feel that u are the reason its all fucked up and wrong. Definitely a great feeling to turn around and say,actually no,theres two responsible but only one of us trying to sort it,so go ram ur blame up ur hole and set fire to it. Finally being done with it all gives such a feeling of freedom | |||
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"Throwing in the towel on my marriage a few years back. Turned out my biggest mistake (after getting married in the first place) was "working on it" for so long. I know that feeling,especially when ur being made to feel that u are the reason its all fucked up and wrong. Definitely a great feeling to turn around and say,actually no,theres two responsible but only one of us trying to sort it,so go ram ur blame up ur hole and set fire to it. Finally being done with it all gives such a feeling of freedom "  | |||
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"Throwing in the towel on my marriage a few years back. Turned out my biggest mistake (after getting married in the first place) was "working on it" for so long. " Turn out my biggest mistake was ending my marriage. If only I knew how vindictive and nasty my ex turned out to be. She has totally destroyed my life financially and even tried to get me locked up in jail for years on false charges. That alone took 2 years to have the case dismissed but cost me my business, cars and now my house is going down the tubes as well. Bad move divorcing her. I would have been much better off staying married to that nasty piece of crap and if I had my time over I would.  | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!! "Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut. | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut."Now you tell me.  I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight. | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Now you tell me. I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight."Yep - marry for the wrong reasons and you will pay for it | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Now you tell me. I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight."You sir are an idiot....
I don't quit at anything, however, I don't make stupid, rash decisions. | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Now you tell me. I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight.
You sir are an idiot....
I don't quit at anything, however, I don't make stupid, rash decisions. "Yes I know. I've done all the dumb things. Tell me about it.  | |||
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"When was the last time u quit something?? Smoking, drink, drugs, job, relationship, sweets whatever!! 6 years ago i quit smoking. Woke up one morning and just said fuck it i quit... smashed all me lovely fags in half. Best decision iv made. So ur turn?" Trying to quit myself but just can't seems to turn that corner. The crazy thing is I run 50-60Kms a weeks and after a long run the first thing I was is a smoke  | |||
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"Two months ago, tonight, I smoked my last ever cigarette. I'm thrilled to be a non smoker - finally! "Same here 25 a day habit finished on the e cig now and almost off that also feel like a new man  | |||
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On a more serious note i left school early for because of an undiagnosed issues which was a huge mistake on my part and others. Going back to school and finishing college as an adult did however prove its never to late to give up or start something if you have the will power | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Now you tell me. I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight.
You sir are an idiot....
I don't quit at anything, however, I don't make stupid, rash decisions.
Yes I know. I've done all the dumb things. Tell me about it. "If you only married her so she could stay in Australia. Why are you in living here now? | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Now you tell me. I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight.
You sir are an idiot....
I don't quit at anything, however, I don't make stupid, rash decisions.
Yes I know. I've done all the dumb things. Tell me about it.
If you only married her so she could stay in Australia. Why are you in living here now? "I'm guessing because she stayed in Australia!!!! | |||
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"Quit Ireland for a sunnier climite four years ago. Never looked back. Still return home three times a year. Still call Ireland home. " Would love to do this but simply haven't the cahones to do so. It's been our dream for years... | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Now you tell me. I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight.
You sir are an idiot....
I don't quit at anything, however, I don't make stupid, rash decisions.
Yes I know. I've done all the dumb things. Tell me about it.
If you only married her so she could stay in Australia. Why are you in living here now?
I'm guessing because she stayed in Australia!!!!" | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut."Weddings are a complete animal!! I knew though it wasn't right and I wasn't happy. Once I make up my mind, that's it! No going back. It wasn't a bad relationship or anything. there was just something missing. I regret the heartache that I caused to my fiancé. That was the worst part of it. Hurting her. In time though, she will realise it was the best thing to do. She may even say hello to me in passing!! We are only here once, it is our lives. I believe that pure selfishness is required for some decisions, this was one of those times. | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Now you tell me. I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight.
You sir are an idiot....
I don't quit at anything, however, I don't make stupid, rash decisions.
Yes I know. I've done all the dumb things. Tell me about it.
If you only married her so she could stay in Australia. Why are you in living here now?
I'm guessing because she stayed in Australia!!!!
"No she lives here, only about 10 minutes away. Not far enough. It was because a crazy psycho fell in love with me and deep love can turn into deep hate when it all ends as they say. | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Now you tell me. I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight.
You sir are an idiot....
I don't quit at anything, however, I don't make stupid, rash decisions.
Yes I know. I've done all the dumb things. Tell me about it.
If you only married her so she could stay in Australia. Why are you in living here now? "I was tricked into coming here but now Ireland is my home. There is nothing for me in oz. | |||
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"I quiet coffee for two weeks but my mum always thought me never to be a quitter so mum I'm doing you proud and I'm back on the coffee
On a more serious note i left school early for because of an undiagnosed issues which was a huge mistake on my part and others. Going back to school and finishing college as an adult did however prove its never to late to give up or start something if you have the will power " | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Weddings are a complete animal!! I knew though it wasn't right and I wasn't happy. Once I make up my mind, that's it! No going back. It wasn't a bad relationship or anything. there was just something missing. I regret the heartache that I caused to my fiancé. That was the worst part of it. Hurting her. In time though, she will realise it was the best thing to do. She may even say hello to me in passing!!
We are only here once, it is our lives. I believe that pure selfishness is required for some decisions, this was one of those times."It's not selfish at all to call off a wedding that you feel would be a mistake - quite the contrary in fact. | |||
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quit my marriage nearly 6 years ago no regrets on either decision both were bad for me  | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Weddings are a complete animal!! I knew though it wasn't right and I wasn't happy. Once I make up my mind, that's it! No going back. It wasn't a bad relationship or anything. there was just something missing. I regret the heartache that I caused to my fiancé. That was the worst part of it. Hurting her. In time though, she will realise it was the best thing to do. She may even say hello to me in passing!!
We are only here once, it is our lives. I believe that pure selfishness is required for some decisions, this was one of those times.
It's not selfish at all to call off a wedding that you feel would be a mistake - quite the contrary in fact."Not selfish as in that way but selfish as in, it's my life. I need to be single minded and think if this was right for me or not. | |||
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"Quit the cigarettes nearly 12 years ago. Pregnancy hormones are great quit my marriage nearly 6 years ago no regrets on either decision both were bad for me "Good on you x | |||
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"Quit the cigarettes nearly 12 years ago. Pregnancy hormones are great quit my marriage nearly 6 years ago no regrets on either decision both were bad for me "Good for you MissC, I was reducing the bad things in my life and the I found FAB! | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Now you tell me. I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight.
You sir are an idiot....
I don't quit at anything, however, I don't make stupid, rash decisions.
Yes I know. I've done all the dumb things. Tell me about it.
If you only married her so she could stay in Australia. Why are you in living here now?
I'm guessing because she stayed in Australia!!!!
No she lives here, only about 10 minutes away. Not far enough. It was because a crazy psycho fell in love with me and deep love can turn into deep hate when it all ends as they say."That works both ways. Ive had just as much crap to put up with from a vindictive spiteful man. Whatever I lost only has monetary value. And I still have dignity and self respect and enough time, I hope you enjoy life to the full. | |||
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"Quit the cigarettes nearly 12 years ago. Pregnancy hormones are great quit my marriage nearly 6 years ago no regrets on either decision both were bad for me
Good for you MissC, I was reducing the bad things in my life and the I found FAB! "Ha ha it's not that bad some lovely people here and can be therapeutic  | |||
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" Ha ha it's not that bad some lovely people here and can be therapeutic "Lol, no I have to say, 99.9% of people on here are pretty cool and it is a bit therapeutic, good to know I'm not the only perve in the village!  | |||
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" Ha ha it's not that bad some lovely people here and can be therapeutic
Lol, no I have to say, 99.9% of people on here are pretty cool and it is a bit therapeutic, good to know I'm not the only perve in the village! "Certainly not you need to drop that towel | |||
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" Ha ha it's not that bad some lovely people here and can be therapeutic
Lol, no I have to say, 99.9% of people on here are pretty cool and it is a bit therapeutic, good to know I'm not the only perve in the village!
Certainly not you need to drop that towel "
lol, If I dropped the towel I'd be giving all the goodies away for free and I do love a good tease
Besides, it a great convo starter, how are you? | |||
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" Ha ha it's not that bad some lovely people here and can be therapeutic
Lol, no I have to say, 99.9% of people on here are pretty cool and it is a bit therapeutic, good to know I'm not the only perve in the village!
Certainly not you need to drop that towel
lol, If I dropped the towel I'd be giving all the goodies away for free and I do love a good tease
Besides, it a great convo starter, how are you? "I'm enjoying some great views today | |||
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" I'm enjoying some great views today "Indeed MissC, the views are amazing today. back at ya! | |||
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"We quit fab last year we took a break from all the crap ! Best thing we could have done ! It showed us what we want and now wer back and ready for all the fun "Your post does not make sense Basically you are saying you are not good at quitting. If it was the best thing why did you come back? | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Now you tell me. I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight.
You sir are an idiot....
I don't quit at anything, however, I don't make stupid, rash decisions.
Yes I know. I've done all the dumb things. Tell me about it.
If you only married her so she could stay in Australia. Why are you in living here now?
I'm guessing because she stayed in Australia!!!!
No she lives here, only about 10 minutes away. Not far enough. It was because a crazy psycho fell in love with me and deep love can turn into deep hate when it all ends as they say.
That works both ways. Ive had just as much crap to put up with from a vindictive spiteful man. Whatever I lost only has monetary value. And I still have dignity and self respect and enough time, I hope you enjoy life to the full.
"Well I'm glad someone can relate. A bunny boiler is as hard to remove from your life as a bum wisdom tooth is with no local anesthesia. Thanks, I will rebuild my life and you are right, it's nothing that money can't fix, or even just a shit job working for someone else possibly. When the lawyers, the state and my ex leave me alone I do pretty good at making paper. I'll just do it all again only this time it will be bigger better faster stronger
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"I quiet coffee for two weeks but my mum always thought me never to be a quitter so mum I'm doing you proud and I'm back on the coffee "Holy shit if we quit coffee we would cranky motherfuckers. Cant survive without it. On a serious note I tomcat would love to quit smoking | |||
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Some have had it harder than more but time heels *most wounds.
If quitting betters yourself or your situation then quitting is better than any of the alternatives. | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Now you tell me. I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight.
You sir are an idiot....
I don't quit at anything, however, I don't make stupid, rash decisions.
Yes I know. I've done all the dumb things. Tell me about it. "You'll learn from that anyway....!  | |||
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"My engagement! I quit 3 weeks before the wedding. Best decision I've ever made!!
Good call! It's easy to be swept along by social pressure - listen to your gut.
Now you tell me. I only married my ex so she could stay in Australia. I guess it was for the wrong reasons in hindsight.
You sir are an idiot....
I don't quit at anything, however, I don't make stupid, rash decisions.
Yes I know. I've done all the dumb things. Tell me about it.
If you only married her so she could stay in Australia. Why are you in living here now?
I'm guessing because she stayed in Australia!!!!
No she lives here, only about 10 minutes away. Not far enough. It was because a crazy psycho fell in love with me and deep love can turn into deep hate when it all ends as they say.
That works both ways. Ive had just as much crap to put up with from a vindictive spiteful man. Whatever I lost only has monetary value. And I still have dignity and self respect and enough time, I hope you enjoy life to the full.
Well I'm glad someone can relate. A bunny boiler is as hard to remove from your life as a bum wisdom tooth is with no local anesthesia.
Thanks, I will rebuild my life and you are right, it's nothing that money can't fix, or even just a shit job working for someone else possibly. When the lawyers, the state and my ex leave me alone I do pretty good at making paper. I'll just do it all again only this time it will be bigger better faster stronger
I hope things are working out for you too "Yes they are | |||
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"I quiet sweets and all crap food 4 years ago and than after year I quit my diet haha But something more important for myself.. I 7 years ago quit physician what neede after some accident.. It was my best quit ever as I learn deal with stuff and it made me believe in myself and that Im strong enough to deal with shites what life,but mostly people give and do to others..." | |||
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"Quit the cigarettes nearly 12 years ago. Pregnancy hormones are great quit my marriage nearly 6 years ago no regrets on either decision both were bad for me
Good for you MissC, I was reducing the bad things in my life and the I found FAB!
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