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By *ibertine-x OP   Woman
over a year ago

myob

*Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

*Taken from Wikipedia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much hit the nail on the head there lol I dunno what else to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

*Taken from Wikipedia"

Don't tell the wife

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By *ibertine-x OP   Woman
over a year ago

myob

Now it gets interesting....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

*Taken from Wikipedia"

So you're saying single people (male & female) swing as well, not just couples!!? Just that some people seem to think it's just couples who swing which isn't correct!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

*Taken from Wikipedia

So you're saying single people (male & female) swing as well, not just couples!!? Just that some people seem to think it's just couples who swing which isn't correct! "

It's not here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

*Taken from Wikipedia

So you're saying single people (male & female) swing as well, not just couples!!? Just that some people seem to think it's just couples who swing which isn't correct!

It's not here "

What's not here!??

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

What's this thread about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

*Taken from Wikipedia

So you're saying single people (male & female) swing as well, not just couples!!? Just that some people seem to think it's just couples who swing which isn't correct! "

Would they be the couples who look for single people to join them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's this thread about "

I think she wants a debate/discussion on swinging!! I thought I'd put my 2 cents in!! lol!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

It's not here

What's not here!?? "

It?

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By *ibertine-x OP   Woman
over a year ago

myob


"*Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

*Taken from Wikipedia

So you're saying single people (male & female) swing as well, not just couples!!? Just that some people seem to think it's just couples who swing which isn't correct! "

The lines are blurred, and rightly so....when is it swinging? Cheating? Sport? Fun?

Married men often find it hard to get a meet whereas people don't bat an eyelid at a "single " married woman.

The lifestyle started off as a married couples pastime but now seems to encompass everyone who wants in.....

The goalposts have been moved and the boundaries completely obliterated.

So is this a sex site or a swingers one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

*Taken from Wikipedia

So you're saying single people (male & female) swing as well, not just couples!!? Just that some people seem to think it's just couples who swing which isn't correct!

Would they be the couples who look for single people to join them.... "

And the couples who take the explanation from the dictionary quite literally!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

The clue is in the name fabSWINGERS....its a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"*Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

*Taken from Wikipedia

So you're saying single people (male & female) swing as well, not just couples!!? Just that some people seem to think it's just couples who swing which isn't correct!

The lines are blurred, and rightly so....when is it swinging? Cheating? Sport? Fun?

Married men often find it hard to get a meet whereas people don't bat an eyelid at a "single " married woman.

The lifestyle started off as a married couples pastime but now seems to encompass everyone who wants in.....

The goalposts have been moved and the boundaries completely obliterated.

So is this a sex site or a swingers one?"

For us its a swing site , for other , a sex site , and for others again , its dial a roide , they think , people make it what they want now , but its swinging for us ,

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The clue is in the name fabSWINGERS....its a swingers site "

Ah but some couples seem to think that singles don't swing but yet they'd be looking for singles to swing with them!

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By *igglesAndGeekCouple
over a year ago

Galway

If you are a single inly looking for singles in a one on one setting then its a sex/hookup site.

If you are looking for group play, be you single or in a relationship then call yourself a swinger.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"The clue is in the name fabSWINGERS....its a swingers site

Ah but some couples seem to think that singles don't swing but yet they'd be looking for singles to swing with them! "

true words there rosebud.

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By *ibertine-x OP   Woman
over a year ago

myob


"If you are a single inly looking for singles in a one on one setting then its a sex/hookup site.

If you are looking for group play, be you single or in a relationship then call yourself a swinger."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are a single inly looking for singles in a one on one setting then its a sex/hookup site.

If you are looking for group play, be you single or in a relationship then call yourself a swinger.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are a single inly looking for singles in a one on one setting then its a sex/hookup site.

If you are looking for group play, be you single or in a relationship then call yourself a swinger.

"

I'm all for group play ... Builds team spirit so they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Group Play is great, I really enjoy it but I don't knock one on one meets, is it swinging if I meet with a single female for fun? I believe so, as swinging means having multiple partners but doesn't mean you have to have them all at once.

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

If you use the traditional dictionary definition shared by the op then swinging is by its nature between couples and couples in multiples or couples and singles in multiples. Therefore one would be fair to assume that single to single meets are not swinging but rather sex. HOWEVER (& before any singles reach for ur hatchets lol) swinging like any activity is a dynamic pastime refined over time so why cant singles do it????? We are all equal after all. Sure we as a couple swing together and separately. It suits us. So what we say is live and let live otherwise how can things develop. Thats our tuppence worth. Hope most of u will agree xxx m&j

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you use the traditional dictionary definition shared by the op then swinging is by its nature between couples and couples in multiples or couples and singles in multiples. Therefore one would be fair to assume that single to single meets are not swinging but rather sex. HOWEVER (& before any singles reach for ur hatchets lol) swinging like any activity is a dynamic pastime refined over time so why cant singles do it????? We are all equal after all. Sure we as a couple swing together and separately. It suits us. So what we say is live and let live otherwise how can things develop. Thats our tuppence worth. Hope most of u will agree xxx m&j "

That was a tuppence well spent

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"If you use the traditional dictionary definition shared by the op then swinging is by its nature between couples and couples in multiples or couples and singles in multiples. Therefore one would be fair to assume that single to single meets are not swinging but rather sex. "

That's not what the quoted definition says though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything is in a constant state of change and evolution. Just because it was once predominantly couples,noone ever said that it had to stay like that. In a way does it matter whether it is a swing site or a sex site. It is made up if a multitude of people with different tastes,preferences,want's and needs. Each of us uses the site how we please,and none of us has the right to comment or criticise how someone else uses it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swing·ing (swing'ing) Slang

adj.

1. Spirited; up-to-date.

2. Attracting a lively, trendy crowd: a swinging nightclub.

3.

a. Sexually promiscuous.

b. Practicing exchange of partners, especially spouses, for sex.

No mention of who can do what. People need to get over labelling everything and just enjoy themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"swing·ing (swing'ing) Slang

adj.

1. Spirited; up-to-date.

2. Attracting a lively, trendy crowd: a swinging nightclub.

3.

a. Sexually promiscuous.

b. Practicing exchange of partners, especially spouses, for sex.

No mention of who can do what. People need to get over labelling everything and just enjoy themselves "

thats what its all about enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything is in a constant state of change and evolution. Just because it was once predominantly couples,noone ever said that it had to stay like that. In a way does it matter whether it is a swing site or a sex site. It is made up if a multitude of people with different tastes,preferences,want's and needs. Each of us uses the site how we please,and none of us has the right to comment or criticise how someone else uses it. "

Now this I have to agree with, very well said!!

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex


"Everything is in a constant state of change and evolution. Just because it was once predominantly couples,noone ever said that it had to stay like that. In a way does it matter whether it is a swing site or a sex site. It is made up if a multitude of people with different tastes,preferences,want's and needs. Each of us uses the site how we please,and none of us has the right to comment or criticise how someone else uses it. "

spot on well said.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Everything is in a constant state of change and evolution. Just because it was once predominantly couples,noone ever said that it had to stay like that. In a way does it matter whether it is a swing site or a sex site. It is made up if a multitude of people with different tastes,preferences,want's and needs. Each of us uses the site how we please,and none of us has the right to comment or criticise how someone else uses it. "

That makes a certain amount of sense although I think comment is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"swing·ing (swing'ing) Slang

adj.

1. Spirited; up-to-date.

2. Attracting a lively, trendy crowd: a swinging nightclub.

3.

a. Sexually promiscuous.

b. Practicing exchange of partners, especially spouses, for sex.

No mention of who can do what. People need to get over labelling everything and just enjoy themselves "

Even the Ma ?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"swing·ing (swing'ing) Slang

adj.

1. Spirited; up-to-date.

2. Attracting a lively, trendy crowd: a swinging nightclub.

3.

a. Sexually promiscuous.

b. Practicing exchange of partners, especially spouses, for sex.

No mention of who can do what. People need to get over labelling everything and just enjoy themselves

Even the Ma ? "

No. She's too dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything is in a constant state of change and evolution. Just because it was once predominantly couples,noone ever said that it had to stay like that. In a way does it matter whether it is a swing site or a sex site. It is made up if a multitude of people with different tastes,preferences,want's and needs. Each of us uses the site how we please,and none of us has the right to comment or criticise how someone else uses it.

That makes a certain amount of sense although I think comment is fine. "

It makes perfect sense mister!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"swing·ing (swing'ing) Slang

adj.

1. Spirited; up-to-date.

2. Attracting a lively, trendy crowd: a swinging nightclub.

3.

a. Sexually promiscuous.

b. Practicing exchange of partners, especially spouses, for sex.

No mention of who can do what. People need to get over labelling everything and just enjoy themselves

Even the Ma ?

No. She's too dead "

No discrimination allowed

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Everything is in a constant state of change and evolution. Just because it was once predominantly couples,noone ever said that it had to stay like that. In a way does it matter whether it is a swing site or a sex site. It is made up if a multitude of people with different tastes,preferences,want's and needs. Each of us uses the site how we please,and none of us has the right to comment or criticise how someone else uses it.

That makes a certain amount of sense although I think comment is fine.

It makes perfect sense mister!! "

Yes, apart from the bit about comment!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"swing·ing (swing'ing) Slang

adj.

1. Spirited; up-to-date.

2. Attracting a lively, trendy crowd: a swinging nightclub.

3.

a. Sexually promiscuous.

b. Practicing exchange of partners, especially spouses, for sex.

No mention of who can do what. People need to get over labelling everything and just enjoy themselves

Even the Ma ?

No. She's too dead

No discrimination allowed "

Ah sure, bring her along then so. I'm sure she'll pull anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are a single inly looking for singles in a one on one setting then its a sex/hookup site.

If you are looking for group play, be you single or in a relationship then call yourself a swinger."

Sums it up nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swingers meet for sex (in the main)so a sex site is also an accurate description.but again who gives a flying fiddlers about what labels (if any)people choose for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is surely something engaged in by people who are in relationships where both partners are consenting and engaged in the activity.

Having sex with others with your partner's permission but without them being involved is an open relationship.

Having sex with others without your partner's knowledge or consent is cheating, plain and simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is surely something engaged in by people who are in relationships where both partners are consenting and engaged in the activity.

Having sex with others with your partner's permission but without them being involved is an open relationship.

Having sex with others without your partner's knowledge or consent is cheating, plain and simple.

"

So is not paying all your taxes , funny lots of people are ok with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"swingers meet for sex (in the main)so a sex site is also an accurate description.but again who gives a flying fiddlers about what labels (if any)people choose for themselves."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"swingers meet for sex (in the main)so a sex site is also an accurate description.but again who gives a flying fiddlers about what labels (if any)people choose for themselves."

Labels are for tins and bottles, people arguing about what does or not constitute a swinger on a swinging site , is down right ludicrous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is surely something engaged in by people who are in relationships where both partners are consenting and engaged in the activity.

Having sex with others with your partner's permission but without them being involved is an open relationship.

Having sex with others without your partner's knowledge or consent is cheating, plain and simple.

So is not paying all your taxes , funny lots of people are ok with that "

Nobody swears undying love to the Revenue,to my knowledge.

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I thought swinging meant that you just try and ride all around you.

That's what I've been doing.

I must be doing it wrong so.

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