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Couples... between a rock and a hard place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm looking to meet a couple on my own for the first time. I've met couples at parties and found it suprisingly easier than i had imagined.

It's been a fantasy of mine for quite some time, and it's one I'm ready to fulfil. Obviously I'd want to get to know a couple first and maybe have a few social meets first, before getting down to fun and games.

However, my problem is. It seems difficult to meet with couples unless you have previous varifications from a couple. Getting a start here is more difficult than getting onto the property ladder .

I guess I'm looking for advise about how to approach the subject in a mail, without seeming like I'm saying "hey pal, can i bang your mrs"

And advice, recommendations or offers would be appreciated.

happy fabbing,

Baza.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we say this. We had arranged to meet a guy who hadn't met a couple before. He pulled out last minute (no smartass comments cj) gave him another chance the same thing. Since then we do look for guys with verification from couples as some do it daunting to meet them. Think some are scared of them tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The couples you've played with at parties? Have they not verified you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well we say this. We had arranged to meet a guy who hadn't met a couple before. He pulled out last minute (no smartass comments cj) gave him another chance the same thing. Since then we do look for guys with verification from couples as some do it daunting to meet them. Think some are scared of them tbh. "

I can imagine you get quite a lot of that. I completly understand why people look for verifications but it leaves us genuine guys in a sticky spot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The couples you've played with at parties? Have they not verified you? "

I have just met them at parties, yet to play.

i had a coule of verifications from couples i met at a party at the beginning of the year but i deleted my profile soon after as i met someone but i came back when that broke up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For those of you who have pointed it out to me in private mail that i do have a verification from a couple. Neri, the female in that couple hosted the party i was at and they weren't on this at a couple at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The couples you've played with at parties? Have they not verified you?

I have just met them at parties, yet to play.

i had a coule of verifications from couples i met at a party at the beginning of the year but i deleted my profile soon after as i met someone but i came back when that broke up. "

Perhaps tou could ask them to verify you again if they are still here .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The couples you've played with at parties? Have they not verified you?

I have just met them at parties, yet to play.

i had a coule of verifications from couples i met at a party at the beginning of the year but i deleted my profile soon after as i met someone but i came back when that broke up.

Perhaps tou could ask them to verify you again if they are still here ."

I fone just tgat and got one more veri..... much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we say this. We had arranged to meet a guy who hadn't met a couple before. He pulled out last minute (no smartass comments cj) gave him another chance the same thing. Since then we do look for guys with verification from couples as some do it daunting to meet them. Think some are scared of them tbh. "

We can relate to this,and likewise when looking for a single guy we prefer one that is meet verified by another couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well we say this. We had arranged to meet a guy who hadn't met a couple before. He pulled out last minute (no smartass comments cj) gave him another chance the same thing. Since then we do look for guys with verification from couples as some do it daunting to meet them. Think some are scared of them tbh.

We can relate to this,and likewise when looking for a single guy we prefer one that is meet verified by another couple."

Is meet varified enough or would it have to be play varified?

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

Sure is difficult.

Last couple I met from here "don't do verifications"...... grrrrrrr. Told them it didn't need to names them or have any comments if they didn't want, and be unpublished, but still nothing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we say this. We had arranged to meet a guy who hadn't met a couple before. He pulled out last minute (no smartass comments cj) gave him another chance the same thing. Since then we do look for guys with verification from couples as some do it daunting to meet them. Think some are scared of them tbh.

We can relate to this,and likewise when looking for a single guy we prefer one that is meet verified by another couple.

Is meet varified enough or would it have to be play varified?"

Good point,would prefer play verified,coffee meets would mean nothing to us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well we say this. We had arranged to meet a guy who hadn't met a couple before. He pulled out last minute (no smartass comments cj) gave him another chance the same thing. Since then we do look for guys with verification from couples as some do it daunting to meet them. Think some are scared of them tbh.

We can relate to this,and likewise when looking for a single guy we prefer one that is meet verified by another couple.

Is meet varified enough or would it have to be play varified?

Good point,would prefer play verified,coffee meets would mean nothing to us."

I'd probably see it the same way if i were in your position.

we may start a take a chance Thursday on here or something

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