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By *hocoholic OP   Woman
over a year ago

The big D

Guys I'm newish to forum & iv just been told that forums are public & anyone not registered can read posts (pics are blurred). Now iv also just seen 2 posts, 1st gave a guest list & 2nd gave a rough description of where party is at.

Is it just me or am I thinking this is bang out of order. I think all these details (guest list & address) should be sent to the ppl who are attending party, sure what business is it if others whose on & where, if their not going. Privacy is key in here I think. What do u think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't see any guest list? But yes they're on public display if posted on forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't see any guest list? But yes they're on public display if posted on forum"
my apologies just seen do they know they posted it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't seen any guest list up but have seen dogging locations given on a few threads tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums OP...

Yes I can never understand why the forums can be viewed by non site members...

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By *hocoholic OP   Woman
over a year ago

The big D


"Didn't see any guest list? But yes they're on public display if posted on forum"

Guest list was posted just previous to venue details. I know exact details of address wasn't on it but don't think it would take a genius to see date & description of building & of course the cars etc on night to figure out. Everyone else uses discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't see any guest list? But yes they're on public display if posted on forum

Guest list was posted just previous to venue details. I know exact details of address wasn't on it but don't think it would take a genius to see date & description of building & of course the cars etc on night to figure out. Everyone else uses discretion. "
maybe let them know and they can remove the thread xx

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

Indeed far too much detail at times....or guys asking where the dogging spots are!! Wouldn't be dogging spots for long...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't see any guest list? But yes they're on public display if posted on forum

Guest list was posted just previous to venue details. I know exact details of address wasn't on it but don't think it would take a genius to see date & description of building & of course the cars etc on night to figure out. Everyone else uses discretion. maybe let them know and they can remove the thread xx "

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By *hocoholic OP   Woman
over a year ago

The big D


"Indeed far too much detail at times....or guys asking where the dogging spots are!! Wouldn't be dogging spots for long..."

Iv no prob with dogging sites as part of fun is prob public display & no one really would be interested in spying or if they are it for their own kicks. But iv heard of stories of newspapers etc trying to track down these parties so with so much details, it's just real odd & kinda worrying especially when they should've done in privately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Indeed far too much detail at times....or guys asking where the dogging spots are!! Wouldn't be dogging spots for long...

Iv no prob with dogging sites as part of fun is prob public display & no one really would be interested in spying or if they are it for their own kicks. But iv heard of stories of newspapers etc trying to track down these parties so with so much details, it's just real odd & kinda worrying especially when they should've done in privately. "

Humm that is a difficult one!

If this was the uk or germany! It is standard practice to post guest lists, as the general view in these countries is it is noones business what consenting people do.

Yet in ireland its still seen as nudge nudge wink wink! Hide behiend the curtains and gossip time.

The said guest list has user names! Not actual names so why is it a problem?

Oh the news papers may get wind of it??

Humm so what! What are they going to say...headline group of consenting adults hold sex party!! Again so what.

As proved last year when a paper in cork held such a headline and radio stations talked about a meet and greet! And to their shock most people rang in and said so what! And this is not news.

The only way to fight this is to shrg your shoulders and go ehh!

Yes of course there is some need of privacy! But if we were "found out" and put on a paper one wed prob sue, and two were married not cheating, grown ass adults and most of our friends esp the blokes would say wow go u2

Bottom line we dont overly see a problem with the guest list on show, as its just site names ect!

But then again what do we know...let the mauling begin

Let us get the first one out of the way!

"ohh if you guys are so fearless why dont you show your faces and say your real names"

Answer your an idiot go away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are new to the party organisation scene by the looks of it and they have made a mistake no doubt. However they have removed the offending threads and i think this one should now be removed as well.

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By *in and sensesWoman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Guys I'm newish to forum & iv just been told that forums are public & anyone not registered can read posts (pics are blurred). Now iv also just seen 2 posts, 1st gave a guest list & 2nd gave a rough description of where party is at.

Is it just me or am I thinking this is bang out of order. I think all these details (guest list & address) should be sent to the ppl who are attending party, sure what business is it if others whose on & where, if their not going. Privacy is key in here I think. What do u think? "

I wish to apologise genuinely and unreservedly for my lack of judgement tonight and my lack of knowlegde as I had no idea that non fabbers could see the forum posts .

My intention was to put the list in a place where it was easiest to see it for everyone as nearly everyone who is attending had requested a copy of the guest list .

Thanks to the people have contacted me to let me know , it was much appreciated .

I would also like to add that this was down to me and nothing to do with Black Canadian .

Thanks for reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not really our concern because we are not going to this party...but I would like to add that your point that non fabbers can see the list is only half the point. Most people going to parties do not want people who are not attending to see the list even fab members. This can be for a number of reasons but discretion as we all know is THE most important thing apart from anything else in swinging. Sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is not really our concern because we are not going to this party...but I would like to add that your point that non fabbers can see the list is only half the point. Most people going to parties do not want people who are not attending to see the list even fab members. This can be for a number of reasons but discretion as we all know is THE most important thing apart from anything else in swinging. Sam"

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"Welcome to the forums OP...

Yes I can never understand why the forums can be viewed by non site members... "

Hey Lowlandman, my guess is that it keeps 1000's of false profiles being set up

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

Plenty of them here!!

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By *ark the manMan
over a year ago

dublin. meath louth areas

Just relation to the newspapers, the journal.ie had one of there girls in the last meeting of the Nimhneach club. I think she has already done the article.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the issue is more that people who attend parties are entitled to their privacy , and that includes their usernames here . I can see it was a rookie mistake made by the organiser , and a regrettable one , however it seems in the u k , this is the norm , a guest list is often published for gatherings , and they seem to not have an issue with it , but this is a much smaller community here in ireland and no dout several people whos names appear on that list will not be too impressed to have their intended shenanigans plastered all over the forums for gawkers to look at . Anyone can make a mistake , however its the privacy issue the original poster is most upset about and I cant say I blame her . I would feel exactly the same .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange that quite a large number of members here are quite happy to chat on forums about their intention to attend a party.

Nearly every post on an up and coming party is full of chat between members, so not everyone is concerned about privacy it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone ever shows up at my partys with out been in the list I just get the wip out if they can take 100 strocks then they welcome in just joking ha ha think people just made a mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strange that quite a large number of members here are quite happy to chat on forums about their intention to attend a party.

Nearly every post on an up and coming party is full of chat between members, so not everyone is concerned about privacy it seems."

Exactly this ^^^^ Well said..

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