FabSwingers.com forum: To fab or not to fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had my first meet last night and I've seen nothing but negative comments about it, just wondering do people get the same reaction or is it just certain people that don't approve after all it is a swinging site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I don't understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lost explain it abit better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you get negative comments about a meet ?

Your meet gave you a lovely veri ?

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

it happens and you just move on with it not every one is going to get on' it luck on here ' stay being nice and up front about it' I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just mean that there are other women being judgemental about my meet and my business like they were dissapointed I didn't be with them first and it's not really fair because I met a person who was so genuine and other people are being nasty about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP we shall say this. If a person has such a problem with who you met they need to look at themselves and figure out if this place is for them. From what we have seen of your meet she's a lovely lady.

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just mean that there are other women being judgemental about my meet and my business like they were dissapointed I didn't be with them first and it's not really fair because I met a person who was so genuine and other people are being nasty about it "

Then you can be reassured that you were right to pass them up in her favour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not blowing a trumpet up anyone's ass it's fact I'm getting messages from women that weren't impressed so don't treat me like I'm some sort of a dickhead when I'm far from it, I'm new to this type of thing and so far all I've got is negative comments from people who didn't agree with my meet, on the other hand there is some genuine lovely people on here who have been nothing but nice to me and were happy I had my first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not blowing a trumpet up anyone's ass it's fact I'm getting messages from women that weren't impressed so don't treat me like I'm some sort of a dickhead when I'm far from it, I'm new to this type of thing and so far all I've got is negative comments from people who didn't agree with my meet, on the other hand there is some genuine lovely people on here who have been nothing but nice to me and were happy I had my first meet "

Focus on the nice ones and block the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. The ego!

Also not really discreet or polite in posting this, ever think you might embarrass the person you met?"

They might like it

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Forum Mod
over a year ago

Maybe better to deal with the negative responses privately,then move on to people that don't have issues

You have discovered that the land of nsa isn't always as it seems

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