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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering what are people's thoughts on a couple meeting separately.

We prefer to meet separately but only If we both have a meet the same night. But hooking up with a single female for myself mark has been impossible.

Just wondering if the ladies could shed some light please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I have to fancy both of them if I'm going to play, if I don't I won't play..

As for meeting seperatly I say if it works for ye keep it up, everybody should use Fab the way they want..

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I have met the other half of a couple several times with the knowledge of his better half. Been told sometimes it hard to meet people they both like and it suits them doing it this way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me I have to fancy both of them if I'm going to play, if I don't I won't play..

As for meeting seperatly I say if it works for ye keep it up, everybody should use Fab the way they want.. "

Yeah I suppose it's how we get our kicks from here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have met the other half of a couple several times with the knowledge of his better half. Been told sometimes it hard to meet people they both like and it suits them doing it this way "

Yep exactly, that one of the reasons we meet or try to meet separately. But it's pretty hard to do aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met couples and then the lady on her own with the partners permission.Has worked out well anytime it has happened

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

Ah when ye meet separately mark has the single male problem unless he meets a female ye have already met as a couple with your permission of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah when ye meet separately mark has the single male problem unless he meets a female ye have already met as a couple with your permission of course "

Yeah I thought be easier considering we are well verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have no probs meeting the male of a couple only but I think I'd probably be more comfortable either meeting them both socially first or at least a telephone convo with the fem first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd have no probs meeting the male of a couple only but I think I'd probably be more comfortable either meeting them both socially first or at least a telephone convo with the fem first. "

Yeha well that can be done no problems at all for the woman ya know.

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"Ah when ye meet separately mark has the single male problem unless he meets a female ye have already met as a couple with your permission of course

Yeah I thought be easier considering we are well verified."

Well most women need to know that the male has his partners permission so a social meet as a couple so this can be cleared up might help mark out with this problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah when ye meet separately mark has the single male problem unless he meets a female ye have already met as a couple with your permission of course

Yeah I thought be easier considering we are well verified.

Well most women need to know that the male has his partners permission so a social meet as a couple so this can be cleared up might help mark out with this problem "

Yeah we've offered this but still without luck.

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"Ah when ye meet separately mark has the single male problem unless he meets a female ye have already met as a couple with your permission of course

Yeah I thought be easier considering we are well verified.

Well most women need to know that the male has his partners permission so a social meet as a couple so this can be cleared up might help mark out with this problem

Yeah we've offered this but still without luck. "

could it be that he is more appealing as a couple than a single male

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah when ye meet separately mark has the single male problem unless he meets a female ye have already met as a couple with your permission of course

Yeah I thought be easier considering we are well verified.

Well most women need to know that the male has his partners permission so a social meet as a couple so this can be cleared up might help mark out with this problem

Yeah we've offered this but still without luck.

could it be that he is more appealing as a couple than a single male "

It's a possibility, Mia is a bit of a pull alright ha

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"Ah when ye meet separately mark has the single male problem unless he meets a female ye have already met as a couple with your permission of course

Yeah I thought be easier considering we are well verified.

Well most women need to know that the male has his partners permission so a social meet as a couple so this can be cleared up might help mark out with this problem

Yeah we've offered this but still without luck.

could it be that he is more appealing as a couple than a single male

It's a possibility, Mia is a bit of a pull alright ha"

Mia is a very good looking woman she would be the pull alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah when ye meet separately mark has the single male problem unless he meets a female ye have already met as a couple with your permission of course

Yeah I thought be easier considering we are well verified.

Well most women need to know that the male has his partners permission so a social meet as a couple so this can be cleared up might help mark out with this problem

Yeah we've offered this but still without luck.

could it be that he is more appealing as a couple than a single male

It's a possibility, Mia is a bit of a pull alright ha

Mia is a very good looking woman she would be the pull alright "

That's a bit bloody rude even with smilies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for meeting seperatly I say if it works for ye keep it up, everybody should use Fab the way they want.. "

I'm in this corner....If it works for you, then it works for you. To each their own.

Also Yes, meeting singles ladies is tough work lol

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"Ah when ye meet separately mark has the single male problem unless he meets a female ye have already met as a couple with your permission of course

Yeah I thought be easier considering we are well verified.

Well most women need to know that the male has his partners permission so a social meet as a couple so this can be cleared up might help mark out with this problem

Yeah we've offered this but still without luck.

could it be that he is more appealing as a couple than a single male

It's a possibility, Mia is a bit of a pull alright ha

Mia is a very good looking woman she would be the pull alright

That's a bit bloody rude even with smilies "
ha ha i didnt mean it to be rude at all if it came off that way i apologise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah when ye meet separately mark has the single male problem unless he meets a female ye have already met as a couple with your permission of course

Yeah I thought be easier considering we are well verified.

Well most women need to know that the male has his partners permission so a social meet as a couple so this can be cleared up might help mark out with this problem

Yeah we've offered this but still without luck.

could it be that he is more appealing as a couple than a single male

It's a possibility, Mia is a bit of a pull alright ha

Mia is a very good looking woman she would be the pull alright

That's a bit bloody rude even with smilies "

Ah thanks Lae x

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Welcome to the land of the single profile, seen a few threads like this before and it seems that when a cpl meet seprately it turns in to the ratio game. But once u get a few veris and they say u met seperatly as in a guy met the fem half of this cpl or a lady met the guy of this cpl it gets a tad easier. There is a few cpls that do this as it can be hard to get a foursome to all be attracted and it seem to work for them maybe even seek out like minded cpls amd meet seperate might be the begining of a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find it strange that you both only want to meet separately all the time. I think if I was on here as a couple I'd be dying to see the other play. I must be a big pervert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone should do what they think works for them

For us swinging is about bringing people in to our relationship to experiment with and have fun together with and so we never meet apart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find it strange that you both only want to meet separately all the time. I think if I was on here as a couple I'd be dying to see the other play. I must be a big pervert "

We must be perverts too then

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Maybe mr could have a single male profile with pics and have your cpl info in it too,ask some of your past meets to verify it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more perverts the merrier ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe mr could have a single male profile with pics and have your cpl info in it too,ask some of your past meets to verify it. "

It just seems like two single profiles are needed as opposed to a couple profile when they don't meet as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do find it strange that you both only want to meet separately all the time. I think if I was on here as a couple I'd be dying to see the other play. I must be a big pervert "

No not all the time. Just most of the time. Well for us we can play together anytime we want. But to play separately kinda feels different. Hard to explain but it's also hard to find couples that we are attracted to both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find it strange that you both only want to meet separately all the time. I think if I was on here as a couple I'd be dying to see the other play. I must be a big pervert

No not all the time. Just most of the time. Well for us we can play together anytime we want. But to play separately kinda feels different. Hard to explain but it's also hard to find couples that we are attracted to both"

We have the same problem finding couple we both like but instead of playing separately we bring singles in or more recently we make up a foursome with two gorgeous singles everyone happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find it strange that you both only want to meet separately all the time. I think if I was on here as a couple I'd be dying to see the other play. I must be a big pervert

No not all the time. Just most of the time. Well for us we can play together anytime we want. But to play separately kinda feels different. Hard to explain but it's also hard to find couples that we are attracted to both

We have the same problem finding couple we both like but instead of playing separately we bring singles in or more recently we make up a foursome with two gorgeous singles everyone happy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We swing together AND separately. With small kids at home it's not easy for us to get away together so we do it as singles and with other partners. There is a lot of trust involved, but strong relationships can do it very successfully. The main factor is making sure the single guys are safe. Hunter can generally look after himself lol

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

you could try parties. you both get to play separately and be together too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you could try parties. you both get to play separately and be together too"

That why we love parties the best spot on

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City


"The main factor is making sure the single guys are safe."

There is only so much of me to go around.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

I offer my services to any female half of a couple looking to go separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main factor is making sure the single guys are safe.

There is only so much of me to go around."

Oh safey that was well spotted

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"The main factor is making sure the single guys are safe.

There is only so much of me to go around."

had a good chuckle at that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main factor is making sure the single guys are safe.

There is only so much of me to go around."

love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We swing together AND separately. With small kids at home it's not easy for us to get away together so we do it as singles and with other partners. There is a lot of trust involved, but strong relationships can do it very successfully. The main factor is making sure the single guys are safe. Hunter can generally look after himself lol"

I like how you say generally haha ah I can't see him getting into a dodgy situation probably the same for most males like

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"We swing together AND separately. With small kids at home it's not easy for us to get away together so we do it as singles and with other partners. There is a lot of trust involved, but strong relationships can do it very successfully. The main factor is making sure the single guys are safe. Hunter can generally look after himself lol

I like how you say generally haha ah I can't see him getting into a dodgy situation probably the same for most males like"
ha ha ha

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

We meet separately and together. Our reasons are more down to practicalities of being able to meet together always due to child-minding/ family issues and also variation and personal choice, time to get to know a possible meet on here etc. Mr S has same issue as OP in getting meets but for us we get out of it what we want and while our meets may not be prolific we have always enjoyed and thankfully every meet has added positively to our sex lives.

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