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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Going to Dublin for a night next week would love yo meet a couple but not let on to the wife and let them make a move on her see if she like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck finding a couple that will do that to an unsuspecting woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may go for it, then again not. Better to let her know beforehand. Divorce is a nasty business.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She loves getting fucked and is very horny at the best of times but i would love to swing with her but just don't know how to get her started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She loves getting fucked and is very horny at the best of times but i would love to swing with her but just don't know how to get her started"
maybe start by asking her if she's into it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We talked about it weeks ago but she said she be to nerves just thought if i got someone to meet and chat see how it when

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offense but how did you end up married to a woman you appear to know so little about? Don't have kids with her. I

mean, I know the checkout chick at the local convenience store better than that.

You should know what she would think before you even have to ask. Just saying man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds like a really shitty idea.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"She loves getting fucked and is very horny at the best of times but i would love to swing with her but just don't know how to get her started"
show her your profile and tell her much fun you've had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She loves getting fucked and is very horny at the best of times but i would love to swing with her but just don't know how to get her started"
...have you tried jump leads...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone like sex. Just ask her if she has ever had a threesome when she was younger or had sex in front other people or watch some porn together and ask if she would like to try that. You know, ask her about her fantasies. You will soon find out if she is up for it.

Just don't tell her you fantasise about banging her sister or mother. ouch!

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Why the fuck would any couple go outta there way to even try something like that I need u need to sit ur wife down and ask her is she even into it then maybe come back on a couple profile and try again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She loves getting fucked and is very horny at the best of times but i would love to swing with her but just don't know how to get her startedshow her your profile and tell her much fun you've had "

Does she even know you are bi and you have had sex with other men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going to Dublin for a night next week would love yo meet a couple but not let on to the wife and let them make a move on her see if she like it "

Shes more or less said no. And you would do this to her just to get your way? What a lovely husband you must be...not!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

You could just blindfold her and tell her you're playing on the tail on the donkey?that could explain the sudden prick in her bottom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a massive difference between her loving sex and wanting to swing!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She loves getting fucked and is very horny at the best of times but i would love to swing with her but just don't know how to get her startedshow her your profile and tell her much fun you've had

Does she even know you are bi and you have had sex with other men?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

big train wreck coming here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She loves getting fucked and is very horny at the best of times but i would love to swing with her but just don't know how to get her startedshow her your profile and tell her much fun you've had

Does she even know you are bi and you have had sex with other men?"

Thinking the exact same thing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took my hub 2 years to comvince me and he did it by suggesting fantasies including a third party and by sending links to articles and hot pics from tumblr. In the end which was actually just the beginning I set up an event myself for his birthday treat so that he'd give up annoying me and I have never looked back. If your wife enjoys sex the chances are she'd enjoy swinging but you have to take it easy and slowly and not force it down her throat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going to Dublin for a night next week would love yo meet a couple but not let on to the wife and let them make a move on her see if she like it "

Simple ans , If I was your wife and got hit on ( your words ) by any guy, couple or woman without my prior knowlege.

Your face would be red from slapping.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Even if you enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dude, dont try it,

just bring it up and ask what her fantasy are and tell hers your and see where it goes,

if she is given time to think about it she might find it turns her on,

cant force it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For gods sake man talk to her about it, it would be a shame to ruin a marriage by playing some kind of game that could seriously backfire badly. Ask her about her attitudes to singing before you do something dumb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will do just missed up. Going to have a long chat tonight iin bed. Thanks for the advice people

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

ask her first and discuss it' she intitle to decide for herself' best for ye both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She loves getting fucked and is very horny at the best of times but i would love to swing with her but just don't know how to get her startedshow her your profile and tell her much fun you've had "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recipe for disaster. Like the other posters have suggested you really need to talk to her, and take your time. My wife suggested swinging to me a few times, however I held back really answering her. When we were out one night a couple we are (were) friendly with suggested swapping. My wife went crazy, my instinct all along had been that she wasn't into it despite her questions/ suggestions.

I'd say trust your instincts.

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By *Couple99Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

We had that happen to us one night. Whilst the other wife was surprised when we were introduced, we had been led to believe she was aware of the planned meet .It was disappointing for us personally that after Eve going to all that trouble and effort making herself even more lovely , that they same effort or interest wasn't being reciprocated, or the same anticipation wasn't there . Very nice couple, but it tarnished what should have been a more open and honest night . Might work for some I guess, but we would rather full awareness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For gods sake man talk to her about it, it would be a shame to ruin a marriage by playing some kind of game that could seriously backfire badly. Ask her about her attitudes to singing before you do something dumb "

If you can get her to upload her singing on YouTube we'll give you our opinion. Maybe that will help. Only sayin.......

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