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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a couple meet single guy at hotel who should pay the cost of room ?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Divide evenly would be my suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share the cost share the pleasures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share the cost

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What if just meeting female ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share of course

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"What if just meeting female ?"

Divide evenly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?"

Man to pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share unless one party does not stay the night, eg had some day time meets and we stayed but the lady did not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?"

I say still share the cost...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share the cost most definitely - the only time I wouldn't expect but would still offer to pay is if someone was staying over on business and had their hotel room paid for already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man should at least offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have always paid ourselves ??!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Man should at least offer "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?"

Still share the cost.Why would you expect the man to pay ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the person who requested the meet. If the woman asks she pays. Ditto for the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the person who requested the meet. If the woman asks she pays. Ditto for the man. "

Why ??? Cost should always be shared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have always paid...and mainly because the idea of money exchanging hands on a meet makes me a little queasy..but if its to be a regular thing then it needs to be verbalised..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so far , I have never had a man offer to pay for a hotel room . EVER .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Man should at least offer

Why? "

As with all things I say here , my opinion not my advice , order or suggestion that it suits everyone

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Man should at least offer

Why?

As with all things I say here , my opinion not my advice , order or suggestion that it suits everyone "

You must have a reason for saying it though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Man should at least offer

Why?

As with all things I say here , my opinion not my advice , order or suggestion that it suits everyone

You must have a reason for saying it though? "

I always do it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Man should at least offer

Why?

As with all things I say here , my opinion not my advice , order or suggestion that it suits everyone

You must have a reason for saying it though? "

As you must have a reason for querying it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gentleman would offer, I would be ladylike & decline.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Man should at least offer

Why?

As with all things I say here , my opinion not my advice , order or suggestion that it suits everyone

You must have a reason for saying it though?

As you must have a reason for querying it ? "

What? Isn't curiosity enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A gentleman would offer, I would be ladylike & decline. "

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

Normally I get paid for.

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas


"If a couple meet single guy at hotel who should pay the cost of room ?"

If your a single guy and lucky enough to meet a couple, the single guy should pay the bill.

Maybe some of the extra expenses might be paid for by by the couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normally I get paid for. "

In wonky carrots?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would also pay half if invited to meet in hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normally I get paid for.

In wonky carrots?"

Big LOL's

Class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 but can depend if one half has to travel a long distance. Fuel ain't cheap. And possibly parking aswel.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Shared fun, shared costs...

I don't see any reasons why single ladies or couples should not pay their share, having said that I experienced twice that the lad did not contribute....

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

im open to any sexy lady who wants to pay for me to stay in a swanky hotel

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By *onnieBMan
over a year ago

in the middle of


"so far , I have never had a man offer to pay for a hotel room . EVER . "

Thats not shocking ...thats disgusting.

Real men know how to treat a lady right.

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By *onnieBMan
over a year ago

in the middle of


"A gentleman would offer, I would be ladylike & decline. "

this

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By *exyman1965Man
over a year ago

Lucan

I've always paid for first meet and if we meet again probably share the cost then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share the cost ..i know too many cpls have caught singles for cost not fair in our opinion...if we invite a single we pay full cost end off.

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By *heoldhippyMan
over a year ago

Midleton

Its obvious!! Share the cost equally.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll IDE pay for d hotel if I was getting to meet u waaah ur a gorgeous lady luv ur photos mmm there d best photos on here IDE say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always shared the cost or on the occasion a man has paid I'd pay for the hotel the next time.

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

We've always paid for our own hotel room !! We do not want to share a room for the night !! Fun is fun for however long we play but we expect the couple or person to organize their own room or where they stay !!.After all it is what it is and do you really all want to wake up in the same bed ? xx happy fabbing this is just our view .

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By *heoldhippyMan
over a year ago

Midleton

And I'd imagine that the man would have always insisted on paying the next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have always paid my share for hotel costs ect.

It is a shared experience, so imo it is a shared cost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all in this for the same reason so should pay the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We live in an equal society. Doesn't matter who meets whom and how many people participate. Splitting costs equally seems the fairest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I was a single lady and the guy didn't at least offer to pay for the room I wouldn't be very impressed tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We live in an equal society. Doesn't matter who meets whom and how many people participate. Splitting costs equally seems the fairest."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if I was a single lady and the guy didn't at least offer to pay for the room I wouldn't be very impressed tbh"

Chivalry is a lovely attractive trait nowadays. But I'm fiercely independent and wouldn't want to be beholden to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im generally happy enough to pay the first / second meet. However I always think very highly of women / couples that at least offer to split it. It's a great gesture.

Met a couple twice before, paid both times, never offered me a cent then the husband asked if I'd be his wife's fuckbuddy..........I said I couldn't afford hotels regularly on my own! He flipped!! I spoke to her and she agreed with me............

I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if I was a single lady and the guy didn't at least offer to pay for the room I wouldn't be very impressed tbh

Chivalry is a lovely attractive trait nowadays. But I'm fiercely independent and wouldn't want to be beholden to anyone."

I am a bit old fashioned like that..... But only that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If meeting a single as a single I'd pay. Women have extra costs. Any meets I've had in hotels they usually make a good effort, cloths hair etc. and it's nice to be nice

If a cpl depends, if the couple is staying on for the night and single is leaving after the fun the obviously the couple pays. Or if the couple organises it couple should

If it's the singles gig let them pay for it but offer

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

Splitting costs is fine but ye seem not to have picked up on what we've said ,as a couples meet you play and because ye are splitting the Costs you are "sharing the room " the meet goes well are you soposed to sleep in the one bed ,wife in the middle or hubby in the middle lol meet goes bad are your still soposed to share same room bed etc lol !! A meet is a meet for time you play that is it !!

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By *itanium 5Man
over a year ago

Cork

InsatiblwI wouldn't,allow you to pay for anything. I would give anything just to spend some time with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would expect to share half the cost unless..

1) Someone was staying in the hotel ANYWAY as part of a holiday or a business trip.

2) Someone had a lot of other costs other than the hotel. Travel costs or dinner/drinks for example.

3) Someone was staying overnight and someone wasnt. Eg. A couple booking a room for a MMF and kicking him out when then play is done and staying the night themselves.

4) With a regular partner where it's easier to alternate who pays for the hotel.

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

We would never expect a guest to pay. To date however every one of our liaisons have offered but we have simply thanked them and declined. We are very fussy and only play with those that we consider to be friends and not random people. We meet for our pleasure and our guest can join us if they so wish. If I were a single woman I would not expect to pay. It's not that I wouldn't be happy to contribute in other ways but I'm quite 'old fashioned' in many respects so would offer but would not want it expected of me. I would happily buy drinks and lunch but the thought of handing over cash would make me feel uneasy x

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"If a couple meet single guy at hotel who should pay the cost of room ?"
If the guy cannot accommodate he should pay for the hotel room. On a simplistic basis he should consider himself lucky that a couple want to meet him and the least he can do is pay for the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a couple meet single guy at hotel who should pay the cost of room ?"

If you're staying all night and he's not, then logic suggests you pay. But it would be manners for him to offer to go halves.

My partner and I would consider the third to be our guest (carefully chosen I might add) - as such we would insist on paying for the room.

I suspect that for an mfm situation this also has the effect of reinforcing to the third party that the male of the couple has "dominant" status - men and their egos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he should consider himself lucky that a couple want to meet him and the least he can do is pay for the room. "

Hate this attitude. Shared pleasure shared cost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he should consider himself lucky that a couple want to meet him and the least he can do is pay for the room.

Hate this attitude. Shared pleasure shared cost. "

I agree that it's a terrible attitude - the third party is a human being worthy of respect and consideration - although I personally feel the couple should pay on the assumption that they'll will have the room all night while third party will be expected to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he should consider himself lucky that a couple want to meet him and the least he can do is pay for the room.

Hate this attitude. Shared pleasure shared cost.

I agree that it's a terrible attitude - the third party is a human being worthy of respect and consideration - although I personally feel the couple should pay on the assumption that they'll will have the room all night while third party will be expected to leave."

The Panda Express ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he should consider himself lucky that a couple want to meet him and the least he can do is pay for the room.

Hate this attitude. Shared pleasure shared cost.

I agree that it's a terrible attitude - the third party is a human being worthy of respect and consideration - although I personally feel the couple should pay on the assumption that they'll will have the room all night while third party will be expected to leave.

The Panda Express ? "

The art of being a good guest is to know when to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he should consider himself lucky that a couple want to meet him and the least he can do is pay for the room.

Hate this attitude. Shared pleasure shared cost.

I agree that it's a terrible attitude - the third party is a human being worthy of respect and consideration - although I personally feel the couple should pay on the assumption that they'll will have the room all night while third party will be expected to leave.

The Panda Express ?

The art of being a good guest is to know when to leave"

Indeed one should never overstay ones welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on who is meeting who but most of the time share costs as after all we r all sharing the pleasure

Exceptions would be if the cpl or single were already staying there & we were leaving after a few hrs but we would still offer to share costs, but if both parties were staying the night shared costs for sure.

There r no hard & fast rules in sharing costs, all down to individual meets

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

well said we totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bringing up money on a first meet. A definate no no. Just enjoy it. Handing over cash.....embarrassing for both parties we think.

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By *ockhard and SweetcheeksCouple
over a year ago

City


"What if just meeting female ?"

Equal rights all the way!!!! just coz ur a woman...doesn't mean the other person has to pay for you!!! I'd personally would go halves with the person or group!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who made the rule that having a vagina gives you the upper hand in sharing costs?... It doesnt make much sense

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By * dubzMan
over a year ago

sth Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bringing up money on a first meet. A definate no no. Just enjoy it. Handing over cash.....embarrassing for both parties we think."

so how do you sort out the issue of payment! do ye just assume that the OTHER party will pay for ye and leave it at that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bringing up money on a first meet. A definate no no. Just enjoy it. Handing over cash.....embarrassing for both parties we think.

so how do you sort out the issue of payment! do ye just assume that the OTHER party will pay for ye and leave it at that!"

Kinda hilarious to think a couple would be about to get jiggy with someone yet be shy about discussing the cost of the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share the cost. Unless the couple were already staying overnight then they should pay. Of course this could all be agreed before hand.

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By *LICK IF U DAREWoman
over a year ago

good girl gone bad!!!!!!


"Bringing up money on a first meet. A definate no no. Just enjoy it. Handing over cash.....embarrassing for both parties we think."
I've been offered money for sex Kills my horn!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always payed half of the cost .

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By *exmark12Man
over a year ago

Rathcoole/Roscommon/Mayo

everybody should share costs not everybody is flush with cash

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By *exmark12Man
over a year ago

Rathcoole/Roscommon/Mayo

only fair no matter what the circumstances.

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down

If we are away for a few nights and arrange a meet when staying then we would pay. But if arranging a meet and use a hotel for that then we would expect to share the cost. We have never had any issues with this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so far , I have never had a man offer to pay for a hotel room . EVER . "

Shocking ha

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Am happy to pay the first time. If she really really wants to pay she can pay the next time.

I might just get a repeat meet that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bringing up money on a first meet. A definate no no. Just enjoy it. Handing over cash.....embarrassing for both parties we think."

Huh???

So who.pays then?

The big swing god in the sky

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

It's 2015 guys ... Split it down the middle ... Didn't really think otherwise tbh

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By *j-1990Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"What if just meeting female ?"

I ove how we have this thing called feminism, that only applies when women are being discriminated against

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

50/50 split has always been my experience so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?

I ove how we have this thing called feminism, that only applies when women are being discriminated against"

The funny thing is, some men get offended by a woman insisting on splitting the cost of anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?

I ove how we have this thing called feminism, that only applies when women are being discriminated against

The funny thing is, some men get offended by a woman insisting on splitting the cost of anything"

Chivalry dies hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?

I ove how we have this thing called feminism, that only applies when women are being discriminated against

The funny thing is, some men get offended by a woman insisting on splitting the cost of anything

Chivalry dies hard"

So does ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is invited to join then they shouldn't have to pay... always offer to make a contribution but by no means should the guest have to pay all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?

I ove how we have this thing called feminism, that only applies when women are being discriminated against

The funny thing is, some men get offended by a woman insisting on splitting the cost of anything

Chivalry dies hard

So does ego"

I wouldn't know I just assume if a man paid for something it's chivalrous not egotistical? Anyways I'm of the opinion that going dutch works better in the above situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?

I ove how we have this thing called feminism, that only applies when women are being discriminated against

The funny thing is, some men get offended by a woman insisting on splitting the cost of anything

Chivalry dies hard

So does ego

I wouldn't know I just assume if a man paid for something it's chivalrous not egotistical? Anyways I'm of the opinion that going dutch works better in the above situation"

There are men who consider it an affront to not be allowed to pay - alpha males if you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?

I ove how we have this thing called feminism, that only applies when women are being discriminated against

The funny thing is, some men get offended by a woman insisting on splitting the cost of anything

Chivalry dies hard

So does ego

I wouldn't know I just assume if a man paid for something it's chivalrous not egotistical? Anyways I'm of the opinion that going dutch works better in the above situation

There are men who consider it an affront to not be allowed to pay - alpha males if you want"

Now big difference between chivalry and misogyny. That's a pretty big jump like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?

I ove how we have this thing called feminism, that only applies when women are being discriminated against

The funny thing is, some men get offended by a woman insisting on splitting the cost of anything

Chivalry dies hard

So does ego

I wouldn't know I just assume if a man paid for something it's chivalrous not egotistical? Anyways I'm of the opinion that going dutch works better in the above situation

There are men who consider it an affront to not be allowed to pay - alpha males if you want

Now big difference between chivalry and misogyny. That's a pretty big jump like "

Who said it was misogyny? It's not about women at all for those guys, it's all about them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?

I ove how we have this thing called feminism, that only applies when women are being discriminated against

The funny thing is, some men get offended by a woman insisting on splitting the cost of anything

Chivalry dies hard

So does ego

I wouldn't know I just assume if a man paid for something it's chivalrous not egotistical? Anyways I'm of the opinion that going dutch works better in the above situation

There are men who consider it an affront to not be allowed to pay - alpha males if you want

Now big difference between chivalry and misogyny. That's a pretty big jump like

Who said it was misogyny? It's not about women at all for those guys, it's all about them!"

Calling them alpha males sorta makes it sounds like they believe them self to be superior and that thinking is misogynistic. I really don't see the need for that jump but obviously you have come across some assholes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?

I ove how we have this thing called feminism, that only applies when women are being discriminated against

The funny thing is, some men get offended by a woman insisting on splitting the cost of anything

Chivalry dies hard

So does ego

I wouldn't know I just assume if a man paid for something it's chivalrous not egotistical? Anyways I'm of the opinion that going dutch works better in the above situation

There are men who consider it an affront to not be allowed to pay - alpha males if you want

Now big difference between chivalry and misogyny. That's a pretty big jump like

Who said it was misogyny? It's not about women at all for those guys, it's all about them!

Calling them alpha males sorta makes it sounds like they believe them self to be superior and that thinking is misogynistic. I really don't see the need for that jump but obviously you have come across some assholes."

They see themselves as superior to other men too - interestingly it's rooted in abysmal self-esteem. I'm an observer of human behavior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?

I ove how we have this thing called feminism, that only applies when women are being discriminated against

The funny thing is, some men get offended by a woman insisting on splitting the cost of anything

Chivalry dies hard

So does ego

I wouldn't know I just assume if a man paid for something it's chivalrous not egotistical? Anyways I'm of the opinion that going dutch works better in the above situation

There are men who consider it an affront to not be allowed to pay - alpha males if you want

Now big difference between chivalry and misogyny. That's a pretty big jump like

Who said it was misogyny? It's not about women at all for those guys, it's all about them!

Calling them alpha males sorta makes it sounds like they believe them self to be superior and that thinking is misogynistic. I really don't see the need for that jump but obviously you have come across some assholes.

They see themselves as superior to other men too - interestingly it's rooted in abysmal self-esteem. I'm an observer of human behavior."

Ah well I'll just leave it there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if just meeting female ?

I ove how we have this thing called feminism, that only applies when women are being discriminated against

The funny thing is, some men get offended by a woman insisting on splitting the cost of anything

Chivalry dies hard

So does ego

I wouldn't know I just assume if a man paid for something it's chivalrous not egotistical? Anyways I'm of the opinion that going dutch works better in the above situation

There are men who consider it an affront to not be allowed to pay - alpha males if you want

Now big difference between chivalry and misogyny. That's a pretty big jump like

Who said it was misogyny? It's not about women at all for those guys, it's all about them!

Calling them alpha males sorta makes it sounds like they believe them self to be superior and that thinking is misogynistic. I really don't see the need for that jump but obviously you have come across some assholes.

They see themselves as superior to other men too - interestingly it's rooted in abysmal self-esteem. I'm an observer of human behavior.

Ah well I'll just leave it there... "

You're an intelligent guy, you should do some reading on narcissism and the ego - it's fascinating stuff. And you'll start to recognise them in your 300+ friends

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick


"so far , I have never had a man offer to pay for a hotel room . EVER . "

Ahem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mind boggles at this question even needing to be asked...

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

who ever pays should get first go at loading their bags with anything not nailed down - i also have several corby trouser presses for sale if anyone is interested

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