FabSwingers.com forum: First Meet.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You are meeting for the first time, coffee, drink or meal perhaps.

What would put you off a second meet, taking it further?.

Or, what would put you off even testing the waters , arranging a coffee or drink?.

Mine.

On a first meet, being endlessly bombarded with stories of big houses and cars ect

Stopping me from arranging a first meet, over confidence and bad manners.

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"You are meeting for the first time, coffee, drink or meal perhaps.

What would put you off a second meet, taking it further?.

Or, what would put you off even testing the waters , arranging a coffee or drink?.

Mine.

On a first meet, being endlessly bombarded with stories of big houses and cars ect

Stopping me from arranging a first meet, over confidence and bad manners."

you would be safe with me then I can barely afford my very wee house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad odour, noseyness, expecting me to buy you the whole shop like we're getting married, rudeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard to put me off, theres a word for it but I cant think of it..e

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact we were meeting of a swingers site for a coffee,drink or a meal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal hygiene issues.

Misrepresentation of themselves.

Rudeness.

No spark.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fact we were meeting of a swingers site for a coffee,drink or a meal."

I never meet anyone unless we have met prior to a sex meet, I care for my safety to be honest, much more than sex.

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By *icketyupWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Over confidence

Rudeness

Poor personal hygiene

Not able to hold a conversation

Misrepresenting themselves in their pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor personal hygiene

Not able to hold a conversation

Misrepresenting themselves in their pictures"

Lady treating me like an addition to my cock

Not being compatible in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of respect

Thinking that just because were swingers kitty will meet them alone (only applies to single men)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no chemistry

no respect

not been able to have fun and a laugh i suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chemistry

No attraction

Personnel hygiene

Pushiness ( can be very intimidating meeting a stranger who even though you state coffee still keeps pushing for more)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact we were meeting of a swingers site for a coffee,drink or a meal.

I never meet anyone unless we have met prior to a sex meet, I care for my safety to be honest, much more than sex."

Very wise of you,and to ensure your safety further we won't be asking to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact we were meeting of a swingers site for a coffee,drink or a meal.

I never meet anyone unless we have met prior to a sex meet, I care for my safety to be honest, much more than sex.

Very wise of you,and to ensure your safety further we won't be asking to meet you"

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Over confidence

Rudeness

Poor personal hygiene

Not able to hold a conversation

Misrepresenting themselves in their pictures"

and yet you ignored all that to meet me lol

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By *icketyupWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"Over confidence

Rudeness

Poor personal hygiene

Not able to hold a conversation

Misrepresenting themselves in their pictures

and yet you ignored all that to meet me lol"

We all make mistakes sometimes

And sometimes you've gotta keep going back to make sure you're right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fact we were meeting of a swingers site for a coffee,drink or a meal.

I never meet anyone unless we have met prior to a sex meet, I care for my safety to be honest, much more than sex.

Very wise of you,and to ensure your safety further we won't be asking to meet you"

Not a very polite comment , however I respect your not wishing to meet me so yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over confidence

Rudeness

Poor personal hygiene

Not able to hold a conversation

Misrepresenting themselves in their pictures"

If you're not into over confidence you'd love me. I had a meet and I got so nervous my heart started beating really loud. It was so loud that the first 15 mins was a bit awkward because it was distracting us from a conversation we were trying to have.

For me its poor hygiene

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

funny seeing people pretend to have standards, most on here would just have sex.

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

It can be a bit of + and -, sometimes your expectations can be more than you expected.

I always plan a hotel meet, have some food and few drinks and if it happens that the lady is not interested, call a taxi and pay the driver for her journey home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self entitlement or thinking that they're Gods gift when they really aren't. That drives me up the wall...

Honestly I'd probably still shag them. But just the once... Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact we were meeting of a swingers site for a coffee,drink or a meal.

I never meet anyone unless we have met prior to a sex meet, I care for my safety to be honest, much more than sex.

Very wise of you,and to ensure your safety further we won't be asking to meet you

Not a very polite comment , however I respect your not wishing to meet me so yes

Not very polite??were you expecting a Thankyou?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact we were meeting of a swingers site for a coffee,drink or a meal.

I never meet anyone unless we have met prior to a sex meet, I care for my safety to be honest, much more than sex.

Very wise of you,and to ensure your safety further we won't be asking to meet you

Not a very polite comment , however I respect your not wishing to meet me so yes

Not very polite??were you expecting a Thankyou?"

greynsweet.....mostly grey and not very sweet

you will get used to them spanisheyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow,my own running commenter,go me.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Over confidence

Rudeness

Poor personal hygiene

Not able to hold a conversation

Misrepresenting themselves in their pictures

and yet you ignored all that to meet me lol

We all make mistakes sometimes

And sometimes you've gotta keep going back to make sure you're right

well you have to make totally sure

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By *icketyupWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"Over confidence

Rudeness

Poor personal hygiene

Not able to hold a conversation

Misrepresenting themselves in their pictures

and yet you ignored all that to meet me lol

We all make mistakes sometimes

And sometimes you've gotta keep going back to make sure you're right

well you have to make totally sure

This is very very true, plus I need some time to finish my assessment

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Over confidence

Rudeness

Poor personal hygiene

Not able to hold a conversation

Misrepresenting themselves in their pictures

and yet you ignored all that to meet me lol

We all make mistakes sometimes

And sometimes you've gotta keep going back to make sure you're right

well you have to make totally sure

This is very very true, plus I need some time to finish my assessment

oh dr _icketyup it will take you a long time to shrink my head but im game plus it would be handy to have a certificate to carry around to prove im sane

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By *icketyupWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"Over confidence

Rudeness

Poor personal hygiene

Not able to hold a conversation

Misrepresenting themselves in their pictures

and yet you ignored all that to meet me lol

We all make mistakes sometimes

And sometimes you've gotta keep going back to make sure you're right

well you have to make totally sure

This is very very true, plus I need some time to finish my assessment

oh dr _icketyup it will take you a long time to shrink my head but im game plus it would be handy to have a certificate to carry around to prove im sane

It'll take me a long time but I'm more

than willing to put that time in

Certificate of sanity you say?! Hmm I think that could definitely be arranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact we were meeting of a swingers site for a coffee,drink or a meal.

I never meet anyone unless we have met prior to a sex meet, I care for my safety to be honest, much more than sex.

Very wise of you,and to ensure your safety further we won't be asking to meet you

Not a very polite comment , however I respect your not wishing to meet me so yes

Not very polite??were you expecting a Thankyou?

greynsweet.....mostly grey and not very sweet

you will get used to them spanisheyes"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fact we were meeting of a swingers site for a coffee,drink or a meal.

I never meet anyone unless we have met prior to a sex meet, I care for my safety to be honest, much more than sex.

Very wise of you,and to ensure your safety further we won't be asking to meet you

Not a very polite comment , however I respect your not wishing to meet me so yes

Not very polite??were you expecting a Thankyou?"

A thank you?

Gosh no, that would involve the use of manners.

Anyhoo as my profile says, if you do not like it, then move along.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't like coffee meets, there awkward, if I can't feel the heat while having a chat, ain't going to happen, only went wrong once and had to call it off because I wasn't listening to my gut feeling and but also a mismatch of profile and person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How people behave on the forums would put me off messaging, let alone meeting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How people behave on the forums would put me off messaging, let alone meeting them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact we were meeting of a swingers site for a coffee,drink or a meal."

In our high tech era, what happened checking each other out on webcam and then going for it?

I like coffee too but a webcam is almost as effective and a lot less hassle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fact we were meeting of a swingers site for a coffee,drink or a meal.

In our high tech era, what happened checking each other out on webcam and then going for it?

I like coffee too but a webcam is almost as effective and a lot less hassle. "

Webcam as you say does it for many people.

I have to hold my hands up and admit to putting myself in a few dubious situations in the past.

Coming back to swinging again as a single female, I was determined to avoid the above.

So a coffee, or quick drink meet works best for me.

Different strokes for different folks though.

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

Careful spanish eyes, if you don't ride everything on the site that asks, they will say you're not a real swinger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Careful spanish eyes, if you don't ride everything on the site that asks, they will say you're not a real swinger."

Did you not know that I am a troll.pmsl.

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare

Nothing like the photos

Over confidence - 4 buttons open with lots of bling

Rudeness, poor manners

Not able to hold a conversation

Hairy knuckles

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