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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Whats the most valuable thing you consider with your closest friends. Just wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loyalty

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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Trust. "

Good call but hard find.

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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Loyalty "

Number 1 with me but even harder to find I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust and loyalty.

Hard to have one without the other.

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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Trust and loyalty.

Hard to have one without the other. "

Totally agree but both in very very short supply I reckon.

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

Honesty.

I learnt long ago not to push people into saying anything or acting a way I want them to, I let people be themselves and dont judge them.

So when they say x,y,z of their own free will, without coercion from me and then do a,b,c... It absolutely fucking wrecks my head.

Straight away they plummet in my opinion, i just think in my head, "why didnt they just fucking say a,b,c instead"

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By *parkles321Man
over a year ago

blanch


"Honesty.

I learnt long ago not to push people into saying anything or acting a way I want them to, I let people be themselves and dont judge them.

So when they say x,y,z of their own free will, without coercion from me and then do a,b,c... It absolutely fucking wrecks my head.

Straight away they plummet in my opinion, i just think in my head, "why didnt they just fucking say a,b,c instead" "

Safey you da man, well said. I'd like to meet you but can you leave you other half at home. Just for a pint like

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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Trust and loyalty.

Hard to have one without the other. "

Totally agree. They go hand on hand or could nearly be called the same thing. There a huge thing for me personally which , for me is a complete deal breaker if betrayed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust. In what way must your friends be loyal?

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City


"Safey you da man, well said. I'd like to meet you but can you leave you other half at home. Just for a pint like "

lol

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over a year ago

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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Trust. In what way must your friends be loyal?"

Loyal or loyalty means different things for different people but I guess I mean not back stabbing or two faced. Again honesty is there but also they got your back. That make any sence ??

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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Safey you da man, well said. I'd like to meet you but can you leave you other half at home. Just for a pint like

lol"

A budding bro-mance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust. In what way must your friends be loyal?

Loyal or loyalty means different things for different people but I guess I mean not back stabbing or two faced. Again honesty is there but also they got your back. That make any sence ??"

Loyalty, trust and honesty are all entertwined.

Standing by you in hard times, never lying to you and never revealing all your secrets.

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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Intertwined what a perfect word. But yeah sums it up. Just a case of matter how shit things get ya know they ll be there, they ll be honest and they'll do the best they can .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say you will be lucky to have one true friend in life. I say if you are that lucky that person will most likely be your partner.

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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"They say you will be lucky to have one true friend in life. I say if you are that lucky that person will most likely be your partner."

One could only hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is also said. Never loan your mates your wallet or your wife. You will get your wallet back empty and wife back full.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... the loaning your wife part doesn't apply to people like us I guess

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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"... the loaning your wife part doesn't apply to people like us I guess "

All comes back to trust again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My own right hand has never let me down,so Palmela is my best friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust and loyalty very important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

as most people have said.

trust honesty and loyalty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is huge I don't like liars or those who pretend to be your friends but talk behind your back, cut you down and convince others not to like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big tits and a good swallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well friendship for me is to be there for others and show support in bad times to show ,some compassion feelings and respect loyalty and to trust to be able to listen without judgen that person.To be able to cheer that person up when feeling low.Thats my idea on friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well friendship for me is to be there for others and show support in bad times to show ,some compassion feelings and respect loyalty and to trust to be able to listen without judgen that person.To be able to cheer that person up when feeling low.Thats my idea on friendship."
. Well said biggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect "

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

"

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though "

As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person. "

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab"

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons "

All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons

All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say"

A sex site is not the ideal place to seek out sincerity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it has to be trust especially if the "friend" is also on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons

All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say

A sex site is not the ideal place to seek out sincerity. "

Not sure about cerity but good for sin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons

All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say"

Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons

All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say

Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen.

"

I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons

All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say

Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen.

I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up"

And people say there's no clique

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

It took me 18 months and three profiles to learn not to trust anyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It took me 18 months and three profiles to learn not to trust anyone on here. "

Bit slow, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons

All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say

Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen.

I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up"

You know your own mind.

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin


"It took me 18 months and three profiles to learn not to trust anyone on here.

Bit slow, eh?"

Naive I think moreso.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It took me 18 months and three profiles to learn not to trust anyone on here.

Bit slow, eh?

Naive I think moreso."

Not a good thing to be around here

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

"

Lim I have to correct you there. Not all talk behind your back and take the piss. I know I've never had a conversation about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect "

This

Alex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with younrself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons

All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say

Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen.

I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up"

It's Definitley dog eat dog out there. On the bright side Lim you were told

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Back to topic.

I don't expect anything from friendship except acceptance. Accept that we are all different. Different outlooks and opinions. Just because your outlook and opinion on life differs doesn't mean you can't be friends. A good friend shouldn't ask or want of anything from you but a good friend will offer and give. A good friend should never take for granted your generosity but should be greatful of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty and loyalty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons

All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say

Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen.

I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up"

Ignore, ignore, ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with younrself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons

All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say

Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen.

I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up

It's Definitley dog eat dog out there. On the bright side Lim you were told "

I'd have preferred to gone on oblivious I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with younrself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons

All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say

Oh I know. It's like when I came back, I was asked where'd id been, I'd said I had a health thing going on and just needed a breather and some head space. That was translated into them telling people I'd been off with mental health problems. The joys of conversing with a screen.

I'm just annoyed the people who were nice to me on here all apparently talked behind my back and tried convincing someone not to meet me so I'm just a little fed up

It's Definitley dog eat dog out there. On the bright side Lim you were told "

Yep, you need skin like a Rhino to be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It took me 18 months and three profiles to learn not to trust anyone on here.

Bit slow, eh?

Naive I think moreso.

Not a good thing to be around here"

We all live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship... is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything.

(Muhammad Ali)

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Friendship... is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything.

(Muhammad Ali)

"

Friends don't lose your phone number...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friendship... is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything.

(Muhammad Ali)

Friends don't lose your phone number...lol "

lol I lost lots of numbers

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people are crazy to think they can make real friends on here. The majority are just out for themselves and would think nothing of bad mouthing you or stabbing you in the back.

I've heard some horror stories from a real life friend who used to be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People need to learn it's the internet, not just this website. You can't see the person you are talking to unless you video chat with them.

If you sit there chatting to someone for a year that you fancy and you have never even spoken to them on the phone just to verify they are the gender you think they are, then you are asking for problems like that. It's just common sense.

The interwebs is full of fakes, freaks, thieves, scammmers, catfish, weirdos, the mentally defective and anything other type of halfwit bottom feeder you can come up with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people are crazy to think they can make real friends on here. The majority are just out for themselves and would think nothing of bad mouthing you or stabbing you in the back.

I've heard some horror stories from a real life friend who used to be on here."

I think that very much depends on your judgement - some people make crappy choices in real life too - and how honest you are yourself about your expectations from being here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met people who I would consider lifelong friends people who I would trust with my life....

A Spanish nutter!!

A stag who's so bold...

Look up to the Sky...

I even love the Frosty weather...

Not forgetting the Toe

These people are one in a million!!! I'm lucky to have them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and acceptance that nobody can be perfect

Yup honesty and acceptance. In my situation acceptance or the lack of is why I'm on fab. Those who I have been honest with in the real world have had mixed reactions and not been honest in their opinions to my face.

Human nature dictates that no one can be trusted 100% because of so many factors like fear and jealousy but it's still an admirable quality even if you only trust them 90%.

It's hard to find whole heartened honesty on fab though

As long as your honest with yourself that's all that matters. You have to put trust in people, doesn't always work but you can't let it end up making you wary of every single person.

You can't trust anyone on fab because they all talk behind your back, they all take the piss out of you apparently I think only the cynical can survive on fab

Or perhaps the cynical people hold the biggest spoons

All I know is when you find out you've been lied to for 7 months it's hard to trust anyone or to even think anyone here is genuine in what they say

A sex site is not the ideal place to seek out sincerity. "

I'll ring that bell too Casey.

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

I don't need friends to be loyal. Life is big they have other priorities, they can still be my friend if they need to make something more important than me.

I don't need to be able to trust a friend with my life, or my secrets. My secrets are mine and my life is mine to take care of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't need friends to be loyal. Life is big they have other priorities, they can still be my friend if they need to make something more important than me.

I don't need to be able to trust a friend with my life, or my secrets. My secrets are mine and my life is mine to take care of."

Sometimes secrets are shared it's always nice to know both people are able to take care of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't need friends to be loyal. Life is big they have other priorities, they can still be my friend if they need to make something more important than me.

I don't need to be able to trust a friend with my life, or my secrets. My secrets are mine and my life is mine to take care of."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I woke up on the wrong side of the bed today lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back to topic.

I don't expect anything from friendship except acceptance. Accept that we are all different. Different outlooks and opinions. Just because your outlook and opinion on life differs doesn't mean you can't be friends. A good friend shouldn't ask or want of anything from you but a good friend will offer and give. A good friend should never take for granted your generosity but should be greatful of it.

"

Yep exactly!

After reading all the other posts i'd just like to say that i made a friend on here that i'd trust with my life,they know EVERTHING there is to know about me and still don't judge me or treat me any differently!

Proof that good friendships can be made on here?? Yes i definitely think so! At the end of the day we are all human beings with the same feelings.

xx xx xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loyalty, trust, equal give and take. Honesty is also a quality we look for

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over a year ago


"I don't need friends to be loyal. Life is big they have other priorities, they can still be my friend if they need to make something more important than me.

I don't need to be able to trust a friend with my life, or my secrets. My secrets are mine and my life is mine to take care of."

I think my definition of loyalty is different to yours. Nothing to do with priorities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just be honest. have to say I am lucky with the group of friends I have, for a group of lads we are very close. pints and craic = fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust fucken no one..big mouth people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consistency for me I think. I hate people who are inconsistent and are only Friends when it suits them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Consistency for me I think. I hate people who are inconsistent and are only Friends when it suits them "

Those types are probably just jealous of you for some reason. Don't waste your time on them, life's too short for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Consistency for me I think. I hate people who are inconsistent and are only Friends when it suits them "

That's a good one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there through thick and thin and never judges ya.

I ve know my best friend since primary school

Pity he's not a female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the most valuable thing you consider with your closest friends. Just wondering. "

A spare room

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