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"John, I was 18 when I lost my virginity and the guy I lost it too was 13 years older than me, it wasn't nice, the location, the guy, the atmosphere! There's no point in me dwelling on that now!! I'm starting to enjoy my sex life at this present day and that's what counts more to me, I've met so many great people here, tried things I never thought I would try or experience! There are more to experience, I can't wait for the 2nd half of this year....... I get the feeling it's going to be awesome!!!!! " That's partly my point. If I met someone who was a virgin and was planning on helping them lose their virginity, then the responsibility would be with me to make sure they had the best night possible, any man in his right mind would. | |||
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"I'd imagine it'd be rare to find a virgin on here tbh?" I meant everyday life moreso than here. | |||
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"So as most of us know, In the book 50 shades Ana is a virgin when she meets Christian, and it's my opinion that he'd be a horrible "first" for anyone. It got me thinking though. what would you do if you were in a similar situation? Say you met someone, and there's 5 or 6 years age difference, and they confess that they're a virgin. Most of us here are very experienced sexually, what would you do? would you take them by the hand and usher them into a new world of sexuality? Would you not want that pressure? The more I thought about it, the more i realised that it's never been a better time to start having sex, if you never have before. It's never been more tolerant, experimentation is encouraged (just look at the site we're on!) Think back to the time when you lost your virginity you were probably a teenager, with someone of similar age and experience. It probably wasnt great. If I were in a situation where i met someone in their 30's say and they confessed to being a virgin, I'd be both terrified and excited. I'd be eager to make their first time as amazing as possible for them, but i'd understand the pressure it would put on me. Lets have as many serious replies as possible. I'm interested to hear peoples opinions on this." I'd love to give it a go | |||
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" I'd love to give it a go" I'm curious to hear your reasons why? | |||
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"Hi there it would be a great experience for a girl if any you guys was the first as you all know with hindsight how to have good sex, and firsts for boys are always quick till they learn their craft, xx" That had crossed my mind. But being honest, the last time i encountered a virgin was over 20 years ago and i was practically one myself. emotional maturity was neither of our strong points. | |||
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" I'd love to give it a go I'm curious to hear your reasons why?" when I was a teenager I had a fantasy to be broken in by an older woman,with experience. That never happened, my first time was with a girl my own age and it is nothing to write home about... so I'd love to try make someone's first time a good experience for them...plus I think I'd get a lot out of the experience as well.. | |||
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"Reading back over the thread seems to reveal something. The ladies would not bed a virgin he's likely to be crap and their sexual satisfaction is too important to them. The lads, no surprise would bed a virgin. BUT it seems we'd do it to make sure she had a great experience. Isn't that kind of one sided? Yes it is one sided and possibly because the guys remember how inexperience they were when having sex for the first time, and want to make up for it giving the chance if having a virgin again and women are greedy always wantng the best pleasurable experience. I'd be prepared to put aside my sexual needs for one night to put an inexperienced partner at ease. "You've never given a blow job? Don't worry there's always next time. First let me introduce you to the wonderful world of cunnilingus" " | |||
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"Im really submissive as u know lol so for me to fuck someone who is nervous shy and has never been near a woman would turn me off completely. " Me too I like the guy to take charge he has to know what he's doing | |||
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" ..."You've never given a blow job? Don't worry there's always next time. First let me introduce you to the wonderful world of cunnilingus" " Be prepared for the question "is that like Anime Mr Mingo?" | |||
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"I met someone who was nearly 30, who was a virgin, while I had experience already. Even though he lied about it at first, I knew he was. The experience was not bad, it was actually good and he surprised me how fast of a learner he was, no regrets whatsoever (I married him and kept him for myself until I corrupted him, and we started to swing!) Based on that experience alone, I would not shy away from another virgin, although its not common to find and "older" virgin nowadays. " You truly earned that tee shirt you're wearing. | |||
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" ..."You've never given a blow job? Don't worry there's always next time. First let me introduce you to the wonderful world of cunnilingus" Be prepared for the question "is that like Anime Mr Mingo?"" " before we get started let me show you some tentacle porn" | |||
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"Reading back over the thread seems to reveal something. The ladies would not bed a virgin he's likely to be crap and their sexual satisfaction is too important to them. The lads, no surprise would bed a virgin. BUT it seems we'd do it to make sure she had a great experience. Isn't that kind of one sided? I'd be prepared to put aside my sexual needs for one night to put an inexperienced partner at ease. "You've never given a blow job? Don't worry there's always next time. First let me introduce you to the wonderful world of cunnilingus" " You say "there's always next time" to me that suggests there will be a next time. If I was to meet someone sex is a big part of a relationship for me. I don't think I'd be comfortable taking someone's virginity if it was meaningless for me and then I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with someone who was very inexperienced. So therefor no. I wouldn't be willing to take someone's virginity. | |||
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"I met someone who was nearly 30, who was a virgin, while I had experience already. Even though he lied about it at first, I knew he was. The experience was not bad, it was actually good and he surprised me how fast of a learner he was, no regrets whatsoever (I married him and kept him for myself until I corrupted him, and we started to swing!) Based on that experience alone, I would not shy away from another virgin, although its not common to find and "older" virgin nowadays. You truly earned that tee shirt you're wearing. " thanks | |||
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"Reading back over the thread seems to reveal something. The ladies would not bed a virgin he's likely to be crap and their sexual satisfaction is too important to them. The lads, no surprise would bed a virgin. BUT it seems we'd do it to make sure she had a great experience. Isn't that kind of one sided? I'd be prepared to put aside my sexual needs for one night to put an inexperienced partner at ease. "You've never given a blow job? Don't worry there's always next time. First let me introduce you to the wonderful world of cunnilingus" You say "there's always next time" to me that suggests there will be a next time. If I was to meet someone sex is a big part of a relationship for me. I don't think I'd be comfortable taking someone's virginity if it was meaningless for me and then I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with someone who was very inexperienced. So therefor no. I wouldn't be willing to take someone's virginity. " thats a very fair point. all I'm saying is that taking someones virginity wouldnt be meaningless for me. I'd have to treat the situation very carefully. HOWEVER, we all know that there would be guys out there who'd think of it as a trophy. | |||
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"Reading back over the thread seems to reveal something. The ladies would not bed a virgin he's likely to be crap and their sexual satisfaction is too important to them. The lads, no surprise would bed a virgin. BUT it seems we'd do it to make sure she had a great experience. Isn't that kind of one sided? I'd be prepared to put aside my sexual needs for one night to put an inexperienced partner at ease. "You've never given a blow job? Don't worry there's always next time. First let me introduce you to the wonderful world of cunnilingus" You say "there's always next time" to me that suggests there will be a next time. If I was to meet someone sex is a big part of a relationship for me. I don't think I'd be comfortable taking someone's virginity if it was meaningless for me and then I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with someone who was very inexperienced. So therefor no. I wouldn't be willing to take someone's virginity. thats a very fair point. all I'm saying is that taking someones virginity wouldnt be meaningless for me. I'd have to treat the situation very carefully. HOWEVER, we all know that there would be guys out there who'd think of it as a trophy." oh no I totally agree that it wouldn't be meaningless but sex to me is just sex unless I'm in a relationship with someone and I wouldn't be in a relationship with a virgin!! | |||
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