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By *oandWex OP   Couple
over a year ago

arklow

We really didn't want to have to write this post but unfortunately we feel it is necessary. We had a number of couples and single males not show at last nights party without prior notice.

We feel it is common courtesy to send a text or a pm on site to let us know. We don't need to know why you can't attend as we appreciate everyone has lives outside of swinging just a short message to say "sorry can't make it".

Last night was a very busy night and we had to refuse many people who had enquired to come and who could have attended in the end.

We believe that if you were going on a meet with a single female or couple and had to cancel you would let them know therefore we would appreciate if you could extend us the same courtesy so other people can then join in the fun. We organise these parties as the venue is a purpose built club and everyone can have fun whether it be on the social side or the sexual side. As most of you know a lot of hard work goes into the organisation and we thoroughly enjoy doing it for the last 2 years however this gets spoilt when people simply don't turn up after reconfirming twice.

Thanks for your understanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the names aside and don't give them an invite again it nice too be nice you have always givin us invites an sometimes we could not make it but always we mailed you sorry can't make it ect it's so not fair on others who really wanted too attend you do an amazing job as it is and quite a hard job too the last thing u need is people not being polite in sending u a mail that they can't go keep it you guys the venue kicks ass can't wait too party again afte our wedding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say after organising my own social, I can emphasize with ye on the no shows who say nothing, i feel it's pretty rude

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Would it be fair to say that these 'no shows' without prior notice are the same kind who waste others time with not showing up for meets ?

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By *oandWex OP   Couple
over a year ago

arklow


"Put the names aside and don't give them an invite again it nice too be nice you have always givin us invites an sometimes we could not make it but always we mailed you sorry can't make it ect it's so not fair on others who really wanted too attend you do an amazing job as it is and quite a hard job too the last thing u need is people not being polite in sending u a mail that they can't go keep it you guys the venue kicks ass can't wait too party again afte our wedding "

thanks a million guys and congrats on the wedding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put the names aside and don't give them an invite again it nice too be nice you have always givin us invites an sometimes we could not make it but always we mailed you sorry can't make it ect it's so not fair on others who really wanted too attend you do an amazing job as it is and quite a hard job too the last thing u need is people not being polite in sending u a mail that they can't go keep it you guys the venue kicks ass can't wait too party again afte our wedding

thanks a million guys and congrats on the wedding "
you both deserve the credit for every party you put on and your very welcome and thanks for the congrats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this JoandWex. Sounded like a bumper night too, silly, silly people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hàve been to a few of these guys events in the past while on a diff profile name.

These people work very hard to organise their events and it isn't fair for others that had time wasted because of them.

Their loss and they don't deserve a second chance.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I think it's bloody bad form if people don't show up to a party that's been organized.

I'm not directing this at anyone but theses people would be the first to give out if it was done to them. But for you the organizers it's more annoying as you have people that gererally want to go but due to limited space cannot attend. It takes a short time to ask for an invite via mail it's the same if they can't attend.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I dont think people realise the hard work, effort and time you both put into the venue nights. Id agree with the poster above in not giving the no shows another invite, it's downright rude to not send a simple message to say they cant attend.

I love the bones of you both and can understand your frustration but keep rocking guys, the venue nights are tops!!!

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By *appyappyMan
over a year ago

skelmersdale

Its just rude to not let you know. I am sorry I missed last night but work commitments took me away.this is one of the reasons I take deposits when doing the Blackpool parties. It sorts out the time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put them on the "do not invite ever again "list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll turn up at the next one if invited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with previous comments, you's always host a brill party , and last nite was fantastic as usual , their loss on missing a gr8 nite ,

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By *oandWex OP   Couple
over a year ago

arklow


"Totally agree with previous comments, you's always host a brill party , and last nite was fantastic as usual , their loss on missing a gr8 nite , "

thanks hun

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By *oandWex OP   Couple
over a year ago

arklow


"I'll turn up at the next one if invited "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately this happens at socials too. Very frustrating. Definitely turned me off organising any more. Couples and ladies were just as bad for it.

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By *oldenFingersMan
over a year ago

Fairview

So much effot & planning goes into these nights. Far play to Joe & Wex. Getting an invitation and then not showing up without letting them know is out of order and unfair on people who would go in your place. Cop on people. P.S. best of luck getting an invitation again.

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

Hear... Here....

Organising any sort of event be it for business or pleasure takes time and effort. So just a quick and simple email/txt to say sorry cannot attend despite original intentions, even if it's at the last moment goes a long way to appease the organiser and in the case of the Venue usually frees up the slot for someone else to attend.

If it's because of shyness in attending such an event is the issue, it all has to be out first at some point, why not look for a wing person(s) to help you through it. Either someone you know or JnW could suggest someone to link up with.

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

I organised my own little thing and everyone turned up, but i can still emphasise with you, very rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's really a shame after all your organising. But we both had a great night. X E+b

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that guys we know only too well how shit that is ...red card them and move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's really a shame after all your organising. But we both had a great night. X E+b"

Both hahahaha yeh right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's really a shame after all your organising. But we both had a great night. X E+b

Both hahahaha yeh right!"

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare

At the end of the day it was their loss as ye guys did an amazing job as per usual.

Taking names and not allowing them next time is an option but it has its own issues. Maybe a separate profile for parties where ye can block them so even if they change names they can't get around block list unless they set up new account.

A few no shows is expected think it was more the amount with no communication and to think that someone else could have taken their places.

Its such a shame with all the work that ye put in that because of the no shows and ye wanting to make sure that people who are a little late still get in, that ye don't get to enjoy all your labour and join the party as ye are still watching the door.

Nevertheless it was a great night and we really look forward to the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeh you had our phone number for the lady in your COUPLE to call hahaha. Enjoy fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a good few peeps on here that dont turn up i know sumtimes it cant be helped but the ones with genuine reasons would make the effort and not wait till the last minute to say they where not going was no show 88 there lol

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow


"Theres a good few peeps on here that dont turn up i know sumtimes it cant be helped but the ones with genuine reasons would make the effort and not wait till the last minute to say they where not going was no show 88 there lol"
I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height of rudeness tbh!! Obviously things happen as with my week but even with what I had going on, all it took was a quick message to say there was a chance I wouldn't make it then another to confirm I could.

Still a superb night, just a pity those who didn't show hadn't the manners expected of anyone.

You pair rock xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope i get an invite to one of your parties sometime guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always attending 8 actually at the venue and then you stopped allowing me attend

When you stop the genuine people you end up with the riff raff

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I always attending 8 actually at the venue and then you stopped allowing me attend

When you stop the genuine people you end up with the riff raff"

Quite a rude comment! Who said anything about riff raff? And im a regular venue goer and im not riff raff or are any of the people who were there last night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always attending 8 actually at the venue and then you stopped allowing me attend

When you stop the genuine people you end up with the riff raff

Quite a rude comment! Who said anything about riff raff? And im a regular venue goer and im not riff raff or are any of the people who were there last night! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always attending 8 actually at the venue and then you stopped allowing me attend

When you stop the genuine people you end up with the riff raff

Quite a rude comment! Who said anything about riff raff? And im a regular venue goer and im not riff raff or are any of the people who were there last night! "

Hear hear!!

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Time wasters & just prob on site for perving anyways. I'm assuming they were verified b4 u invited them so U'd think they'd at least have decency to cancel & give others chance to go. Real Fabbers have the respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Time wasters & just prob on site for perving anyways. I'm assuming they were verified b4 u invited them so U'd think they'd at least have decency to cancel & give others chance to go. Real Fabbers have the respect. "

Here Here well said

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By *igglesAndGeekCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"I always attending 8 actually at the venue and then you stopped allowing me attend

When you stop the genuine people you end up with the riff raff"

People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

You no showed to one we arranged. Sorry you were seen outside watching others arrive and then never came in and gave some crappy excuse the next day.

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By *arkedMan
over a year ago

Trim

I agree with previous posts, they should be banned. If I get an invitation I'll feel privileged because I'll be all too aware that the organisers have decided to choose me instead of someone else.

I'm guessing there's never been an event organised by anybody here that has not had way more requests for an invitation than there have been places. And from my point of view behaving like this just shows

. A lack of respect for the organisers

. A lack of respect for the members that were not invited

. An absence of manners & common decency

None of which are good enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely crap about riff raff. Attended the venue last night first time and everyone was in great spirits. Pity no single ladies but got chatting to a young couple who were so nice. Thanks Joe and Wex fabs nights are a comin.

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By *yrone-fem43Woman
over a year ago

tyrone

you get them everywere but you make the nite what it is , however the venue is on my next to do list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely crap about riff raff. Attended the venue last night first time and everyone was in great spirits. Pity no single ladies but got chatting to a young couple who were so nice. Thanks Joe and Wex fabs nights are a comin."

Ahem ahem a few single ladies there last night I bet you were the guy at the bar

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Absolutely crap about riff raff. Attended the venue last night first time and everyone was in great spirits. Pity no single ladies but got chatting to a young couple who were so nice. Thanks Joe and Wex fabs nights are a comin.

Ahem ahem a few single ladies there last night I bet you were the guy at the bar "

I was at the bar! Maybe he was hiding in a corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a good few peeps on here that dont turn up i know sumtimes it cant be helped but the ones with genuine reasons would make the effort and not wait till the last minute to say they where not going was no show 88 there lolI was"
so what if you where there how many times have you not showed up to organised meets before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely crap about riff raff. Attended the venue last night first time and everyone was in great spirits. Pity no single ladies but got chatting to a young couple who were so nice. Thanks Joe and Wex fabs nights are a comin."

Errr! Few single ladies about!!

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Didn't see many single ladies either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't see many single ladies either"

How would you know who the single ones were? They would hardly be sitting alone in the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't see many single ladies either

How would you know who the single ones were? They would hardly be sitting alone in the corner "

You mean the don't carry around i big sign saying single lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad you managed to have a good time despite the no shows.

Always irritates me how people who can get invites don't show and those of us who cannot get them well we don't show because of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely crap about riff raff. Attended the venue last night first time and everyone was in great spirits. Pity no single ladies but got chatting to a young couple who were so nice. Thanks Joe and Wex fabs nights are a comin.

Ahem ahem a few single ladies there last night I bet you were the guy at the bar "

If I'd have seen him I'd have reported him to jo n wex for the safety of the people,he shouldn't be ever allowed entry to a party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys...Ye always do a fantastic job!And yes things happen and people can't show up but at least have the curtsey to text and let you know xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't see many single ladies either

How would you know who the single ones were? They would hardly be sitting alone in the corner

You mean the don't carry around i big sign saying single lady? "

Nope Lim guess when you've brought someone with you people assume your part of a couple

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Didn't see many single ladies either

How would you know who the single ones were? They would hardly be sitting alone in the corner

You mean the don't carry around i big sign saying single lady?

Nope Lim guess when you've brought someone with you people assume your part of a couple "

who was the lucky fecker you brought ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't see many single ladies either

How would you know who the single ones were? They would hardly be sitting alone in the corner

You mean the don't carry around i big sign saying single lady?

Nope Lim guess when you've brought someone with you people assume your part of a couple

who was the lucky fecker you brought ?"

Ha well if he got his hot ass in gear and verified me I

Might be able to boast about him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely crap about riff raff. Attended the venue last night first time and everyone was in great spirits. Pity no single ladies but got chatting to a young couple who were so nice. Thanks Joe and Wex fabs nights are a comin.

Ahem ahem a few single ladies there last night I bet you were the guy at the bar

If I'd have seen him I'd have reported him to jo n wex for the safety of the people,he shouldn't be ever allowed entry to a party "
he wasn't there by the way xxx how was limerick

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By *ebbie tvTV/TS
over a year ago

westmeath


"At the end of the day it was their loss as ye guys did an amazing job as per usual.

Taking names and not allowing them next time is an option but it has its own issues. Maybe a separate profile for parties where ye can block them so even if they change names they can't get around block list unless they set up new account.

A few no shows is expected think it was more the amount with no communication and to think that someone else could have taken their places.

Its such a shame with all the work that ye put in that because of the no shows and ye wanting to make sure that people who are a little late still get in, that ye don't get to enjoy all your labour and join the party as ye are still watching the door.

Nevertheless it was a great night and we really look forward to the next one."

it was a great night shame on those for "no show" or let you know there was a no show

again well done on organising a great party you deserve it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They should King it would make it easier to find them when your a newbie and you don't end up pissing off some lady's husband or partner. That goes for the men too by the way. We should be made to wear high viz bibs. Glow sticks optional.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"They should King it would make it easier to find them when your a newbie and you don't end up pissing off some lady's husband or partner. That goes for the men too by the way. We should be made to wear high viz bibs. Glow sticks optional. "

I was talking to nearly everyone!! How did I miss you?

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City


"Nope Lim guess when you've brought someone with you people assume your part of a couple "

Maybe admin would see it as being a couple too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really bad form to confirm then not show up! I'd be there in a flash if I'm lucky enough to get an invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope Lim guess when you've brought someone with you people assume your part of a couple

Maybe admin would see it as being a couple too."

Had your problem before (couple profile) one. It was because I wasn't meeting on my own at the time maybe same reason your gf profile was made into a couple I dunno easily rectified if not the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much effot & planning goes into these nights. Far play to Joe & Wex. Getting an invitation and then not showing up without letting them know is out of order and unfair on people who would go in your place. Cop on people. P.S. best of luck getting an invitation again."

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow


"Didn't see many single ladies either

How would you know who the single ones were? They would hardly be sitting alone in the corner "
that was the problem...it was hard to tell

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