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By *iscreet Cuckold Fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

Being Stud Up... Does this happen to anyone else much? What's the best tips to avoid it? Sick feeling when you have an evening planned and your meet dosent bother to show or even text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to most I would imagine at some stage...dust yourself off and move on to next meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens more than you think, just put it down to experience and forget about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who ever stood you up is really stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are the only way to go and check them

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

It happens to most (myself included), I'm just more surprised it happened to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its happened me 5 times... Don't worry about it... I don't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens. Onto the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened twice on me, just people acting the maggot. We can all understand something going wrong in the attendees life and for some reason they can't make it. Was the person/s verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its happens, not the end of the world their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who the hell would stand you up

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

It's never happened me on here or any dating/adult site. I only meet people I get to know.

It did happen me on another site though, not meeting for date, or not meeting for sex, meeting just to meet up. I gave them benefit of doubt and it wasn't far out of my way so was happy enough to waste the time.

Anyway, good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's never happened me on here or any dating/adult site. I only meet people I get to know.

It did happen me on another site though, not meeting for date, or not meeting for sex, meeting just to meet up. I gave them benefit of doubt and it wasn't far out of my way so was happy enough to waste the time.

Anyway, good luck."

So thats one meet and one no show by my maths lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it happen twice in dublin a few weeks back on the same night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time yee are in Kilkenny drop me a mail....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being Stud Up... Does this happen to anyone else much? What's the best tips to avoid it? Sick feeling when you have an evening planned and your meet dosent bother to show or even text. "

Having looked at your pro think anyone who misses out on a chance to meet you guys is mad or stupid or both so reckon you just dodged a bullet!

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City


"So thats one meet and one no show by my maths lol "

Yeah, I have only ever met one person from online. Im only new, is there something wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever stood u up must need there head checking ur profile and pics are hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens the best of us. The nature of the beast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens the best of us. The nature of the beast "

Your a sexy beast hardy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sucks hairy arse....but it happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens the best of us. The nature of the beast

Your a sexy beast hardy "
lol take the wine of jilly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never stood anyone up in my life and never would. Same goes for a m&g or social if i had put my name down to go to. Might be shi**ing myself but if I said I would be there I will.

Pity there is no reverse veri system. Or could people who don't show up to planned meets be reported to admin who then put a marker on the profile, three strikes and their out. Probably unworkable though I guess.

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By *happy79xMan
over a year ago

Waterford

Ok this is my take. Each group on here thinks the others have it easier. The one thing they all share though is time wasters and the only thing that solves that, in my opinion, is time itself. Like everything in life the longer ya stick at something the better ya get at it. After a while you ll be able to spot the time wasters coming a mile off and also with that same time build up a , for the want of a better word , network of people ya know and trust , that 1 if ye click ye can play with and 2 ask there opinion on other that have mailed you or that ye have spotted and cough yer eye. To sum up if anyone on here wants good hot sex while having a laugh and feeling comfortable then give it time and you ll out the time wasters and get to the good stuff. If ya just want sex that will turn up when ya planned everytime , pay for it . Thats my thoughs on it . Take what ya want from it but must of all have fun and happy hunting.

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By *happy79xMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"Never stood anyone up in my life and never would. Same goes for a m&g or social if i had put my name down to go to. Might be shi**ing myself but if I said I would be there I will.

Pity there is no reverse veri system. Or could people who don't show up to planned meets be reported to admin who then put a marker on the profile, three strikes and their out. Probably unworkable though I guess."
good idea. Something like the feedback ya get on ebay lol. But that to could be fiddled too . The only thing ya can rely on is you gut feeling.

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford


"Being Stud Up... Does this happen to anyone else much? What's the best tips to avoid it? Sick feeling when you have an evening planned and your meet dosent bother to show or even text. "

happens me most of the time these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 times..i shit you not...but not recently..no longer try to meet people without veris, who leave mail unread, who dont reply or who just seem like their ego has escaped the compound...but doesn't matter that ur hot...its shit for anyone in that situation and we should 'pool' the names of the guilty parties...

..just my opinion..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being Stud Up... Does this happen to anyone else much? What's the best tips to avoid it? Sick feeling when you have an evening planned and your meet dosent bother to show or even text. "

Had reschedules, cancellations but only once stood up, not God's gift of course but by the previous posts, can't believe the people thay have been stood up, hotties like yourselves (including the guys there, ha)

My stood up was funny though, actually got stood up while we were messaging. Got ready and all that waiting for the time so to head off, she was messaging "I'll meet you after my work at the cafe I work in, have a drink outside there" It was half an hour till the time, I text saying "give me a shout when you're finished"

I got a text back saying "I'm at home now" she mighta never intended to meet but I got the impression she panicked which is understandable cause of how awesome I am.......haha, no put it down to nerves, afraid I'd be some nutter (jury is still out on that one.....) Sure you know yourselves but I suppose at least she told me it wasn't gonna happen, just annoying she didn't say sooner after me getting all dolled up.

That being said I always say to people if you change your mind let me know, no hard feelings just rather know. I'd say most don't message to say can't make it cause they're afraid of backlash, find it easier to not get in contact but it's probably worse for the recipient, or NON recipient in that case!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens way too much on here and it gives a bad impression. it also makes it difficult for other people especially newer guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does happen sometimes unfortunately, although the verifications should help cut it to a minimum....

Although your meet may have felt intimidated and over nervous from looking at your incredibly hot photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does happen sometimes unfortunately, although the verifications should help cut it to a minimum....

Although your meet may have felt intimidated and over nervous from looking at your incredibly hot photos "

Awh you turn negatives into positives

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

Question. .. who in there right mind would stand you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea happened to me

fracking frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

silly person who did that

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By *iscreet Cuckold Fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

Thanks guys

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City


"Thanks guys "

You're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys "

You can show ur appreciation in the usual manner..

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By *obbie65Man
over a year ago

kildare

Thought this was going to be about a new sex position. Never been stood up - not active enough I suppose -

Did have a lady cancel the night before though - said she had a job interview - don't think I have seen her on here since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been stood up twice, hotel booked etc annoying but some people have no respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it happens to us all.... but its worth it when meets do go right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How could ye be stood up. Brain does not compute

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