FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

no strings sex in both sexes eyes

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say its not just Ireland. I'm sure the men to women ratio is just as lopsided on sites like these all over the world. So it's not just Irish, western or any culture really. Fact is women are in general more selective than men when it comes to potential sexual partners.....it could well be to do with gene selection and other primal inherent traits we have all evolved with subconsciously. Fact is its generally the selective confident people ( both men and women ) who seem to be happiest in their sex lives ( both swingers and vanilla ).Most of those who complain here unfunfortunately seem to be people who have the misfortune to choose not to be selective...most of whom are probably great people ( and mostly men ) who seem to have convinced themselves that they must hunt around aimlessly and indiscriminately trying half-heartedly to proposition every woman and couple they view.

But that's just my amateur opinion, more of an observation really !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say its not just Ireland. I'm sure the men to women ratio is just as lopsided on sites like these all over the world. So it's not just Irish, western or any culture really. Fact is women are in general more selective than men when it comes to potential sexual partners.....it could well be to do with gene selection and other primal inherent traits we have all evolved with subconsciously. Fact is its generally the selective confident people ( both men and women ) who seem to be happiest in their sex lives ( both swingers and vanilla ).Most of those who complain here unfunfortunately seem to be people who have the misfortune to choose not to be selective...most of whom are probably great people ( and mostly men ) who seem to have convinced themselves that they must hunt around aimlessly and indiscriminately trying half-heartedly to proposition every woman and couple they view.

But that's just my amateur opinion, more of an observation really ! "
fair point!i personally believe it would,takin this site as an example be hard for men to be overly selective as you could be waiting the very long haul for a meet!for me i just need some bit of attraction,i dont need to think "oh wow shes stunning"! If that makes sense

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Groundhog day

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea, it makes sense because as I say, men in general are less selective than women in general. But forget about here for one second. Imagine your in a bar or nightclub for twenty somethings. Most of d people there r most likely single, most ( men and women ) r looking to hook up with someone ( either for sex or for a relationship ). Who looks more desperate, the average woman or d average guy ? At the end of d day, perceived desparation does not attract ladies, cause lets face it if any average girl stopped d music, grabbed a mic and announced she would have sex with every guy that gave her his number, she would get the numbers of 80% of d. Guys there. If an average guy done the same thing, he'd be lucky to get considered by 2% of d girls.

So I guess the moral of the example is.....98% of the women would probably overlook the 80% of guys who showed no discernment !

Such is life.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea, it makes sense because as I say, men in general are less selective than women in general. But forget about here for one second. Imagine your in a bar or nightclub for twenty somethings. Most of d people there r most likely single, most ( men and women ) r looking to hook up with someone ( either for sex or for a relationship ). Who looks more desperate, the average woman or d average guy ? At the end of d day, perceived desparation does not attract ladies, cause lets face it if any average girl stopped d music, grabbed a mic and announced she would have sex with every guy that gave her his number, she would get the numbers of 80% of d. Guys there. If an average guy done the same thing, he'd be lucky to get considered by 2% of d girls.

So I guess the moral of the example is.....98% of the women would probably overlook the 80% of guys who showed no discernment !

Such is life."
see if i see a man and he will fuk lots of women i see it more as him loving sex and having the attitude "well if shes not ugly in my eyes im game"! I agree with you though,sex to women n sex to men are totally different

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well fair enough King, we'll agree to differ on it. To be honest, I have rarely seen a woman I find ugly, but I seriously could not be bothered about having sex for d rest of my life, if it wasn't with a woman I was very, very attracted to......like what would be d point, I wouldn't get a kick out of it, and even if a woman looked as hot as d surface of d sun, but I didn't click with her personality wise then I'd just happily keep it in my pants.....but look I've slept with women when I was younger for d sake of it too.....but I copped that sleeping with one woman Ur really into is better than sleeping with 20 that ur not. Like I honestly don't know how many woman I slept with in my teens and early twenties ( and I'm not going to give a guesstimate on here lol ), but I do know how many I've slept with since then ( a fraction of before ), and I have never regretted letting an opportunity pass me by with a lady I didn't have chemistry with. I guarantee U king when Ur old and grey and ur sitting on a nursing home chair near ur bed, trying not squeeze ur gonads between ur ankles when U stand......it won't be d quantity of woman U shagged that's going to stick in ur mind.....its going to be d quality love-making U experianced on many occasions with a handful of exceptional women.....if Ur lucky.

But then again, let every man do what feels eight for him, and good look to him

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea, it makes sense because as I say, men in general are less selective than women in general. But forget about here for one second. Imagine your in a bar or nightclub for twenty somethings. Most of d people there r most likely single, most ( men and women ) r looking to hook up with someone ( either for sex or for a relationship ). Who looks more desperate, the average woman or d average guy ? At the end of d day, perceived desparation does not attract ladies, cause lets face it if any average girl stopped d music, grabbed a mic and announced she would have sex with every guy that gave her his number, she would get the numbers of 80% of d. Guys there. If an average guy done the same thing, he'd be lucky to get considered by 2% of d girls.

So I guess the moral of the example is.....98% of the women would probably overlook the 80% of guys who showed no discernment !

Such is life.see if i see a man and he will fuk lots of women i see it more as him loving sex and having the attitude "well if shes not ugly in my eyes im game"! I agree with you though,sex to women n sex to men are totally different "

I agree to what's been said

If I may add

As both sexes are different genetic some not all women can't have meaningless sex. As a culture we are suppose to unite love and sex together so not all women are capable or would want to be intinate in a sexual way if there is no love, women know this and is why some not all can't do one without the other.

Thankfully some women can / want sex without the security of a loving relationship and they can be found in sites like this

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, I don't mean to sound like love has to between them in order to have great sex.....but I do think d majority of women ( here and in conventional society ) will not sleep with someone they don't fancy OR connect with. Where as it seems like a very high percentage of guys would. ( As I would have myself in my early sexual life, but alot of people get to know ur preferences and eventually go for quality over quantity )

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree, I don't mean to sound like love has to between them in order to have great sex.....but I do think d majority of women ( here and in conventional society ) will not sleep with someone they don't fancy OR connect with. Where as it seems like a very high percentage of guys would. ( As I would have myself in my early sexual life, but alot of people get to know ur preferences and eventually go for quality over quantity )"

Again I agree, most women will want to be attracted and feel chemistry to whom they get naked with, women need a connection and not all men do. There is no wrong or right.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is definitely no wrong or right for sure. And there people on here and elsewhere who can be in ecstasy in the middle of a multi-sexuality orgy and not know or care who is doing what to who.....and without them the world would be a duller unevolving place.....so fair play to diversity !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The attraction is in how much the member of the opposite sex is turned on. If size or shape mattered the population would go into swift decline. Sexuality is in the mind as much as it is portrayed in the body. We all have our own way of expressing our beauty or sexuality. When it works run with it and have fun.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

A man cant have a one night stand without a woman willing to have a one night stand.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

Unless he is a gay man obviously.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well fair enough King, we'll agree to differ on it. To be honest, I have rarely seen a woman I find ugly, but I seriously could not be bothered about having sex for d rest of my life, if it wasn't with a woman I was very, very attracted to......like what would be d point, I wouldn't get a kick out of it, and even if a woman looked as hot as d surface of d sun, but I didn't click with her personality wise then I'd just happily keep it in my pants.....but look I've slept with women when I was younger for d sake of it too.....but I copped that sleeping with one woman Ur really into is better than sleeping with 20 that ur not. Like I honestly don't know how many woman I slept with in my teens and early twenties ( and I'm not going to give a guesstimate on here lol ), but I do know how many I've slept with since then ( a fraction of before ), and I have never regretted letting an opportunity pass me by with a lady I didn't have chemistry with. I guarantee U king when Ur old and grey and ur sitting on a nursing home chair near ur bed, trying not squeeze ur gonads between ur ankles when U stand......it won't be d quantity of woman U shagged that's going to stick in ur mind.....its going to be d quality love-making U experianced on many occasions with a handful of exceptional women.....if Ur lucky.

But then again, let every man do what feels eight for him, and good look to him "

Love this!! So well put and so true, glad to hear a man say that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well fair enough King, we'll agree to differ on it. To be honest, I have rarely seen a woman I find ugly, but I seriously could not be bothered about having sex for d rest of my life, if it wasn't with a woman I was very, very attracted to......like what would be d point, I wouldn't get a kick out of it, and even if a woman looked as hot as d surface of d sun, but I didn't click with her personality wise then I'd just happily keep it in my pants.....but look I've slept with women when I was younger for d sake of it too.....but I copped that sleeping with one woman Ur really into is better than sleeping with 20 that ur not. Like I honestly don't know how many woman I slept with in my teens and early twenties ( and I'm not going to give a guesstimate on here lol ), but I do know how many I've slept with since then ( a fraction of before ), and I have never regretted letting an opportunity pass me by with a lady I didn't have chemistry with. I guarantee U king when Ur old and grey and ur sitting on a nursing home chair near ur bed, trying not squeeze ur gonads between ur ankles when U stand......it won't be d quantity of woman U shagged that's going to stick in ur mind.....its going to be d quality love-making U experianced on many occasions with a handful of exceptional women.....if Ur lucky.

But then again, let every man do what feels eight for him, and good look to him "
I agree nice to see

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city


"A man cant have a one night stand without a woman willing to have a one night stand."

I think your trying to say that makes them the same.....

but it could be a lot of men having one, one night stand.with a few women having lots of one night stands...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"attraction is in how much the member of the opposite sex is turned on."

This is a throbbing truism!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally agree, I don't mean to sound like love has to between them in order to have great sex.....but I do think d majority of women ( here and in conventional society ) will not sleep with someone they don't fancy OR connect with. Where as it seems like a very high percentage of guys would. ( As I would have myself in my early sexual life, but alot of people get to know ur preferences and eventually go for quality over quantity )"
ill be honest!if i had no attraction whatsoever to a woman,none i wouldnt have sex with her but i have heard a saying before and i think it sums things up very nicely!alot of men can have sex on physical attraction alone,most women cant! Also its been said your better having sex with "someone your really into"!is there not a chance in that scenario of feelings beyond sex developing?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree, I don't mean to sound like love has to between them in order to have great sex.....but I do think d majority of women ( here and in conventional society ) will not sleep with someone they don't fancy OR connect with. Where as it seems like a very high percentage of guys would. ( As I would have myself in my early sexual life, but alot of people get to know ur preferences and eventually go for quality over quantity )ill be honest!if i had no attraction whatsoever to a woman,none i wouldnt have sex with her but i have heard a saying before and i think it sums things up very nicely!alot of men can have sex on physical attraction alone,most women cant! Also its been said your better having sex with "someone your really into"!is there not a chance in that scenario of feelings beyond sex developing?"

Your bang on King, can't dispute that. There is every potential for love developing, but ultimately that's a blessing or trouble that most couples ón here safeguard against as much as they can. It's a thin line but most ón here a while seem successful in treading that line. Might not be as much trouble for singles playing with singles, but sites like these r really not suited for anyone who wants more than friendships from it in the first place.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally agree, I don't mean to sound like love has to between them in order to have great sex.....but I do think d majority of women ( here and in conventional society ) will not sleep with someone they don't fancy OR connect with. Where as it seems like a very high percentage of guys would. ( As I would have myself in my early sexual life, but alot of people get to know ur preferences and eventually go for quality over quantity )ill be honest!if i had no attraction whatsoever to a woman,none i wouldnt have sex with her but i have heard a saying before and i think it sums things up very nicely!alot of men can have sex on physical attraction alone,most women cant! Also its been said your better having sex with "someone your really into"!is there not a chance in that scenario of feelings beyond sex developing?

Your bang on King, can't dispute that. There is every potential for love developing, but ultimately that's a blessing or trouble that most couples ón here safeguard against as much as they can. It's a thin line but most ón here a while seem successful in treading that line. Might not be as much trouble for singles playing with singles, but sites like these r really not suited for anyone who wants more than friendships from it in the first place."
very true!thats why your best off to keep things as casual as you possible can!your threading on dangerous waters if you become really into someone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here... "

The thread is NOT about what women want

Perhaps reread the discussion of fabbers opinions and of how statistics possible occur.

For once a thread that stayed on topic!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here...

The thread is NOT about what women want

Perhaps reread the discussion of fabbers opinions and of how statistics possible occur.

For once a thread that stayed on topic!!"

Public forum Sweetie I can post what I like once its within the rules...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

I'd have to agree there. To anybody who's interested, "The Red Queen" by Matt Ridley (i think) is a great book about sexual selection in relation to evolution.

Put simply, for women, there's no advantage in having sex with absolutely everyone. There's no point giving birth to a child from a lesser male when you've spent 9 months infertile and could have chosen a better prospect. With men, it's nearly the opposite. There's no 9 month infertile period. Sowing the seeds anywhere and everywhere is positive and causes no disadvantages.

This is all in terms of evolution. I don't agree with living your life with that as it's core. You just have to admit that it has shaped us into the two distinct and very different genders we are now.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here...

The thread is NOT about what women want

Perhaps reread the discussion of fabbers opinions and of how statistics possible occur.

For once a thread that stayed on topic!!

Public forum Sweetie I can post what I like once its within the rules...

"

Of course you can "sweetie", maybe you should pass this one by if you can't contribute positively!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have to agree there. To anybody who's interested, "The Red Queen" by Matt Ridley (i think) is a great book about sexual selection in relation to evolution.

Put simply, for women, there's no advantage in having sex with absolutely everyone. There's no point giving birth to a child from a lesser male when you've spent 9 months infertile and could have chosen a better prospect. With men, it's nearly the opposite. There's no 9 month infertile period. Sowing the seeds anywhere and everywhere is positive and causes no disadvantages.

This is all in terms of evolution. I don't agree with living your life with that as it's core. You just have to admit that it has shaped us into the two distinct and very different genders we are now."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here...

The thread is NOT about what women want

Perhaps reread the discussion of fabbers opinions and of how statistics possible occur.

For once a thread that stayed on topic!!

Public forum Sweetie I can post what I like once its within the rules...

Of course you can "sweetie", maybe you should pass this one by if you can't contribute positively!!"

Why, just because I disagree...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here...

The thread is NOT about what women want

Perhaps reread the discussion of fabbers opinions and of how statistics possible occur.

For once a thread that stayed on topic!!

Public forum Sweetie I can post what I like once its within the rules...

Of course you can "sweetie", maybe you should pass this one by if you can't contribute positively!!

Why, just because I disagree... "
what do you disagree on?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here...

The thread is NOT about what women want

Perhaps reread the discussion of fabbers opinions and of how statistics possible occur.

For once a thread that stayed on topic!!

Public forum Sweetie I can post what I like once its within the rules...

Of course you can "sweetie", maybe you should pass this one by if you can't contribute positively!!

Why, just because I disagree... what do you disagree on?"

I'd hate to offend any delicate wee soul by expressing my opinion or possibly putting the thread off topic...

So I'll "Pass this one by"...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here...

The thread is NOT about what women want

Perhaps reread the discussion of fabbers opinions and of how statistics possible occur.

For once a thread that stayed on topic!!

Public forum Sweetie I can post what I like once its within the rules...

Of course you can "sweetie", maybe you should pass this one by if you can't contribute positively!!

Why, just because I disagree... what do you disagree on?

I'd hate to offend any delicate wee soul by expressing my opinion or possibly putting the thread off topic...

So I'll "Pass this one by"... "
go on!all topics have positive and negative comments!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here...

The thread is NOT about what women want

Perhaps reread the discussion of fabbers opinions and of how statistics possible occur.

For once a thread that stayed on topic!!

Public forum Sweetie I can post what I like once its within the rules...

Of course you can "sweetie", maybe you should pass this one by if you can't contribute positively!!

Why, just because I disagree... what do you disagree on?

I'd hate to offend any delicate wee soul by expressing my opinion or possibly putting the thread off topic...

So I'll "Pass this one by"... go on!all topics have positive and negative comments!"

Sorry my dear not into drama

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here... 

So that was kinda just an off the cuff comment? Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here... 

So that was kinda just an off the cuff comment? Lol"

Troll level : Basic

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here... 

So that was kinda just an off the cuff comment? Lol

Troll level : Basic"
no trolling,just asking a question!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 03/06/15 11:54:58]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?"

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men."
thats a fair point

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here... 

So that was kinda just an off the cuff comment? Lol

Troll level : Basicno trolling,just asking a question!"

I think she was admiting to been a troll at basic level......sarcastically!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jesus there is a lot of Experts on what women want on here... 

So that was kinda just an off the cuff comment? Lol

Troll level : Basicno trolling,just asking a question!

I think she was admiting to been a troll at basic level......sarcastically!!"
some get away with that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men."

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex"

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on..."

Your "9month problem" would suggest it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it."

Condoms can break

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it."

Yeah, because no one has ever got preggers when using a condom have they? As a woman, it has to always be there at the back of your mind.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have to agree there. To anybody who's interested, "The Red Queen" by Matt Ridley (i think) is a great book about sexual selection in relation to evolution.

Put simply, for women, there's no advantage in having sex with absolutely everyone. There's no point giving birth to a child from a lesser male when you've spent 9 months infertile and could have chosen a better prospect. With men, it's nearly the opposite. There's no 9 month infertile period. Sowing the seeds anywhere and everywhere is positive and causes no disadvantages.

This is all in terms of evolution. I don't agree with living your life with that as it's core. You just have to admit that it has shaped us into the two distinct and very different genders we are now."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it.

Yeah, because no one has ever got preggers when using a condom have they? As a woman, it has to always be there at the back of your mind."

So I don't need my spectacles.

Anyone person male or female who chooses not to protect themselves from your 9 month problem or STI's shouldn't stay away from swinging.

Be responsible for yourself first

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it.

Yeah, because no one has ever got preggers when using a condom have they? As a woman, it has to always be there at the back of your mind.

So I don't need my spectacles.

Anyone person male or female who chooses not to protect themselves from your 9 month problem or STI's shouldn't stay away from swinging.

Be responsible for yourself first"
what their saying is a man could use a condom but it could break!personalky its never happened but sure always a chance i suppose

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it.

Yeah, because no one has ever got preggers when using a condom have they? As a woman, it has to always be there at the back of your mind.

So I don't need my spectacles.

Anyone person male or female who chooses not to protect themselves from your 9 month problem or STI's shouldn't stay away from swinging.

Be responsible for yourself firstwhat their saying is a man could use a condom but it could break!personalky its never happened but sure always a chance i suppose "

Happened to me!!!

Twins as a result.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it.

Yeah, because no one has ever got preggers when using a condom have they? As a woman, it has to always be there at the back of your mind.

So I don't need my spectacles.

Anyone person male or female who chooses not to protect themselves from your 9 month problem or STI's shouldn't stay away from swinging.

Be responsible for yourself first"

Do you want to try again?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it.

Yeah, because no one has ever got preggers when using a condom have they? As a woman, it has to always be there at the back of your mind.

So I don't need my spectacles.

Anyone person male or female who chooses not to protect themselves from your 9 month problem or STI's shouldn't stay away from swinging.

Be responsible for yourself firstwhat their saying is a man could use a condom but it could break!personalky its never happened but sure always a chance i suppose

Happened to me!!!

Twins as a result."
i guess your partner wasnt on a contraceptive?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it.

Yeah, because no one has ever got preggers when using a condom have they? As a woman, it has to always be there at the back of your mind.

So I don't need my spectacles.

Anyone person male or female who chooses not to protect themselves from your 9 month problem or STI's shouldn't stay away from swinging.

Be responsible for yourself firstwhat their saying is a man could use a condom but it could break!personalky its never happened but sure always a chance i suppose

Happened to me!!!

Twins as a result.i guess your partner wasnt on a contraceptive?"

Correct.was a d*unkin night bit of a fumble then wham bam thank you mam

wouldn't change it tho, love them to bits

point was that it can and does happen.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it.

Yeah, because no one has ever got preggers when using a condom have they? As a woman, it has to always be there at the back of your mind.

So I don't need my spectacles.

Anyone person male or female who chooses not to protect themselves from your 9 month problem or STI's shouldn't stay away from swinging.

Be responsible for yourself first"

Should stay away

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it.

Yeah, because no one has ever got preggers when using a condom have they? As a woman, it has to always be there at the back of your mind.

So I don't need my spectacles.

Anyone person male or female who chooses not to protect themselves from your 9 month problem or STI's shouldn't stay away from swinging.

Be responsible for yourself firstwhat their saying is a man could use a condom but it could break!personalky its never happened but sure always a chance i suppose

Happened to me!!!

Twins as a result.i guess your partner wasnt on a contraceptive?"

So what if she wasn't on contraceptive,there is any amount of reasons why people don't use extra contraceptives... The safest thing to do is abstain from sex, and after that its a condom...

No contraceptive is 100%

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it.

Yeah, because no one has ever got preggers when using a condom have they? As a woman, it has to always be there at the back of your mind.

So I don't need my spectacles.

Anyone person male or female who chooses not to protect themselves from your 9 month problem or STI's shouldn't stay away from swinging.

Be responsible for yourself firstwhat their saying is a man could use a condom but it could break!personalky its never happened but sure always a chance i suppose

Happened to me!!!

Twins as a result.i guess your partner wasnt on a contraceptive?"

My point exactly. The woman left it to the man to protect them both.

Glad it all worked out for you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you although it's becoming forced abstinence

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it.

Yeah, because no one has ever got preggers when using a condom have they? As a woman, it has to always be there at the back of your mind.

So I don't need my spectacles.

Anyone person male or female who chooses not to protect themselves from your 9 month problem or STI's shouldn't stay away from swinging.

Be responsible for yourself firstwhat their saying is a man could use a condom but it could break!personalky its never happened but sure always a chance i suppose

Happened to me!!!

Twins as a result.i guess your partner wasnt on a contraceptive?

So what if she wasn't on contraceptive,there is any amount of reasons why people don't use extra contraceptives... The safest thing to do is abstain from sex, and after that its a condom...

No contraceptive is 100% "

i find copious amounts of guinness to be a great contraceptive, everthing from my neck down stops working

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you reckon on sites like these plus dating sites i would imagine,the number of men far outweights the % of women?do you reckon lots of women wont do "fun" because of what their labeleed or do you think we,in ireland kind of have a backward mentality to casual sex?

No & no. Just remember no sex can be 100% casual for women(unless for medical reasons) as we end up with the problem after 9 months so there's a level of casual that in my book is higher in women than men.

I don't think "casual" meant unprotected sex

Who said anything about unprotected? Maybe you should put your glasses on...

Your "9month problem" would suggest it.

Yeah, because no one has ever got preggers when using a condom have they? As a woman, it has to always be there at the back of your mind.

So I don't need my spectacles.

Anyone person male or female who chooses not to protect themselves from your 9 month problem or STI's shouldn't stay away from swinging.

Be responsible for yourself firstwhat their saying is a man could use a condom but it could break!personalky its never happened but sure always a chance i suppose

Happened to me!!!

Twins as a result.i guess your partner wasnt on a contraceptive?

So what if she wasn't on contraceptive,there is any amount of reasons why people don't use extra contraceptives... The safest thing to do is abstain from sex, and after that its a condom...

No contraceptive is 100% "
it was just a point tgat both sexes should take care with contraception even if there is still a chance of a pregnancy occuring

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top