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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot." on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? | |||
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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot.on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? " Yes lol sex isn't something you can find on tap, you have to but in effort to get something worthwhile out  | |||
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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot.on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? " I don't think it is, is it? | |||
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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot.on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? Yes lol sex isn't something you can find on tap, you have to but in effort to get something worthwhile out "something enjoyable and pleasurable loved by most Imo should not be hard to get | |||
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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot.on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? I don't think it is, is it?" well if a girl gives sex out easily she's lambasted in this country!I ask why | |||
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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot.on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? Yes lol sex isn't something you can find on tap, you have to but in effort to get something worthwhile out something enjoyable and pleasurable loved by most Imo should not be hard to get "Nothing should ever be easy, easy is boring  | |||
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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot.on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? Yes lol sex isn't something you can find on tap, you have to but in effort to get something worthwhile out something enjoyable and pleasurable loved by most Imo should not be hard to get
Nothing should ever be easy, easy is boring "why make something hard? No need for it | |||
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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot.on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? Yes lol sex isn't something you can find on tap, you have to but in effort to get something worthwhile out something enjoyable and pleasurable loved by most Imo should not be hard to get
Nothing should ever be easy, easy is boring why make something hard? No need for it "If something comes too easy, I get bored. That's just the way it is | |||
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"why make something hard? No need for it " You know when you coach your teams, do you tell them that all they have to do is turn up and they'll get the result they want? | |||
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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot.on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? Yes lol sex isn't something you can find on tap, you have to but in effort to get something worthwhile out something enjoyable and pleasurable loved by most Imo should not be hard to get
Nothing should ever be easy, easy is boring why make something hard? No need for it "Thats just the way it is, and always has been, youll never change that. Women dont have casual sex as much as men do...even in here, so you just gotta accept that really and make yourself as appealing as you possibly can to the opposite sex | |||
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"why make something hard? No need for it You know when you coach your teams, do you tell them that all they have to do is turn up and they'll get the result they want?" you have to work to beat another team!with sex most want the same thing!something that's very good to do!if a girl offers sex to me and their is a mutual attraction I'm gonna go there ahead of the girl who plays hard to get and a month down the line there is still nothing happening maybe never will!it ain't love its sex and you get to drawn to someone your opening a dirty can of worms | |||
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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot.on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? Yes lol sex isn't something you can find on tap, you have to but in effort to get something worthwhile out something enjoyable and pleasurable loved by most Imo should not be hard to get
Nothing should ever be easy, easy is boring why make something hard? No need for it
Thats just the way it is, and always has been, youll never change that. Women dont have casual sex as much as men do...even in here, so you just gotta accept that really and make yourself as appealing as you possibly can to the opposite sex"sex outside of a relationship is casual | |||
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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot.on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? Yes lol sex isn't something you can find on tap, you have to but in effort to get something worthwhile out something enjoyable and pleasurable loved by most Imo should not be hard to get
Nothing should ever be easy, easy is boring why make something hard? No need for it
Thats just the way it is, and always has been, youll never change that. Women dont have casual sex as much as men do...even in here, so you just gotta accept that really and make yourself as appealing as you possibly can to the opposite sexsex outside of a relationship is casual "Ok? | |||
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"why make something hard? No need for it " Have you tried getting it in when it's soft?  | |||
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"why make something hard? No need for it You know when you coach your teams, do you tell them that all they have to do is turn up and they'll get the result they want?you have to work to beat another team!with sex most want the same thing!... " So how about the girls are one team and the boys are another, the girls would like their version of a good shag, the boys may have a slightly different version which they want. Both teams meet, they play skilfully to achieve these goals, sometimes by ruse, sometimes by skill. At the end of the match it could be a win to either side or a very happy score draw but if you have no game, you're not gonna make it to the field. Look at a social meet as a preliminary qualifier  | |||
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"why make something hard? No need for it You know when you coach your teams, do you tell them that all they have to do is turn up and they'll get the result they want?you have to work to beat another team!with sex most want the same thing!... So how about the girls are one team and the boys are another, the girls would like their version of a good shag, the boys may have a slightly different version which they want. Both teams meet, they play skilfully to achieve these goals, sometimes by ruse, sometimes by skill. At the end of the match it could be a win to either side or a very happy score draw but if you have no game, you're not gonna make it to the field. Look at a social meet as a preliminary qualifier "Tbh I prefer the continental European model of going to a club and either having fun or not without a tonne of meets, messaging and waiting time. If it clicks go for it why string it out, if it doesn't click let it go. | |||
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"why make something hard? No need for it You know when you coach your teams, do you tell them that all they have to do is turn up and they'll get the result they want?you have to work to beat another team!with sex most want the same thing!... So how about the girls are one team and the boys are another, the girls would like their version of a good shag, the boys may have a slightly different version which they want. Both teams meet, they play skilfully to achieve these goals, sometimes by ruse, sometimes by skill. At the end of the match it could be a win to either side or a very happy score draw but if you have no game, you're not gonna make it to the field. Look at a social meet as a preliminary qualifier
Tbh I prefer the continental European model of going to a club and either having fun or not without a tonne of meets, messaging and waiting time. If it clicks go for it why string it out, if it doesn't click let it go."That option isnt available here is suppose, hence why it has to go down the messaging route | |||
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"why make something hard? No need for it You know when you coach your teams, do you tell them that all they have to do is turn up and they'll get the result they want?you have to work to beat another team!with sex most want the same thing!... So how about the girls are one team and the boys are another, the girls would like their version of a good shag, the boys may have a slightly different version which they want. Both teams meet, they play skilfully to achieve these goals, sometimes by ruse, sometimes by skill. At the end of the match it could be a win to either side or a very happy score draw but if you have no game, you're not gonna make it to the field. Look at a social meet as a preliminary qualifier
Tbh I prefer the continental European model of going to a club and either having fun or not without a tonne of meets, messaging and waiting time. If it clicks go for it why string it out, if it doesn't click let it go."Yep, that works well but we don't have many club options up here so social meets usually have to suffice. | |||
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"Ladies in your eyes what's the biggest thing men do wrong on here and visa versa men what's your biggest issues with the ladies? Genuine responses " Genuine reply. The males and females playing away from their partners with other members, whilst complaining about marrieds on the site. | |||
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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot.on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? Yes lol sex isn't something you can find on tap, you have to but in effort to get something worthwhile out " | |||
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"Wrongs are relative. The expectation of an easy lay puts me off a lot.on the counter act though should sex be hard to get? Yes lol sex isn't something you can find on tap, you have to but in effort to get something worthwhile out something enjoyable and pleasurable loved by most Imo should not be hard to get "Yes well all enjoy sex but we also like to be shown respect | |||
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"why make something hard? No need for it You know when you coach your teams, do you tell them that all they have to do is turn up and they'll get the result they want?you have to work to beat another team!with sex most want the same thing!... So how about the girls are one team and the boys are another, the girls would like their version of a good shag, the boys may have a slightly different version which they want. Both teams meet, they play skilfully to achieve these goals, sometimes by ruse, sometimes by skill. At the end of the match it could be a win to either side or a very happy score draw but if you have no game, you're not gonna make it to the field. Look at a social meet as a preliminary qualifier
Tbh I prefer the continental European model of going to a club and either having fun or not without a tonne of meets, messaging and waiting time. If it clicks go for it why string it out, if it doesn't click let it go.
Yep, that works well but we don't have many club options up here so social meets usually have to suffice. "Do we have any club options here?? | |||
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"why make something hard? No need for it Have you tried getting it in when it's soft? "Lmao | |||
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"why make something hard? No need for it Have you tried getting it in when it's soft?
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"why make something hard? No need for it You know when you coach your teams, do you tell them that all they have to do is turn up and they'll get the result they want?you have to work to beat another team!with sex most want the same thing!... So how about the girls are one team and the boys are another, the girls would like their version of a good shag, the boys may have a slightly different version which they want. Both teams meet, they play skilfully to achieve these goals, sometimes by ruse, sometimes by skill. At the end of the match it could be a win to either side or a very happy score draw but if you have no game, you're not gonna make it to the field. Look at a social meet as a preliminary qualifier
Tbh I prefer the continental European model of going to a club and either having fun or not without a tonne of meets, messaging and waiting time. If it clicks go for it why string it out, if it doesn't click let it go.
Yep, that works well but we don't have many club options up here so social meets usually have to suffice.
Do we have any club options here??"There is one or two but nothing like England or continent | |||
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"Ladies in your eyes what's the biggest thing men do wrong on here and visa versa men what's your biggest issues with the ladies? Genuine responses Genuine reply. The males and females playing away from their partners with other members, whilst complaining about marrieds on the site. "I'm not sure what the issue is if both partners agree they can each play solo? | |||
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"Ladies in your eyes what's the biggest thing men do wrong on here and visa versa men what's your biggest issues with the ladies? Genuine responses Genuine reply. The males and females playing away from their partners with other members, whilst complaining about marrieds on the site.
I'm not sure what the issue is if both partners agree they can each play solo?"I dont thing thats what she means...i think shes referring to the married people in here behind their partners back. Although i could be wrong | |||
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"Ladies in your eyes what's the biggest thing men do wrong on here and visa versa men what's your biggest issues with the ladies? Genuine responses Genuine reply. The males and females playing away from their partners with other members, whilst complaining about marrieds on the site.
I'm not sure what the issue is if both partners agree they can each play solo?
I dont thing thats what she means...i think shes referring to the married people in here behind their partners back. Although i could be wrong"That`s exactly what I meant, the marrieds who play with other members behind their partners back.. Mind you I have zero tolerance for anyone who engages with them knowing the other partner is unaware what is happening.. Though there are times the singles are told the other half is okay with it, when he/she gets caught the poor person gets lied about and chased off sites.. My policy is if i`m told the other half knows ,I mail them to check... Funny how often I never heard back | |||
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"Ladies in your eyes what's the biggest thing men do wrong on here and visa versa men what's your biggest issues with the ladies? Genuine responses Genuine reply. The males and females playing away from their partners with other members, whilst complaining about marrieds on the site.
I'm not sure what the issue is if both partners agree they can each play solo?
I dont thing thats what she means...i think shes referring to the married people in here behind their partners back. Although i could be wrong
That`s exactly what I meant, the marrieds who play with other members behind their partners back..
Mind you I have zero tolerance for anyone who engages with them knowing the other partner is unaware what is happening..
Though there are times the singles are told the other half is okay with it, when he/she gets caught the poor person gets lied about and chased off sites..
My policy is if i`m told the other half knows ,I mail them to check...
Funny how often I never heard back "We believe that is the right way to pursue it. Though we as a couple have an open relationship and give each other the trust to play outside, many couples are not at that sort of confidence...which often makes swinging in Ireland a complicated affair to match 4 individuals, sort of I do your partner and you do mine verification on both sides . For our individual view on swinging which pampers the sexual freedom of each, simple partner swapping maybe one form of swinging but not the ultimate level of freedom we have in mind. However if we come across a potential play partner who seem to cheat on his/her primary partner regardless the reason, we as libertines would be hesitant as we do not want to be the reason for his/her relationship drama and...if sexual freedom requires dishonesty to be lived...it becomes sort of a doubtful affair. | |||
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"Ladies in your eyes what's the biggest thing men do wrong on here and visa versa men what's your biggest issues with the ladies? Genuine responses Genuine reply. The males and females playing away from their partners with other members, whilst complaining about marrieds on the site.
I'm not sure what the issue is if both partners agree they can each play solo?
I dont thing thats what she means...i think shes referring to the married people in here behind their partners back. Although i could be wrong
That`s exactly what I meant, the marrieds who play with other members behind their partners back..
Mind you I have zero tolerance for anyone who engages with them knowing the other partner is unaware what is happening..
Though there are times the singles are told the other half is okay with it, when he/she gets caught the poor person gets lied about and chased off sites..
My policy is if i`m told the other half knows ,I mail them to check...
Funny how often I never heard back
We believe that is the right way to pursue it. Though we as a couple have an open relationship and give each other the trust to play outside, many couples are not at that sort of confidence...which often makes swinging in Ireland a complicated affair to match 4 individuals, sort of I do your partner and you do mine verification on both sides . For our individual view on swinging which pampers the sexual freedom of each, simple partner swapping maybe one form of swinging but not the ultimate level of freedom we have in mind. However if we come across a potential play partner who seem to cheat on his/her primary partner regardless the reason, we as libertines would be hesitant as we do not want to be the reason for his/her relationship drama and...if sexual freedom requires dishonesty to be lived...it becomes sort of a doubtful affair.
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