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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so i was wondering what people do when they turn up to a meet and the photo was obviously on a VERY good day?

do you say "no thanks..." or just crack on and think of Ireland ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call them out, let them get the drinks in, drink them, then leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends,im more turned on by someones personality rather then looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time that happened I cracked on and learnt from the experience never to do that again. Just have a drink and move on.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

If it's not right, it's not right- and that applies to looks, personality, chemistry, etc. - then there's no point in cracking on or drinking it nicer. I don't want to regret anything later but also my body doesn't heat up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would you crack on if you don't find them attractive in person?

I've met people who looked better in person but there was no sexual chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's not right, it's not right- and that applies to looks, personality, chemistry, etc. - then there's no point in cracking on or drinking it nicer. I don't want to regret anything later but also my body doesn't heat up..."

Can't go where you are not wanted or want ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures rarely tell the whole story. For me you've gotta assess the person/chemistry once you meet. Otherwise you'd be shagging everyone you ever cum across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I don't go for looks anyway, it's never happened to me. Personality is far more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures rarely tell the whole story. For me you've gotta assess the person/chemistry once you meet. Otherwise you'd be shagging everyone you ever cum across "
...very well said i agree.

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Thats why i always have a coffee meet first.

Need to see if there is a spark. If there's not at least you get to put a face to the name.

For me its more about the connection rather than what someone looks like.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I "took one for the team" once, a long time ago as I was inexperienced and didn't know how to get out of it. Now, no way.

I always have a social meet to feel the connection, if it's not there, no matter what they look like, it's not going to happen.

I have met some that had sent very very old pics from when they were much younger.. Why lie? It will always come out. Things won't go any further when it becomes apparent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats why i always have a coffee meet first.

Need to see if there is a spark. If there's not at least you get to put a face to the name.

For me its more about the connection rather than what someone looks like."

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By *aftdave1Man
over a year ago

limerick

They say Jimmy's got you covered well maybe not for this one!!!

But on the other hand you know what they say waste not want not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the pic was taken ten yrs ago and they look nothing like it and are chancing their arm I will have the coffee anyway. You never know what might happen.

Having said that if I wasn't interested I would say so.

I won't lead them up the garden path.

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