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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv spent the last while cruising loads of profiles- guys, gals, couples and everything in between (for reserch purposes )

Well Fuck me some folks sure know what they want and when they want it !!

I was very interested in 2 ladies but unfortunately I have to be a fat skinny tall shortish hairy shaved dark pale guy to have any chance

I am curious have these rules stood the test?

Do you pass bye if you are not the type?

or

do you even read them before making contact?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good idea to read a profile before reaching out. Saves wasting your own time. But a warning ....

Not all that is stated on a profile is true.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a good idea to read a profile before reaching out. Saves wasting your own time. But a warning ....

Not all that is stated on a profile is true....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never message people first unless it's too apologise for something I've said here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a good idea to read a profile before reaching out. Saves wasting your own time. But a warning ....

Not all that is stated on a profile is true....."

Haha including the won't meet smokers bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile reflects my preferences, though makes no mention of looks or size ect.

I am strict about the age preference, so have used filters.

I do read profiles carefuly before mailing , and respect others who do likewise.

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By *igglesAndGeekCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"It's a good idea to read a profile before reaching out. Saves wasting your own time."

It also saves the receiver of the mail wondering why the heck you didn't read the profile

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

IDE allways read a profile first . It saves u wasting time . Age limits whether ur straight bi married whatever .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it funny that mostly women and some couples are those who complain that people not read profiles..but in same time I can say I got lots of msg from womens and couples who defo never readed profile..

Some people even not read from where Im.. so I wonder how they can say I sound nice on my profile....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IDE allways read a profile first . It saves u wasting time . Age limits whether ur straight bi married whatever . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it funny that mostly women and some couples are those who complain that people not read profiles..but in same time I can say I got lots of msg from womens and couples who defo never readed profile..

Some people even not read from where Im.. so I wonder how they can say I sound nice on my profile.... "

^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never message people first unless it's too apologise for something I've said here. "

Or hit the reply privately button instead of the reply in forum button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv spent the last while cruising loads of profiles- guys, gals, couples and everything in between (for reserch purposes )

Well Fuck me some folks sure know what they want and when they want it !!

I was very interested in 2 ladies but unfortunately I have to be a fat skinny tall shortish hairy shaved dark pale guy to have any chance

I am curious have these rules stood the test?

Do you pass bye if you are not the type?

or

do you even read them before making contact?

"

What about the ones who demand face pics but won't send then back?! The mind boggles at that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it funny that mostly women and some couples are those who complain that people not read profiles..but in same time I can say I got lots of msg from womens and couples who defo never readed profile..

Some people even not read from where Im.. so I wonder how they can say I sound nice on my profile....

^^^^^ "

Loved when I would get messages like this

"You sound really fun"

Do I really??

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By *igglesAndGeekCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"Iv spent the last while cruising loads of profiles- guys, gals, couples and everything in between (for reserch purposes )

Well Fuck me some folks sure know what they want and when they want it !!

I was very interested in 2 ladies but unfortunately I have to be a fat skinny tall shortish hairy shaved dark pale guy to have any chance

I am curious have these rules stood the test?

Do you pass bye if you are not the type?

or

do you even read them before making contact?

What about the ones who demand face pics but won't send then back?! The mind boggles at that one "

Must be verified and send pictures. When they are unverified and not a single public or friends only picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some don't realise its a couples profile. Usually tell them that. We don't have a specific type. Usually people contact us and if we like well reply or well mail them if we like the look of them.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

Ballybunnion


"Iv spent the last while cruising loads of profiles- guys, gals, couples and everything in between (for reserch purposes )

Well Fuck me some folks sure know what they want and when they want it !!

I was very interested in 2 ladies but unfortunately I have to be a fat skinny tall shortish hairy shaved dark pale guy to have any chance

I am curious have these rules stood the test?

Do you pass bye if you are not the type?

or

do you even read them before making contact?

What about the ones who demand face pics but won't send then back?! The mind boggles at that one

Must be verified and send pictures. When they are unverified and not a single public or friends only picture.

"

Anyone looking face pic first msg I just add a note to the profile

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only profiles i dont like really are the agressive ones and the ones that don't have much of an effort put into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the profiles too, mostly when I first came here. Nowdays I don't. Mostly because I'm single and this is a swingers site, unless it's someone on the forums that sounds interesting and I want a perv .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I read them as a rule they can help

But

I rarely read the shouty DO's & DONT's type to the end.

They just scare the shit outa me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only profiles i dont like really are the agressive ones and the ones that don't have much of an effort put into it."

I never bother with those single women profiles where is has stuff like must be this height, these looks, this age, former model etc and all the rest of it.

It just makes a woman sound so shallow that who would want to talk to them anyway. More often then not they are no oil painting themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some don't realise its a couples profile. Usually tell them that. We don't have a specific type. Usually people contact us and if we like well reply or well mail them if we like the look of them. "

Funny you would think that the word couple and the 2 profiles would give it away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only profiles i dont like really are the agressive ones and the ones that don't have much of an effort put into it."

What? You don't like ours biggles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some don't realise its a couples profile. Usually tell them that. We don't have a specific type. Usually people contact us and if we like well reply or well mail them if we like the look of them.

Funny you would think that the word couple and the 2 profiles would give it away "

Two profiles? And you would think that wouldn't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only profiles i dont like really are the agressive ones and the ones that don't have much of an effort put into it.

What? You don't like ours biggles? "

Ah urs is ok its straight to the point and ur good people to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some don't realise its a couples profile. Usually tell them that. We don't have a specific type. Usually people contact us and if we like well reply or well mail them if we like the look of them.

Funny you would think that the word couple and the 2 profiles would give it away

Two profiles? And you would think that wouldn't you? "

No ye plonker the 2 descriptions of you guys on your profile.

Im directing my comment at peeps that think you're a single even tho you have all the info describing a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a good idea to read a profile before reaching out. Saves wasting your own time. But a warning ....

Not all that is stated on a profile is true.....

Haha including the won't meet smokers bit "
Erm, yea, I suppose.

(Scratches head)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some don't realise its a couples profile. Usually tell them that. We don't have a specific type. Usually people contact us and if we like well reply or well mail them if we like the look of them.

Funny you would think that the word couple and the 2 profiles would give it away

Two profiles? And you would think that wouldn't you?

No ye plonker the 2 descriptions of you guys on your profile.

Im directing my comment at peeps that think you're a single even tho you have all the info describing a couple "
wasn't meaning you personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I use to meet couples with my ex about 4 or 5 years ago we would find them in the personal ads. No websites or anything like that. No pics to go on or forum chat to get to know them first. Just a short voice message and that's it.

We had no idea really what they looked like until we met them at the local for a drink. Then if we decided we liked them we would invite them home with us.

Pretty simple really.

I think websites may even make it a little harder but there are more pcouples to meet online now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some don't realise its a couples profile. Usually tell them that. We don't have a specific type. Usually people contact us and if we like well reply or well mail them if we like the look of them.

Funny you would think that the word couple and the 2 profiles would give it away

Two profiles? And you would think that wouldn't you?

No ye plonker the 2 descriptions of you guys on your profile.

Im directing my comment at peeps that think you're a single even tho you have all the info describing a couple wasn't meaning you personally "

Doh my bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly some of the profiles here are so daunting! I've refrained from messaging a lot of people due to their profile.

I don't mind that people have their own tastes and they stick to them, but some profiles might as well have a feckin guard dog with the aggressiveness of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single yet everyone assumes that l am married or attached cos I don't accommodate...

The profiles I like to message show a sense of humour...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The profiles I like to message show a sense of humour... "

Same here. Some take themselves so seriously it's a wonder their bums don't fall off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv spent the last while cruising loads of profiles- guys, gals, couples and everything in between (for reserch purposes )

Well Fuck me some folks sure know what they want and when they want it !!

I was very interested in 2 ladies but unfortunately I have to be a fat skinny tall shortish hairy shaved dark pale guy to have any chance

I am curious have these rules stood the test?

Do you pass bye if you are not the type?

or

do you even read them before making contact?

What about the ones who demand face pics but won't send then back?! The mind boggles at that one

Must be verified and send pictures. When they are unverified and not a single public or friends only picture.

"

Now ye know what I'm talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read everything on a person's profile.

It does save time.

I might like their pic but that doesn't mean I'm contacting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly some of the profiles here are so daunting! I've refrained from messaging a lot of people due to their profile.

I don't mind that people have their own tastes and they stick to them, but some profiles might as well have a feckin guard dog with the aggressiveness of it!"

Perhaps that is the intention...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have a profile like that? No one will want to contact you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why have a profile like that? No one will want to contact you."

No matter what kind of profile a female has, she will get messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urrrm no. Somehow I don't think so. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Urrrm no. Somehow I don't think so. Each to their own."

You obviously dont realise how many men use the scattergun approach. Or never read a profile beyond the word "female"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile reflects my preferences, though makes no mention of looks or size ect.

I am strict about the age preference, so have used filters.

I do read profiles carefuly before mailing , and respect others who do likewise."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Urrrm no. Somehow I don't think so. Each to their own.

You obviously dont realise how many men use the scattergun approach. Or never read a profile beyond the word "female""

You have a point there. My bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I read everything on a person's profile.

It does save time.

I might like their pic but that doesn't mean I'm contacting them. "

It certainly helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read everything on a person's profile.

It does save time.

I might like their pic but that doesn't mean I'm contacting them.

It certainly helps "
nothing wrong with window shopping

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin


"Why have a profile like that? No one will want to contact you."

Some people don't want to be contacted. They want to do the contacting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I read everything on a person's profile.

It does save time.

I might like their pic but that doesn't mean I'm contacting them.

It certainly helps nothing wrong with window shopping "

Sure try some on if ye like , just don't take it home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read everything on a person's profile.

It does save time.

I might like their pic but that doesn't mean I'm contacting them.

It certainly helps nothing wrong with window shopping

Sure try some on if ye like , just don't take it home "
pmsl! Never at my house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different on fab. Personally, I read all profiles before sending a message. Otherwise you could be wasting your time. The forums can be slightly different. There's plenty of craic here and it's good to have a chat with some of you guys. It doesn't have to be all about sex. I'd rather have a connection with people before any hanky panky. I think if you don't read profiles, it shows a complete disregard for that person or couple and comes across a little arrogant. Mine is pretty simple. I have two pics available for friends. These are face pics and I'd send them with most first messages to anyone. I don't have any nude or cock pics either. Never been into taking photos of myself. I'd rather have a chat, social meet and then a fun meet depending on the previous. If people don't like this, then they're not for me. I also think that when I know someone hasn't read my profile, they show a lack of care for my needs. So I don't bother with them.

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

I remember reading Apples' profile prior to us meeting and thinking how poor mine was...

So before messaging, I rewrote my profile to reflect her intrests

( sounds storkerish now I know)...lol

But I couldn't take any chances.

I never bothered to go to that effort to meet anyone else...

And my original was quite effective. ..I had a busy dance card...

In fairness I think she had 4 of the top places in the Irish hotpicks that month....nom, nom.

So dream big lads

You can never put to much effort in...

On the counter side...

The number of "how r u" messages we still get reflects poorly on our education system !!

Ollie

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By *LICK IF U DAREWoman
over a year ago

good girl gone bad!!!!!!


"It's a good idea to read a profile before reaching out. Saves wasting your own time. But a warning ....

Not all that is stated on a profile is true....."
i agree

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