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By *lareandjon OP   Couple
over a year ago

clare/limerick

Why oh why do people waste other peoples time. A simple no thanks costs nothing. Time is precious don't have time to waste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are here because they have nothing better to do than antagonise other people and pretend they are part of something they never will be.

Their timew asting others time is filling their sad empty lives. Fookers

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By *lareandjon OP   Couple
over a year ago

clare/limerick

Yip u could be on to something there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are here because they have nothing better to do than antagonise other people and pretend they are part of something they never will be.

Their timew asting others time is filling their sad empty lives. Fookers "

Ohh how true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's part and parcel of the place.

But some get so many messages it's impossible for them to reply, others may chat for a while and change their minds and some are just not interested and don't want abuse if they say they are not interested...

It may seem like they have wasted time or have bad manners but they are actually not because they are stopping when they see fit, which is fairly reasonable....

Single males often post these type of threads and get slated..

It's the way it works here.. Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's part and parcel of the place.

But some get so many messages it's impossible for them to reply, others may chat for a while and change their minds and some are just not interested and don't want abuse if they say they are not interested...

It may seem like they have wasted time or have bad manners but they are actually not because they are stopping when they see fit, which is fairly reasonable....

Single males often post these type of threads and get slated..

It's the way it works here.. Best of luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's part and parcel of the place.

But some get so many messages it's impossible for them to reply, others may chat for a while and change their minds and some are just not interested and don't want abuse if they say they are not interested...

It may seem like they have wasted time or have bad manners but they are actually not because they are stopping when they see fit, which is fairly reasonable....

Single males often post these type of threads and get slated..

It's the way it works here.. Best of luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A person is a timewaster if they don't reply to a mail? Erm everyone has different definitions of time waster I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reply IS a reply.

How many guys get ripped to pieces for threads like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No reply IS a reply.

How many guys get ripped to pieces for threads like this? "

17.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No reply IS a reply.

How many guys get ripped to pieces for threads like this?

17."

Naw I counted 15

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No reply IS a reply.

How many guys get ripped to pieces for threads like this?

17.

Naw I counted 15"

I got to 14.25 and lost count

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By *lareandjon OP   Couple
over a year ago

clare/limerick

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By *lareandjon OP   Couple
over a year ago

clare/limerick

Did not say that. It's when they message over and back plan a meet and then drop communication at the last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......"

No one forced you to guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess "

Thank you!!!! I am constantly saying this. No one forced us to guess,no one forced us to read the thread,no one forced us to message people on here,no one forced us to join,and no one can force others to reply or not reply. If someone replies to messages that's their choice same if they choose to not reply. If someone makes an arrangement to meet, yes its common courtesy to keep the lines of communication open,and if there is a change of plan to inform the other person. However not everyone chooses to have manners.

I have found it best to try not to let the actions of others to bother me, as i am only responsible for my own actions,there are times however that certain peoples actions do get under my skin.

My advise would be to make a note that they have let u down,and next time round be prepared for both eventualities,hopefully it will take the sting out of the letdown.

Happy swinging guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

Thank you!!!! I am constantly saying this. No one forced us to guess,no one forced us to read the thread,no one forced us to message people on here,no one forced us to join,and no one can force others to reply or not reply. If someone replies to messages that's their choice same if they choose to not reply. If someone makes an arrangement to meet, yes its common courtesy to keep the lines of communication open,and if there is a change of plan to inform the other person. However not everyone chooses to have manners.

I have found it best to try not to let the actions of others to bother me, as i am only responsible for my own actions,there are times however that certain peoples actions do get under my skin.

My advise would be to make a note that they have let u down,and next time round be prepared for both eventualities,hopefully it will take the sting out of the letdown.

Happy swinging guys"

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

If,for example, a couple says "No single males" on their profile. A guy then sends them a message that says "Hi".

If they don't reply, who's wasting whose time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If,for example, a couple says "No single males" on their profile. A guy then sends them a message that says "Hi".

If they don't reply, who's wasting whose time?"

Exactly this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess "

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste..."

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself "

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning."

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste..."

Possibly. But it's my choice and I don't complain about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums"

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was called a time waster last wk by a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

Possibly. But it's my choice and I don't complain about it. "

Nor do I, hence the term "facetious"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?"

No one even mentioned anything like that? Why even say something as stupid like that if not to be dismissive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was called a time waster last wk by a newbie "

They signed up to Dial-a-Ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?

No one even mentioned anything like that? Why even say something as stupid like that if not to be dismissive"

There is no "purpose" to being here, beyond amusing oneself. I'm sorry that stating the obvious seems to have hit a nerve with you somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was called a time waster last wk by a newbie "

More newbie bashing.Why be so dismissive of a newbie? He or she is entitled to their opinion just the same as anyone else whether they are right or wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?

No one even mentioned anything like that? Why even say something as stupid like that if not to be dismissive

There is no "purpose" to being here, beyond amusing oneself. I'm sorry that stating the obvious seems to have hit a nerve with you somewhere."

You hit a nerve there with the cancer remark but also I'd be a regular user of the forums and I find it allows me to get talking to more people and get more meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?

No one even mentioned anything like that? Why even say something as stupid like that if not to be dismissive

There is no "purpose" to being here, beyond amusing oneself. I'm sorry that stating the obvious seems to have hit a nerve with you somewhere.

You hit a nerve there with the cancer remark but also I'd be a regular user of the forums and I find it allows me to get talking to more people and get more meets."

And what are meets but amusing yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?

No one even mentioned anything like that? Why even say something as stupid like that if not to be dismissive

There is no "purpose" to being here, beyond amusing oneself. I'm sorry that stating the obvious seems to have hit a nerve with you somewhere.

You hit a nerve there with the cancer remark but also I'd be a regular user of the forums and I find it allows me to get talking to more people and get more meets.

And what are meets but amusing yourself?"

You're dead set on your opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?

No one even mentioned anything like that? Why even say something as stupid like that if not to be dismissive

There is no "purpose" to being here, beyond amusing oneself. I'm sorry that stating the obvious seems to have hit a nerve with you somewhere.

You hit a nerve there with the cancer remark but also I'd be a regular user of the forums and I find it allows me to get talking to more people and get more meets.

And what are meets but amusing yourself?

You're dead set on your opinion."

You have a higher purpose to being here on the site besides getting what you want from it?

Pull the other one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?

No one even mentioned anything like that? Why even say something as stupid like that if not to be dismissive

There is no "purpose" to being here, beyond amusing oneself. I'm sorry that stating the obvious seems to have hit a nerve with you somewhere.

You hit a nerve there with the cancer remark but also I'd be a regular user of the forums and I find it allows me to get talking to more people and get more meets.

And what are meets but amusing yourself?

You're dead set on your opinion.

You have a higher purpose to being here on the site besides getting what you want from it?

Pull the other one"

No I'm not going to argue, I can't be bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?

No one even mentioned anything like that? Why even say something as stupid like that if not to be dismissive

There is no "purpose" to being here, beyond amusing oneself. I'm sorry that stating the obvious seems to have hit a nerve with you somewhere.

You hit a nerve there with the cancer remark but also I'd be a regular user of the forums and I find it allows me to get talking to more people and get more meets.

And what are meets but amusing yourself?

You're dead set on your opinion.

You have a higher purpose to being here on the site besides getting what you want from it?

Pull the other one

No I'm not going to argue, I can't be bothered "

Ah do, I'd love to hear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?

No one even mentioned anything like that? Why even say something as stupid like that if not to be dismissive

There is no "purpose" to being here, beyond amusing oneself. I'm sorry that stating the obvious seems to have hit a nerve with you somewhere.

You hit a nerve there with the cancer remark but also I'd be a regular user of the forums and I find it allows me to get talking to more people and get more meets.

And what are meets but amusing yourself?

You're dead set on your opinion.

You have a higher purpose to being here on the site besides getting what you want from it?

Pull the other one

No I'm not going to argue, I can't be bothered

Ah do, I'd love to hear it"

Happy swinging Casey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?

No one even mentioned anything like that? Why even say something as stupid like that if not to be dismissive

There is no "purpose" to being here, beyond amusing oneself. I'm sorry that stating the obvious seems to have hit a nerve with you somewhere.

You hit a nerve there with the cancer remark but also I'd be a regular user of the forums and I find it allows me to get talking to more people and get more meets.

And what are meets but amusing yourself?

You're dead set on your opinion.

You have a higher purpose to being here on the site besides getting what you want from it?

Pull the other one

No I'm not going to argue, I can't be bothered

Ah do, I'd love to hear it

Happy swinging Casey "

I'm enjoying myself, hope you are too

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?

No one even mentioned anything like that? Why even say something as stupid like that if not to be dismissive

There is no "purpose" to being here, beyond amusing oneself. I'm sorry that stating the obvious seems to have hit a nerve with you somewhere."

I think you're forgetting about those of us from Sydney University!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just wasted all our time trying to guess what you were complaining about......

No one forced you to guess

I was being facetious, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who is on the forums has time to waste...

So you seem to be anti forums but seem to be quite the prolific poster yourself

Where did I say I was anti-forum? It's the perfect time-waster, I just don't delude myself that it has some higher meaning.

The comment anyone on the forums has time to waste seemed quite dissmissive of those who used the forums

You're telling me we're here to cure cancer?

No one even mentioned anything like that? Why even say something as stupid like that if not to be dismissive

There is no "purpose" to being here, beyond amusing oneself. I'm sorry that stating the obvious seems to have hit a nerve with you somewhere.

I think you're forgetting about those of us from Sydney University! "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're forgetting about those of us from Sydney University! "

What's this stuff I see all the time on profiles about Sydney University? I'm originally from Sydney and I can't for the life of me imagine why any University would be seen as a threat or annoyance to a swinger site, or any website so why all the hate for the Sydney University. Just curious.

On the forums being a waste of time. The forums are a place to socialise and meet other people or get site help and things like that. The do serve a useful purpose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sydney university did research on swingers and swinger sites years ago hence the stupid notice at the end of half the profiles here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I see. Maybe they wanted to join one.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

Just had a message from a guy that had messed me about months ago. I was about to delete it but thought about this post, and sent a polite "No thanks".

Back came a "Why?"and I couldn't be bothered to get into it so I just blocked him. It would have wasted less of everones' time if I had just deleted it in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They dont owe you a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say im lucky so far as a single guy even when i was here the last time i havent been messed around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you're forgetting about those of us from Sydney University! "

What's this stuff I see all the time on profiles about Sydney University? I'm originally from Sydney and I can't for the life of me imagine why any University would be seen as a threat or annoyance to a swinger site, or any website so why all the hate for the Sydney University. Just curious.

On the forums being a waste of time. The forums are a place to socialise and meet other people or get site help and things like that. The do serve a useful purpose."

Universities etc do research for a lot of things ..... For example

The Penis Study.

An American Institution funded a study to see why the head of a man's penis was bigger than the shaft. After one year and at a cost of $500,000, they concluded that the reason the head was larger than the shaft was to give the man more pleasure during sex.

After the US released their findings of the study, the French decided to do their own study. After three year study and at a cost of €1,000,000 they concluded that the reason the head was larger than the shaft was to give the woman more pleasure during sex.

The Canadians, unsatisfied with these results decided they would conducted their own study. After two weeks and at a cost of only $100 and a few trays of beer they concluded that the head was bigger than the shaft to stop a mans hand flying off and hitting his forehead ......

P.s. I'm originally from Sydney too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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