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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

iv had a few meets on fab but only after a lot of chatting and getting to know each other im not really interested in the party meets so I'm wondering do people just meet for straight up sex without all the prep??

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

no this is a temperance revival society...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do...

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

i have some times yes it just depends on the mood of everyone involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up"

Once again King you're bang on

Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

It's far nicer to chat to someone first and I need to be physically attracted to the person too,,I can't just fuck anyone I meet and I guess I've been lucky with those I've chosen to meet as I've had no regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up

Once again King you're bang on

Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter

"

I'm wise beyond my years bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some do..."
.....some girls will. ...Some girls won't. ...lol....when's the eurovision on again. ...I love that show..

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

Yes. I do. And lots of women do. I like those women.

Others want to meet 20 times beforehand and want to become best friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and it's the best way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I a thing about meeting a complete stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up

Once again King you're bang on

Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter

I'm wise beyond my years bud "

You're like Gandalf, only minus the staff and ZZ Top beardage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up

Once again King you're bang on

Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter

I'm wise beyond my years bud

You're like Gandalf, only minus the staff and ZZ Top beardage "

less grey too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slappers the lot off yiz

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Some do........some girls will. ...Some girls won't. ...lol....when's the eurovision on again. ...I love that show.. "

Ha ha that's a blast from the past!! That song goes back to 1979 by the band Racey!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes thats the way I like it but then again theres no right or wrong way to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up

Once again King you're bang on

Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter

I'm wise beyond my years bud

You're like Gandalf, only minus the staff and ZZ Top beardage

less grey too "

More white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up

Once again King you're bang on

Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter

I'm wise beyond my years bud

You're like Gandalf, only minus the staff and ZZ Top beardage

less grey too

More white "

I'd be Gandalf the brown (the younger years)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet in.person first chat for a while then see if we connect if we do sex if not just a chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some do........some girls will. ...Some girls won't. ...lol....when's the eurovision on again. ...I love that show.. "
Why are you thinking about entering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's far nicer to chat to someone first and I need to be physically attracted to the person too,,I can't just fuck anyone I meet and I guess I've been lucky with those I've chosen to meet as I've had no regrets "
better not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently so -Shocking isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope defo meet up first, I like to find an attraction in someone and not just meet and fuck anyone who iv never met

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

nr Letterkenny


"Apparently so -Shocking isn't it "

but don't tell anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's far nicer to chat to someone first and I need to be physically attracted to the person too,,I can't just fuck anyone I meet and I guess I've been lucky with those I've chosen to meet as I've had no regrets "

Can't wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absofuckenlutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes they do after bible club

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I don't think so having sex on a swingers site what the world coming too.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I tend not too but the ones I have have had that something that I couldn't resist

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By *o pants partyCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

We do a mix of both, sometimes a social meet first, or drinks which may or may not progress to play or sometimes just turn up and fuck... Depends on the mood!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done it a few times but find the meets with a good build up tend to be more memorable for.me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do a mix of both, sometimes a social meet first, or drinks which may or may not progress to play or sometimes just turn up and fuck... Depends on the mood! "

Hmm

Interesting

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

Its all about the connection you have with the lady you are meeting and the attraction between each other too

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By *o pants partyCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

All three methods usually work out well for us!

Something about just walking in and getting down to business is HOT.

A couple of great meets were us surprising each other, eg, MrNPP arriving home to me & a F and joining in, or MrNPP arriving home with a F/M for us to play with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absofuckenlutely "

I love that word!!! lol!

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.

When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.

The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.

But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.

The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.

It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.

Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.

It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.

oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally the meet and chat leaves me with that wonderful anticipation for the next time... different strokes and all that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.

When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.

The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.

But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.

The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.

It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.

Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.

It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.

oh well."

You need to write a book NSFW, so we can all become enlightened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have fucked people before without chatting to them, end up waking up the following day realising I wouldn't fuck that person again lol

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City


"You need to write a book NSFW, so we can all become enlightened."

I'd rather leave you's to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just meet play and go no big chats or anything,this is just purely sex not a social thing for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to write a book NSFW, so we can all become enlightened.

I'd rather leave you's to it."

ah but the guide to swinging by nosafe could be a Christmas best seller

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Yep - that's how it works

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City


"ah but the guide to swinging by nosafe could be a Christmas best seller"

Maybe a guide dealing with morning after guilt from sleeping with a stranger would sell more.

I'm not trying to guide or change people, just writing what I am looking for. If people dont match me then it does me no harm at all. People should do whatever they want, just be honest about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah but the guide to swinging by nosafe could be a Christmas best seller

Maybe a guide dealing with morning after guilt from sleeping with a stranger would sell more.

I'm not trying to guide or change people, just writing what I am looking for. If people dont match me then it does me no harm at all. People should do whatever they want, just be honest about it."

I coulda done with that when I was younger haha waking up next to someone who's not what you thought they were is horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what else would people be doing i dont mind actualy if a hot guy come over fucked me made me cum and then done my house work then hes a keeper other then that make me cum and get the feck out ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done, but we find this can be great with singles, but tricky when meeting couples, because you have to find two people that you both like. For us it's much easier when meeting couples to meet socially first and then either meet up again or not. That's why we like parties best. More choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've got that spot on!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what else would people be doing i dont mind actualy if a hot guy come over fucked me made me cum and then done my house work then hes a keeper other then that make me cum and get the feck out ha ha "

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up

Once again King you're bang on

Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter

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By *obbie65Man
over a year ago

kildare

It's nice to shake hands first. Shows some respect. The ones that don't shake hands - avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.

When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.

The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.

But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.

The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.

It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.

Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.

It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.

oh well."

" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.

When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.

The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.

But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.

The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.

It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.

Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.

It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.

oh well.

" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers

"

I'm not a skank

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

I have and it been one of my best fuck's yet on fab

He came in fuck me and left no talking

No kissing jst fucking

And I still see him now again and we txt a few times a wk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very easy on here to pick out the people who really swing and those who don't but pontificate and judge others.

Experimentation is a lot of people's driver and most of the people we have met on here are fab decent normal people who are looking for fun and experimentation and certainly do not have self esteem issues or skanks. Setting up a meet and fuck scenario is very different than just picking up someone off the street ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.

When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.

The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.

But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.

The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.

It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.

Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.

It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.

oh well.

" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers

I'm not a skank "

Fight! Fight! Fight!

In a pit of mud...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.

When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.

The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.

But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.

The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.

It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.

Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.

It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.

oh well.

" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers

I'm not a skank

Fight! Fight! Fight!

In a pit of mud..."

That would be a skanky thing to do; I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.

When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.

The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.

But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.

The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.

It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.

Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.

It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.

oh well.

" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers

I'm not a skank

Fight! Fight! Fight!

In a pit of mud...

That would be a skanky thing to do; I'm in "

So its a date

Meet, wrestle, fuck...no talking

Pure fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.

When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.

The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.

But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.

The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.

It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.

Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.

It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.

oh well.

" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers

I'm not a skank

Fight! Fight! Fight!

In a pit of mud...

That would be a skanky thing to do; I'm in "

Didn't directly call you a skank,

If I wanted to call you a skank I would just be blunt and say it not pussyfoot around it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met just to fuck. Have gone for drinks first, even a night out. and I prefer the meets where we've chatted for a while, the build up can be quite hot and I like to be attracted to the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.

When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.

The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.

But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.

The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.

It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.

Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.

It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.

oh well.

" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers

I'm not a skank

Fight! Fight! Fight!

In a pit of mud...

That would be a skanky thing to do; I'm in

Didn't directly call you a skank,

If I wanted to call you a skank I would just be blunt and say it not pussyfoot around it... "

As I explained to banana I was joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A more reasonable question would be do people meet at all off here?

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City


"" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers

"

You do think people are out of your league. You admitted it before. To quote you "Ive felt like that about a few profiles on here".

I was talking about their mentality that they think they are not good enough for someone with a pretty photo.

I don't know what people I hang around with has to do with it. How do you define "skank"? so I can answer your question properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there is people out of my league... As there is people out of yours also...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A more reasonable question would be do people meet at all off here? "

Yes they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is people out of my league... As there is people out of yours also..."

but there's no such thing as leagues? leagues are only there if you believe in them no one should be out of anyones league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A more reasonable question would be do people meet at all off here? "

Of course they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what else would people be doing i dont mind actualy if a hot guy come over fucked me made me cum and then done my house work then hes a keeper other then that make me cum and get the feck out ha ha "

Is there much house work to be done??? And how long would you keep me?

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City


"Of course there is people out of my league... As there is people out of yours also...

but there's no such thing as leagues? leagues are only there if you believe in them no one should be out of anyones league "

There are different leagues I think lim, but not based on photo or how a person looks.

For example, I have dated a model before, very pretty, not out of my league.

But another girl, who was pretty (not model pretty), was out of my league. She was really really nice, friendly, and lived a lifestyle I could never offer her. She travelled with staff to take care of her, moved from one 5 star hotel to the next. When you added everything up, she was simply out of my league.

Thats what I think anyway. But that does not apply to swinging or sex, when it comes to swinging and sex there are just preferences, not leagues. People who think there are leagues based on photos etc just need a bit more self belief really.

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over a year ago


"Of course there is people out of my league... As there is people out of yours also...

but there's no such thing as leagues? leagues are only there if you believe in them no one should be out of anyones league

There are different leagues I think lim, but not based on photo or how a person looks.

For example, I have dated a model before, very pretty, not out of my league.

But another girl, who was pretty (not model pretty), was out of my league. She was really really nice, friendly, and lived a lifestyle I could never offer her. She travelled with staff to take care of her, moved from one 5 star hotel to the next. When you added everything up, she was simply out of my league.

Thats what I think anyway. But that does not apply to swinging or sex, when it comes to swinging and sex there are just preferences, not leagues. People who think there are leagues based on photos etc just need a bit more self belief really."

Ouch...

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City


"Ouch... "

Why ouch? its a compliment. You're better than you think. People must always read the stuff I write in a negative voice in their head or something.

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"Ouch...

Why ouch? its a compliment. You're better than you think. People must always read the stuff I write in a negative voice in their head or something."

I think im guilty of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch...

Why ouch? its a compliment. You're better than you think. People must always read the stuff I write in a negative voice in their head or something."

Thanks....

I think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I myself have enjoyed the meet and fuck with no prep chat etc. I do like a bit of banter inbetween ie. How's the father is your mother working sort of thing... Giddy up ya dirty bitch I know ya love it yeeeeehaaa A1 Sharon now here's a tenner go and buy some sweets eh eh I mean drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is people out of my league... As there is people out of yours also...

but there's no such thing as leagues? leagues are only there if you believe in them no one should be out of anyones league

There are different leagues I think lim, but not based on photo or how a person looks.

For example, I have dated a model before, very pretty, not out of my league.

But another girl, who was pretty (not model pretty), was out of my league. She was really really nice, friendly, and lived a lifestyle I could never offer her. She travelled with staff to take care of her, moved from one 5 star hotel to the next. When you added everything up, she was simply out of my league.

Thats what I think anyway. But that does not apply to swinging or sex, when it comes to swinging and sex there are just preferences, not leagues. People who think there are leagues based on photos etc just need a bit more self belief really."

I used don't buy into that crap, I don't think anyone is unobtainable or too good For me based purely only her looks

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By *oldenFingersMan
over a year ago

Fairview


"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.

When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.

The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.

But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.

The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.

It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.

Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.

It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.

oh well."

This is a swing site right? For consensual adults to meet and have sex if they choose? If you were at the last Dublin social or I'm sure any of the others this year you would have meet very nice and social people who I'm sure had absolutely no problems getting laid as teenagers or now!

We just like what we like and are on here not to be judged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any 1 wants to im game lol

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"iv had a few meets on fab but only after a lot of chatting and getting to know each other im not really interested in the party meets so I'm wondering do people just meet for straight up sex without all the prep??"

Has happened a few times for me...

Gotta say Iv enjoyed every meet Iv been on

The chatting for weeks first or the quick.."hey r u around tonight?" types... its all about the sex at the end of the day

So if anyone wants to meet at shortish notice give me a shout

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More importantly who wants to??

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Ouch...

Why ouch? its a compliment. You're better than you think. People must always read the stuff I write in a negative voice in their head or something."

I think that is a fair point re reading your posts negatively.

Whilst I may not agree with all you have said on this particular thread, your reasoning and openness to explaining same is refreshing and interesting. Other posters on the forums

could take a leaf from your book and understand that a different viewpoint is not an attack or a negative response.

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