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Abuse for rejecting. Why??

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By *isa003 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Mayo Galway Leitrim

Rejected the chance to have "phone sex" with a boy who is not verified and on the site a week. And now im stupid, a slut and a muppet. Are fellas that pathetic about rejection??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alas no one likes rejection male or female

But there's a way to handle it and abuse is not the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... He wanted more also that's why the abuse happend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore and block is the best advice we could give, some numpties on this

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By *ustjimmykerryMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Rejected the chance to have "phone sex" with a boy who is not verified and on the site a week. And now im stupid, a slut and a muppet. Are fellas that pathetic about rejection?? "

According to Wikipedia eighty four per cent of males that abuse people after rejection have been born with micro dicks

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"Ignore and block is the best advice we could give, some numpties on this "

I agree block and report for abuse

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Don't take it to heart sweetie,, some don't handle the little word " no" very well. Don't put up with any abuse, you're entitled to your own choice here. Hit the block button rather than put yourself through any upset

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By *isa003 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Mayo Galway Leitrim

The site doesnt need filth like him.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your here six months and this is only just happening today...

What's your secret that happens me most days....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happens all the time and it'll keep happening funnily enough haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happens all the time and it'll keep happening funnily enough haha "

No....getting abuse daily isn't funny...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Some women are also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Some women are also. "

And actually some couples too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe that was his sex talk???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be abused by a woman...daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happens all the time and it'll keep happening funnily enough haha

No....getting abuse daily isn't funny... "

Believe it or not i've had abuse from female half of a couple after a forum posts but its ok i wont say namess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happens all the time and it'll keep happening funnily enough haha "

But you dont see me putting threads about it up

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By *isa003 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Mayo Galway Leitrim

Is there need for the dig?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rejected the chance to have "phone sex" with a boy who is not verified and on the site a week. And now im stupid, a slut and a muppet. Are fellas that pathetic about rejection?? "

We find that usually if people aren't interested they just don't reply, which is fair enough but when we do get a msg from someone saying they are not interested we always reply with a msg saying no bother, thanks for mailing us back. Anything abusive would just be childish and cruel, cannot understand the mentality of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quiet simply rejection is part of the risk of putting yourself out, but with that risk comes acceptances, guys need to realise that it takes time effort respect trust and there are horses for courses just like in real life.

Best way to handle any confrontation is not to respond or react....they will move to another

now who will have me or I will fill your mailboxs with abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happens all the time and it'll keep happening funnily enough haha

No....getting abuse daily isn't funny... "

Can't imagine getting abuse like that daily, had one nasty message from a female about our face pics, unfriended her, then got a msg asking for a meet and another friend request, people are strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see it as rejection.. I see it as there loss lol honestly tho if you can't take rejection you should not put yourself out there.. Esp on a site of this nature!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Some women are also.

And actually some couples too. "

this couple will abuse you given half the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection isn't a male phenomenon

Every day there is another thread about males being dickheads after rejection

Some females are as bad and couples too

I (male) have been on the receiving end of a scorn woman at a party just because I didn't pay Her attention and any time I chatted to another female she was standing there making the other woman feel very uneasy.

Fellas just forget about it and move on

Thank christ not every woman puts up about the abuse they get on a daily basis or it would be a very bleak forum.

That's not an attack on the op either it's just best to block and move on and let that be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No some are. They are the ppl that don't know what this site is about. They believe it to be the place where no hopper's ( in the sex world) go to get sex And of course they all look like brad Pitt or me . When in fact it's most likely the other way round.

Ah thank god for the block button

P's I'm free for phone sex most of the time. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't pay no mind to him..

some people take this site to heart as they aren't able to get no fun at all .

Immature people shouldn't even be allowed to make an account

Block and continue to enjoy the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bruised ego can be sore! I'm lucky I don't have one anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Some women are also.

And actually some couples too.

this couple will abuse you given half the chance "

Naughty newbies

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Can I join the queue for some of yer abuse ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I join the queue for some of yer abuse ?"

No, feck off! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of them are but there is small few of us who are not

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