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"Why do couples get so pissed off when you say sorry not my type or not interested and respond with messages of total abuse.....or is it just to me this happens" we don't get pissed off its all part of the fab lifestyle | |||
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"Why do couples get so pissed off when you say sorry not my type or not interested and respond with messages of total abuse.....or is it just to me this happens" It's weird isn't it. Especially when they can't see any of your pics and your profile doesn't give much away. Guess you're just lucky getting Couples falling over themselves coming onto you ...... Kudos | |||
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"I just don't see the point of abusing people I have my choices on my profile not my fault they don't read it " Totally unacceptable ,use your block button  | |||
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"I just don't see the point of abusing people I have my choices on my profile not my fault they don't read it " It looks like a cross you have to bear...,,,, Be strong xx | |||
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"I never found in my experience on here that single guys can afford to be all that picky or choosy! If a couple invites you into their marriage or relationship just go and meet if only for a social and politely refuse their advances if your all that fussy" Why? Wouldn't that be a waste of your and their time? If you know that you wouldn't be happy to play with a couple, why would you drag the inevitable moment of declining? I do not think it is a good idea, to have them invest time in meeting you for a coffee just to hear that you would like to kindly decline. Single guys are as entitled to have their own preferences and desires as any other user of the site. I do not understand the concept of not being able to afford to be picky and choosy. If people are happy to play with each other, it's great. But if a person doesn't feel comfortable for any reason to engage sexually with another person or persons, why one should force himself or herself to do something that they are clearly unwilling to do? It's not about being fussy (it's a negative word) in my opinion, I think it's about knowing what you want and like. | |||
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"I never found in my experience on here that single guys can afford to be all that picky or choosy! If a couple invites you into their marriage or relationship just go and meet if only for a social and politely refuse their advances if your all that fussy Why? Wouldn't that be a waste of your and their time? If you know that you wouldn't be happy to play with a couple, why would you drag the inevitable moment of declining? I do not think it is a good idea, to have them invest time in meeting you for a coffee just to hear that you would like to kindly decline. Single guys are as entitled to have their own preferences and desires as any other user of the site. I do not understand the concept of not being able to afford to be picky and choosy. If people are happy to play with each other, it's great. But if a person doesn't feel comfortable for any reason to engage sexually with another person or persons, why one should force himself or herself to do something that they are clearly unwilling to do? It's not about being fussy (it's a negative word) in my opinion, I think it's about knowing what you want and like. " Then remove couples from your preferences, simple? | |||
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"I never found in my experience on here that single guys can afford to be all that picky or choosy! If a couple invites you into their marriage or relationship just go and meet if only for a social and politely refuse their advances if your all that fussy Why? Wouldn't that be a waste of your and their time? If you know that you wouldn't be happy to play with a couple, why would you drag the inevitable moment of declining? I do not think it is a good idea, to have them invest time in meeting you for a coffee just to hear that you would like to kindly decline. Single guys are as entitled to have their own preferences and desires as any other user of the site. I do not understand the concept of not being able to afford to be picky and choosy. If people are happy to play with each other, it's great. But if a person doesn't feel comfortable for any reason to engage sexually with another person or persons, why one should force himself or herself to do something that they are clearly unwilling to do? It's not about being fussy (it's a negative word) in my opinion, I think it's about knowing what you want and like. " Excellent!!  | |||
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""Then remove couples from your preferences, simple?" That would be silly, wouldn't it? I enjoy meeting couples for mfm playtime, so this wouldn't be smart if I removed couples from my preferences. However, I will not play with every single couple that is interested in inviting me to their fantasy. Attraction is very important to me, so I wouldn't put myself and them in a situation, where I agree to join the frolics without feeling attracted to the lady, as that would be wrong on so many levels. I also very rarely jump on the last minute invitation to join a lady or a couple, if I do not know them already. Fair play to you if your preference is to play with every single lady or couple that approaches you. I think that is grand too. Each to their own, as they say." My God your in some form for lecturing today European Lad lol | |||
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""Then remove couples from your preferences, simple?" That would be silly, wouldn't it? I enjoy meeting couples for mfm playtime, so this wouldn't be smart if I removed couples from my preferences. However, I will not play with every single couple that is interested in inviting me to their fantasy. Attraction is very important to me, so I wouldn't put myself and them in a situation, where I agree to join the frolics without feeling attracted to the lady, as that would be wrong on so many levels. I also very rarely jump on the last minute invitation to join a lady or a couple, if I do not know them already. Fair play to you if your preference is to play with every single lady or couple that approaches you. I think that is grand too. Each to their own, as they say. My God your in some form for lecturing today European Lad lol" Is there something wrong with what he said? | |||
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"I never found in my experience on here that single guys can afford to be all that picky or choosy! If a couple invites you into their marriage or relationship just go and meet if only for a social and politely refuse their advances if your all that fussy" What kinda shite is this?? | |||
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"I never found in my experience on here that single guys can afford to be all that picky or choosy! If a couple invites you into their marriage or relationship just go and meet if only for a social and politely refuse their advances if your all that fussy What kinda shite is this??"  | |||
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""Then remove couples from your preferences, simple?" That would be silly, wouldn't it? I enjoy meeting couples for mfm playtime, so this wouldn't be smart if I removed couples from my preferences. However, I will not play with every single couple that is interested in inviting me to their fantasy. Attraction is very important to me, so I wouldn't put myself and them in a situation, where I agree to join the frolics without feeling attracted to the lady, as that would be wrong on so many levels. I also very rarely jump on the last minute invitation to join a lady or a couple, if I do not know them already. Fair play to you if your preference is to play with every single lady or couple that approaches you. I think that is grand too. Each to their own, as they say. My God your in some form for lecturing today European Lad lol" No, EL once again shows why is a great single guy on Fab | |||
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"We're new..(ish now)...and even we know this is a load of crap... Is talking nonsense how you get on in here??????" You referring to the op or keV? | |||
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"We're new..(ish now)...and even we know this is a load of crap... Is talking nonsense how you get on in here?????? You referring to the op or keV?" The op.. | |||
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"We're new..(ish now)...and even we know this is a load of crap... Is talking nonsense how you get on in here?????? You referring to the op or keV? The op.." Not sure if op is taking the piss myself, but males are allowed to turn people down.... | |||
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"I might be only new here. But I agree with the guy who says if someone asks you to meet you be polite and meet and if they offer you sex you dont insult them by saying no. If you want to be picky, go to the picky mart, we came here to fuck fuck suck and fuck." You? New? Now that did make me lol.  | |||
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"I never found in my experience on here that single guys can afford to be all that picky or choosy! If a couple invites you into their marriage or relationship just go and meet if only for a social and politely refuse their advances if your all that fussy Why? Wouldn't that be a waste of your and their time? If you know that you wouldn't be happy to play with a couple, why would you drag the inevitable moment of declining? I do not think it is a good idea, to have them invest time in meeting you for a coffee just to hear that you would like to kindly decline. Single guys are as entitled to have their own preferences and desires as any other user of the site. I do not understand the concept of not being able to afford to be picky and choosy. If people are happy to play with each other, it's great. But if a person doesn't feel comfortable for any reason to engage sexually with another person or persons, why one should force himself or herself to do something that they are clearly unwilling to do? It's not about being fussy (it's a negative word) in my opinion, I think it's about knowing what you want and like. "
Completely agree with EL, why should a single guy compromise on what he wants and/or his preferences. Nobody on here would tell a single girl or a couple for that matter to compromise on theirs. Everyone is entitled to look for exactly from this site and nobody deserves to be verbally abused just because they're polite enough to say that it's not for them. I personally would much prefer if someone said o wasn't their type rather than to go ahead and play and have all parties feel uncomfortable.
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"is this whole original post a piss take ? are we meant to believe that a fella with 2 cam veris 2 years old is turning people down who apparently approached him (yeah that bit right there is a laugh as well ) cos yanno , its clear to see from the cock pic that hes only gorgeous and has them beating the door down ?" While there's every chance it's a piss take, there's also a chance that it's not..... | |||
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"is this whole original post a piss take ? are we meant to believe that a fella with 2 cam veris 2 years old is turning people down who apparently approached him (yeah that bit right there is a laugh as well ) cos yanno , its clear to see from the cock pic that hes only gorgeous and has them beating the door down ? While there's every chance it's a piss take, there's also a chance that it's not..... I've seen his veris before he hid them. One of them is from a great well verified couple. He's entitled to rant if he likes, naming the third party probably not the best idea. " Sorry Alleged third party | |||
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"I never found in my experience on here that single guys can afford to be all that picky or choosy! If a couple invites you into their marriage or relationship just go and meet if only for a social and politely refuse their advances if your all that fussy Why? Wouldn't that be a waste of your and their time? If you know that you wouldn't be happy to play with a couple, why would you drag the inevitable moment of declining? I do not think it is a good idea, to have them invest time in meeting you for a coffee just to hear that you would like to kindly decline. Single guys are as entitled to have their own preferences and desires as any other user of the site. I do not understand the concept of not being able to afford to be picky and choosy. If people are happy to play with each other, it's great. But if a person doesn't feel comfortable for any reason to engage sexually with another person or persons, why one should force himself or herself to do something that they are clearly unwilling to do? It's not about being fussy (it's a negative word) in my opinion, I think it's about knowing what you want and like.
Completely agree with EL, why should a single guy compromise on what he wants and/or his preferences. Nobody on here would tell a single girl or a couple for that matter to compromise on theirs. Everyone is entitled to look for exactly from this site and nobody deserves to be verbally abused just because they're polite enough to say that it's not for them. I personally would much prefer if someone said o wasn't their type rather than to go ahead and play and have all parties feel uncomfortable.
Ash "but why put it on public forum? seems more like an excuse to slag people off really..... | |||
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"I never found in my experience on here that single guys can afford to be all that picky or choosy! If a couple invites you into their marriage or relationship just go and meet if only for a social and politely refuse their advances if your all that fussy Why? Wouldn't that be a waste of your and their time? If you know that you wouldn't be happy to play with a couple, why would you drag the inevitable moment of declining? I do not think it is a good idea, to have them invest time in meeting you for a coffee just to hear that you would like to kindly decline. Single guys are as entitled to have their own preferences and desires as any other user of the site. I do not understand the concept of not being able to afford to be picky and choosy. If people are happy to play with each other, it's great. But if a person doesn't feel comfortable for any reason to engage sexually with another person or persons, why one should force himself or herself to do something that they are clearly unwilling to do? It's not about being fussy (it's a negative word) in my opinion, I think it's about knowing what you want and like.
Completely agree with EL, why should a single guy compromise on what he wants and/or his preferences. Nobody on here would tell a single girl or a couple for that matter to compromise on theirs. Everyone is entitled to look for exactly from this site and nobody deserves to be verbally abused just because they're polite enough to say that it's not for them. I personally would much prefer if someone said o wasn't their type rather than to go ahead and play and have all parties feel uncomfortable.
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but why put it on public forum? seems more like an excuse to slag people off really..... "I completely see where you're coming from and personally I wouldn't put it on the forum. At the same time I think that it's good that it's shown that single males are having the same type of problems as couples and females with some people finding 'rejection' difficult | |||
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"Monster I guess your the exact person I'm on about here but hey I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to turn you down " I need to invite you to partake in play for you to turn me down and that's something I haven't done! As for the disappointment of living without ever playing with you is something i'm sure I can live with! | |||
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"Monster I guess your the exact person I'm on about here but hey I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to turn you down I need to invite you to partake in play for you to turn me down and that's something I haven't done! As for the disappointment of living without ever playing with you is something i'm sure I can live with! "Are you not Devastated? lol | |||
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"I might be only new here. But I agree with the guy who says if someone asks you to meet you be polite and meet and if they offer you sex you dont insult them by saying no. If you want to be picky, go to the picky mart, we came here to fuck fuck suck and fuck." NSWN...You are joking aren't you? Am I missing the sarcasm or something? You fuck out of politeness?? Please tell me you don't think that  | |||
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"NSWN...You are joking aren't you? Am I missing the sarcasm or something? You fuck out of politeness?? Please tell me you don't think that "lol, aww x | |||
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"Monster I guess your the exact person I'm on about here but hey I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to turn you down I need to invite you to partake in play for you to turn me down and that's something I haven't done! As for the disappointment of living without ever playing with you is something i'm sure I can live with!
Are you not Devastated? lol"Yes...I'm thinking of leaving  | |||
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"Monster I guess your the exact person I'm on about here but hey I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to turn you down I need to invite you to partake in play for you to turn me down and that's something I haven't done! As for the disappointment of living without ever playing with you is something i'm sure I can live with!
Are you not Devastated? lol
Yes...I'm thinking of leaving "Leaving? aww noo ignore the big meanie OP lmao | |||
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"Monster I guess your the exact person I'm on about here but hey I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to turn you down I need to invite you to partake in play for you to turn me down and that's something I haven't done! As for the disappointment of living without ever playing with you is something i'm sure I can live with!
Are you not Devastated? lol
Yes...I'm thinking of leaving
Leaving? aww noo ignore the big meanie OP lmao"Thanks King...I don't know if I can get over it tho...  | |||
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"Monster I guess your the exact person I'm on about here but hey I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to turn you down I need to invite you to partake in play for you to turn me down and that's something I haven't done! As for the disappointment of living without ever playing with you is something i'm sure I can live with!
Are you not Devastated? lol
Yes...I'm thinking of leaving
Leaving? aww noo ignore the big meanie OP lmao
Thanks King...I don't know if I can get over it tho... "I know it must be really hard like | |||
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"Monster I guess your the exact person I'm on about here but hey I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to turn you down I need to invite you to partake in play for you to turn me down and that's something I haven't done! As for the disappointment of living without ever playing with you is something i'm sure I can live with!
Are you not Devastated? lol
Yes...I'm thinking of leaving
Leaving? aww noo ignore the big meanie OP lmao
Thanks King...I don't know if I can get over it tho...
I know it must be really hard like "Yeah it is... Getting turned down and you don't even ask..#gutted.... | |||
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"Monster I guess your the exact person I'm on about here but hey I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to turn you down I need to invite you to partake in play for you to turn me down and that's something I haven't done! As for the disappointment of living without ever playing with you is something i'm sure I can live with! ".....there's counselling available. ... | |||
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"Monster I guess your the exact person I'm on about here but hey I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to turn you down I need to invite you to partake in play for you to turn me down and that's something I haven't done! As for the disappointment of living without ever playing with you is something i'm sure I can live with! .....there's counselling available. ... "Is ask you for a number but im sure you haven't been turned down ever...unless Nobby gave ye the cold shoulder too,mabye a group support network might be best  | |||
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"Monster I guess your the exact person I'm on about here but hey I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to turn you down I need to invite you to partake in play for you to turn me down and that's something I haven't done! As for the disappointment of living without ever playing with you is something i'm sure I can live with! .....there's counselling available. ...
Is ask you for a number but im sure you haven't been turned down ever...unless Nobby gave ye the cold shoulder too,mabye a group support network might be best "......im thinking mens shed here. ......no he hasn't turned us down. ..we're afraid to ask .....tbh... | |||
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"Monster I guess your the exact person I'm on about here but hey I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to turn you down I need to invite you to partake in play for you to turn me down and that's something I haven't done! As for the disappointment of living without ever playing with you is something i'm sure I can live with! .....there's counselling available. ...
Is ask you for a number but im sure you haven't been turned down ever...unless Nobby gave ye the cold shoulder too,mabye a group support network might be best ......im thinking mens shed here. ......no he hasn't turned us down. ..we're afraid to ask .....tbh... "Hey you don't even need to ask I didn't and I got turned down | |||
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"I might be only new here. But I agree with the guy who says if someone asks you to meet you be polite and meet and if they offer you sex you dont insult them by saying no. If you want to be picky, go to the picky mart, we came here to fuck fuck suck and fuck. NSWN...You are joking aren't you? Am I missing the sarcasm or something? You fuck out of politeness?? Please tell me you don't think that "Don't mind safey, he keeps forgetting he's not new every time he rejoins. | |||
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"Don't mind safey, he keeps forgetting he's not new every time he rejoins. "Well I only left once to spring clean my profile, I was back within 10 seconds. lol. It was nice of Yolo to point out that I am not such a jerk. | |||
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