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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im just sitting here thinking how there's nothing quite like the build up and then thrill of a first meet. I'm wondering can that feeling become addictive ?

What was your best first meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhhhhh...I've got one tomorrow I've not been this sexcited in ages!!!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

The butterflies get me everytime , especially on the day itself, if I lost that feeling of excitement and nervousness beforehand I'd give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm yes there is a certain thrill about a first meet,but there's also a thrill about those repeat meets and getting to know a person,making a connection. Best meet on here???? Was the meet when I met my better half and the thrill of waking up next to him, never grows old

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ohhhhhhh...I've got one tomorrow I've not been this sexcited in ages!!! "

Awww I miss that ! Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmmm yes there is a certain thrill about a first meet,but there's also a thrill about those repeat meets and getting to know a person,making a connection. Best meet on here???? Was the meet when I met my better half and the thrill of waking up next to him, never grows old "

Awww that's so nice

I agree but I have to say after meeting a fb a few times. (Maybe 4/5) im bored. Unless a bigger connection, which I haven't got from fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I told you I'd have to kill you!

It's an amazing feeling though, the build up of butterflies is absolutely epic!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The butterflies get me everytime , especially on the day itself, if I lost that feeling of excitement and nervousness beforehand I'd give up "

I agree ... The- are they as hot as I have built them up to be and the will we just wanna rip each others clothes off feeling is awesome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I told you I'd have to kill you!

It's an amazing feeling though, the build up of butterflies is absolutely epic!"

Thrill seekers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm yes there is a certain thrill about a first meet,but there's also a thrill about those repeat meets and getting to know a person,making a connection. Best meet on here???? Was the meet when I met my better half and the thrill of waking up next to him, never grows old

Awww that's so nice

I agree but I have to say after meeting a fb a few times. (Maybe 4/5) im bored. Unless a bigger connection, which I haven't got from fab!"

Perhaps I am just lucky that I got that bigger connection,but I get what u are saying also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I told you I'd have to kill you!

It's an amazing feeling though, the build up of butterflies is absolutely epic!

Thrill seekers lol "

Indeed. It's an addictive feeling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say as a man to first to reply on this thread.i get excited and very nervous.its a bunch of extreme emotions for me!

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Im just sitting here thinking how there's nothing quite like the build up and then thrill of a first meet. I'm wondering can that feeling become addictive ?

What was your best first meet?

"

The best one will be the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have 2 say.b4 i went and on my way there.i felt so so nervous inside.and sick with worrie but once i got there and meet her well the rest said it all 4 me.god i hope 2 meet a few more ladys on here like her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first meet is great always nervous at the start but like in a good way haha I've had some strange first meets, most recent being she was giving me a lift to meet up with a few from here.lol

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

The same happens with past meets,, I'd remember something and I'd get a tingle through me ha! Especially when it's been really good and it's in my memory forevermore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best first meet ever - blind date on a nude beach ?? great ice breaker lol! Will never forget the site of her walking towards me in the sunshine, ah the memories! Wasn't on this site at the time though …

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

I cant wait for my meet dis friday nervous is not the word but that because i went it to go great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember meeting a particular guy from here, sorry he wasn't here at the time but anyway we met in a certain hotel in Carlow, it was pretty awesome when I realised how gorgeous he was, still is he looked so much better in the flesh than on camera!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So good to hear guys get the same

Nerves and build up before hand

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I cant wait for my meet dis friday nervous is not the word but that because i went it to go great "

I'm sure you'll knock her socks off Brutus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was a disaster, didn't know Wat to expect on this site I was verrrrry new to it all and thought I was jack the wack jumping into a couple asking to meet me, it didn't happen once but twice I couldn't get a hard on humiliated wouldn't be in it. 3rd profile down and now I can enjoy the site! Couples and all and im not afraid to admit it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first meet was a disaster, didn't know Wat to expect on this site I was verrrrry new to it all and thought I was jack the wack jumping into a couple asking to meet me, it didn't happen once but twice I couldn't get a hard on humiliated wouldn't be in it. 3rd profile down and now I can enjoy the site! Couples and all and im not afraid to admit it. "

Oh dear... I must admit I might have kicked your ass! lol Only ever met one guy that couldnt perform for me and he blamed the drink ..., now he's t total well when he wants me he is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first meet was a disaster, didn't know Wat to expect on this site I was verrrrry new to it all and thought I was jack the wack jumping into a couple asking to meet me, it didn't happen once but twice I couldn't get a hard on humiliated wouldn't be in it. 3rd profile down and now I can enjoy the site! Couples and all and im not afraid to admit it.

Oh dear... I must admit I might have kicked your ass! lol Only ever met one guy that couldnt perform for me and he blamed the drink ..., now he's t total well when he wants me he is.

"
believe me I did opologise, it was nerves took over big time, that was about 4 years ago tho and when I just found out about this place, im sure I'm not the only one lol...............I hope! Sweet as now though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first meet was a disaster, didn't know Wat to expect on this site I was verrrrry new to it all and thought I was jack the wack jumping into a couple asking to meet me, it didn't happen once but twice I couldn't get a hard on humiliated wouldn't be in it. 3rd profile down and now I can enjoy the site! Couples and all and im not afraid to admit

Oh dear... I must admit I might have kicked your ass! lol Only ever met one guy that couldnt perform for me and he blamed the drink ..., now he's t total well when he wants me he is.

believe me I did opologise, it was nerves took over big time, that was about 4 years ago tho and when I just found out about this place, im sure I'm not the only one lol...............I hope! Sweet as now though "

Good lad for keeping on trying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first meet was a disaster, didn't know Wat to expect on this site I was verrrrry new to it all and thought I was jack the wack jumping into a couple asking to meet me, it didn't happen once but twice I couldn't get a hard on humiliated wouldn't be in it. 3rd profile down and now I can enjoy the site! Couples and all and im not afraid to admit

Oh dear... I must admit I might have kicked your ass! lol Only ever met one guy that couldnt perform for me and he blamed the drink ..., now he's t total well when he wants me he is.

believe me I did opologise, it was nerves took over big time, that was about 4 years ago tho and when I just found out about this place, im sure I'm not the only one lol...............I hope! Sweet as now though

Good lad for keeping on trying lol "
practice makes perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awh I don't think any first meet will compare to the first day I met nosafe. We'd chatted for SO long I was afraid it would be disastrous. I was so nervous I spent the morning having to pee.

Sitting in a bar or restaurant wasnt really our thing so we decided on a trip to the beach instead for our first encounter. I was so excited when I drove into the car park he thought I was gonna crash into him.

Picked the coldest day ever to go for a beach walk, so off we set hand in hand all wrapped up with chocolate and sweets falling out of our pockets. Eventually due to my freezing blue hands the pocket contents had to be eaten to allow me slip them into his pockets.

Had to wait for what seemed like forever for him to grab me by the waist and kiss me. We spent the day acting stupid, talking, laughing, kissing...

Beat any real life date hands down

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Hmmmm yes there is a certain thrill about a first meet,but there's also a thrill about those repeat meets and getting to know a person,making a connection. Best meet on here???? Was the meet when I met my better half and the thrill of waking up next to him, never grows old "

Totally agree with you. Love my repeat meets and definitely haven't got bored with them. My best meet......mmmmmmmmm. He knows I won't get bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember it Well nearly shit my pants nothing like it though lol

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

My first proper fab meet I was very nervous the build up to the meet was just brilliant. I worse an Ann summers pink outfit which seemed a good idea at the time we was chatting.

The day of the meet I was nervous in my pink outfit than the ohh what if he don't like me thoughts came into the head .

he showed up suited and booted pink outfit went down a treat..and we still have lots of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer second meets to be honest tho

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Its not just first meets that get me all excited yes there is the thing of a different person and whether she like me or not , but each meet brings butterflies and nerves some of the best were just social coffees that ended in debachuarious sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant wait for my meet dis friday nervous is not the word but that because i went it to go great "

Ah she's a very lucky girl Brutus ,you're a star

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same happens with past meets,, I'd remember something and I'd get a tingle through me ha! Especially when it's been really good and it's in my memory forevermore "

Oh I love that tingle Miss D

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"I cant wait for my meet dis friday nervous is not the word but that because i went it to go great

I'm sure you'll knock her socks off Brutus "
ah ill treat her like a lady

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"I cant wait for my meet dis friday nervous is not the word but that because i went it to go great

Ah she's a very lucky girl Brutus ,you're a star "

Ah thanks goldie maybe we could meet for a drink sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant wait for my meet dis friday nervous is not the word but that because i went it to go great

Ah she's a very lucky girl Brutus ,you're a star

Ah thanks goldie maybe we could meet for a drink sometime "

Well if you're ever in the vicinity , look us up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awh I don't think any first meet will compare to the first day I met nosafe. We'd chatted for SO long I was afraid it would be disastrous. I was so nervous I spent the morning having to pee.

Sitting in a bar or restaurant wasnt really our thing so we decided on a trip to the beach instead for our first encounter. I was so excited when I drove into the car park he thought I was gonna crash into him.

Picked the coldest day ever to go for a beach walk, so off we set hand in hand all wrapped up with chocolate and sweets falling out of our pockets. Eventually due to my freezing blue hands the pocket contents had to be eaten to allow me slip them into his pockets.

Had to wait for what seemed like forever for him to grab me by the waist and kiss me. We spent the day acting stupid, talking, laughing, kissing...

Beat any real life date hands down

"

Sounds like something out of a

movie....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awh I don't think any first meet will compare to the first day I met nosafe. We'd chatted for SO long I was afraid it would be disastrous. I was so nervous I spent the morning having to pee.

Sitting in a bar or restaurant wasnt really our thing so we decided on a trip to the beach instead for our first encounter. I was so excited when I drove into the car park he thought I was gonna crash into him.

Picked the coldest day ever to go for a beach walk, so off we set hand in hand all wrapped up with chocolate and sweets falling out of our pockets. Eventually due to my freezing blue hands the pocket contents had to be eaten to allow me slip them into his pockets.

Had to wait for what seemed like forever for him to grab me by the waist and kiss me. We spent the day acting stupid, talking, laughing, kissing...

Beat any real life date hands down

Sounds like something out of a

movie.... "

Felt like it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah first meets. Sigh.

I can handle the nerves on a coffee meet (kind of except for the nervous laughs and too much talking). But meeting up again and knowing sexy time is going to happen, really makes me feel all tingly and excited which is great. But I also get super nervous and a bit sick to the stomach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah first meets. Sigh.

I can handle the nerves on a coffee meet (kind of except for the nervous laughs and too much talking). But meeting up again and knowing sexy time is going to happen, really makes me feel all tingly and excited which is great. But I also get super nervous and a bit sick to the stomach. "

This for me too

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Awh I don't think any first meet will compare to the first day I met nosafe. We'd chatted for SO long I was afraid it would be disastrous. I was so nervous I spent the morning having to pee.

Sitting in a bar or restaurant wasnt really our thing so we decided on a trip to the beach instead for our first encounter. I was so excited when I drove into the car park he thought I was gonna crash into him.

Picked the coldest day ever to go for a beach walk, so off we set hand in hand all wrapped up with chocolate and sweets falling out of our pockets. Eventually due to my freezing blue hands the pocket contents had to be eaten to allow me slip them into his pockets.

Had to wait for what seemed like forever for him to grab me by the waist and kiss me. We spent the day acting stupid, talking, laughing, kissing...

Beat any real life date hands down

Sounds like something out of a

movie....

Felt like it too "

Ha wicked!! I love your story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awh I don't think any first meet will compare to the first day I met nosafe. We'd chatted for SO long I was afraid it would be disastrous. I was so nervous I spent the morning having to pee.

Sitting in a bar or restaurant wasnt really our thing so we decided on a trip to the beach instead for our first encounter. I was so excited when I drove into the car park he thought I was gonna crash into him.

Picked the coldest day ever to go for a beach walk, so off we set hand in hand all wrapped up with chocolate and sweets falling out of our pockets. Eventually due to my freezing blue hands the pocket contents had to be eaten to allow me slip them into his pockets.

Had to wait for what seemed like forever for him to grab me by the waist and kiss me. We spent the day acting stupid, talking, laughing, kissing...

Beat any real life date hands down

Sounds like something out of a

movie....

Felt like it too

Ha wicked!! I love your story! "

Me too, it's pretty awesome!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The excitement of the first meet oh boy I get butterflyd in my stomach and very nervous and get a bit giggle himself love's to see me nervous and shy

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By *ippcoupe2Couple
over a year ago

cahir/cashel

mrs t does be absolutely terrified at a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm yes there is a certain thrill about a first meet,but there's also a thrill about those repeat meets and getting to know a person,making a connection. Best meet on here???? Was the meet when I met my better half and the thrill of waking up next to him, never grows old "

Nice! That's well cool you guys found each other through the site. happy days

PS nice pics on your profile, some ace bum shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meets I'm a bit sick, anxious and maybe pushy if things aren't moving along for me - so think sometimes it's not the real me.

Much prefer second third fourth and so on.... .. Know what buttons to push and so does he mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awh I don't think any first meet will compare to the first day I met nosafe. We'd chatted for SO long I was afraid it would be disastrous. I was so nervous I spent the morning having to pee.

Sitting in a bar or restaurant wasnt really our thing so we decided on a trip to the beach instead for our first encounter. I was so excited when I drove into the car park he thought I was gonna crash into him.

Picked the coldest day ever to go for a beach walk, so off we set hand in hand all wrapped up with chocolate and sweets falling out of our pockets. Eventually due to my freezing blue hands the pocket contents had to be eaten to allow me slip them into his pockets.

Had to wait for what seemed like forever for him to grab me by the waist and kiss me. We spent the day acting stupid, talking, laughing, kissing...

Beat any real life date hands down

Sounds like something out of a

movie....

Felt like it too

Ha wicked!! I love your story!

Me too, it's pretty awesome!! "

I can lend him to you if you like

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"First meets I'm a bit sick, anxious and maybe pushy if things aren't moving along for me - so think sometimes it's not the real me.

Much prefer second third fourth and so on.... .. Know what buttons to push and so does he mmmmmm"

Slow burning can be better than explosives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god we miss it .. its been a friggin age since we had a meet. . Life has a big habit of getting in the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 1st casual meet was awful my second a disaster, it wasn't till I met someone off here I actually had an good time. I get butterfly's just messaging so meeting is a much bigger thrill. Disasters didn't put me off just slowed down what was already a trundle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god we miss it .. its been a friggin age since we had a meet. . Life has a big habit of getting in the way "

Awh that's sad, you guys need to park life for a couple of hours and have some fun

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City


"I was so excited when I drove into the car park he thought I was gonna crash into him. "

Well you did turn towards me and accelerated very quickly.

It was a lot like a movie too, running towards you in slow motion. Doing the impossible challenges to impress you lol.

Good day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god we miss it .. its been a friggin age since we had a meet. . Life has a big habit of getting in the way "

Ditto. It sucks.. Or not as the case may be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was so excited when I drove into the car park he thought I was gonna crash into him.

Well you did turn towards me and accelerated very quickly.

It was a lot like a movie too, running towards you in slow motion. Doing the impossible challenges to impress you lol.

Good day "

Jaysus sounds like she really put u through ur paces safey. Did she make you do an entire beach bootcamp before she'd have a cuppa with u?

Could be a whole new screening plan prior to meets. I may have to utilise it myself,might help sort the wheat from the chaff,now drop and gimme twenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was so excited when I drove into the car park he thought I was gonna crash into him.

Well you did turn towards me and accelerated very quickly.

It was a lot like a movie too, running towards you in slow motion. Doing the impossible challenges to impress you lol.

Good day

Jaysus sounds like she really put u through ur paces safey. Did she make you do an entire beach bootcamp before she'd have a cuppa with u?

Could be a whole new screening plan prior to meets. I may have to utilise it myself,might help sort the wheat from the chaff,now drop and gimme twenty "

Oooh beach bootcamp, I shoulda made him take off all his clothes and put him through a navy seal work out! Damn

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City


"Oooh beach bootcamp, I shoulda made him take off all his clothes and put him through a navy seal work out! Damn "

That would have been too easy.

Me saying I could do things, you not believing, promising me naughty things if I did them, me doing them, the things getting harder and harder, the promises getting naughtier and naughtier.

Till you promised me something and nothing on this planet would stop me, it was impossible to do, no one could believe it would happen, not even me. I had to break the laws of physics to do it, the universe couldn't even stop me.

Was much harder than a boot camp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooh beach bootcamp, I shoulda made him take off all his clothes and put him through a navy seal work out! Damn

That would have been too easy.

Me saying I could do things, you not believing, promising me naughty things if I did them, me doing them, the things getting harder and harder, the promises getting naughtier and naughtier.

Till you promised me something and nothing on this planet would stop me, it was impossible to do, no one could believe it would happen, not even me. I had to break the laws of physics to do it, the universe couldn't even stop me.

Was much harder than a boot camp "

Awh u deserve kisses for that

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