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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Just wondering , with the influx of newbies and the many many threads on here about no shows and time wasters and given the fact that we re here to meet and have fun with different people do ya find yourself playing with the same people.

Don't get me wrong I consider myself very luckly with the people I ve met and had the plesure to have played with and can honestly say will never ever get bored or not want to meet them , its always nice to add new people but just done with the shit that goes with it.

Maybe I m on my own on this and this is not a poor me thread, just wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe someone should do a M&G for newbies

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

As a newbie I find it hard to get meets. Hope people give me a chance, cause sometimes it feels like people would rather I was not here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a newbie I find it hard to get meets. Hope people give me a chance, cause sometimes it feels like people would rather I was not here."

Me too

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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Maybe someone should do a M&G for newbies "

Hard enough to do one of them with people ys know and trust let alone a m & g full of newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe someone should do a M&G for newbies

Hard enough to do one of them with people ys know and trust let alone a m & g full of newbies "

Yes I can imagine. I did say it in jest

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

There has been socials for newbies in the past, maybe another will come along soon and you can attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "no shows" at socials will always happen.

Which is why reliable hosts will invite more rather than less, same for party, gb etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a newbie I find it hard to get meets. Hope people give me a chance, cause sometimes it feels like people would rather I was not here."

Only sometimes??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a newbie I find it hard to get meets. Hope people give me a chance, cause sometimes it feels like people would rather I was not here."

Keep plugging at it slugger, you'll get there x you'll not be new forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has been socials for newbies in the past, maybe another will come along soon and you can attend "

I'll keep my eyes peeled MissD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a social last night I had organised and newbies were welcomed as were non verified people it's a pity they didn't turn up tho

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"As a newbie I find it hard to get meets. Hope people give me a chance, cause sometimes it feels like people would rather I was not here.

Keep plugging at it slugger, you'll get there x you'll not be new forever "

If he keeps saying he's new then he'll be new forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering , with the influx of newbies and the many many threads on here about no shows and time wasters and given the fact that we re here to meet and have fun with different people do ya find yourself playing with the same people.

Don't get me wrong I consider myself very luckly with the people I ve met and had the plesure to have played with and can honestly say will never ever get bored or not want to meet them , its always nice to add new people but just done with the shit that goes with it.

Maybe I m on my own on this and this is not a poor me thread, just wondering "

Two problems IMO..

Newbies assume wrongly that meets will happen fairly quickly after they join, it takes time to build up a rapport with other swingers.

Secondly, very often newbies are met with a wall of silence and suspicion.

Everyone here was once a newbie, there are a lot of really decent , friendly longtime swingers on Fab, only too willing to help the newcomers.

From personal experience , it is worth ignoring those who are too paranoid to welcome newcomers, and enjoy the goid people.

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By *happy79x OP   Man
over a year ago

Waterford

it boils down to this. If ya put in the work ya get the results. Don't sit there and bitch and whinge about not getting meets. Newbies are treated with mistrust cause yer new. If ya want a quick fuck there's plenty of other site that will cater for your needs. Put up or shut up. Shit or get off the pot. Put it whatever way ya want. Trust takes time and work.

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