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"Hi folks, looking a little help and advice, been on here 6 weeks or so and have a huge difficulty sparking any interest from females, only interest I've had is from a girl who turned out to know me and then backed away because it would be too weird, and a couple 100 miles away. Is it my profile that's off putting? I also struggle to come up with a good first message to someone (obviously we all know what we're here for) don't like the idea of coming straight off with "hey let's fuck" plus you women don't like that which I get. Also 7/10 women won't meet guys that aren't verified by meet, but then how do you get verified if you can't meet? I've photo verified, haven't put up cock pics, don't send a cock pic unless asked. Anyone able to give me advice? Thanks " chat in the forums more and in the chat rooms, it's how I got my first meet, good luck and be patient it will pay off in the end | |||
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"The first message is the worst part, she obviously knows you want to meet her for sex, and starting with a little humour is always risky as everyone's taste is different. How do you convey that yes you want to meet her but you're willing to do it on her terms" You don't have to convey that. It's always on our terms | |||
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"The first message is the worst part, she obviously knows you want to meet her for sex, and starting with a little humour is always risky as everyone's taste is different. How do you convey that yes you want to meet her but you're willing to do it on her terms" I'd say forget about being careful not to put her off with your sense of humour. If it puts her off then you're better off not meeting her anyway. Be yourself, it's always the best approach. You're better off with people who respect that. Deep or what? | |||
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"The first message is the worst part, she obviously knows you want to meet her for sex, and starting with a little humour is always risky as everyone's taste is different. How do you convey that yes you want to meet her but you're willing to do it on her terms" Best thing to do is take your time, fab is all about meeting up to have sex, compared to other websites you have crossed that bridge all ready. There are lot's of nice people on fab, take your time chat with them and you'll make some good friends too. | |||
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"The first message is the worst part, she obviously knows you want to meet her for sex, and starting with a little humour is always risky as everyone's taste is different. How do you convey that yes you want to meet her but you're willing to do it on her terms I'd say forget about being careful not to put her off with your sense of humour. If it puts her off then you're better off not meeting her anyway. Be yourself, it's always the best approach. You're better off with people who respect that. Deep or what? " good advice! It takes a lot of work, effort and patience! Best of luck | |||
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"The first message is the worst part, she obviously knows you want to meet her for sex, and starting with a little humour is always risky as everyone's taste is different. How do you convey that yes you want to meet her but you're willing to do it on her terms I'd say forget about being careful not to put her off with your sense of humour. If it puts her off then you're better off not meeting her anyway. Be yourself, it's always the best approach. You're better off with people who respect that. Deep or what? " Smooth lol, guess I just worry too much about nothing lol | |||
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"I like this thread. ..very grown up " Well best getting advice when you're new to the swinging scene. Rather than just Taking a shot in the dark and being made to look a tit | |||
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"Name change time. "MarvelNerd" doesn't inspire confidence in the bedroom olympics, maybe if I need to know what colour Polaris' hair is in the middle of a blowbang but that hasn't happened yet." I like it. Turns me kind of on lol | |||
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"Name change time. "MarvelNerd" doesn't inspire confidence in the bedroom olympics, maybe if I need to know what colour Polaris' hair is in the middle of a blowbang but that hasn't happened yet." Even if one did request such information during I don't I'd be able to answer to be honest, names are difficult to come up with, was the first thing I could think of. Thanks for the advice I'll consider a name change | |||
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"Name change time. "MarvelNerd" doesn't inspire confidence in the bedroom olympics, maybe if I need to know what colour Polaris' hair is in the middle of a blowbang but that hasn't happened yet. I like it. Turns me kind of on lol" "Ding ding" we have a winner! | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx" oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. " Would it put you off more if you saw it when we met? | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. " It's OK, there's a 7 day cooling off period. | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. Would it put you off more if you saw it when we met? " yep. While I don't really believe in it, I used to hang out with people who did. And they were a bit fooked up to be honest. Doesn't mean you are but I would have some prejudice which would need overcoming. | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. Would it put you off more if you saw it when we met? " Hard to say, probably would freak me out more if we met and I saw it. I love tattoos but it's more what ur tat represents that would make me uncomfortable. Like I said each to their own, you like it so that's what matters, for me personally it's a turn off | |||
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" It's OK, there's a 7 day cooling off period." I only needed 5 minutes | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. Would it put you off more if you saw it when we met? Hard to say, probably would freak me out more if we met and I saw it. I love tattoos but it's more what ur tat represents that would make me uncomfortable. Like I said each to their own, you like it so that's what matters, for me personally it's a turn off the " Was a momentary lapse a few years ago just got used to it now. I'm by no means satanic lol | |||
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" It's OK, there's a 7 day cooling off period. I only needed 5 minutes " He'll be fine, we'll repackage him and advertise as 'A'grade. | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. Would it put you off more if you saw it when we met? Hard to say, probably would freak me out more if we met and I saw it. I love tattoos but it's more what ur tat represents that would make me uncomfortable. Like I said each to their own, you like it so that's what matters, for me personally it's a turn off the Was a momentary lapse a few years ago just got used to it now. I'm by no means satanic lol " Fair enough, we've all done things we regret but on an Internet site where your judged in an instant on a pic it may work against you, just as easily as some gals may love it and find it really cool! | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. Would it put you off more if you saw it when we met? Hard to say, probably would freak me out more if we met and I saw it. I love tattoos but it's more what ur tat represents that would make me uncomfortable. Like I said each to their own, you like it so that's what matters, for me personally it's a turn off the Was a momentary lapse a few years ago just got used to it now. I'm by no means satanic lol " Its ok chief, we know you wont sacrifice them to the dark lord once youve done with them...actually some of the ones in here might even enjoy that | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. Would it put you off more if you saw it when we met? Hard to say, probably would freak me out more if we met and I saw it. I love tattoos but it's more what ur tat represents that would make me uncomfortable. Like I said each to their own, you like it so that's what matters, for me personally it's a turn off the Was a momentary lapse a few years ago just got used to it now. I'm by no means satanic lol " Turn it upside down and your a promotion for the emergency services. | |||
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" It's OK, there's a 7 day cooling off period. I only needed 5 minutes He'll be fine, we'll repackage him and advertise as 'A'grade." you have a great head for business. | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. Would it put you off more if you saw it when we met? Hard to say, probably would freak me out more if we met and I saw it. I love tattoos but it's more what ur tat represents that would make me uncomfortable. Like I said each to their own, you like it so that's what matters, for me personally it's a turn off the Was a momentary lapse a few years ago just got used to it now. I'm by no means satanic lol " I'm out, I thought I'd at least be able to pinch your bike. | |||
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"Change your name to" the beast" as its displayed on your chest? Lucifer was an angel before he fell to the dark side presevere in what you're looking for and I wish you all the best " I like your thinking! | |||
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" Its ok chief, we know you wont sacrifice them to the dark lord once youve done with them...actually some of the ones in here might even enjoy that" sacrifice to Voldemort? | |||
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" Its ok chief, we know you wont sacrifice them to the dark lord once youve done with them...actually some of the ones in here might even enjoy that sacrifice to Voldemort? " Sure, whatever Start talkin nerd to me and youll lose me | |||
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"Change your name to" the beast" as its displayed on your chest? Lucifer was an angel before he fell to the dark side presevere in what you're looking for and I wish you all the best I like your thinking!" That's the first thing that jumped into my head when I saw the tat! He should use it to his advantage rather than it being off putting, the ladies will wonder if he's a beast in the sack | |||
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" Its ok chief, we know you wont sacrifice them to the dark lord once youve done with them...actually some of the ones in here might even enjoy that sacrifice to Voldemort? Sure, whatever Start talkin nerd to me and youll lose me" good tip! Thanks! On a side note, I just saw this on fookbook. https://www.facebook.com/gosteffects/videos/1097916826891357/ | |||
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"Change your name to" the beast" as its displayed on your chest? Lucifer was an angel before he fell to the dark side presevere in what you're looking for and I wish you all the best I like your thinking! That's the first thing that jumped into my head when I saw the tat! He should use it to his advantage rather than it being off putting, the ladies will wonder if he's a beast in the sack " You should work in PR, that's a great spin! Love it | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. Would it put you off more if you saw it when we met? Hard to say, probably would freak me out more if we met and I saw it. I love tattoos but it's more what ur tat represents that would make me uncomfortable. Like I said each to their own, you like it so that's what matters, for me personally it's a turn off the Was a momentary lapse a few years ago just got used to it now. I'm by no means satanic lol " To be honest, It's hard to believe it was just a momentary lapse when ur pic also shows u wearing a satanic medallion. | |||
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"Change your name to" the beast" as its displayed on your chest? Lucifer was an angel before he fell to the dark side presevere in what you're looking for and I wish you all the best I like your thinking! That's the first thing that jumped into my head when I saw the tat! He should use it to his advantage rather than it being off putting, the ladies will wonder if he's a beast in the sack You should work in PR, that's a great spin! Love it " Just talking off the top of my head ladies!! Seems to be the only way in my eyes to diffuse any notions of satanic behaviour or rituals lol. My real name is Lorena,,Lucifers sister | |||
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"I like this thread. ..very grown up Well best getting advice when you're new to the swinging scene. Rather than just Taking a shot in the dark and being made to look a tit " I was referring to the contributers OP we usually end up taking the piss by now | |||
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"I like this thread. ..very grown up Well best getting advice when you're new to the swinging scene. Rather than just Taking a shot in the dark and being made to look a tit I was referring to the contributers OP we usually end up taking the piss by now " Shsssssh yosser ffs!! You'll put the mockers on it | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. Would it put you off more if you saw it when we met? Hard to say, probably would freak me out more if we met and I saw it. I love tattoos but it's more what ur tat represents that would make me uncomfortable. Like I said each to their own, you like it so that's what matters, for me personally it's a turn off the Was a momentary lapse a few years ago just got used to it now. I'm by no means satanic lol To be honest, It's hard to believe it was just a momentary lapse when ur pic also shows u wearing a satanic medallion. " Pentagram isn't exactly a satanic medallion whilst yes the tat was a stupid thing I did when I was younger doesn't mean I regret it, I have a few stupid tattoos I don't regret them. I happen to like the pentagram symbol and it exists in many cultures not just the satanic. It's a necklace, plenty of women have playboy bunny tattoos doesn't make them models... | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. Would it put you off more if you saw it when we met? Hard to say, probably would freak me out more if we met and I saw it. I love tattoos but it's more what ur tat represents that would make me uncomfortable. Like I said each to their own, you like it so that's what matters, for me personally it's a turn off the Was a momentary lapse a few years ago just got used to it now. I'm by no means satanic lol To be honest, It's hard to believe it was just a momentary lapse when ur pic also shows u wearing a satanic medallion. " If someone was wearing a crucifix chain would it also be an issue? Just curious | |||
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"Just my personal opinion, and each to their own, but having 666 on your chest would put me off meeting you, but that's just me personally, happy fabbing and I hope things pick up for you xx oh good eyes! I have to say that's a bit of a downer for me too. Would it put you off more if you saw it when we met? Hard to say, probably would freak me out more if we met and I saw it. I love tattoos but it's more what ur tat represents that would make me uncomfortable. Like I said each to their own, you like it so that's what matters, for me personally it's a turn off the Was a momentary lapse a few years ago just got used to it now. I'm by no means satanic lol To be honest, It's hard to believe it was just a momentary lapse when ur pic also shows u wearing a satanic medallion. Pentagram isn't exactly a satanic medallion whilst yes the tat was a stupid thing I did when I was younger doesn't mean I regret it, I have a few stupid tattoos I don't regret them. I happen to like the pentagram symbol and it exists in many cultures not just the satanic. It's a necklace, plenty of women have playboy bunny tattoos doesn't make them models... " lol | |||
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"OP, I like your profile. The fact you can accommodate is a definite plus - it spells "single male". As others have already said get chatting in the forum and maybe another public pic(or two) for us ladies to perv...just not cock pictures! I wish you well Xx" What's your thoughts on my profile Boldgirl? | |||
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"OP, I like your profile. The fact you can accommodate is a definite plus - it spells "single male". As others have already said get chatting in the forum and maybe another public pic(or two) for us ladies to perv...just not cock pictures! I wish you well Xx" Why thank you it's nice to have some feedback that's positive can't please everyone | |||
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"Our boldgirl will shboot straight from the hip! Be prepared and very afraid!! im so glad I'm female right now " Is she a squirter?? | |||
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"Our boldgirl will shboot straight from the hip! Be prepared and very afraid!! im so glad I'm female right now " Lol. Fuck, am I that bad?! I guess I am a straight shooter! | |||
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"Our boldgirl will shboot straight from the hip! Be prepared and very afraid!! im so glad I'm female right now Lol. Fuck, am I that bad?! I guess I am a straight shooter! " I'll bring the towels! | |||
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"Our boldgirl will shboot straight from the hip! Be prepared and very afraid!! im so glad I'm female right now Lol. Fuck, am I that bad?! I guess I am a straight shooter! I'll bring the towels! " | |||
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"Our boldgirl will shboot straight from the hip! Be prepared and very afraid!! im so glad I'm female right now Lol. Fuck, am I that bad?! I guess I am a straight shooter! " Course!! That's why I lurves ya!! | |||
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"Our boldgirl will shboot straight from the hip! Be prepared and very afraid!! im so glad I'm female right now Is she a squirter?? " goggles unlos!!! | |||
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"Nothing wrong with telling it as you see it Boldgirl, great way to be. " | |||
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"Nothing wrong with telling it as you see it Boldgirl, great way to be. " Shouldn't you be in bed | |||
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"Nothing wrong with telling it as you see it Boldgirl, great way to be. Shouldn't you be in bed " I already am rockie wanna join me? | |||
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"Nothing wrong with telling it as you see it Boldgirl, great way to be. Shouldn't you be in bed I already am rockie wanna join me? " I would love to.... But only if you naked like me right now | |||
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"Nothing wrong with telling it as you see it Boldgirl, great way to be. Shouldn't you be in bed I already am rockie wanna join me? I would love to.... But only if you naked like me right now " I thought everyone slept in their birthday suits! | |||
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"Our boldgirl will shboot straight from the hip! Be prepared and very afraid!! im so glad I'm female right now Lol. Fuck, am I that bad?! I guess I am a straight shooter! Course!! That's why I lurves ya!! " Xx | |||
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"Who left now? " fooey acting the Sydney or was it acting the Mick or was it acting the unlos I'm not sure anymore, it's confusing!! | |||
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"Who left now? fooey acting the Sydney or was it acting the Mick or was it acting the unlos I'm not sure anymore, it's confusing!! " They're dropping like flies! | |||
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"better the devil you know than the one you don,t and all that jazz! goodluck marvel " Thanks chick appreciate it xx | |||
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"Who left now? fooey acting the Sydney or was it acting the Mick or was it acting the unlos I'm not sure anymore, it's confusing!! They're dropping like flies! " youre like Dessie O Hare, the border fox | |||
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"OP, I like your profile. The fact you can accommodate is a definite plus - it spells "single male". As others have already said get chatting in the forum and maybe another public pic(or two) for us ladies to perv...just not cock pictures! I wish you well Xx Why thank you it's nice to have some feedback that's positive can't please everyone " You're very welcome Fair play for putting up another pic(keep going! ) Love the Batman jocks! x | |||
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"OP, I like your profile. The fact you can accommodate is a definite plus - it spells "single male". As others have already said get chatting in the forum and maybe another public pic(or two) for us ladies to perv...just not cock pictures! I wish you well Xx Why thank you it's nice to have some feedback that's positive can't please everyone You're very welcome Fair play for putting up another pic(keep going! ) Love the Batman jocks! x " Thanks chick xxx | |||
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"OP, I like your profile. The fact you can accommodate is a definite plus - it spells "single male". As others have already said get chatting in the forum and maybe another public pic(or two) for us ladies to perv...just not cock pictures! I wish you well Xx Why thank you it's nice to have some feedback that's positive can't please everyone You're very welcome Fair play for putting up another pic(keep going! ) Love the Batman jocks! x Thanks chick xxx" You're welcome! x | |||
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"Speaking from experience, lose the batman jocks. Since i started rocking the belt buckle i've been getting meets left right and centre. But seriously, get active on the site, be it on forum or chat. got to socials, get verified there. have the craic, dont be an asshole. if you agree to meet, turn up. thats just for starters. " Batman jocks seem to be a hit so far lol. The rest I agree yes I'm not a letdown won't agree to meet unless I actually can. Thanks for the advice chum | |||
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