FabSwingers.com forum: I've seen it from the other side.

By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I recently helped set up a profile for a lady friend, and gave her advice on filters, blocks etc.

Sadly her internet connection has been spotty so she wasn't able to stay on top of the profile for the first week, but I helped her when i could.

The first hour it was set up, 20 or 30 mails.

The first weekend: about a hundred.

The first week, over 200...she literally couldn't answer them all, and with some of what she showed me I don't blame her. I don't claim to write brilliant opening mails, but I'm an effing literary genius compared to some.

I was fairly attuned to the plight of the single lady here on fab, but after that I'm now fully aware. (the lady wants to meet men so she hasn't them filtered)

So lads, and sorry 99% of the mails were from guys if I can give you any advice it's this:

1. READ the effing profile.

2. DON'T state the obvious (profile location: dublin. opening mail: "hey you in dublin?")

3. Being overly familiar in an opening mail will not make women want to fuck you.

4. Learn to spell.

This is not a rant thread, I'm just stating observations. It was very interesting to see the other side.

To sum up: Have some cop on, it's not rocket surgery.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

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"I recently helped set up a profile for a lady friend, and gave her advice on filters, blocks etc.

Sadly her internet connection has been spotty so she wasn't able to stay on top of the profile for the first week, but I helped her when i could.

The first hour it was set up, 20 or 30 mails.

The first weekend: about a hundred.

I was fairly attuned to the plight of the single lady here on fab, but after that I'm now fully aware. (the lady wants to meet men so she hasn't them filtered)

So lads, and sorry 99% of the mails were from guys if I can give you any advice it's this:

1. READ the effing profile.

2. DON'T state the obvious (profile location: dublin. opening mail: "hey you in dublin?")

3. Being overly familiar in an opening mail will not make women want to fuck you.

4. Learn to spell.

This is not a rant thread, I'm just stating observations. It was very interesting to see the other side.

To sum up: Have some cop on, it's not rocket surgery."

U mean rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recently helped set up a profile for a lady friend, and gave her advice on filters, blocks etc.

Sadly her internet connection has been spotty so she wasn't able to stay on top of the profile for the first week, but I helped her when i could.

The first hour it was set up, 20 or 30 mails.

The first weekend: about a hundred.

I was fairly attuned to the plight of the single lady here on fab, but after that I'm now fully aware. (the lady wants to meet men so she hasn't them filtered)

So lads, and sorry 99% of the mails were from guys if I can give you any advice it's this:

1. READ the effing profile.

2. DON'T state the obvious (profile location: dublin. opening mail: "hey you in dublin?")

3. Being overly familiar in an opening mail will not make women want to fuck you.

4. Learn to spell.

This is not a rant thread, I'm just stating observations. It was very interesting to see the other side.

To sum up: Have some cop on, it's not rocket surgery."

Welcome to our world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the fab instructions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The poor flowers. How do they ever cope...

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Hallelujah!! Praise the Lord!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The second week is much worse...

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

Just tell her to block single bloody men and find/contact them herself. Sick of the whinging.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Tell her it will calm down after 2 month of message bombardment but she has to use filters!!!!

I had a pa myself in the first 2 month of madness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her it will calm down after 2 month of message bombardment but she has to use filters!!!!

I had a pa myself in the first 2 month of madness! "

And no doubt you loved every minute of it

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Tell her it will calm down after 2 month of message bombardment but she has to use filters!!!!

I had a pa myself in the first 2 month of madness!

And no doubt you loved every minute of it"

Feck who pissed on your cornflakes today!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Tell her it will calm down after 2 month of message bombardment but she has to use filters!!!!

I had a pa myself in the first 2 month of madness!

And no doubt you loved every minute of it

Feck who pissed on your cornflakes today!

The same person who does it every day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just tell her to block single bloody men and find/contact them herself. Sick of the whinging. "

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Tell her it will calm down after 2 month of message bombardment but she has to use filters!!!!

I had a pa myself in the first 2 month of madness!

And no doubt you loved every minute of it"

Exactly! That's why I'm attention seeking on the forum now after I lost my newbie status!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her it will calm down after 2 month of message bombardment but she has to use filters!!!!

I had a pa myself in the first 2 month of madness!

And no doubt you loved every minute of it

Feck who pissed on your cornflakes today!

It was me!!!! I love pissing I cornflakes,and shitting on spoons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her it will calm down after 2 month of message bombardment but she has to use filters!!!!

I had a pa myself in the first 2 month of madness!

And no doubt you loved every minute of it

Exactly! That's why I'm attention seeking on the forum now after I lost my newbie status!

Good approach and even better attitude,u go girl.

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Tell her it will calm down after 2 month of message bombardment but she has to use filters!!!!

I had a pa myself in the first 2 month of madness!

And no doubt you loved every minute of it

Feck who pissed on your cornflakes today!

It was me!!!! I love pissing I cornflakes,and shitting on spoons

Ah so his sunny disposition is all your fault?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her it will calm down after 2 month of message bombardment but she has to use filters!!!!

I had a pa myself in the first 2 month of madness!

And no doubt you loved every minute of it

Exactly! That's why I'm attention seeking on the forum now after I lost my newbie status!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her it will calm down after 2 month of message bombardment but she has to use filters!!!!

I had a pa myself in the first 2 month of madness!

And no doubt you loved every minute of it

Feck who pissed on your cornflakes today!

It was me!!!! I love pissing I cornflakes,and shitting on spoons

Ah so his sunny disposition is all your fault?"

Ah what the hell I have no problem accepting responsibility,so yup hands up(and legs too if u please) it was me,I played hide the banana

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

Same kind of thing happened me.

I was over at a female friends, and she got banned from chat and made another id to go in and read room because they were talking about her as she was banned.

Anyway, for a laugh typed up "anyone into felching?"

For anyone that does not know, that's when a guy barebacks a girl up the ass then sucks the cum out.

Anyway, the room went wild, the messages had already reached 50+ before she said that. No photo or anything. But the men went crazy, well known, well verified men sending a message.

The guys on here are rotten at times. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recently helped set up a profile for a lady friend, and gave her advice on filters, blocks etc.

Sadly her internet connection has been spotty so she wasn't able to stay on top of the profile for the first week, but I helped her when i could.

The first hour it was set up, 20 or 30 mails.

The first weekend: about a hundred.

I was fairly attuned to the plight of the single lady here on fab, but after that I'm now fully aware. (the lady wants to meet men so she hasn't them filtered)

So lads, and sorry 99% of the mails were from guys if I can give you any advice it's this:

1. READ the effing profile.

2. DON'T state the obvious (profile location: dublin. opening mail: "hey you in dublin?")

3. Being overly familiar in an opening mail will not make women want to fuck you.

4. Learn to spell.

This is not a rant thread, I'm just stating observations. It was very interesting to see the other side.

To sum up: Have some cop on, it's not rocket surgery."
......dear Sir. ..as a eminent rocket surgeon I completely refute your claim. ...(.whatever it was).......if you have any queries. ..Please contact me at the irish institute of rocket surgery. ..conveniently located behind the esso station on the malahide road.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From one rocket surgeon to another ... Unless they introduce gender quotas here ladies will be bombarded.

Reading the profile , being polite and actually showing some ability to be articulate for the most part does not even warrant a reply . It's a little bit like the ladies choice at a gaelteach ceile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point in her bitching about her first world problems she knows what to do

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"No point in her bitching about her first world problems she knows what to do"

At what point did I say she was bitching?

Your reply kinda proves my point, sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys don't listen to our comments about too many messages so I don't know why you thought they'd suddenly listen cos you posted it.

A sensible friend woulda just said stick on your filters for a month or so. Too many messages don't irritate me, when I don't want many I use filters. When I have too many to read I bulk delete.

It's not rocket science really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys don't listen to our comments about too many messages so I don't know why you thought they'd suddenly listen cos you posted it.

A sensible friend woulda just said stick on your filters for a month or so. Too many messages don't irritate me, when I don't want many I use filters. When I have too many to read I bulk delete.

It's not rocket science really. "

Too many messages gets a guy blocked ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys don't listen to our comments about too many messages so I don't know why you thought they'd suddenly listen cos you posted it.

A sensible friend woulda just said stick on your filters for a month or so. Too many messages don't irritate me, when I don't want many I use filters. When I have too many to read I bulk delete.

It's not rocket science really.

Too many messages gets a guy blocked ? "

Rude ones yes.

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over a year ago

"Guys don't listen to our comments about too many messages so I don't know why you thought they'd suddenly listen cos you posted it.

A sensible friend woulda just said stick on your filters for a month or so. Too many messages don't irritate me, when I don't want many I use filters. When I have too many to read I bulk delete.

It's not rocket science really.

Too many messages gets a guy blocked ?

Rude ones yes. "

Never rude ... Flattering and keen yes but rude NO WAY it wasn't me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady friend my foot! Are you talking about your CD/TV account?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lady friend my foot! Are you talking about your CD/TV account?

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....there's s crash cart on standby in the burns unit ....dr cornelius fudge....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No point in her bitching about her first world problems she knows what to do"
do you seriously ever have anything nice/good or positive to say on anybodys threads at all?

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Lady friend my foot! Are you talking about your CD/TV account?

That was OUR SECRET!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joking aside...no bloody wonder I have so many unread mails out there...wonder how many decent genuine mails get lost and subsequently contacts dropped due to unreads....and no wonder by thus girls experience..how could she possibly keep up!!!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Joking aside...no bloody wonder I have so many unread mails out there...wonder how many decent genuine mails get lost and subsequently contacts dropped due to unreads....and no wonder by thus girls experience..how could she possibly keep up!!!"

Tis true I'm afraid and after 5 months I still can't cope with filters up, I try answer as many as I can with a polite no thanks but there are those that go unread. I've bulk deleted before and then got messages from guys asking why I deleted their messages, so ye cant win really,its part of fab I suppose

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

That's part of the problem though. You cant get 200 messages a day without vast bulk of the "genuine" guys sending one.

Every girl on here knows that as soon as they join there will be a jostle for their attention. Guys trying to shoulder other guys out of the way.

Like I said above, genuine members messaging a day old profile with no pic that was looking for bareback butt sex.

I'm just glad I can hold my hands up and say I never did any of that stuff.

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Guys don't listen to our comments about too many messages so I don't know why you thought they'd suddenly listen cos you posted it.

A sensible friend woulda just said stick on your filters for a month or so. Too many messages don't irritate me, when I don't want many I use filters. When I have too many to read I bulk delete.

It's not rocket science really. "

cos most women dont speak caveman, but men do *ug*

I gave her the option of filtering men out....she declined.

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm just glad I can hold my hands up and say I never did any of that stuff."

Trouble is, you're sarcastic so much of the time, I can no longer tell when you're being sincere.

But then again, you're only new.

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

A dose of Gin and Bear it required...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys don't listen to our comments about too many messages so I don't know why you thought they'd suddenly listen cos you posted it.

A sensible friend woulda just said stick on your filters for a month or so. Too many messages don't irritate me, when I don't want many I use filters. When I have too many to read I bulk delete.

It's not rocket science really.

cos most women dont speak caveman, but men do *ug*

I gave her the option of filtering men out....she declined. "

So what's the point of the post?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I think the problem is the duplicate messages

in sure the ladies know what I'm talking about, send it once no need to send same message 3 or 4 times.

I am terrible I send to mail the people back first I know and who is on my friends list..

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Guys don't listen to our comments about too many messages so I don't know why you thought they'd suddenly listen cos you posted it.

A sensible friend woulda just said stick on your filters for a month or so. Too many messages don't irritate me, when I don't want many I use filters. When I have too many to read I bulk delete.

It's not rocket science really.

cos most women dont speak caveman, but men do *ug*

I gave her the option of filtering men out....she declined.

So what's the point of the post? "

The very point you challenged me on. That if guys read a guys account of it, they may think twice. But as you said why listen to me? They don't even listen to women.

There I go again, trying to be helpful....even while typing the OP I kinda knew it was pointless, but sure you live in hope...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There I go again, trying to be helpful....even while typing the OP I kinda knew it was pointless, but sure you live in hope..."

Its ok mingo,sometimes we cant do right for doin wrong. U had the best of intentions and that's all that matters. Hopefully a tinsy fibre of what u said might penetrate the fog of horniness that some people send their messages through. One step away from blocking messages from single males ourselves with the amount of 'hows u' messages we have.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I wonder if you need to be a brain scientist to do rocket surgery?

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Well I hope some take the advice given op.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Would I be correct in thinking that the bulk of these messages will be from people who don't actively participate in forum debates? If that is the case it probably won't make any difference how much we debate it here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would I be correct in thinking that the bulk of these messages will be from people who don't actively participate in forum debates? If that is the case it probably won't make any difference how much we debate it here.

Shhhhh mick,there is always hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There I go again, trying to be helpful....even while typing the OP I kinda knew it was pointless, but sure you live in hope...

Why even hesitate so? Sure as someone above suggested, you can just contact any single males youre interested then yourself.

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over a year ago

There I go again, trying to be helpful....even while typing the OP I kinda knew it was pointless, but sure you live in hope...

Why even hesitate so? Sure as someone above suggested, you can just contact any single males youre interested then yourself."

That what I do

How did you get through my filters banana

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over a year ago

There I go again, trying to be helpful....even while typing the OP I kinda knew it was pointless, but sure you live in hope...

Why even hesitate so? Sure as someone above suggested, you can just contact any single males youre interested then yourself.

That what I do

How did you get through my filters banana

You hunted me down, like an insatiable amazon woman...

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over a year ago

There I go again, trying to be helpful....even while typing the OP I kinda knew it was pointless, but sure you live in hope...

Why even hesitate so? Sure as someone above suggested, you can just contact any single males youre interested then yourself.

That what I do

How did you get through my filters banana

You hunted me down, like an insatiable amazon woman...

I think your memory may be a little warped. You are a proper banana smoothie though. I like that you plagued me into submission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys guys.....Get a room for God's sakes

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over a year ago

There I go again, trying to be helpful....even while typing the OP I kinda knew it was pointless, but sure you live in hope...

Why even hesitate so? Sure as someone above suggested, you can just contact any single males youre interested then yourself."

Because I personally don't have the interest nor the time, to trawl through the thousands of male profiles, in the hope that perhaps I may come across that rare gem of a male that might pique my interest enough to warrant a message. The bee's come to the flowers my friend,not the other way around.

Or to put it another way,I'm a lazy bitch who cant be bothered canvassing for a ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys guys.....Get a room for God's sakes"

I never thought of that, did you banana?

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over a year ago

There I go again, trying to be helpful....even while typing the OP I kinda knew it was pointless, but sure you live in hope...

Why even hesitate so? Sure as someone above suggested, you can just contact any single males youre interested then yourself.

Or to put it another way,I'm a lazy bitch who cant be bothered canvassing for a ride"

Well i guess the pay off for the laziness then is the excessive mail...such is life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys guys.....Get a room for God's sakes

I never thought of that, did you banana?"

Hmmm the man talks sense actually...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys guys.....Get a room for God's sakes

I never thought of that, did you banana?

Hmmm the man talks sense actually..."

I dunno, could be risky. Take the amazon woman out of her native environment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There I go again, trying to be helpful....even while typing the OP I kinda knew it was pointless, but sure you live in hope...

Why even hesitate so? Sure as someone above suggested, you can just contact any single males youre interested then yourself.

Or to put it another way,I'm a lazy bitch who cant be bothered canvassing for a ride

Well i guess the pay off for the laziness then is the excessive mail...such is life!"

The good and the bad,hence I wasn't complaining about the volume of messages,just the lack of imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbies are usually inundated. Fresh meat as one guy put it. It'll calm down in time. That's why I get very few messages now, cause I'm not a newbie ....or just unpopular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years younger and I would be messaging you lol

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

@letusatthem: you. I like you.

@laelaps: a few of us are guilty of plaguing, if the lady is worth pursuing

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Newbies are usually inundated. Fresh meat as one guy put it. It'll calm down in time. That's why I get very few messages now, cause I'm not a newbie ....or just unpopular "

Your ass strikes fear into the hearts of men. That's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@letusatthem: you. I like you.

@laelaps: a few of us are guilty of plaguing, if the lady is worth pursuing

@mingo: I didn't mean you

Feel like I'm in an old chat room

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"@letusatthem: you. I like you.

@laelaps: a few of us are guilty of plaguing, if the lady is worth pursuing

@mingo: I didn't mean you

Feel like I'm in an old chat room "

I know you didn't my dear. Just having some craic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Newbies are usually inundated. Fresh meat as one guy put it. It'll calm down in time. That's why I get very few messages now, cause I'm not a newbie ....or just unpopular

Your ass strikes fear into the hearts of men. That's all.

Ah its not that scary is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@letusatthem: you. I like you.

@laelaps: a few of us are guilty of plaguing, if the lady is worth pursuing

@mingo: I didn't mean you

Feel like I'm in an old chat room

I know you didn't my dear. Just having some craic. "

@mingo OK 31/f/ire

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"@letusatthem: you. I like you.

@laelaps: a few of us are guilty of plaguing, if the lady is worth pursuing

@mingo: I didn't mean you

Feel like I'm in an old chat room

I know you didn't my dear. Just having some craic.

@mingo OK 31/f/ire

39/m/DE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@letusatthem: you. I like you.

@laelaps: a few of us are guilty of plaguing, if the lady is worth pursuing

@mingo: I didn't mean you

Feel like I'm in an old chat room

@ the laps lady I plagued too much ?

I know you didn't my dear. Just having some craic.

@mingo OK 31/f/ire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@letusatthem: you. I like you.

@laelaps: a few of us are guilty of plaguing, if the lady is worth pursuing

@mingo: I didn't mean you

Feel like I'm in an old chat room

@ the laps lady I plagued too much ?

I know you didn't my dear. Just having some craic.

@mingo OK 31/f/ire

@theoldman get over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just still wondering why .... Not keeping me awake at night ... And I am as over it as I will get. Try my best on here but hard to understand why you are a friend and then blocked ...

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Just still wondering why .... Not keeping me awake at night ... And I am as over it as I will get. Try my best on here but hard to understand why you are a friend and then blocked ...

Because: woman

(I'm sorry lae don't kill me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just still wondering why .... Not keeping me awake at night ... And I am as over it as I will get. Try my best on here but hard to understand why you are a friend and then blocked ...

Because: woman

(I'm sorry lae don't kill me)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless their little hearts.....

All for a little damp bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A suggestion for those getting too much unwanted mail and filters set.... perhaps remove some of your public photos from your profile, keep them as private or friends only.......

If peeps are getting horny & excited looking at sexy pictures then you can expect low graded messages, unfortunately it's human nature........ bit like easy prey been hunted!!!

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over a year ago

"A suggestion for those getting too much unwanted mail and filters set.... perhaps remove some of your public photos from your profile, keep them as private or friends only.......

If peeps are getting horny & excited looking at sexy pictures then you can expect low graded messages, unfortunately it's human nature........ bit like easy prey been hunted!!!"

You have a point. I get zero messages if I remove profile pic and photos

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over a year ago

"@letusatthem: you. I like you.

@laelaps: a few of us are guilty of plaguing, if the lady is worth pursuing

@mingo we know u do lol. Sure didn't we all have some great fun (the clean kind for all u curious ones) but who knows when our paths may cross again my friend

Also ich sprechen ein bischen Deutsch Herr Mingo

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By *ohn Mingo OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"@letusatthem: you. I like you.

@laelaps: a few of us are guilty of plaguing, if the lady is worth pursuing

@mingo we know u do lol. Sure didn't we all have some great fun (the clean kind for all u curious ones) but who knows when our paths may cross again my friend

Also ich sprechen ein bischen Deutsch Herr Mingo

Sehr gut mein Freund!

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

Awh the poor women here. My heart bleeds. Life can be very unkind.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"@letusatthem: you. I like you.

@laelaps: a few of us are guilty of plaguing, if the lady is worth pursuing

@mingo we know u do lol. Sure didn't we all have some great fun (the clean kind for all u curious ones) but who knows when our paths may cross again my friend

Also ich sprechen ein bischen Deutsch Herr Mingo

Sehr gut mein Freund!"

Just never translate 'I'm hot' with 'ich bin warm'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awh the poor women here. My heart bleeds. Life can be very unkind. "

That was my reaction too

Doesnt fit with the narrative though, im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found once I set up filters to no newbies and no unverified people and also age filter it calmed down a lot.

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