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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does to many verifications turn people of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why it should,but there's always some that are put off by that.

This is a swing site and who you meet and how many is your business and as long as you are having fun that's the main thing

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By *urious2013cCouple
over a year ago

Co Cork

How many verifications that people have is there own business and they can post them as they wish why should it put someone off more offputting are the hidden ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not necessarily the amount but sometimes the context - and also the verifications the person wrote

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

But most veries s are social meets too .

My veries are not in anyway detailed at all you really would not be able to tell who I had sex with on my ones .

A veri is too prove your genuine not how your rated in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But most veries s are social meets too .

My veries are not in anyway detailed at all you really would not be able to tell who I had sex with on my ones .

A veri is too prove your genuine not how your rated in bed "

hang on! in my verification you wrote that you were sitting on my face all night long!!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"But most veries s are social meets too .

My veries are not in anyway detailed at all you really would not be able to tell who I had sex with on my ones .

A veri is too prove your genuine not how your rated in bed

hang on! in my verification you wrote that you were sitting on my face all night long!! "
ssshhhh sweet you said you would never mention that....... Especially as we was in such a public place too

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare

It wouldn't turn us off as we know clock stops ticking at over 1 year so it could be few a year x several years, nearly all ours are social, some people verify you more than once & over time that adds up looking like you had a lot of encounters when a lot are still only social meets. Wish there was other option phone, cam, meet, meet meet+ more then i might take verifications more serious. Now i see them more as couple real, she is a female & he is a male not fake profile & they turn up for stuff so not time wasters

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare

Few meets x several years

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By *unstercplCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

You need to look at the context as some say.

Social meets overinflate the final number as does if you are really lucky a good party.

Judge the context but even more importantly, what is said about them by those verifying them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does to many verifications turn people of meeting "

Would not turn me off in the slightest, nor would a member who only has a few.

Verifications are a personal choice, and it`s a case of each to their own on swing sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate graphic verifications,some veris it's like reading a porn novel ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But most veries s are social meets too .

My veries are not in anyway detailed at all you really would not be able to tell who I had sex with on my ones .

A veri is too prove your genuine not how your rated in bed

hang on! in my verification you wrote that you were sitting on my face all night long!! ssshhhh sweet you said you would never mention that....... Especially as we was in such a public place too "

Girls Girls FFS! Just buy two tickets the next time. Everyone on the train knew what ye were doing anyway!

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By *ibertine-xWoman
over a year ago

myob

Too many verifications means what exactly???? That you are meeting people on a sex/ swinging site and having sex with them.

I am trying to get my head around this thread. Are fabbers judgemental? ....can yOu be too promiscuous? Is it even possible to be too promiscuous on a sex site?

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think there was a thread similar to this a few months ago where a lot of people said they would be put off by a lot of verifications. Personally I don't think it makes a difference how many you have. As long as people take care of their own sexual health then how many people you're having sex with or meeting socially is irrelevant. This is a swinging site after all.

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I scan the verifications for "great oral skills" or "bring your A game".

If the said lady has 1 or 90 verifications, I don't mind.

Emails be flying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many verifications means what exactly???? That you are meeting people on a sex/ swinging site and having sex with them.

I am trying to get my head around this thread. Are fabbers judgemental? ....can yOu be too promiscuous? Is it even possible to be too promiscuous on a sex site?

Lx "

totally agree with ya lib

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many verifications means what exactly???? That you are meeting people on a sex/ swinging site and having sex with them.

I am trying to get my head around this thread. Are fabbers judgemental? ....can yOu be too promiscuous? Is it even possible to be too promiscuous on a sex site?

Lx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of verifications don't bother me, it's the graphic nature that turns me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of verifications don't bother me, it's the graphic nature that turns me off. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of verifications don't bother me, it's the graphic nature that turns me off.

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Often wish people would be genuine when verifying

He tramped into the hotel room with his boots stinking of manure, followed by his family just checking to see if I was genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather meet someone with 90 play meets veris than someone with 90 meet and greet veris. At least I know they're actually having sex

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By *ibertine-xWoman
over a year ago

myob

The verifications process on fab is the back bone of the site. It is the first thing I look at on everyone's profile. At a glance you have an indication that someone is real and didn't murder the person they had the meet with. Without it we would be stumbling around in blind date limbo. I will only meet well verified people. Cuts out the time wasters.

Lx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The verifications process on fab is the back bone of the site. It is the first thing I look at on everyone's profile. At a glance you have an indication that someone is real and didn't murder the person they had the meet with. Without it we would be stumbling around in blind date limbo. I will only meet well verified people. Cuts out the time wasters.

Lx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather meet someone with 90 play meets veris than someone with 90 meet and greet veris. At least I know they're actually having sex"

And each to their own...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather meet someone with 90 play meets veris than someone with 90 meet and greet veris. At least I know they're actually having sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people don't display graphic verifications, verifications serve a purpose to say yes this person turns up. I personally don't wanna know other people's opinions of the person I'm going to meet, I don't want to be told the are like a dyson or great in bed. I'd rather find out for myself and form my own opinion but hey maybe I'm just strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman that I met through swinging was given a verification by a young guy she met, a few days later he mailed asking her to remove it.

The reason given was that a site wannabe, had read his veris, noticed he met the other lady, then demanded that he have it removed.

If not , she would not be meeting him

The woman in question was absolutely devastated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I prefer social meets,graphic verifications are a real turn off for me!

Plus just because one person may have a "great meet/fuck" with a person it doesn't mean another person is!!

I've met people who other people may not have enjoyed sexually but I'd have had a complete different experience with them!

Everyone is different...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman that I met through swinging was given a verification by a young guy she met, a few days later he mailed asking her to remove it.

The reason given was that a site wannabe, had read his veris, noticed he met the other lady, then demanded that he have it removed.

If not , she would not be meeting him

The woman in question was absolutely devastated "

Devastated, Why, did she fall in love with him or something?

She should have laughed and refused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use veris to check that the person is genuine. The experience someone else has with the person is obviously gonna be different for me. Different strokes for different folks n all that! Having said that it's up to each user to display their verifications if they want n let's face it no one is going to display one that's not good. Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are more about reading between the lines, and if they are from someone on a mission to ride half the country, that's all I need to know...

Anyone who says "you shouldn't judge" is, quite frankly, full of shit. Making judgements is what we all do, all the time, just to stay alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications are more about reading between the lines, and if they are from someone on a mission to ride half the country, that's all I need to know...

Anyone who says "you shouldn't judge" is, quite frankly, full of shit. Making judgements is what we all do, all the time, just to stay alive."

I judged that if I didn't eat that cheesecake after dinner I could have died...so far it looks like the right option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications are more about reading between the lines, and if they are from someone on a mission to ride half the country, that's all I need to know...

Anyone who says "you shouldn't judge" is, quite frankly, full of shit. Making judgements is what we all do, all the time, just to stay alive.

I judged that if I didn't eat that cheesecake after dinner I could have died...so far it looks like the right option."

Sounds like a good call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris mean nothing generally to me. It's the memories and hopefully the fact someone enjoyed my company and me theirs. Not into point scoring

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By *unstercplCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"I'd rather meet someone with 90 play meets veris than someone with 90 meet and greet veris. At least I know they're actually having sex"

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Verifications are more about reading between the lines, and if they are from someone on a mission to ride half the country, that's all I need to know...

Anyone who says "you shouldn't judge" is, quite frankly, full of shit. Making judgements is what we all do, all the time, just to stay alive."

Elaborate on reading between the lines? Sincere question.

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