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"A very good friend has left fab because he reckons its all one big clique on here, what do people think of this?Thats very true if you upset one you upset all" Yeah I've seen that happen in the forum | |||
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"I dont think there is at all I think if you took your time to read most posts you would see we are all one happy fab family. " I really hope you don't seriously think that lol | |||
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"I dont think there is at all I think if you took your time to read most posts you would see we are all one happy fab family. " yep | |||
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"no point in posting when it gets ignored...got better things to be doing anyway. good luck to all." I get ignored all the time Lol Do i care?? Nah no chance because if i have something to say i'll just say it regardless of if it's ignored or not It eases my mind xx xx xx | |||
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"Yeah we are an anti-asshole clique. " Define asshole | |||
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"Yeah we are an anti-asshole clique. " You nt like an nice asshole | |||
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"I dont think there is at all I think if you took your time to read most posts you would see we are all one happy fab family. I really hope you don't seriously think that lol " do you not think we are a bog happy fab family | |||
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"we're not leaving fab but won't post on the forums ....forums are for a clique good luck to them x" Ah lads Iv seen you post b4 but that's beside the point from my limited experience I see regular contributors on the forums who also go to socials etc and have become "groups" of pals, does that make them a clique? I dont think so, I joined quite recently and They mostly have made me feel welcome. BUT you do need a backbone after all it is an open forum thus open to different opinions... thats my tuppence worth | |||
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"A very good friend has left fab because he reckons its all one big clique on here, what do people think of this?" look at the regular, day in, day out posters on the forums.....Boom. Clique found | |||
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"A very good friend has left fab because he reckons its all one big clique on here, what do people think of this? look at the regular, day in, day out posters on the forums.....Boom. Clique found " we post and we are not part of a clique and get replys | |||
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"no point in posting when you're ignored...forums not for mm couples...they're for single or married guys on the hunt, we're not whinging couldn't give a fuck tbh " Love ye guys Ant n Dec springs to mind | |||
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"A very good friend has left fab because he reckons its all one big clique on here, what do people think of this? look at the regular, day in, day out posters on the forums.....Boom. Clique found we post and we are not part of a clique and get replys " same here...You are new to me | |||
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"I'm in a clique " Are they nice? Or cunts? Can or do I want in? | |||
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"no point in posting when you're ignored...forums not for mm couples...they're for single or married guys on the hunt, we're not whinging couldn't give a fuck tbh " Can I chime in and tell you that it brings me no pleasure to read how you're feeling and thinking. Your contributions here on the forums are balanced, grounded, and refreshing. Its true what you say, there can be a lot of noise here and very little signal. But in balance there are many good contributors, and I would consider your previous posts to be engaging and thought provoking. The trick here is to filter the BS. Yes, It takes up your time, but its very easy to become fluent at it. There was a time here when everyone had basic manners, and people realised there was more value for money in listening than there was in talking. | |||
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"I'm in a clique Are they nice? Or cunts? Can or do I want in? " I thought you were in my clique? | |||
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"I don't feel I'm part of any "clique". I come on the forums, throw my opinion/thoughts out there and if people don't like it...well I couldn't give a monkeys.. It's impossible to please everyone. " you're part of my clique too | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 02/05/15 23:54:32]" Actually I couldn't be arsed. . | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 02/05/15 23:54:32] Actually I couldn't be arsed. ." | |||
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"I'm in a clique Are they nice? Or cunts? Can or do I want in? I thought you were in my clique? " "Spider Man,Spider Man does whatever a spider can,that doesn't mean he can crawl up in your ear and die does it " Has to be done in a Sheldon voice | |||
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"We post in the forums and enjoy the craic,if people choose to interact with us that's fine but that's not why we post .People take this place much too seriously ,if you aren't enjoying it then why the hell bother .We certainly aren't part of any Clique !" This!!! | |||
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"We post in the forums and enjoy the craic,if people choose to interact with us that's fine but that's not why we post .People take this place much too seriously ,if you aren't enjoying it then why the hell bother .We certainly aren't part of any Clique !" What's your problem, where did I say I wasn't enjoying it and you replyed as if I put this post up about yourself, It seems you're the ones taking this too seriously pal | |||
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"We post in the forums and enjoy the craic,if people choose to interact with us that's fine but that's not why we post .People take this place much too seriously ,if you aren't enjoying it then why the hell bother .We certainly aren't part of any Clique ! What's your problem, where did I say I wasn't enjoying it and you replyed as if I put this post up about yourself, It seems you're the ones taking this too seriously pal" Popcorn and sofa from here on | |||
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"We post in the forums and enjoy the craic,if people choose to interact with us that's fine but that's not why we post .People take this place much too seriously ,if you aren't enjoying it then why the hell bother .We certainly aren't part of any Clique ! What's your problem, where did I say I wasn't enjoying it and you replyed as if I put this post up about yourself, It seems you're the ones taking this too seriously pal" I think maybe you took the tone of that wrong...I don't think they were having a pop at you, OP! Deep breaths and group hug? | |||
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"We post in the forums and enjoy the craic,if people choose to interact with us that's fine but that's not why we post .People take this place much too seriously ,if you aren't enjoying it then why the hell bother .We certainly aren't part of any Clique ! What's your problem, where did I say I wasn't enjoying it and you replyed as if I put this post up about yourself, It seems you're the ones taking this too seriously pal I think maybe you took the tone of that wrong...I don't think they were having a pop at you, OP! Deep breaths and group hug? " Lol sorry then | |||
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"We post in the forums and enjoy the craic,if people choose to interact with us that's fine but that's not why we post .People take this place much too seriously ,if you aren't enjoying it then why the hell bother .We certainly aren't part of any Clique ! What's your problem, where did I say I wasn't enjoying it and you replyed as if I put this post up about yourself, It seems you're the ones taking this too seriously pal I think maybe you took the tone of that wrong...I don't think they were having a pop at you, OP! Deep breaths and group hug? " Thanks Bold ,anyone who knows us from forums know we are only here for the fun aspect and never indulge in the serious shit,just thought we would point that out . | |||
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"We post in the forums and enjoy the craic,if people choose to interact with us that's fine but that's not why we post .People take this place much too seriously ,if you aren't enjoying it then why the hell bother .We certainly aren't part of any Clique ! What's your problem, where did I say I wasn't enjoying it and you replyed as if I put this post up about yourself, It seems you're the ones taking this too seriously pal I think maybe you took the tone of that wrong...I don't think they were having a pop at you, OP! Deep breaths and group hug? Thanks Bold ,anyone who knows us from forums know we are only here for the fun aspect and never indulge in the serious shit,just thought we would point that out ." Ahhh yous are dead in my book | |||
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"Yeah we are an anti-asshole clique. " ......we're just assholes.....but we're happy. .. | |||
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"We post in the forums and enjoy the craic,if people choose to interact with us that's fine but that's not why we post .People take this place much too seriously ,if you aren't enjoying it then why the hell bother .We certainly aren't part of any Clique ! What's your problem, where did I say I wasn't enjoying it and you replyed as if I put this post up about yourself, It seems you're the ones taking this too seriously pal I think maybe you took the tone of that wrong...I don't think they were having a pop at you, OP! Deep breaths and group hug? Thanks Bold ,anyone who knows us from forums know we are only here for the fun aspect and never indulge in the serious shit,just thought we would point that out . Ahhh yous are dead in my book " Feck I hope not ,we where pretty lively earlier | |||
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"Yeah we are an anti-asshole clique. ......we're just assholes.....but we're happy. .. " | |||
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"there's a clique without a doubt....and it amounts to bullying for anyone not in the frame." That's a pretty sweeping statement, I'm really sorry you guys feel that way. | |||
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"We post in the forums and enjoy the craic,if people choose to interact with us that's fine but that's not why we post .People take this place much too seriously ,if you aren't enjoying it then why the hell bother .We certainly aren't part of any Clique !" | |||
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"Relationships exist on here just the same as they do in the real world. It's not completely impartial as people know each other, some have had very intimate relationships. Previous interactions between users have built up emotions and judgements, and these are brought to the table with comments people make. This happens here just the same as in real life. Things are complicated further because there are hidden agendas. The biggest of which is that users want sex with each other. This leads many into supporting those they fancy, and disagreeing with those they don't. This happens in everyday life too btw. Not just here. Having said all that I also believe that anyone outside the regulars here are generally listened to according to the merit of what they have to say. If someone adds something useful or interesting to a discussion people will generally respond. They may not agree, but at least you are adding to the discussion. " What a lot of crap .its a place for over sexed pervs | |||
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" What a lot of crap .its a place for over sexed pervs" Oh Sligo you do make me giggle at times. | |||
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" What a lot of crap .its a place for over sexed pervs Oh Sligo you do make me giggle at times. " Thats good | |||
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" its a place for over sexed pervs" Im not gonna disagree with that | |||
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" its a place for over sexed pervs Im not gonna disagree with that" You agree wirh me did you fall and hurt your head. | |||
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"its a place for over sexed pervs" Is it state the obvious day? | |||
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"its a place for over sexed pervs Is it state the obvious day? " ah go back to bed you. | |||
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"I blame the politicians lol" Politicians are cliques and pricks | |||
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"I blame the politicians lolPoliticians are cliques and pricks" I agree with you...I am the second person to agree with you today... sligo people are going to think your part of the clique if this continues... | |||
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" its a place for over sexed pervs Im not gonna disagree with that You agree wirh me did you fall and hurt your head." You are mistaking me for someone who has a clue who you are. | |||
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"Hasn't been a clique on here in a good while now defo, friends yea, and the usual agree with any female right or wrong Desperado" that's the brown nose brigade you speak of..but it's not just confined to men..there's wimmen in it too. | |||
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"Hasn't been a clique on here in a good while now defo, friends yea, and the usual agree with any female right or wrong Desperado that's the brown nose brigade you speak of..but it's not just confined to men..there's wimmen in it too. " Aye, and plenty of them! | |||
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"We post in the forums and enjoy the craic,if people choose to interact with us that's fine but that's not why we post .People take this place much too seriously ,if you aren't enjoying it then why the hell bother .We certainly aren't part of any Clique !" who is we can you say there is no clique lol gotcha | |||
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"We post in the forums and enjoy the craic,if people choose to interact with us that's fine but that's not why we post .People take this place much too seriously ,if you aren't enjoying it then why the hell bother .We certainly aren't part of any Clique ! who is we can you say there is no clique lol gotcha" Lol that was posted by a couple. Try and keep up. | |||
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"Oh dear God, I've just read this whole thread. I wonder will I ever get those three minutes back? " Only if you are part of the clique. You can send an application form. Guaranteed response within 21 working days. | |||
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"A very good friend has left fab because he reckons its all one big clique on here, what do people think of this?" Unfortunately where people get to know each other in any group cliques are formed. This place is no different. There are a huge amount of sycophant guys (and sometimes women) in the forums and chat rooms. If it works for them to get a meet or to feel popular good luck to them! I've seen threads on the forum being taken over by people in these cliques. | |||
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"We post in the forums and enjoy the craic,if people choose to interact with us that's fine but that's not why we post .People take this place much too seriously ,if you aren't enjoying it then why the hell bother .We certainly aren't part of any Clique ! who is we can you say there is no clique lol gotcha" We as in both of us Mr and Mrs Goldie | |||
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"Oh dear God, I've just read this whole thread. I wonder will I ever get those three minutes back? " Hope you paid particular attention to my 5 secs worth Michael | |||
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"A very good friend has left fab because he reckons its all one big clique on here, what do people think of this?" Sounds like he's a bit of a big girls blouse tbh. Probably better off in the long run, we bite. | |||
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"There are definitely cliques on here. has been since I joined but who cares has no one a brain of their own any more " ......we're actually sharing a brain at the moment. ......now let me see...clique. ...mmmm....a group of people who agree with each other. ...no evidence of that here....we all kill each other. ....lol....as you were. . | |||
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"I'm not a member" Ah the fun that could be had with that statement | |||
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" its a place for over sexed pervs Im not gonna disagree with that You agree wirh me did you fall and hurt your head. You are mistaking me for someone who has a clue who you are. " Im sad now you don't know me. | |||
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"I'm not a member Ah the fun that could be had with that statement " | |||
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"no point in posting when it gets ignored...got better things to be doing anyway. good luck to all. I get ignored all the time Lol Do i care?? Nah no chance because if i have something to say i'll just say it regardless of if it's ignored or not It eases my mind xx xx xx" Me too! | |||
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"no point in posting when you're ignored...forums not for mm couples...they're for single or married guys on the hunt, we're not whinging couldn't give a fuck tbh " There I have to disagree I have chatted to mm cpls on and off the fourms and welcome any ones point of view. doesn't mean I'll reply to every ones point of view or agree with it Yes the fourms are full of guys girls and cpls on the hunt but isn't that what this site is about . | |||
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"I'm not a member Ah the fun that could be had with that statement " lol yas hures leave me alone lol | |||
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"no point in posting when you're ignored...forums not for mm couples...they're for single or married guys on the hunt, we're not whinging couldn't give a fuck tbh There I have to disagree I have chatted to mm cpls on and off the fourms and welcome any ones point of view. doesn't mean I'll reply to every ones point of view or agree with it Yes the fourms are full of guys girls and cpls on the hunt but isn't that what this site is about . " Agreed cj. As relevant new comers to the forums most of our posts are ignored but we have a laugh with some of the people we have met here before we started using the forums. Some people are friendly and get on with each other after meeting each other privately or at m&gs. Wouldn't call it a clique. Yes there are those who say stuff for reactions and can be down right mean but that's what the report function is for | |||
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