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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On the chat rooms haha haha

So I went on last night and confused isn't the word .... I couldn't follow the conversation and didn't know who people were talking to ???!!!

Then when I started getting mails it got even more confusing ! There was screens everywer and then if I clicked on a new cam the chats all disappeared and had to start all over again !!

Can anyone help a horny & frustrated fabber out pretty please !!

What am I doing wrong ? Or am I a bit slow

Happy Friday BTW !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the chat rooms haha haha

So I went on last night and confused isn't the word .... I couldn't follow the conversation and didn't know who people were talking to ???!!!

Then when I started getting mails it got even more confusing ! There was screens everywer and then if I clicked on a new cam the chats all disappeared and had to start all over again !!

Can anyone help a horny & frustrated fabber out pretty please !!

What am I doing wrong ? Or am I a bit slow

Happy Friday BTW !!

Have been a lurker in my day ... So whatever you need ask away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was my first time in there properly too. Had no idea what i was doing but just kinda went with it. Had an absolute blast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the chatroom is the best craic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was my first time in there properly too. Had no idea what i was doing but just kinda went with it. Had an absolute blast. "

I seen you on it

but kept losing the cams ?!lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"the chatroom is the best craic

I'm sure it is I just don't know what I'm doing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the peeps on chat are lovely just go say hi not be shy it can be harder when u dont know them as most of us would have met 1 time or another but stick at it can be a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the chatroom is the best craic

I'm sure it is I just don't know what I'm doing lol "

You'll get used to it, it takes time but you'll be flying it soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On the chat rooms haha haha

So I went on last night and confused isn't the word .... I couldn't follow the conversation and didn't know who people were talking to ???!!!

Then when I started getting mails it got even more confusing ! There was screens everywer and then if I clicked on a new cam the chats all disappeared and had to start all over again !!

Can anyone help a horny & frustrated fabber out pretty please !!

What am I doing wrong ? Or am I a bit slow

Happy Friday BTW !!

Have been a lurker in my day ... So whatever you need ask away

Can I have pm open and main chat and change cams ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One cam at a time Sweet Jesus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All the peeps on chat are lovely just go say hi not be shy it can be harder when u dont know them as most of us would have met 1 time or another but stick at it can be a laugh

I'll have to just jump in and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One cam at a time Sweet Jesus

I'm greedy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"the chatroom is the best craic

I'm sure it is I just don't know what I'm doing lol

You'll get used to it, it takes time but you'll be flying it soon

Yep I think I'll just jump on in and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One cam at a time Sweet Jesus

I'm greedy

you can view two cams as a silver site supporter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pms are a bit awkward. If you type in the room, the pms disappear into the background. But you can chat in both. And have cams open the same time. Not sure why you were having trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just docked the lovely eye candy. And had the other eye candy on the active cam. I didn't really bother much with the pm's in chat (sorry people) and then just used my phone for the normal Messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used enjoy the chatrooms and cams

bloody lappy packed up tho so just me fone now

can't see cams on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One cam at a time Sweet Jesus

I'm greedy

you can view two cams as a silver site supporter

I cud do that but then if I tried to change what cam I was watching I lost all my messages ??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But jump into chat. Say hi. We don't bite.

Usually there is two or three convos going on. So it can be hard to follow. People generally use names or abbreviations to distinguish who they are talking to. The regulars generally have abbreviations for speed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One cam at a time Sweet Jesus

I'm greedy

you can view two cams as a silver site supporter

I cud do that but then if I tried to change what cam I was watching I lost all my messages ??!!"
they were hidden behind your main chat. Minimise the chat (square button at top right corner of chat) and your messages reappear

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But jump into chat. Say hi. We don't bite.

Cool thanks I'll give it a try again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One cam at a time Sweet Jesus

I'm greedy

you can view two cams as a silver site supporter

I cud do that but then if I tried to change what cam I was watching I lost all my messages ??!!"

the just went behind the main chat screen, if you minimise chat you'll find them again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just docked the lovely eye candy. And had the other eye candy on the active cam. I didn't really bother much with the pm's in chat (sorry people) and then just used my phone for the normal Messages. "

Ohh I docked the hot one too hehe some nice ones on last night !

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By *aftdave1Man
over a year ago

limerick

"On the chat rooms haha haha

So I went on last night and confused isn't the word .... I couldn't follow the conversation and didn't know who people were talking to ???!!!

Then when I started getting mails it got even more confusing ! There was screens everywer and then if I clicked on a new cam the chats all disappeared and had to start all over again !!

Can anyone help a horny & frustrated fabber out pretty please !!

What am I doing wrong ? Or am I a bit slow

Happy Friday BTW !!

Lol good subject line Jesus if you get a Euro for everyone that looks at this thread you'll be a rich happy bunny

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On the chat rooms haha haha

So I went on last night and confused isn't the word .... I couldn't follow the conversation and didn't know who people were talking to ???!!!

Then when I started getting mails it got even more confusing ! There was screens everywer and then if I clicked on a new cam the chats all disappeared and had to start all over again !!

Can anyone help a horny & frustrated fabber out pretty please !!

What am I doing wrong ? Or am I a bit slow

Happy Friday BTW !!

Lol good subject line Jesus if you get a Euro for everyone that looks at this thread you'll be a rich happy bunny

Haha I know rich and able to use the chat rooms what more could a girl need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMs are very awkward as sometimes they pop up behind the open chat window. But you can move them to the side. If you have several PMs going on at the same time, you can stack them all up on the side so you won't lose oversight.

If you get too many PMs you can block them as well.

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By *aftdave1Man
over a year ago

limerick

"On the chat rooms haha haha

So I went on last night and confused isn't the word .... I couldn't follow the conversation and didn't know who people were talking to ???!!!

Then when I started getting mails it got even more confusing ! There was screens everywer and then if I clicked on a new cam the chats all disappeared and had to start all over again !!

Can anyone help a horny & frustrated fabber out pretty please !!

What am I doing wrong ? Or am I a bit slow

Happy Friday BTW !!

Lol good subject line Jesus if you get a Euro for everyone that looks at this thread you'll be a rich happy bunny

Haha I know rich and able to use the chat rooms what more could a girl need

You know to well others always something else a girl needs tlc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it right to be encouraging the dreaded block ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"PMs are very awkward as sometimes they pop up behind the open chat window. But you can move them to the side. If you have several PMs going on at the same time, you can stack them all up on the side so you won't lose oversight.

If you get too many PMs you can block them as well. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On the chat rooms haha haha

So I went on last night and confused isn't the word .... I couldn't follow the conversation and didn't know who people were talking to ???!!!

Then when I started getting mails it got even more confusing ! There was screens everywer and then if I clicked on a new cam the chats all disappeared and had to start all over again !!

Can anyone help a horny & frustrated fabber out pretty please !!

What am I doing wrong ? Or am I a bit slow

Happy Friday BTW !!

Lol good subject line Jesus if you get a Euro for everyone that looks at this thread you'll be a rich happy bunny

Haha I know rich and able to use the chat rooms what more could a girl need

You know to well others always something else a girl needs tlc "

Ahh very true !

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By *aftdave1Man
over a year ago

limerick

"On the chat rooms haha haha

So I went on last night and confused isn't the word .... I couldn't follow the conversation and didn't know who people were talking to ???!!!

Then when I started getting mails it got even more confusing ! There was screens everywer and then if I clicked on a new cam the chats all disappeared and had to start all over again !!

Can anyone help a horny & frustrated fabber out pretty please !!

What am I doing wrong ? Or am I a bit slow

Happy Friday BTW !!

Lol good subject line Jesus if you get a Euro for everyone that looks at this thread you'll be a rich happy bunny

Haha I know rich and able to use the chat rooms what more could a girl need

You know to well others always something else a girl needs tlc

Ahh very true ! "

I knew I'd say something nice on this one day lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I have the idea now hopefully it works now !! Lol !

I'll come say hi tonight ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I have the idea now hopefully it works now !! Lol !

I'll come say hi tonight ! X"

You played a blinder by posting in here

Chat can be daunting for site newbies, all the bullshit about we are a welcoming bunch can be far from the truth..

Have been on many sites over the years, and the established members forget they were once newbies, getting anyone to respond to a simple hello can often be like drawing a hens teeth backwards..

So fairplay to you, by posting here first, you are halfway up the swing chat ladder..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I have the idea now hopefully it works now !! Lol !

I'll come say hi tonight ! X

You played a blinder by posting in here

Chat can be daunting for site newbies, all the bullshit about we are a welcoming bunch can be far from the truth..

Have been on many sites over the years, and the established members forget they were once newbies, getting anyone to respond to a simple hello can often be like drawing a hens teeth backwards..

So fairplay to you, by posting here first, you are halfway up the swing chat ladder.."
I strongly disagree with this. The vast vast majority of people (99% of women do) who say hi in the chat room get responded to. Whether they continue in conversation after that is up to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the help all you lovely people ! I have seen so many forums etc about newbies not being welcomed but I have to say... We havnt been on chat yet but on here we always felt welcomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I have the idea now hopefully it works now !! Lol !

I'll come say hi tonight ! X

You played a blinder by posting in here

Chat can be daunting for site newbies, all the bullshit about we are a welcoming bunch can be far from the truth..

Have been on many sites over the years, and the established members forget they were once newbies, getting anyone to respond to a simple hello can often be like drawing a hens teeth backwards..

So fairplay to you, by posting here first, you are halfway up the swing chat ladder..I strongly disagree with this. The vast vast majority of people (99% of women do) who say hi in the chat room get responded to. Whether they continue in conversation after that is up to them. "

We have different opinons of newbies experiences on entering chatrooms when they first join swing sites..

As stated in my first post, it is not the bed of roses made out to be by some members..

So the girl posted here and will find it easier to get attention on chat..

Excellent idea IMO..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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The Chat room is a bed of roses, once you utilize the block feature to your advantage of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I have the idea now hopefully it works now !! Lol !

I'll come say hi tonight ! X

You played a blinder by posting in here

Chat can be daunting for site newbies, all the bullshit about we are a welcoming bunch can be far from the truth..

Have been on many sites over the years, and the established members forget they were once newbies, getting anyone to respond to a simple hello can often be like drawing a hens teeth backwards..

We have different opinons of newbies experiences on entering chatrooms when they first join swing sites..

As stated in my first post, it is not the bed of roses made out to be by some members..

So the girl posted here and will find it easier to get attention on chat..

Excellent idea IMO.."
I think the only differences are in a) our experience and b) our opinion.

You can state one thing and I can state another. Unfortunately that doesn't make either of us correct.

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

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Gotta love that block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat is awesome fun. I rarely find that people who say hi aren't greeted back unless it's insanely busy and it's possible their comment was just missed. Regarding the block button, yes I have used it if someone is rude to me in the main chat room- but equally if I don't want to chat to anyone in PM then just switch the little drop down thingie to either friends only or nobody.

Stick with it, it can be a bit bonkers to start with but once you get used to it you can follow the convos and just jump into the banter

. We don't bite unless you ask nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always enjoyed the chatroom since I first joined the site four yrs ago and have made some good pals out of it too,some of whom I've met in person and other just online.It's different for guys and girls.For some people I can understand that they may find it difficult at first but once you join in with the banter gently at first and mannerly your own personality will show through.

It's much more lighthearted than the forums and friendlier once you don't be stupid or rude.There's a lot of joking and sillyness and all sorts of topics come up in conversation at different times of the day and night,Just be respectful until you get to know the people in there.The main thing is to have the craic,if someone isn't interested in you don't push it,just flirt lightly and try to make others feel included,then it can really take off.It's all good fun.I don't bother with the pm's because I lose track of the chat in the room,it's as handy to mail someone later if you want to know more about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the mention of blocking was a misphrase... I think the intended meaning was you can 'block' receipt of pms by using the option to not receive them. As opposed to blocking other users. Although that too is a handy feature. I am blocked by many.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha that's a lot to take in ! Had a look and know what you mean by the block button ! I'll ease myself in and see how we go !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its important to remember in chat that people are often in private chats..so they aren't being rude not replying, they simply may not have seen you say hello, I used to more or less go in every night but got out if the habit and now just pop in the odd time .but op..i would say..the more you go in the more enjoyment you will get from it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think its important to remember in chat that people are often in private chats..so they aren't being rude not replying, they simply may not have seen you say hello, I used to more or less go in every night but got out if the habit and now just pop in the odd time .but op..i would say..the more you go in the more enjoyment you will get from it!!"

Thanks I'm going to give it a try anyway and I won't get offended if people are busy elsewer lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely agree with this... You get know people in there, and you recognise their style and humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely agree with this... You get know people in there, and you recognise their style and humour

Now I'm getting why no one laughs at me jokes..

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