FabSwingers.com forum: cpls who don't meet bi guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just have to sit and chuckle sometimes when I read some profiles where couples state they don't meet bi guys. ... then see some of their verifications from some 'str8' guys and those 'str8' guys have had my cock in their mouth many a time. ...

begs the question. . Should bi guys come clean to these couples or. .. is it ok to be 'str8' just to get a shag ?

Don't worry anyone reading this who has sucked my cock lol.. Not gonna say a word to anyone. . Just wondering is it fair on the couples who genuinely want a str8 guy

feel free to discuss

and feel free to keep sucking my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best post ever....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been thinking bout this one myself lately. I came to the conclusion that ignorance can be bliss. Lets be fair here,if one were to go to a niteclub or any club for that matter,and across the bar lock eyes with a huge huni of manliness that has ur pussy dripping and ur nipples hardening,is one going to investigate as to whether or not he has ever experienced sucking another guys cock,or having his sucked?

End of the day it is down to oneself as to whether or not to admit to being bi,or even circumstantially bi.

Strangely us femmes don't seem to suffer the same discrimination when admitting to being bi as its seen as hot and horny.

But those poor guys,well yes it may affect their chances of gaining meets or on the flip side,many find bi guys extremely horny also.

My conclusion, we cant please everyone,so we may just please ourselves,and be as straight or as bi as we please. Some wont like it but others will feckin lurve it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60 - 70% of our messages are from straight guys looking for fun! The reason they give for not listing themselves as bi/bi curious is that it limits their chances with girls & MF couples.. The perception with a lot of them is that these will only meet straight guys.

Doesn't bother us one bit but it does leave us with a lot of social verifications as most play meets are under the radar for the guys involved!

Kinda suits us in ways as it usually makes the meets very discreet.

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By *ammydubCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

They shud be honest about it that way then there are no awkward situations...why wud anyone want to cause that at a meet!

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

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"Just have to sit and chuckle sometimes when I read some profiles where couples state they don't meet bi guys. ... then see some of their verifications from some 'str8' guys and those 'str8' guys have had my cock in their mouth many a time. ...

begs the question. . Should bi guys come clean to these couples or. .. is it ok to be 'str8' just to get a shag ?

Don't worry anyone reading this who has sucked my cock lol.. Not gonna say a word to anyone. . Just wondering is it fair on the couples who genuinely want a str8 guy

feel free to discuss

and feel free to keep sucking my cock

we never kiss and tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well speaking from my own experience initially a few cpls and single ladies "politely" told me that they don't meet bi guy's so I can see why some bi guy's would omit that from their profile.

As to whether that's unfair on the cpls involved. I think it is. But a little research usually clears up any confusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to be straight (har har) about it I reckon … for me that's the point of being on a site like this, to be upfront about what you like. I thought that changing my profile to bi curious might scare away the ladies, but I've been pleasantly surprised

And for those that don't want to meet bi guys, well each to their own. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was here before and found that some women were turned off by bi curious , but do u know o won't lie, and I will change to bi , what the hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to the initial question, yes they should come clean, especially when it comes to cpls or women who have strictly said they dont want to meet bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is it bye bi guys?

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I think the only reason straight-m couples wont meet bi guys is that they think the bi guy can't play straight. But there's no problem with the opposite happening. A sad double standard given what the country recently voted for

I've often been asked at meets or parties if I'm bi, and I always reply with the same "I'm straight but if there's tits in the room i'm not too bothered with whose hands are on my cock". It gets a laugh and lets people know where my boundaries lie.

I didnt even know mr crazy diamonds was bi until i saw him play at a party, and then it was like "oh right" and i continued on with what i was doing. no big deal.

It really shouldnt be an issue, but sadly....it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple really. If a girl tells a guy she wants to explore her bi side 9.7 out of 10 lads see it as their dream come true. So its not an issue for bi girls.

If a guy tells a girl he wants to explore his bi side? What's the odds? Maybe 2 in 10 girls are happy?

So ya that's why guys lie about been straight.

The real puzzle is the single girl who won't meet a bi guy on his own. Why on earth not? It's the girl he is shagging. Why does she care if he also likes men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's simple really. If a girl tells a guy she wants to explore her bi side 9.7 out of 10 lads see it as their dream come true. So its not an issue for bi girls.

If a guy tells a girl he wants to explore his bi side? What's the odds? Maybe 2 in 10 girls are happy?

So ya that's why guys lie about been straight.

The real puzzle is the single girl who won't meet a bi guy on his own. Why on earth not? It's the girl he is shagging. Why does she care if he also likes men? "

Because she obviously does,and she has a choice in who she meets,same as the Bi guy,or anyone else for that matter,has a choice in who they meet.

We keep hearing that swinging is about respect.Why would anyone consider meeting anyone that doesn't respect their wishes?

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

E won't kiss a guy who sucks cock, even though she does lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have the opposite probably all the str8 guys who say they are bi but won't put it on profile then u think are they saying that just to get the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure they only want str8 guys cuz they're bigoted! And yes I can see them all now shocked faces n all that and someone is probably gonna rap my knuckle for saying what i think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I had it on my profile but 3 issues

1. Couples dont think you play straight

2. Inundated with gay guy mails offering to suck your cock

3. Women are turned off thinking you aren't all man

For me I only consider it in group or couple play and don't even think of it unless I'm asked.

So yes unfortunately there are drawbacks but some people you can talk to understand the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a thread up few weeks back, and so many women wanted a bi mmf...

So don't be hiding..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There was a thread up few weeks back, and so many women wanted a bi mmf...

So don't be hiding..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There was a thread up few weeks back, and so many women wanted a bi mmf...

So don't be hiding..

Shhh! Don't want to let everyone know lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well.. its good to see serious discussion isn't dead. . Loads of good constructive comments for everyone to digest. X

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

A good thread and a great read. Makes a pleasant change from reading the usual dribble in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the women who claim to be bi or bicurious simply to fulfill the others halfs fantasy..

Swing sites are full of them, I was mortified for two women who got really upset during a meet...

The damn partners kept egging them on, until the poor women fled the room in tears...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about the women who claim to be bi or bicurious simply to fulfill the others halfs fantasy..

Swing sites are full of them, I was mortified for two women who got really upset during a meet...

The damn partners kept egging them on, until the poor women fled the room in tears..."

this,,,, there is a lot of it going on and with women who say their bi/bi curious meeting up with couples and then only wanting to play with the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about the women who claim to be bi or bicurious simply to fulfill the others halfs fantasy..

Swing sites are full of them, I was mortified for two women who got really upset during a meet...

The damn partners kept egging them on, until the poor women fled the room in tears..."

Wowser. I often wondered myself how come there seemed to be so many bi ladies in couples profiles. No one should ever be pushed into something they're not comfortable with. Just not right.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

"What about the women who claim to be bi or bicurious simply to fulfill the others halfs fantasy..

Swing sites are full of them, I was mortified for two women who got really upset during a meet...

The damn partners kept egging them on, until the poor women fled the room in tears...

this,,,, there is a lot of it going on and with women who say their bi/bi curious meeting up with couples and then only wanting to play with the guy "

Yeah we've had this:

'Let's start with watching the girls kiss and play, then maybe we can do something if I haven't already cum'

Lmao

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I think the only reason straight-m couples wont meet bi guys is that they think the bi guy can't play straight. But there's no problem with the opposite happening. A sad double standard given what the country recently voted for

I didnt even know mr crazy diamonds was bi until i saw him play at a party, and then it was like "oh right" and i continued on with what i was doing. no big deal.

It really shouldnt be an issue, but sadly....it is."

I am just wondering if a straight cpl were in a group situation and there was bi play going on would they up and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt even know mr crazy diamonds was bi until i saw him play at a party, and then it was like "oh right" and i continued on with what i was doing. no big deal.

It really shouldnt be an issue, but sadly....it is.

I am just wondering if a straight cpl were in a group situation and there was bi play going on would they up and leave. "

No, we'd sit down, take a breather & watch.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I didnt even know mr crazy diamonds was bi until i saw him play at a party, and then it was like "oh right" and i continued on with what i was doing. no big deal.

It really shouldnt be an issue, but sadly....it is.

I am just wondering if a straight cpl were in a group situation and there was bi play going on would they up and leave.

No, we'd sit down, take a breather & watch."

Think that's what I be doing

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By *ammydubCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Sure they only want str8 guys cuz they're bigoted! And yes I can see them all now shocked faces n all that and someone is probably gonna rap my knuckle for saying what i think.

Probably more to do with the male partner not been into cock!! what a ridiculous thing to say

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