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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was on my way to a coffee meet today and when I checked messages I saw that I got blocked by her. This has happened once before, is this a common problem for other people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me once before, cold feet syndrome perhaps!

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick

Must have thought you were the other Luke.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Must have thought you were the other Luke."

lol maybe

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Bit of a shitty thing to do, allowing someone build themselves up and pull a stunt like that

Onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Power, control, stuff like that maybe.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Power, control, stuff like that maybe."

if she blocked you she has no power or control though. Bad feckin manners more like in not cancelling earlier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't mind being cancelled on if you let me know but to say nothing and block is just out of line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working "

So you're going to stalk him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Power, control, stuff like that maybe.

if she blocked you she has no power or control though. Bad feckin manners more like in not cancelling earlier "

Maybe, but she believes she has and perception is everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working "

don't know how anyone could cancel on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working "

If a guy posted this he'd be slated for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plenty of people do this kind of thing here ..... dreamers and fantasists , some who no dout get a thrill out the standing someone up , at least you had the foresight to double check her profile before you arrived at the meeting place , thus saving yourself the hassle of sitting there like a plonker waiting on her , onwards and upwards .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working

So you're going to stalk him? "

Nooo :D:D just I will give him bad, judgmental look every time I will pass him :D

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Power, control, stuff like that maybe.

if she blocked you she has no power or control though. Bad feckin manners more like in not cancelling earlier

Maybe, but she believes she has and perception is everything "

Smells of a timewaster! Basic manners cost nothing! Even if it was cold feet there's no need to block you without a simple message to cancel,there's weird folk out there for sure

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

They probably just realised their life had hit a new time low and wanted to hide from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working

So you're going to stalk him?

Nooo :D:D just I will give him bad, judgmental look every time I will pass him :D"
........you could just kill him....they would never suspect you. .read a book about that once....killer just picked random names out of a phone book. ...no apparent motive.....sorry. .!!!... was I rambling there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck it. Its her loss she probably had her eyes super glued shut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on my way to a coffee meet today and when I checked messages I saw that I got blocked by her. This has happened once before, is this a common problem for other people?"

Report her...just for the sake of it anyway. Either that or publish her profile name and take the inevitable ban. Id probably do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working

If a guy posted this he'd be slated for it! "

I agree any guy would be branded a stalker, Nutcase...etc for posting that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working "

Thats not weird at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on my way to a coffee meet today and when I checked messages I saw that I got blocked by her. This has happened once before, is this a common problem for other people?"

Same here.sent face pics as asked .offered to meet for coffee/chat. Seemed enthusiastic. Then nothing. Does this happen a lot on here

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By *rian78Man
over a year ago

navan


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working

So you're going to stalk him?

Nooo :D:D just I will give him bad, judgmental look every time I will pass him :D........you could just kill him....they would never suspect you. .read a book about that once....killer just picked random names out of a phone book. ...no apparent motive.....sorry. .!!!... was I rambling there? "

glad in not in the phone book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working "

Jesus

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

cc hotel

She played you for a fool....pity you can't name and shame.

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city


"I was on my way to a coffee meet today and when I checked messages I saw that I got blocked by her. This has happened once before, is this a common problem for other people?"

are u sure it was a woman??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on my way to a coffee meet today and when I checked messages I saw that I got blocked by her. This has happened once before, is this a common problem for other people?"

Spineless bitch for not giving u a reason or even having the decency to tell you it was not going ahead

Hope she's reading this too so she knows in future it's not the done thing

Pity u can't name and shame so she can't fool other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that. Very annoying

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By *usantv40TV/TS
over a year ago

north co dublin

Well I was to meet lady in caven drove all the way was 10 mins away got s message something had come up and blocked me lice lady

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"I was on my way to a coffee meet today and when I checked messages I saw that I got blocked by her. This has happened once before, is this a common problem for other people?

are u sure it was a woman??"

Was just about to ask the same question,sounds like she was a fake

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

It's disgusting this could happen someone.

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any

It happens unfortunately , just chalk it up to experience and move on x

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By *osafewordneededMan
over a year ago

City

boils my blood thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing .... would never dream of doing that to anyone really rotten ...would they like that done on them! But what goes around comes around !

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"I was on my way to a coffee meet today and when I checked messages I saw that I got blocked by her. This has happened once before, is this a common problem for other people?"

Name and shame I'd say

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working

Jesus "

Ok was bad say it but what I tought with it was...if ever he will start again flirt with me in his work I can say something so he start wondering how I know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get that...why not just say I'm sorry I can't make it.I'd never do that on anyone coz I'd hate it to be done on me. Perhaps a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working

Jesus

Ok was bad say it but what I tought with it was...if ever he will start again flirt with me in his work I can say something so he start wondering how I know it "

Girl that's a bigger hole you are digging...I'd leave it there if I were you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working

Jesus

Ok was bad say it but what I tought with it was...if ever he will start again flirt with me in his work I can say something so he start wondering how I know it

Girl that's a bigger hole you are digging...I'd leave it there if I were you. "

I know :D And never wouldnt be brave enough do it. Here can say whatever want but in real life is diferent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this once too.. But Im glad he dont know how I look..but I know and even know where he working

Jesus

Ok was bad say it but what I tought with it was...if ever he will start again flirt with me in his work I can say something so he start wondering how I know it

Girl that's a bigger hole you are digging...I'd leave it there if I were you.

I know :D And never wouldnt be brave enough do it. Here can say whatever want but in real life is diferent"

Well I agree there...people are very brave on here and pussy cats in reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been let down to on way to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On way home from been let down with no explenation atall, phone is knocked off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip that's happened to me too. Drove for an hour an then got blocked. Almost left fab because of it!

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By *imdm101Man
over a year ago

Galway

Very similar experience. Weird thing is she gave me her mobile number - and it was genuine because we exchanged texts. Getting on great (I thought), then suddenly blocked. I sent her a text asking why, but got no reply, so I got the message, so to speak, and haven't contacted her again.

If you block someone, that's fine, absolutely you're right. But if you block someone you have been getting on with/arranged to met, you should at least tell them why.

Jim

PS any woman want to meet me for that coffee instead? (well, nothing ventured, and all that)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say its a messer playing stupid games ...always check before u leave that who ever ure meetin have chatted on phone first alot of messers on site sorry this has happened to u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked multiple times an for less then nothing

I've never sent a "wanna fuck now" message

I don't even have a cock pic on here to send an wouldn't ever as a first message.

There's a lot of very touchy people on here that need to lighten up

SERIOUSLY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been blocked multiple times an for less then nothing

I've never sent a "wanna fuck now" message

I don't even have a cock pic on here to send an wouldn't ever as a first message.

There's a lot of very touchy people on here that need to lighten up

SERIOUSLY "

That is OK. I understand your frustration. On the other hand, people owe nothing to you here and better to get blocked than to invest time on chatting to people that at the end of the day you most likely wouldn't want to meet anyway.

Getting blocked is still much better to the treatment I sometimes get in the real life because of me being a foreigner.

So cheer up and '...always look on the bright side of things...'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been blocked multiple times an for less then nothing

I've never sent a "wanna fuck now" message

I don't even have a cock pic on here to send an wouldn't ever as a first message.

There's a lot of very touchy people on here that need to lighten up

SERIOUSLY

That is OK. I understand your frustration. On the other hand, people owe nothing to you here and better to get blocked than to invest time on chatting to people that at the end of the day you most likely wouldn't want to meet anyway.

Getting blocked is still much better to the treatment I sometimes get in the real life because of me being a foreigner.

So cheer up and '...always look on the bright side of things...'"

I only can agree with you and say I 100% understand you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened me a few times too...think they should be reported as time wasters...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm over it. I am up for meeting anyone even if just for a coffee to say hi, I hope next time it works out better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it also happened me on here , talked to a lady for months on here , agreed to meet on a Tuesday , took day off work was on my way as it was a 3 hour drive , text me to say cant meet as have the flu sorry , unreal !!!!!! if men did it they would be finished on here

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