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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is being a straight woman on here a rare thing?

I'm straight and have no interest in being with another woman, just not for me at all.

I've had to block couples and women mailing me since I joined because it seems they don't understand the concept.

Is every Woman on here bi or bi curious?

And why is it "ok" for a couple to try convince me that I do actually want to be with a woman?

I've been reading the forum and see guys getting slagged off and given out about. Respect works both ways though??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a strange world of double standards here, you get used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads that have a meaning and a real purpose dont appeal to the fab masses, they're more interested in the rubbish kiss, pass fuck threads or i've made so much good friends through swinging' threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also its a woman's world here as you can see on the forums most of the lads are normally at the ladies feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Minnie,as a grown woman I'm sure you don't need anyone trying to convince you to change who you are and what you prefer .Some people assume because you are here you are desperate which ofcourse isn't the case at all .All you can do is block and move on .Good luck .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey Minnie,as a grown woman I'm sure you don't need anyone trying to convince you to change who you are and what you prefer .Some people assume because you are here you are desperate which ofcourse isn't the case at all .All you can do is block and move on .Good luck ."

I'm not suggesting I would do anything I'm not comfortable with

Just think it's pure cheek of them Is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a strange world of double standards here, you get used to it"

THIS!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey Minnie,as a grown woman I'm sure you don't need anyone trying to convince you to change who you are and what you prefer .Some people assume because you are here you are desperate which ofcourse isn't the case at all .All you can do is block and move on .Good luck .

I'm not suggesting I would do anything I'm not comfortable with

Just think it's pure cheek of them Is all "
....we read profiles. ....if there is anything there that isn't suited to our tastes....we dont contact them. ...There are far too many suitable folks....without having to convert the ones that don't. ...I would advise the op to say....no thanks. .not what im after. ..if they persist. ...block...they have then entered the pushy realm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a euro for every time a couple here suggested I try being with a woman Id be minted. Im in no way curious, it's penis all the way for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to your question, yes it is rare...most women in here do seem to be bi or bi curious. Attempting to get you to play with the wife or gf is prob seen as non-offensive as a lot of fem to fem stuff is just a bit of playfulness and kissing just for the mans viewing. They probably dont think theyre overstepping the mark by suggesting it then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a strange world of double standards here, you get used to it

THIS!! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I had a euro for every time a couple here suggested I try being with a woman Id be minted. Im in no way curious, it's penis all the way for me. "

Glad I'm not the only one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In answer to your question, yes it is rare...most women in here do seem to be bi or bi curious. Attempting to get you to play with the wife or gf is prob seen as non-offensive as a lot of fem to fem stuff is just a bit of playfulness and kissing just for the mans viewing. They probably dont think theyre overstepping the mark by suggesting it then"

Would you think it over stepping if a couple attempted to convince you to engage in a bit of playfulness and kissing with the man, for the womans viewing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people who believe can convince anyone to try anything once .. I presume most guys who describe themselves as straight get the bi or gay guys offering blowjobs .. They chance their arm ... It's rude it's impolite its a pain but for 2 seconds I got a new message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In answer to your question, yes it is rare...most women in here do seem to be bi or bi curious. Attempting to get you to play with the wife or gf is prob seen as non-offensive as a lot of fem to fem stuff is just a bit of playfulness and kissing just for the mans viewing. They probably dont think theyre overstepping the mark by suggesting it then

Would you think it over stepping if a couple attempted to convince you to engage in a bit of playfulness and kissing with the man, for the womans viewing?"

Oh absolutely yes, and its the same in your situation...im just giving you an idea what i think is in their heads when they do it

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

There are straight people of both sexes here that people refuse to believe and still insist on trying to convince otherwise. You're not alone on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well look men get offers everyday of discrete blowjobs from gay males every day. Not many people can take no for an answer or respect someone's preferences, it's just something you have to ignore it's human nature really

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Well look men get offers everyday of discrete blowjobs from gay males every day. Not many people can take no for an answer or respect someone's preferences, it's just something you have to ignore it's human nature really"

Most of the offers I get are actually from "straight" males!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was you id just use my message filters.then women and cpls can't contact you.but you can them if you feel the need

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I was you id just use my message filters.then women and cpls can't contact you.but you can them if you feel the need"

I've already done that. Didn't think I'd have to as my profile says I'm straight and clearly states what I'm here for.

Obviously people can't read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was you id just use my message filters.then women and cpls can't contact you.but you can them if you feel the need

I've already done that. Didn't think I'd have to as my profile says I'm straight and clearly states what I'm here for.

Obviously people can't read "

it should calm down for you now soand no either people can't read won't read.or only care what it is they want!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"If I was you id just use my message filters.then women and cpls can't contact you.but you can them if you feel the need

I've already done that. Didn't think I'd have to as my profile says I'm straight and clearly states what I'm here for.

Obviously people can't read "
it will calm down your only new on the site so people will try there luck....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well look men get offers everyday of discrete blowjobs from gay males every day. Not many people can take no for an answer or respect someone's preferences, it's just something you have to ignore it's human nature really

Most of the offers I get are actually from "straight" males! "

I got sick of it and blocked them all, like how many times do you have to say no

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Good morning Minnie and welcome to the world of fab where people can't read but can write a msg asking for things that aren't clear on ur profile. I take it this is not ur first turn around the dance floor either that or u got some very good pointers for ur FAQs maybe adding that u have no interest in FEMS and only seek cock might deter them.

Fab is a strange and wonderful place where u meet all kinds of weirdos and a lot of great people join in the craic theirs loads to go round and block anyone's ass that annoys u

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good morning Minnie and welcome to the world of fab where people can't read but can write a msg asking for things that aren't clear on ur profile. I take it this is not ur first turn around the dance floor either that or u got some very good pointers for ur FAQs maybe adding that u have no interest in FEMS and only seek cock might deter them.

Fab is a strange and wonderful place where u meet all kinds of weirdos and a lot of great people join in the craic theirs loads to go round and block anyone's ass that annoys u

Happy swinging "

New here. Just learn quickly and can't tolerate idiots or stupidity best to be straight up. No pun intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning Minnie and welcome to the world of fab where people can't read but can write a msg asking for things that aren't clear on ur profile. I take it this is not ur first turn around the dance floor either that or u got some very good pointers for ur FAQs maybe adding that u have no interest in FEMS and only seek cock might deter them.

Fab is a strange and wonderful place where u meet all kinds of weirdos and a lot of great people join in the craic theirs loads to go round and block anyone's ass that annoys u

Happy swinging

New here. Just learn quickly and can't tolerate idiots or stupidity best to be straight up. No pun intended. "
.......can't tolerate idiots or stupidity. ....minnie...I have bad news for you...you may want to sit down. ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good morning Minnie and welcome to the world of fab where people can't read but can write a msg asking for things that aren't clear on ur profile. I take it this is not ur first turn around the dance floor either that or u got some very good pointers for ur FAQs maybe adding that u have no interest in FEMS and only seek cock might deter them.

Fab is a strange and wonderful place where u meet all kinds of weirdos and a lot of great people join in the craic theirs loads to go round and block anyone's ass that annoys u

Happy swinging

New here. Just learn quickly and can't tolerate idiots or stupidity best to be straight up. No pun intended. .......can't tolerate idiots or stupidity. ....minnie...I have bad news for you...you may want to sit down. ... "

Its okay, I've already learned how to use the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning Minnie and welcome to the world of fab where people can't read but can write a msg asking for things that aren't clear on ur profile. I take it this is not ur first turn around the dance floor either that or u got some very good pointers for ur FAQs maybe adding that u have no interest in FEMS and only seek cock might deter them.

Fab is a strange and wonderful place where u meet all kinds of weirdos and a lot of great people join in the craic theirs loads to go round and block anyone's ass that annoys u

Happy swinging

New here. Just learn quickly and can't tolerate idiots or stupidity best to be straight up. No pun intended. .......can't tolerate idiots or stupidity. ....minnie...I have bad news for you...you may want to sit down. ...

Its okay, I've already learned how to use the block button"
....look on the bright side. ...monaghan are gonna kick the shite outa cavan on Sunday. .

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Good morning Minnie and welcome to the world of fab where people can't read but can write a msg asking for things that aren't clear on ur profile. I take it this is not ur first turn around the dance floor either that or u got some very good pointers for ur FAQs maybe adding that u have no interest in FEMS and only seek cock might deter them.

Fab is a strange and wonderful place where u meet all kinds of weirdos and a lot of great people join in the craic theirs loads to go round and block anyone's ass that annoys u

Happy swinging

New here. Just learn quickly and can't tolerate idiots or stupidity best to be straight up. No pun intended. .......can't tolerate idiots or stupidity. ....minnie...I have bad news for you...you may want to sit down. ...

Its okay, I've already learned how to use the block button....look on the bright side. ...monaghan are gonna kick the shite outa cavan on Sunday. . "

Don't mention shite the last op went unlos at the meat mention of the word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be a case of people wanting what they cant have....you being straight can make you more desireable to them.....that dosent excuse the fact that they arent respecting your prefrences.

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