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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys! Just wondering if it's the norm to ask someone here to see proof of been STI free !!! I've just been asked for it ! I'm still fairly new here and thought I've heard it all by now but this has certainly taken me by surprise !

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

Must admit that i believe in regular testing ...but that strikes me as some cocky guy , ask to see his first

Apples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit that i believe in regular testing ...but that strikes me as some cocky guy , ask to see his first

Apples"

I'd agree..given the nature of the site its natural for people to ask that. I'm tested every 6 months for complete blood scans for cholesterol thyroid etc so it's all clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years, I have been meticulous about testing, and personaly have changed my sexual preferences to avoid some STIs.

Have certainly discussed the issue with potential meets, but have never demanded proof.

I once was accused by a guy and a weird couple he played with of possibly giving him something, he later aplogised claiming it was a dental problem

Way too late for apologising!!!

If you do not feel comfortable with this guy`s demand, then do not meet him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get tested too ' it's so important . He's trying to tell me now that I can give him oral but he won't be returning the favour because AIDS is contracted quicker thru female "juices" .. Great that he's careful as am i but Jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get tested too ' it's so important . He's trying to tell me now that I can give him oral but he won't be returning the favour because AIDS is contracted quicker thru female "juices" .. Great that he's careful as am i but Jesus "

What a load of codswallop!!

I'd happily taste lots of champagne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus he must fancy himself! Just be careful if you are giving any info cover up your personal details he doesn't sound like a true fabber to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get tested too ' it's so important . He's trying to tell me now that I can give him oral but he won't be returning the favour because AIDS is contracted quicker thru female "juices" .. Great that he's careful as am i but Jesus

What a load of codswallop!!

I'd happily taste lots of champagne

Hahaha thanks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get tested too ' it's so important . He's trying to tell me now that I can give him oral but he won't be returning the favour because AIDS is contracted quicker thru female "juices" .. Great that he's careful as am i but Jesus "
sorry but that sounds like some lad pulling the piss, know wonder the single lads get a bad name here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A test is proof that nothing was detected on the day of the test. Really no more than that. And some diseases take a while after infection occurs to show up.

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"I get tested too ' it's so important . He's trying to tell me now that I can give him oral but he won't be returning the favour because AIDS is contracted quicker thru female "juices" .. Great that he's careful as am i but Jesus "

More like he wants you to do all the work ....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm regularly tested, not for any reason or condition, just a personal health habit I got into once with an ex, every 3-4 months if sexually active with someone new. Always got the all clear and never got a certificate or any written proof, usually the doctor just give you the results and you're away.

I suppose you could get printed results if you asked for them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get tested too ' it's so important . He's trying to tell me now that I can give him oral but he won't be returning the favour because AIDS is contracted quicker thru female "juices" .. Great that he's careful as am i but Jesus "
You can do better for your self that this guy. Imagine telling a woman, bitch you can suck my dick, but don't expect me to return the favour. If that's what he wants, get an escort. Sorry now to sound harsh but tell this guy to piss off......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D"

How do you know? Not all have noticeable symptoms and condoms don't offer full protection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D"

You know you're STD free without ever have been tested? How do you know for sure? The only definite way to know you're STD free is to know you've not had intercourse with anybody ever.

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

How do you know if you are so if you never got tested...stds don't often show themselves physically. Some can be silent diseases. Just saying you are doesn't mean your ex girlfriend you had 3 years ago was std free!! Just saying...how do you know so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D

You know you're STD free without ever have been tested? How do you know for sure? The only definite way to know you're STD free is to know you've not had intercourse with anybody ever. "

Incorrect, some can be passed on via any genital contact, intercourse not necessary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Jeez he's not that hot now in fairness for me to worry about giving him a print out lol ! He may as well interview me ! It's crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D"

seriously?? I really hope your joking .. you don't know you are STD free without being tested .. just saying .. somethings can lie dormant and be symptom free

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D"

You need to brush up on your knowledge of stds and how they can occur.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit that i believe in regular testing ...but that strikes me as some cocky guy , ask to see his first

Apples

I'd agree..given the nature of the site its natural for people to ask that. I'm tested every 6 months for complete blood scans for cholesterol thyroid etc so it's all clear. "

It's great to get regular blood scans and all, but as far as I know they don't test for things like chlamydia or HPV unless asked for, they usually require a swab to be taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D

How do you know? Not all have noticeable symptoms and condoms don't offer full protection."

I just know, I don't fuck everything, I'm cautious of who fucks me. I'll just get one done to prove you all wrong :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh you really should get tested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeez he's not that hot now in fairness for me to worry about giving him a print out lol ! He may as well interview me ! It's crazy "
Takes all types to make the world go round I suppose. I seen/heard some weird shit on this site. This is up there with the best. Does he want to see the tax on your car too?

Look, it's good that people are conscious of this stuff. But this request/demand/instruction is daft....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know everything there is to know about STDs. You's are right, but I'm also right knowing I don't have an STD. But lets do this test anyways :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D

seriously?? I really hope your joking .. you don't know you are STD free without being tested .. just saying .. somethings can lie dormant and be symptom free "

I agree ! U can't be 100% sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh you really should get tested "

Don't worry I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D

You know you're STD free without ever have been tested? How do you know for sure? The only definite way to know you're STD free is to know you've not had intercourse with anybody ever.

Incorrect, some can be passed on via any genital contact, intercourse not necessary."

Apologies, very true!

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D"
think you should run out now and get your little ass tested .....ask for the print out of the results and post to your profile sweet cheeks ...or this thread shall haunt you ....just saying ....lol

Apples

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D

How do you know? Not all have noticeable symptoms and condoms don't offer full protection.

I just know, I don't fuck everything, I'm cautious of who fucks me. I'll just get one done to prove you all wrong :D"

You might not fuck the village bike but the problem is the lovely girl you are fucking may well have fucked someone who has fucked the village bike before...as for getting it done to prove us wrong,how about getting it done to actually find out if you have anything caught.Christ this thread has just proven peoples understanding of stds and how they are contracted varies so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :Dthink you should run out now and get your little ass tested .....ask for the print out of the results and post to your profile sweet cheeks ...or this thread shall haunt you ....just saying ....lol

Apples"

It's only a thread sure. Now i've made you all think I've an STD...brilliant haha :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D"

Either this is a joke or you are living in another universe!.

You seriously need to get an education on the subject, not only are you risking your own health, but that of the people you sleep with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know everything there is to know about STDs. You's are right, but I'm also right knowing I don't have an STD. But lets do this test anyways :D"

We shall watch this space for u . And we want the print out proof hahaha I jokes I jokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D"

Its life Jim but not as we know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :Dthink you should run out now and get your little ass tested .....ask for the print out of the results and post to your profile sweet cheeks ...or this thread shall haunt you ....just saying ....lol

Apples"

on the .. don't touch with a barge pole heap

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By *igglesAndGeekCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"I get tested too ' it's so important . He's trying to tell me now that I can give him oral but he won't be returning the favour because AIDS is contracted quicker thru female "juices" .. Great that he's careful as am i but Jesus "

BS the foreskin is one of the major entry points for men when it comes to HIV. According to some studies at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D

How do you know? Not all have noticeable symptoms and condoms don't offer full protection.

I just know, I don't fuck everything, I'm cautious of who fucks me. I'll just get one done to prove you all wrong :D

You might not fuck the village bike but the problem is the lovely girl you are fucking may well have fucked someone who has fucked the village bike before...as for getting it done to prove us wrong,how about getting it done to actually find out if you have anything caught.Christ this thread has just proven peoples understanding of stds and how they are contracted varies so much."

I understand the whole aspects of STD/HIV. You may think I'm uneducated simply because of what I said, I said the wrong thing. But I still stand by what I say, I'm STD free, my own opinion. Currently booking appointment ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it weren't for this guy looking for std verification of never have know the OP is having a party!!

Yippee are there openings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D

How do you know? Not all have noticeable symptoms and condoms don't offer full protection.

I just know, I don't fuck everything, I'm cautious of who fucks me. I'll just get one done to prove you all wrong :D

You might not fuck the village bike but the problem is the lovely girl you are fucking may well have fucked someone who has fucked the village bike before...as for getting it done to prove us wrong,how about getting it done to actually find out if you have anything caught.Christ this thread has just proven peoples understanding of stds and how they are contracted varies so much."

Here here ... I do worry about how stupid some people can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D

Either this is a joke or you are living in another universe!.

You seriously need to get an education on the subject, not only are you risking your own health, but that of the people you sleep with."

Once again, I know a lot about STDs. Just because I posted that I've never been tested and that I'm STD free does not mean I'm uneducated in the matter :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you all are enjoying my idiocy :D ha ha

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :Dthink you should run out now and get your little ass tested .....ask for the print out of the results and post to your profile sweet cheeks ...or this thread shall haunt you ....just saying ....lol

Apples

It's only a thread sure. Now i've made you all think I've an STD...brilliant haha :D"

When you getting that test done,ask them for a brain scan too...to see if there actually is one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there is that many pics of unprotected sex going around on this site that it would really make ye wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :Dthink you should run out now and get your little ass tested .....ask for the print out of the results and post to your profile sweet cheeks ...or this thread shall haunt you ....just saying ....lol

Apples

It's only a thread sure. Now i've made you all think I've an STD...brilliant haha :D

When you getting that test done,ask them for a brain scan too...to see if there actually is one."

A brain scan, really ? would a PET scan not suffice?

I do have a brain, trust me. It just works part time sometimes :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D

How do you know? Not all have noticeable symptoms and condoms don't offer full protection.

I just know, I don't fuck everything, I'm cautious of who fucks me. I'll just get one done to prove you all wrong :D

You might not fuck the village bike but the problem is the lovely girl you are fucking may well have fucked someone who has fucked the village bike before...as for getting it done to prove us wrong,how about getting it done to actually find out if you have anything caught.Christ this thread has just proven peoples understanding of stds and how they are contracted varies so much.

I understand the whole aspects of STD/HIV. You may think I'm uneducated simply because of what I said, I said the wrong thing. But I still stand by what I say, I'm STD free, my own opinion. Currently booking appointment ha ha"

Dude, having an opinion of being STD free is lunatic stuff. A medical test is the only way to prove it. Why do you think you are clear? Do you feel clear? Lots if these diseases are asymptomatic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D

How do you know? Not all have noticeable symptoms and condoms don't offer full protection.

I just know, I don't fuck everything, I'm cautious of who fucks me. I'll just get one done to prove you all wrong :D

You might not fuck the village bike but the problem is the lovely girl you are fucking may well have fucked someone who has fucked the village bike before...as for getting it done to prove us wrong,how about getting it done to actually find out if you have anything caught.Christ this thread has just proven peoples understanding of stds and how they are contracted varies so much.

I understand the whole aspects of STD/HIV. You may think I'm uneducated simply because of what I said, I said the wrong thing. But I still stand by what I say, I'm STD free, my own opinion. Currently booking appointment ha haDude, having an opinion of being STD free is lunatic stuff. A medical test is the only way to prove it. Why do you think you are clear? Do you feel clear? Lots if these diseases are asymptomatic. "

I know I'm quite the lunatic in all fairness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We cannot believe how many times we read a profile and somewhere they will write that they go bare back with good friends! Mental .... We block anyone we feel might do it and even then get tested regularly

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Sounds like the guy in the OP is cheating and doesnt want to catch anything he has to explain to the missus.

Either that or it's the worst excuse to get out of cunnilingus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you all are enjoying my idiocy :D ha ha"

No rewind here..

You fucked up mate and Im glad you did for your own sake. If you have met anyone here a polite mail wouldn't go astray either.

just make sure you get checked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are nuts today but this actually takes the biscuit, is there a full moon out or something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agree with u !!! I always look to see if the guy in the pic is wearing a condom lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you all are enjoying my idiocy :D ha ha

No rewind here..

You fucked up mate and Im glad you did for your own sake. If you have met anyone here a polite mail wouldn't go astray either.

just make sure you get checked "

We all make mistakes :D But sure I'll do the test put all your minds at ease :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums are nuts today but this actually takes the biscuit, is there a full moon out or something?"

Not tonight, half moons mess with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you all are enjoying my idiocy :D ha ha

No rewind here..

You fucked up mate and Im glad you did for your own sake. If you have met anyone here a polite mail wouldn't go astray either.

just make sure you get checked "

And don't go looking for meets till you get the all clear. I feel for you, one thoughtless comment and you're in the shit, but you can redeem yourself. I expect you truly are in the clear, but I doubt anyone will risk it now till you can prove it. Which ironically is what everyone is telling the OP she doesn't have to provide to anyone.

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

I don't get tested either and I never caught anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you all are enjoying my idiocy :D ha ha

No rewind here..

You fucked up mate and Im glad you did for your own sake. If you have met anyone here a polite mail wouldn't go astray either.

just make sure you get checked

We all make mistakes :D But sure I'll do the test put all your minds at ease :D"

Your own mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get tested either and I never caught anything."

At least I'm not the only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get tested either and I never caught anything."

Didn't catch me in the long grass either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you all are enjoying my idiocy :D ha ha

No rewind here..

You fucked up mate and Im glad you did for your own sake. If you have met anyone here a polite mail wouldn't go astray either.

just make sure you get checked

We all make mistakes :D But sure I'll do the test put all your minds at ease :D

Your own mind "

No no, my mind is still saying 100% free. This test is just for you guys!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"I don't get tested either and I never caught anything."
then your both very sensible well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you all are enjoying my idiocy :D ha ha

No rewind here..

You fucked up mate and Im glad you did for your own sake. If you have met anyone here a polite mail wouldn't go astray either.

just make sure you get checked

And don't go looking for meets till you get the all clear. I feel for you, one thoughtless comment and you're in the shit, but you can redeem yourself. I expect you truly are in the clear, but I doubt anyone will risk it now till you can prove it. Which ironically is what everyone is telling the OP she doesn't have to provide to anyone. "

It is ironic but you know this thread may actually end up being worth something as a result of a slip of the tongue (pun kinda intended )

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick

Is this what one would call a hijacked thread.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I don't get tested either and I never caught anything.

At least I'm not the only one."

This just gets worse its not him u should be worried about its u and more so ur partners since u became sexually active

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you all are enjoying my idiocy :D ha ha

No rewind here..

You fucked up mate and Im glad you did for your own sake. If you have met anyone here a polite mail wouldn't go astray either.

just make sure you get checked

And don't go looking for meets till you get the all clear. I feel for you, one thoughtless comment and you're in the shit, but you can redeem yourself. I expect you truly are in the clear, but I doubt anyone will risk it now till you can prove it. Which ironically is what everyone is telling the OP she doesn't have to provide to anyone.

It is ironic but you know this thread may actually end up being worth something as a result of a slip of the tongue (pun kinda intended ) "

You're right as well. Lot of people including myself will be getting tests done :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this what one would call a hijacked thread. "

Not really its just expanded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get tested either and I never caught anything.

At least I'm not the only one.

This just gets worse its not him u should be worried about its u and more so ur partners since u became sexually active

"

Very true, thanks for the input folks :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does concern me the level that haven't been tested but yet they know they haven't caught anything a lot of std/sti's don't have visable symptoms..but the gum clinics will always send a text with results if u don't want to use gp

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Sounds like the guy in the OP is cheating and doesnt want to catch anything he has to explain to the missus.

Either that or it's the worst excuse to get out of cunnilingus."

Whatever, my gut feeling says the guy is not right! Op there's plenty guys on here let that one go! I'm not against testing or safe sex don't get me wrong, but this fella doesn't sound sound....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like the guy in the OP is cheating and doesnt want to catch anything he has to explain to the missus.

Either that or it's the worst excuse to get out of cunnilingus.

Whatever, my gut feeling says the guy is not right! Op there's plenty guys on here let that one go! I'm not against testing or safe sex don't get me wrong, but this fella doesn't sound sound...."

Plenty of guys ?yes, plenty of sane stable guys? Not as many

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I hope you all are enjoying my idiocy :D ha ha

No rewind here..

You fucked up mate and Im glad you did for your own sake. If you have met anyone here a polite mail wouldn't go astray either.

just make sure you get checked

We all make mistakes :D But sure I'll do the test put all your minds at ease :D

Your own mind

No no, my mind is still saying 100% free. This test is just for you guys!"

You are actually playing Russian roulette with your own life and im in disbelief at that!! do you realise certain sti's can cause infertility in both women and men? For the sake of a simple test please get checked even if you wear a raincoat on your knob, get checked ye knob!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you all are enjoying my idiocy :D ha ha

No rewind here..

You fucked up mate and Im glad you did for your own sake. If you have met anyone here a polite mail wouldn't go astray either.

just make sure you get checked

We all make mistakes :D But sure I'll do the test put all your minds at ease :D

Your own mind

No no, my mind is still saying 100% free. This test is just for you guys!

You are actually playing Russian roulette with your own life and im in disbelief at that!! do you realise certain sti's can cause infertility in both women and men? For the sake of a simple test please get checked even if you wear a raincoat on your knob, get checked ye knob!! "

I am I am. Fellow fabbers have enlightened me to do it. Should've done it a while ago, but better now than never as they say :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you all are enjoying my idiocy :D ha ha

No rewind here..

You fucked up mate and Im glad you did for your own sake. If you have met anyone here a polite mail wouldn't go astray either.

just make sure you get checked

We all make mistakes :D But sure I'll do the test put all your minds at ease :D

Your own mind

No no, my mind is still saying 100% free. This test is just for you guys!

You are actually playing Russian roulette with your own life and im in disbelief at that!! do you realise certain sti's can cause infertility in both women and men? For the sake of a simple test please get checked even if you wear a raincoat on your knob, get checked ye knob!! "

Not to mention that HPV is known to cause cervical and throat cancer...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Sounds like the guy in the OP is cheating and doesnt want to catch anything he has to explain to the missus.

Either that or it's the worst excuse to get out of cunnilingus.

Whatever, my gut feeling says the guy is not right! Op there's plenty guys on here let that one go! I'm not against testing or safe sex don't get me wrong, but this fella doesn't sound sound....

Plenty of guys ?yes, plenty of sane stable guys? Not as many"

Lol, there are enough, believe me!

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

So you can't see an std, and I should care about my sexual partners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it weren't for this guy looking for std verification of never have know the OP is having a party!!

Yippee are there openings? "

Lol make sure ye all bring yer printouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get tested too ' it's so important . He's trying to tell me now that I can give him oral but he won't be returning the favour because AIDS is contracted quicker thru female "juices" .. Great that he's careful as am i but Jesus "

You'll be better off without this dude if he reckons you can contract HIV easier through femal juices ...

Seriously like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit that i believe in regular testing ...but that strikes me as some cocky guy , ask to see his first

Apples

I'd agree..given the nature of the site its natural for people to ask that. I'm tested every 6 months for complete blood scans for cholesterol thyroid etc so it's all clear.

It's great to get regular blood scans and all, but as far as I know they don't test for things like chlamydia or HPV unless asked for, they usually require a swab to be taken "

Totally agree as I had my bloods done recently and asked for the sti screening and they said that has to be done at the GUM STI clinic.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Stds only reveal symptoms after the infection has become apparent eg. Genital warts that have to be burned off, other infections can lie dormant and the carrier can be unaware. Regardless of whether you care about sexual partners you should at least care about yourself first and foremost and protect yourself at all costs. Sexual health is down to individuals, not for your current partner to worry about for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stds only reveal symptoms after the infection has become apparent eg. Genital warts that have to be burned off, other infections can lie dormant and the carrier can be unaware. Regardless of whether you care about sexual partners you should at least care about yourself first and foremost and protect yourself at all costs. Sexual health is down to individuals, not for your current partner to worry about for you. "

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

To be honest I'm shocked this conversation or debate is taking place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got asked a few times whether or no I was STD free, I know I am but never got tested. It's normal, just safety precautions in all fairness :D

How do you know? Not all have noticeable symptoms and condoms don't offer full protection."

Exactly Casey lee, it's surprising so many people are so uninformed

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"To be honest I'm shocked this conversation or debate is taking place. "

Part of the lifestyle unfortunately pal, at least this lad can take our advice and act upon it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you all are enjoying my idiocy :D ha ha

No rewind here..

You fucked up mate and Im glad you did for your own sake. If you have met anyone here a polite mail wouldn't go astray either.

just make sure you get checked

And don't go looking for meets till you get the all clear. I feel for you, one thoughtless comment and you're in the shit, but you can redeem yourself. I expect you truly are in the clear, but I doubt anyone will risk it now till you can prove it. Which ironically is what everyone is telling the OP she doesn't have to provide to anyone. "

Thoughtless comment????

Utter lunacy given the available knowlege on STIs.

The rest of the guy`s posts are nothing more than damage limtation and a fear of being avoided by potential meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get tested in the free walk in clinic in James's hospital. They don't give you a cert saying you are clean or anything. Just say "we will call you if there are any issues". Plus proof means nothing. You could be cleared of all stis, then catch something later that night after you get tested. I think you just have to be wear protection and understand the risks when in this lifestyle

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

There is a reason you cant give blood for a year after visiting africa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like the guy in the OP is cheating and doesnt want to catch anything he has to explain to the missus.

Either that or it's the worst excuse to get out of cunnilingus.

Whatever, my gut feeling says the guy is not right! Op there's plenty guys on here let that one go! I'm not against testing or safe sex don't get me wrong, but this fella doesn't sound sound...."

agree he sounds like he's up to no good. Plus you look good and clean enough to eat my dinner off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get tested in the free walk in clinic in James's hospital. They don't give you a cert saying you are clean or anything. Just say "we will call you if there are any issues". Plus proof means nothing. You could be cleared of all stis, then catch something later that night after you get tested. I think you just have to be wear protection and understand the risks when in this lifestyle"

protection is always the smart thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes regular testing but what happened to safe sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit that i believe in regular testing ...but that strikes me as some cocky guy , ask to see his first

Apples

I'd agree..given the nature of the site its natural for people to ask that. I'm tested every 6 months for complete blood scans for cholesterol thyroid etc so it's all clear.

It's great to get regular blood scans and all, but as far as I know they don't test for things like chlamydia or HPV unless asked for, they usually require a swab to be taken

Totally agree as I had my bloods done recently and asked for the sti screening and they said that has to be done at the GUM STI clinic."

My GP did it for me 2 weeks ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like the guy in the OP is cheating and doesnt want to catch anything he has to explain to the missus.

Either that or it's the worst excuse to get out of cunnilingus.

Whatever, my gut feeling says the guy is not right! Op there's plenty guys on here let that one go! I'm not against testing or safe sex don't get me wrong, but this fella doesn't sound sound....

agree he sounds like he's up to no good. Plus you look good and clean enough to eat my dinner off "

Haha cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes regular testing but what happened to safe sex? "

Both is advisable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I've been tested previously by gp and in clinic and I've never been given written proof. They just tell you.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Heres one for the ladies to think about... The dreaded thrush.. A yeast infection that can be controlled easily enough and im sure you all know the signs of it yet it can be passed very easily to your partner and lodge under his foreskin where no amount of washing will clean and both need antibiotics. It can keep recurring as its passed back and forth without treatment. So as much as the guys should be aware of their bodies, a simple thing like thrush that ladies are carriers of naturally can infect the man. Be aware girls

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Heres one for the ladies to think about... The dreaded thrush.. A yeast infection that can be controlled easily enough and im sure you all know the signs of it yet it can be passed very easily to your partner and lodge under his foreskin where no amount of washing will clean and both need antibiotics. It can keep recurring as its passed back and forth without treatment. So as much as the guys should be aware of their bodies, a simple thing like thrush that ladies are carriers of naturally can infect the man. Be aware girls "

While I manly agree with the above it has to be said though that Thrush is no STI and I've never heard that trush is being treated with antibiotics. It's a fungus, I don't think antibiotics would do anything there!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Heres one for the ladies to think about... The dreaded thrush.. A yeast infection that can be controlled easily enough and im sure you all know the signs of it yet it can be passed very easily to your partner and lodge under his foreskin where no amount of washing will clean and both need antibiotics. It can keep recurring as its passed back and forth without treatment. So as much as the guys should be aware of their bodies, a simple thing like thrush that ladies are carriers of naturally can infect the man. Be aware girls

While I manly agree with the above it has to be said though that Thrush is no STI and I've never heard that trush is being treated with antibiotics. It's a fungus, I don't think antibiotics would do anything there! "

You are right DH that its a fungus present naturally in a woman and pessary creams and tablets can be used on her like Canestan, it can be passed to a man if not treated. And although its not an sti, if its passed back and forth between 2 people without treatment it eventually needs anti biotics to kill the fungus if no condoms are used.

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

since the last time i got tested as far as i got was wanking into a sock - so unless you are allergic to wool i am good to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heres one for the ladies to think about... The dreaded thrush.. A yeast infection that can be controlled easily enough and im sure you all know the signs of it yet it can be passed very easily to your partner and lodge under his foreskin where no amount of washing will clean and both need antibiotics. It can keep recurring as its passed back and forth without treatment. So as much as the guys should be aware of their bodies, a simple thing like thrush that ladies are carriers of naturally can infect the man. Be aware girls

While I manly agree with the above it has to be said though that Thrush is no STI and I've never heard that trush is being treated with antibiotics. It's a fungus, I don't think antibiotics would do anything there!

You are right DH that its a fungus present naturally in a woman and pessary creams and tablets can be used on her like Canestan, it can be passed to a man if not treated. And although its not an sti, if its passed back and forth between 2 people without treatment it eventually needs anti biotics to kill the fungus if no condoms are used. "

Not only is thrush not treatable by antibiotics, but it can be caused by them, as it kills beneficial bacteria and upsets the natural balance of the vagina.

If both partners are affected, an oral antifungal is usually required, must be prescribed by a doctor.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"And I've been tested previously by gp and in clinic and I've never been given written proof. They just tell you. "

The clinic in town don't tell u unless there is a problem they say ring us in seven days for the results when u do all ur told is it was a clear test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I've been tested previously by gp and in clinic and I've never been given written proof. They just tell you.

The clinic in town don't tell u unless there is a problem they say ring us in seven days for the results when u do all ur told is it was a clear test "

I'm demanding a certificate of cleanliness next time I'm up

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Heres one for the ladies to think about... The dreaded thrush.. A yeast infection that can be controlled easily enough and im sure you all know the signs of it yet it can be passed very easily to your partner and lodge under his foreskin where no amount of washing will clean and both need antibiotics. It can keep recurring as its passed back and forth without treatment. So as much as the guys should be aware of their bodies, a simple thing like thrush that ladies are carriers of naturally can infect the man. Be aware girls

While I manly agree with the above it has to be said though that Thrush is no STI and I've never heard that trush is being treated with antibiotics. It's a fungus, I don't think antibiotics would do anything there!

You are right DH that its a fungus present naturally in a woman and pessary creams and tablets can be used on her like Canestan, it can be passed to a man if not treated. And although its not an sti, if its passed back and forth between 2 people without treatment it eventually needs anti biotics to kill the fungus if no condoms are used.

Not only is thrush not treatable by antibiotics, but it can be caused by them, as it kills beneficial bacteria and upsets the natural balance of the vagina.

If both partners are affected, an oral antifungal is usually required, must be prescribed by a doctor."

Agreed antibiotics can cause thrush which is easily treated with caniston duo and abstaince for a few days

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"And I've been tested previously by gp and in clinic and I've never been given written proof. They just tell you.

The clinic in town don't tell u unless there is a problem they say ring us in seven days for the results when u do all ur told is it was a clear test

I'm demanding a certificate of cleanliness next time I'm up "

U only want the nurse to check behind ur ears duirty boy

Now stop hyjacking its an informative thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heres one for the ladies to think about... The dreaded thrush.. A yeast infection that can be controlled easily enough and im sure you all know the signs of it yet it can be passed very easily to your partner and lodge under his foreskin where no amount of washing will clean and both need antibiotics. It can keep recurring as its passed back and forth without treatment. So as much as the guys should be aware of their bodies, a simple thing like thrush that ladies are carriers of naturally can infect the man. Be aware girls

While I manly agree with the above it has to be said though that Thrush is no STI and I've never heard that trush is being treated with antibiotics. It's a fungus, I don't think antibiotics would do anything there!

You are right DH that its a fungus present naturally in a woman and pessary creams and tablets can be used on her like Canestan, it can be passed to a man if not treated. And although its not an sti, if its passed back and forth between 2 people without treatment it eventually needs anti biotics to kill the fungus if no condoms are used.

Not only is thrush not treatable by antibiotics, but it can be caused by them, as it kills beneficial bacteria and upsets the natural balance of the vagina.

If both partners are affected, an oral antifungal is usually required, must be prescribed by a doctor.

Agreed antibiotics can cause thrush which is easily treated with caniston duo and abstaince for a few days "

Many women get recurrent thrush which does not respond to otc treatment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't get anything on paper last time we were in. Just a verbal all clear.

Noone can KNOW they are clear unless tested. At our last test the nurse told us they have young people in with warts who had never even had sex. Fingers are enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was never giving anything on paper

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