FabSwingers.com forum: I'LL GET BY WITH A LITTLE HELP FROM MY FRIENDS...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok... i dont have a massive list of "friends" on here ( last count was 8) because for me it makes it like facebook (which i refuse to do) but here's a wee question to mull over....

When does a "friend" on your list stop becoming a "friend?"... i, out of my 8 or so "friends" who chatted like mad at first and talked about meeting for a coffee etc etc etc then booooom.. have found that theres now little to no chat and very few replies to my messages although they regularly view my profile....

What are your honest views on this almost need to have a friends list?

I'm sorry if i'm a boring wee runt today but i'll make up for it later.... i promise

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

My hotlist is for people I want to meet but haven't chatted.

My friends list is for people I've yet to meet/have met/want to meet again and who I chat on a semi regular or regular basis.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Most on my friends list I have met

hotlist is a different list fur me altogether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends are only peeps I've met in person... For coffee or otherwise...And am highly likely to meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to wait until I have met a person over coffee or a social and chatted to them before accepting friend requests!!!

Now, I got an unexpected friend request from a hottie....... deciding whether to accept it...... Oooooh I do like to tease....... sure am I not worth the wait!!!!

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By *unsterStagMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"Most on my friends list I have met

hotlist is a different list fur me altogether "

My friends list and hotlist are a mirror of each other as all my friends are hotties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pay no attention to my friends list or anyone else's, I see it as useless, I have no friends only pics so anyone who sends me an invite I accept! It's a pointless thing unless u have friends only pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends list is who I have met either sexualy or just socially.

Hotlist is in my dreams lol!

They just too far away and I just eye them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my friend list are usually people I have met in person or via Skype, that I am happy to share "friend" suitable pics with

my hotlist are people I would like to possibly meet in the future

I don't see fab as a portal to chat to people about every day things.. so I am not too concerned about having heard little from my fab "friends" in weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly this, it makes sense!!!

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

"I pay no attention to my friends list or anyone else's, I see it as useless, I have no friends only pics so anyone who sends me an invite I accept! It's a pointless thing unless u have friends only pics "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you put someone on your hot list, do they get a notification?

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

"If you put someone on your hot list, do they get a notification? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seriously need to have a look at that friends and hotlist I clicked on the hotlist yesterday and I had loads I didn't even know where it came from anyway I am a newbie in the forums so I hope to pick up these little tips cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've people on my friends list that I chat to & would like to meet ! My hot list is a diff story I don't have that many on it but the people on it are hot as.. and I've either met them or can't wait to get my hands on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've never used the hotlist thing... to be honest i havent a clue why theres both a hotlist and a friendlist.. surely you have people on your friendslist because you DO actually think they're hot?

I'm sorry i done this thread now cos i'm confused.com

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And sorry.. its 14 friends i have.. not 8.. i must have added more when i was d*unk and horny 2 nights ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling very inadequate here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I now have 2 friends... 2 which i know i'll meet at some stage for coffee at least... although one prefers hot chocolate.... the drink... not the group

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"If you put someone on your hot list, do they get a notification? "
I actually wish we could know if we are on a hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you put someone on your hot list, do they get a notification? I actually wish we could know if we are on a hotlist

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

My same reasoning except I don't accept. I've no 'friends' list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs you are on mine hehe.xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So... has anyone got an explanation as to why theres a friend list AND a hotlist? I'm baffled

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"So... has anyone got an explanation as to why theres a friend list AND a hotlist? I'm baffled

I think a few people have said it

hotlist = people you want to meet

friends = people you have met or talked to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends are people who caught the imagination and have manners, hotlist are desirable Fuckables with potential xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Friends are people who caught the imagination and have manners, hotlist are desirable Fuckables with potential xx"

So people on the hotlist dont need manners?..... fuck.. mine'll be full by 2 o'clock

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats why only potentials, don't whinge when threw off friends list

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I think we should all put our names down if we have a hot list

if the person on your hotlist is on too then a thumbs up or mail them.... holist hock ups...

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over a year ago

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

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that sounds like a good idea for a thread hot list hock ups.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

"So... has anyone got an explanation as to why theres a friend list AND a hotlist? I'm baffled

Hotlist is people you stalk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends are people I have had contact with one way or another ....my hotlist are those I would like to make contact with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it hock or hook??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a Hotlist.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Me too it'd growing daily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me be .... Let me be let me be .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'm gona have plan a trip south to investigate these hotlists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we should all put our names down if we have a hot list

if the person on your hotlist is on too then a thumbs up or mail them.... holist hock ups..."

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

"I think we should all put our names down if we have a hot list

if the person on your hotlist is on too then a thumbs up or mail them.... holist hock ups..."

I'm liking the sound of that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think we should all put our names down if we have a hot list

if the person on your hotlist is on too then a thumbs up or mail them.... holist hock ups...

I'm liking the sound of that!

Hock ups.... sounds like a cocked up hook up

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I think we should all put our names down if we have a hot list

if the person on your hotlist is on too then a thumbs up or mail them.... holist hock ups...

I'm liking the sound of that!

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well someone put the thread up than.... as I fin think I have worded it that great and I have to peel my spuds too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peel your xxxxxxx off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Peel your xxxxxxx off

Facepak???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ain't looking at her face

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