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"Trust. " Good call but hard find. | |||
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"Loyalty " Number 1 with me but even harder to find I reckon. | |||
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"Trust and loyalty. Hard to have one without the other. " Totally agree but both in very very short supply I reckon. | |||
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"Honesty. I learnt long ago not to push people into saying anything or acting a way I want them to, I let people be themselves and dont judge them. So when they say x,y,z of their own free will, without coercion from me and then do a,b,c... It absolutely fucking wrecks my head. Straight away they plummet in my opinion, i just think in my head, "why didnt they just fucking say a,b,c instead" " Safey you da man, well said. I'd like to meet you but can you leave you other half at home. Just for a pint like | |||
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"Trust and loyalty. Hard to have one without the other. " Totally agree. They go hand on hand or could nearly be called the same thing. There a huge thing for me personally which , for me is a complete deal breaker if betrayed. | |||
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"Safey you da man, well said. I'd like to meet you but can you leave you other half at home. Just for a pint like " lol | |||
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"Trust. In what way must your friends be loyal?" Loyal or loyalty means different things for different people but I guess I mean not back stabbing or two faced. Again honesty is there but also they got your back. That make any sence ?? | |||
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"Safey you da man, well said. I'd like to meet you but can you leave you other half at home. Just for a pint like lol" A budding bro-mance lol | |||
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"They say you will be lucky to have one true friend in life. I say if you are that lucky that person will most likely be your partner." One could only hope | |||
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"... the loaning your wife part doesn't apply to people like us I guess " All comes back to trust again lol | |||
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"Well friendship for me is to be there for others and show support in bad times to show ,some compassion feelings and respect loyalty and to trust to be able to listen without judgen that person.To be able to cheer that person up when feeling low.Thats my idea on friendship." . Well said biggles | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect " Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. " It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though " As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. " You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab" Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons " All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say" A sex site is not the ideal place to seek out sincerity. | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say A sex site is not the ideal place to seek out sincerity. " Not sure about cerity but good for sin | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say" Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen. | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen. " I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen. I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up" And people say there's no clique | |||
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"It took me 18 months and three profiles to learn not to trust anyone on here. " Bit slow, eh? | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen. I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up" You know your own mind. | |||
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"It took me 18 months and three profiles to learn not to trust anyone on here. Bit slow, eh?" Naive I think moreso. | |||
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"It took me 18 months and three profiles to learn not to trust anyone on here. Bit slow, eh? Naive I think moreso." Not a good thing to be around here | |||
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" You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab " Lim I have to correct you there. Not all talk behind your back and take the piss. I know I've never had a conversation about you. | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect " This Alex | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with younrself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen. I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up" It's Definitley dog eat dog out there. On the bright side Lim you were told | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen. I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up" Ignore, ignore, ignore them. | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with younrself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen. I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up It's Definitley dog eat dog out there. On the bright side Lim you were told " I'd have preferred to gone on oblivious I think | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with younrself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen. I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up It's Definitley dog eat dog out there. On the bright side Lim you were told " Yep, you need skin like a Rhino to be on here. | |||
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"It took me 18 months and three profiles to learn not to trust anyone on here. Bit slow, eh? Naive I think moreso. Not a good thing to be around here" We all live and learn | |||
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"Friendship... is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything. (Muhammad Ali) " Friends don't lose your phone number...lol | |||
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"Friendship... is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything. (Muhammad Ali) Friends don't lose your phone number...lol " lol I lost lots of numbers | |||
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"I think people are crazy to think they can make real friends on here. The majority are just out for themselves and would think nothing of bad mouthing you or stabbing you in the back. I've heard some horror stories from a real life friend who used to be on here." I think that very much depends on your judgement - some people make crappy choices in real life too - and how honest you are yourself about your expectations from being here. | |||
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"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face. Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%. It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say A sex site is not the ideal place to seek out sincerity. " I'll ring that bell too Casey. | |||
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"I don't need friends to be loyal. Life is big they have other priorities, they can still be my friend if they need to make something more important than me. I don't need to be able to trust a friend with my life, or my secrets. My secrets are mine and my life is mine to take care of." Sometimes secrets are shared it's always nice to know both people are able to take care of them | |||
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"I don't need friends to be loyal. Life is big they have other priorities, they can still be my friend if they need to make something more important than me. I don't need to be able to trust a friend with my life, or my secrets. My secrets are mine and my life is mine to take care of." | |||
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"Back to topic. I don't expect anything from friendship except acceptance. Accept that we are all different. Different outlooks and opinions. Just because your outlook and opinion on life differs doesn't mean you can't be friends. A good friend shouldn't ask or want of anything from you but a good friend will offer and give. A good friend should never take for granted your generosity but should be greatful of it. " Yep exactly! After reading all the other posts i'd just like to say that i made a friend on here that i'd trust with my life,they know EVERTHING there is to know about me and still don't judge me or treat me any differently! Proof that good friendships can be made on here?? Yes i definitely think so! At the end of the day we are all human beings with the same feelings. xx xx xx | |||
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"I don't need friends to be loyal. Life is big they have other priorities, they can still be my friend if they need to make something more important than me. I don't need to be able to trust a friend with my life, or my secrets. My secrets are mine and my life is mine to take care of." I think my definition of loyalty is different to yours. Nothing to do with priorities. | |||
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"Consistency for me I think. I hate people who are inconsistent and are only Friends when it suits them " Those types are probably just jealous of you for some reason. Don't waste your time on them, life's too short for that. | |||
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"Consistency for me I think. I hate people who are inconsistent and are only Friends when it suits them " That's a good one too | |||
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"Whats the most valuable thing you consider with your closest friends. Just wondering. " A spare room | |||
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