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By *hillen89 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Came onto the forum a while back saying how my messages were being deleted instantly etc and asked how I could correct this. The advice I got was to send a more comprehensive message, be open, be polite and basically give a nice introduction about myself.

Having done all of this my messages are being read and not deleted. As this is obviously an improvement on them just being deleted outright I am still no closer to getting the conversations and meets that I want lol

I can't really think of what else I can say to get people interested and I can't be that ugly because my mum is always saying how handsome I am.

Any pointers? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile to me seems fine, the only thing I can think as advice to offer you is to mail people where you match their preferences ie as your 23 you may be a little young for some people, but best of luck

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"Came onto the forum a while back saying how my messages were being deleted instantly etc and asked how I could correct this. The advice I got was to send a more comprehensive message, be open, be polite and basically give a nice introduction about myself.

Having done all of this my messages are being read and not deleted. As this is obviously an improvement on them just being deleted outright I am still no closer to getting the conversations and meets that I want lol

I can't really think of what else I can say to get people interested and I can't be that ugly because my mum is always saying how handsome I am.

Any pointers? lol "

Have you asked a woman to look over your profile and see if it can be improved in any way

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By *hillen89 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Your profile to me seems fine, the only thing I can think as advice to offer you is to mail people where you match their preferences ie as your 23 you may be a little young for some people, but best of luck "

Generally speaking I would but I do chance my arm with older women the odd time lol thanks!

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By *hillen89 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Came onto the forum a while back saying how my messages were being deleted instantly etc and asked how I could correct this. The advice I got was to send a more comprehensive message, be open, be polite and basically give a nice introduction about myself.

Having done all of this my messages are being read and not deleted. As this is obviously an improvement on them just being deleted outright I am still no closer to getting the conversations and meets that I want lol

I can't really think of what else I can say to get people interested and I can't be that ugly because my mum is always saying how handsome I am.

Any pointers? lol

Have you asked a woman to look over your profile and see if it can be improved in any way "

I think I did that last time I was asking for advice but it couldn't hurt to get a second opinion!

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

Personally I don't see anything wrong with ur profile. Ur willing to chat and don't expect a "hello, OK let's shag". Although u are well below our age bracket, some women/cpls wouldn't feel comfortable meeting a guy as young as u. Maybe just check profiles that interest u, if they have no certain age preference u could chance mailing them. Hope u have better luck in future, when u do get meeting there's lots of fun to be had here with genuine, down to earth ppl.

Tina

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By *hillen89 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Personally I don't see anything wrong with ur profile. Ur willing to chat and don't expect a "hello, OK let's shag". Although u are well below our age bracket, some women/cpls wouldn't feel comfortable meeting a guy as young as u. Maybe just check profiles that interest u, if they have no certain age preference u could chance mailing them. Hope u have better luck in future, when u do get meeting there's lots of fun to be had here with genuine, down to earth ppl.

Tina "

I generally do only message people who include 23 in their age limit but even then it isnt developing into a convo or even a social meet I have had a few good meets so far but just a big dry spell recently lol

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

You're young so you will have to get in with a group.

I get most of my meets not from chat or the forum, but from just being online and someone seeing me.

This probably wont work for you, you will need to be more active.

Try going into chat, being pleasant, being helpful, don't be too controversial. Try get an invite to an event or social. It will take time. Treat any social organizer that lives near you like a God, you will need them.

The good thing about this approach is that once you get into a group, everyone tends to fuck everyone so you will have sex with a few in a row. The bad thing about it is that the fallout if you have a disagreement is usually pretty harsh.

Take care, and keep your personal info tight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I don't see anything wrong with ur profile. Ur willing to chat and don't expect a "hello, OK let's shag". Although u are well below our age bracket, some women/cpls wouldn't feel comfortable meeting a guy as young as u. Maybe just check profiles that interest u, if they have no certain age preference u could chance mailing them. Hope u have better luck in future, when u do get meeting there's lots of fun to be had here with genuine, down to earth ppl.

Tina

I generally do only message people who include 23 in their age limit but even then it isnt developing into a convo or even a social meet I have had a few good meets so far but just a big dry spell recently lol "

Hang tough, the age thing isn't a massive disadvantage. I'm 22 sure

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